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For many Americans, work can feel like a hamster wheel.
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No matter how hard they run, it never feels like enough.
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Americans, on average, say they would need $520,000 a year to feel rich. And the more people earn, the more they say they need to feel comfortable.
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Americans making under $50,000 felt they needed $157,000 a year to feel comfortable. Those making $100,000 or more said they would need $246,000.
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When I was in middle school, a song came out called "Mo Money Mo Problems," and I think that that's true.
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Your problems scale.
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You still are dealing with a finite number every month.
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Your worries, your anxiety, your budget scales to that.
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You still are dealing with a ceiling.
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About 14% of all U.S.
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households make $200,000 or more every year.
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But many of them, dubbed HENRYs or "High Earners, Not Rich Yet," still don't feel rich.
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62% of people with salaries over $300,000 a year struggle with credit card debt.
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Earning doesn't actually make you feel rich, spending it does.
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If most people spent 99% of their paycheck, they'd feel quite rich.
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And it's the paradox here: when we're in accumulation mode, it's very difficult to feel rich.
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It can be pretty easy for someone to feel like, "I'm making really good money, but I don't have a lot of discretionary income." Earning more and feeling like you're still on a hamster wheel is what a lot of HENRYs experience.
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And that's because they're not living within their means.
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They may have been living above their means when they weren't nearly making as much money, and now they're just continuing to add more and more and more.
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I earn $300,000 and I live in New York City.
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I definitely don't feel rich. I feel very lucky.
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I feel privileged, but I do not feel rich.
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I could not stop working right now.
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I have more money anxiety almost now than I ever did in my 20s.
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I am on a hamster wheel and there's no question about it.
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HENRYs often don't feel rich compared to others.
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Many HENRYs are cash-rich and asset-poor.
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So they're typically people under 40, they don't have childcare hours available, they're first-time homebuyers in the housing market, they're paying off student loans early, hopefully.
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And their income usually hasn't hit a career peak, so they're very much in that "not rich yet" bucket, but they very well could be in the future.
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Oh, I 100% feel like a HENRY.
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Marie Incontrera was a professional composer, bandleader and pianist who started her virtual assistant business in 2016.
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That year, I started to grow slowly, and I was suddenly earning more money than I had ever earned in my life, and I think the number was something like $35,000 by the end of the year. And I went, "Wow, this is really great.
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I can grow this." She then expanded into a digital marketing consulting agency during the pandemic.
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For the calendar year of 2025, we're just on track to make $1.4 million. We're hoping to get to $1.5 million or possibly even $1.6 million. I'm anticipating my owner's draw to be anywhere between $300,000 and $400,000.
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I had a pretty successful career as a musician through most of my 20s.
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The thing they don't tell you about having a career as a musician in music school is that you can be playing Carnegie Hall, which I was, and I was making $15,000 a year, and I didn't realize how much freedom money affords you.
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Now that I see the kind of freedom that somebody who earns what I do or even more has, that's my goal.
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That is absolutely what gets me out of bed in the morning.
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A lot of the "High Earners, Not Rich Yet," they're first generation wealth. So they still take their wealth into perspective against their family members or others in their community, and they realize how well they're doing, so they don't take it for granted.
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But I think what makes them feel not rich is we were told, "Once you make six figures, all your problems will go away.
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You'll just have so much excess." And I think we know that narrative is not true anymore.
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I would have thought back then that the amount of money that I have in the bank right now, I would be rich.
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I would have just thought, "Oh, yeah, she's made it." And I don't feel that way.
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I know that I am on a hamster wheel with my business.
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I actually really love the hamster wheel, because I love what I do, but I also realize that I can't stop.
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So, HENRYs often don't feel rich compared to others.
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They work very hard for their money, but they also spend a lot more than the average person.
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In a lot of ways, HENRYs may be victims of their zip codes.
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$100,000 in LA is definitely very different than $100,000 in Iowa.
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Someone makes $200,000 a year in LA.
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They're going to probably take home $140,000ish.
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Rent for a one-bedroom is going to be at least $3,000.
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Their car payment is going to be $700.
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Car insurance is going to be maybe $200 a month.
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Gas is going to be $200 a month.
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If you were to annualize that, that's $50,000 right there.
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The remainder is for all the other things.
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We haven't eaten yet, we haven't purchased groceries, we haven't paid for subscriptions to Amazon and Netflix, we haven't gone on vacation yet, we haven't purchased clothes yet.
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It can whittle away your discretionary income if you're living in an area that has a high cost of living.
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When my business started to grow, one of the first things that I started spending more money on right away was food, because I don't have time to cook.
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I had more money than time and so I started eating Grubhub three meals a day most days. After that, it became rent because I hit $1 million a year in revenue and I said, "That's it. I'm moving to Manhattan." And so, my rent doubled and I suddenly was paying $4,000 in rent.
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What is very worth it to me is to live where I want to live.
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I was proud that I could live here.
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For about a year, I would walk outside my apartment and just like, look around and just be like, "Oh my gosh, here I am." So that was lifestyle creep for me.
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Lifestyle creep is the common phenomenon of spending a little more money as you earn more.
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It can happen to anyone at any income.
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Lifestyle creep can really sneak up on you.
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You start earning more and then you decide, "Well, I can buy more things. I need a second car.
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I need a bigger home. I need to go on this European vacation.
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I deserve this European vacation because I work hard for my money." The problem is, if you're not continuing to increase your savings at the same time, you are putting your financial future in jeopardy.
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That shift happens everywhere in our lives, from the small purchases to the really big ones: cars, houses, vacation.
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And most of these expenses are fixed.
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Lifestyle creep impacts almost all tax brackets, but it can take different forms.
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One 2024 study found that when low and middle-income households were given an additional $1,000, no strings attached every month, their spending increased primarily on basic necessities such as food, transportation, and rent.
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However, when higher income households were given the same $1,000, they increased spending on both necessities as well as discretionary expenses: like Marie did.
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I spend more on my hair, I spend more on makeup, I get my lashes done, I get my nails done.
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I think it's just something that comes with the territory.
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Birds of a feather tend to flock together and their spending tends to be more aligned. If you make about $85,000, your friends probably also make about $85,000, so you're doing similar activities in the same economic bracket.
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Once you have friends that are making $200,000 or $300,000 a year, your activities will change.
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The restaurants that you will eat at will differ and change.
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They're going to probably be a little bit more elevated.
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Your vacations are going to be more elevated.
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Your clothing is going to be more elevated.
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It's not necessarily spending irresponsibly, but they're spending aligned with their friend group and their community. That's why a lot of them oftentimes don't feel rich because they're spending along with their friends.
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Emotions are tied so tightly to what we do with our money.
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It happens to everyone.
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You get a raise, you're feeling great.
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You deserve to go out to dinner and, in fact, you deserve to book that cruise.
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But the reality is that money was supposed to be earmarked for a bump-up in your retirement savings, or money that you were going to put toward your child's education.
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Or maybe you don't have an emergency fund, or at least not an adequate one, and the money should have gone there. When we allow ourselves to let our emotions overtake what we're doing with our money, we lose sight sometimes of what our goals are and how we have planned to meet them.
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A HENRY will sometimes look to the mega-millionaires or the billionaires and wish that they had more, but it's really just that upwards comparison for more that keeps them stuck. More will never be enough at a certain point, and you have to decide what you have is ultimately enough and start appreciating all that you do have instead of fixating on all that you don't.
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Experts say the best way for HENRYs to start to feel rich and to get off the hamster wheel is by budgeting and planning for the future.
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You can't really figure out if you're rich yet, unless you know where you stand right now and where you want to go.
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You need to know your net worth.
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Doesn't matter how much money you have, it's not just for rich people. You have a net worth.
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What you own, minus what you owe, is your net worth.
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Everyone has one.
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Yours may be negative at this point, but you have to figure out how to turn that around.
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Once you know your net worth, then you can start to build on what are your goals, what do I want to have in terms of my retirement savings, in terms of savings for college, if you have children, in terms of emergency savings, in case anything happens, how secure will I be?
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Once you have significant emergency savings, enough to cover, say, six months of your expenses or more, you're going to start to feel rich. Surveys have shown that financial well-being is tied closely to emergency savings.
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And so, if you know that you're not going to have to whip out a credit card, that you're going to be able to pay for the roof that needs to be fixed or the car that breaks down, you're going to feel rich.
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I think wealth is often an emotional feeling.
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It's a mindset to feel truly secure and not to have to worry about finances at all. Feeling rich, it can feel much more about the bottom line and the dollar amount.
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So, one is more about the tangible number in your bank account and the other more is a feeling.
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Most people aspire to reach a level of wealth where they don't have to stress or worry about their finances, or even about the future generations to know that there's a cushion there.
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One of the things I focus on with my clients is a budget should be a representation of your values.
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The issue is you can't value everything.
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You have to prioritize it.
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And when people see the hard numbers of what they're spending on a monthly or annualized basis and they see, "Oh my gosh, I'm spending $5,000 a year eating out." I will ask the question, "Are you enjoying those meals at $5,000?
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Is it bringing you that much excitement and that much joy?" And most people will say, "No, Kamila, it's not. The food is okay.
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I'm doing it to be social." Well, we'll talk about other ways that you can be social without spending $5,000 a year eating out.
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You can't buy clothes consistently, travel consistently, eat out consistently.
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You have to pick maybe one or two things where you're going to focus your discretionary spending and then take that extra and reroute that to savings so you can start feeling rich.
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Spending gives this immediate dopamine fix, and seeing wealth in an account with numbers and commas often can be far more satisfying, though we don't realize it in the moment. It's almost like the difference between an exciting yet very toxic relationship versus a secure and stable long-term partner. I think the feeling of safety and the feeling that you can weather this long-term financial storm is far more satisfying, and we have to train ourselves to value that safety over the quick fix of a fancy car or a shiny new watch.
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My advice for somebody who's on the hamster wheel is understanding the trade-off. I could get off the hamster wheel at any time, and I know that. And I know that my circumstances may change.
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For right now, this is the answer for me.
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My advice to somebody who is feeling that anxiety is understand that this is a choice.
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There are trade-offs.
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What I have learned is that I have been very burned out and exhausted as a person who doesn't earn a lot of money, and I have been burned out and exhausted as a person who does earn a lot of money, and I would take being a person who's burned out and exhausted and has money any day of the week.
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I would rather do that than be burned out and tired and also worrying about my bills.
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本课的词汇与口语要点
这节 B2 级别的口语课以视频“Why Even High Earners Are Living Paycheck To Paycheck”为素材。 视频中反复出现的词有:rich, spending, Henry, feeling。 这段视频共有 120 个句子、2329 个单词可供跟读。 讲话部分时长为 12:11。 说话人语速较快,每分钟约 191 个词,会出现较多连读和弱读。 84% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词,其余的词建议在练习前先学一下。
视频中的重点词汇
视频中最难的 15 个单词,附发音和释义:
| 单词 | 发音 | 释义 |
|---|---|---|
| hamster 名词 | /ˈhæm(p)stɚ/ | 倉鼠 /仓鼠 |
| exhaust 动词 | /ɪɡˈzɔst/ | 抽完 |
| align 动词 | /əˈlaɪn/ | 對齊 /对齐 |
| bracket 名词 | /ˈbɹækɪt/ | 支架, 托架 |
| gosh | /ɡɑːʃ/ | 唉, 啊呀 |
| necessity 名词 | /nɪˈsɛsəti/ | 必要性, 必要 |
| satisfy 动词 | /ˈsætɪsfaɪ/ | 滿足 /满足 |
| musician 名词 | /mjuˈzɪʃən/ | 音樂家 /音乐家 |
| cloth 名词 | /klɒθ/ | 布, 布料 |
| emotion 名词 | /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ | 感情, 情感 |
| aspire 动词 | /əˈspaɪɚ/ | 熱望 /热望, 渴望 |
| childcare 名词 | 幼托, 兒童看護 /儿童看护 | |
| dopamine 名词 | /ˈdoʊ.pəˌmin/ | 多巴胺 |
| excite 动词 | /ɪkˈsaɪt/ | 激動 /激动 |
| fixate 动词 | /ˈfɪkseɪt/ | 固定, 使穩定 /使稳定 |
视频中出现的短语动词
| 单词 | 发音 | 释义 |
|---|---|---|
| figure out 动词 | 弄清楚 | |
| break down 动词 | 壞了 /坏了, 出故障 | |
| come out 动词 | /ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/ | 出, 出來 /出来 |
| go away 动词 | 離開 /离开, 走 | |
| look around 动词 | 環顧 /环顾 | |
| think back 动词 | 回想, 回憶 /回忆 |
值得反复跟读的句子
视频中简短而完整的句子,可以直接用在日常对话里:
- I definitely don't feel rich.
- You get a raise, you're feeling great.
- The issue is you can't value everything.
视频中的语法
说话人最常用的结构,并附上视频中的原话:
| 结构 | 视频中的用法 |
|---|---|
| 被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么,而不是谁做的 | were told · are fixed · were given |
| 现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事 | hasn't hit · haven't eaten · have planned |
| 定语从句 who / which + 从句 — 补充说明人或事物 | somebody who earns · friends that are · somebody who is |
需要注意的发音
说话人用了 66 次缩略和弱读形式,例如 don't, they're, you're。请按听到的简短形式来说。
- “th” 音: cloth /klɒθ/, feather /ˈfɛðə/
- “sh” 和 “zh” 音: discretionary /dɪsˈkɹɛʃəˌnɛɹi/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, musician /mjuˈzɪʃən/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, cushion /ˈkʊʃən/
- 长单词——注意重音位置: discretionary /dɪsˈkɹɛʃəˌnɛɹi/, necessity /nɪˈsɛsəti/, irresponsibly /ˌɪ.ɹɪˈspɑːn.sə.bli/, prioritize /pɹaɪˈɒɹ.ə.taɪz/, accumulation /əˌkjuːm.jəˈleɪ.ʃən/
中文母语者容易读错的音:
- /v/ — 不要读成 /w/,上齿轻触下唇: elevate /ˈɛləveɪt/, overtake /əʊ̯vəːˈteɪ̯k/, privilege /ˈpɹɪv.(ɪ.)lɪd͡ʒ/
- 词尾辅音 — 要读清楚,后面不要加元音: creep /kɹiːp/, elevate /ˈɛləveɪt/, exhaust /ɪɡˈzɔst/, bracket /ˈbɹækɪt/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/
- /r/ 和 /l/ 的区别: irresponsibly /ˌɪ.ɹɪˈspɑːn.sə.bli/, millionaire /ˌmɪl.i.əˈnɛə(ɹ)/, privilege /ˈpɹɪv.(ɪ.)lɪd͡ʒ/
如何用这段视频练习
- 先完整听一遍视频,不要开口,记下不认识的单词。
- 先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读,熟练之后再回到正常速度。
- 录下自己的声音并与原声对比,特别注意 hamster, exhaust, align 这类单词。
什么是跟读法?
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧,最初开发用于专业口译员的培训,并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大:您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同,跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性,语调,节奏,连读,听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。































