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I want to do everything, so I do nothing.

It's a simple line that describes a feeling almost every single one of us has been through.

Desire, not the lack of it, but the crushing weight of too much.

When we were kids, the number one question that we were asked was, What do you want to be when you grow up?

I remember when I was younger, I wasn't sure how to answer this question.

On one hand, I wanted to be an astronaut, go to the moon.

Some days I wanted to be a detective, some days a writer, maybe an engineer or a movie director.

Now as I'm sitting here writing this, I've just graduated university and I'm faced with a similar question.

What is my purpose in life?

And if you're anything like me, you fear answering this, because choosing one path means letting every other version of your life die.

So maybe that's why so many of us struggle with purpose.

We think it's something that finds us, but that's a lie. And to understand why,

we must first go back to a fig tree in a

1963 novel by one of the most famous writers of all time.

Sylvia Plath.

And of course, I'm talking about her novel

The Bell Jar.

It's about a young college student named Esther Greenwood who wins a guest editor position at a magazine in New York City.

The novel partly mirrors Sylvia's own life, acting as sort of an autobiography.

There's a specific part in the book that perfectly represents what so many of us are feeling today.

In the book, the protagonist is sitting at a fig tree, starving.

Each fig on the tree represents a different life she could live.

One fig was a husband and a happy home and children, and another fig was a famous poet and another a brilliant professor,

or maybe the editor.

But she never chooses, so instead she watches as all of them begin to rot and fall.

I saw myself sitting in the crotch of this fig tree,

starving to death, just because I couldn't make up my mind which of the figs I would choose.

We live in a time where possibilities are endless, in a world that tells us we can be anything.

Don't ever let somebody tell you, you can't do something.

That you should strive to be as ambitious as possible.

Cause I want to be great.

But what people don't talk about is how that same ambition often paralyzes you.

For me, I'm at a strange point in my life where I'm still trying to figure things out.

I've been told I should be looking for a stable job, maybe focus on my career.

But on the other hand, I've always wanted to work for myself.

I love making these videos, so maybe I should go all in on that.

But still, I'd love to travel the world, maybe move to a different city, and start fresh.

There are endless possibilities constantly on my mind, and I don't know what to choose.

And there's actually a psychological explanation for this psychologist

Barry Schwartz found that more options don't produce more freedom, they produce more anxiety.

Because every path you don't take registers in the brain as a loss, not a trade -off.

So the more figs you can see, the more you feel like you're already losing.

So how do you actually make that choice when choosing feels like losing everything.

But before you can choose a fig, you must understand exactly what the fig tree is actually about.

Because most people read this story and assume it's just about indecision.

But the fig tree is about grief.

Mourning the lives that we'll never get to live.

And that feeling never goes away.

That's the scary part.

We think that once we choose one fig, the others begin to fall, but they'll always be there.

You'll always think about them, about the different lives you could have lived, and you'll live with that grief forever.

But not choosing at all.

That's a cost worse than grief.

Because what happened to Esther wasn't that she made the wrong choice.

She lost all the figs because she made no choice at all.

Choosing nothing It's still a choice, and it's the only one that guarantees every other fig rots.

And these figs have an expiration date.

So does the window of time where certain versions of your life are still possible.

So every time you scroll, every time you delay, every time you overthink, the figs begin to shrivel.

In an attempt to balance all your options, you'll lose all of them.

The only way through is to choose.

And sometimes that can feel like the hardest decision you'll ever make.

One of the hardest lessons to swallow is this.

You can't be everything.

But that doesn't mean you won't be as fulfilled, or that your life will be less rich.

So stop worrying about picking the right fig, because there isn't one.

There's just the one you pick, and the one you stick with.

You can build meaning into whatever life you choose.

You aren't going to make perfect choices,

but you can be present in the life you did choose. And that's what matters.

Unlike it may seem, picking one fig doesn't mean the others rot.

Sometimes they find you again.

Choosing one path doesn't automatically cut you off from the others.

The only thing that does is if you don't choose at all.

Doctors can become writers.

A traveler can start a family.

A painter can become a scientist.

Lives are rarely as sealed off as the tree makes it seem, but that's only possible if you make the first step.

And if you're struggling with that, choose what feels most alive to you right now.

And understand, it won't be perfect, but it will work out.

I often hear a lot of you asking me, how do I find purpose?

And honestly, I never really knew what the answer to that was.

But I eventually realized it was because that question was flawed in the first place.

Purpose isn't something you find.

It's something you live.

When I was in university, I thought about purpose a lot.

What type of impact do I want to have on this world.

I never knew.

And then I went on an exchange semester in France and my perspective genuinely changed.

I stopped obsessing over purpose and just started actively living my life presently.

And that's what led me to these videos, to this brand, to everything that's to come.

My life was never bound to a single fig.

There are infinite figs growing, waiting, but you have to make the first step.

You have to grab the first one before it becomes too late.

I think about Plath often.

If I could tell her one thing as she was sitting there under that fig tree, it would be this.

The world is full of people suffering from the effects of their own unlived life.

They become bitter or envious because they have betrayed their own inner possibilities the worst type of life is the unlived one.

So if you've been waiting for a sign, this is it.

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Don't choose the perfect fig.

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Choose one.

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Embrace it.

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And let it open you up to an infinite amount of possibilities.

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To a life truly lived.

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本课的词汇与口语要点

这节口语课以视频“Why you want everything and do nothing”为素材。视频中反复出现的词有：fig, choose, tree, purpose, choosing。这段视频共有 104 个句子、1247 个单词可供跟读。讲话部分时长为 8:08。说话人语速自然，每分钟约 153 个词，接近日常对话。 84% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，其余的词建议在练习前先学一下。

视频中的重点词汇

视频中 15 个值得学习的单词，附发音和释义：

单词	发音	释义
fig 名词	/fɪɡ/	無花果 /无花果
grief 名词	/ɡɹiːf/	悲苦, 感傷 /感伤
endless 形容词	/ˈɛndlɪs/	無窮 /无穷, 不盡 /不尽
infinite 形容词	/ˈɪnfɪnɪt/	無窮 /无穷, 無限 /无限
starve 动词	/stɑɹv/	餓死 /饿死
stable 名词	/ˈsteɪ.bəl/	馬厩, 馬棚 /马棚
lesson 名词	/ˈlɛs.ən/	課業 /课业, -課 /-课
mirror 名词	/ˈmiɹɚ/	җинзы, 鏡 /镜
anxiety 名词	/æŋˈzaɪ.əti/	焦慮 /焦虑, 担心
suffer 动词	/ˈsʌfɚ/	受苦, 遭受
explanation 名词	/ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/	解釋 /解释, 說明 /说明
guarantee 名词	/ˌɡæɹ.ənˈtiː/	保證 /保证
rarely 副词	/ˈɹɛəɹli/	很少, 罕有地
delay 名词	/dɪˈleɪ̯/	遲延 /迟延, 延遲 /延迟
scary 形容词	/ˈskɛə.ɹi/	恐怖

视频中出现的短语动词

单词	发音	释义
go away 动词		離開 /离开, 走
grow up 动词		長大 /长大
make up 动词	/ˌmeɪk ˈʌp/	組成 /组成
work out 动词	/ˌwɝk ˈaʊt/	計算 /计算, 算出

值得反复跟读的句子

视频中简短而完整的句子，可以直接用在日常对话里：

What is my purpose in life?
Mourning the lives that we'll never get to live.
Purpose isn't something you find.

视频中的语法

说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：

结构	视频中的用法
现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事	has been · I've just graduated · I've been told
被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么，而不是谁做的	were asked · I've been told · was flawed

需要注意的发音

说话人用了 39 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 don't, I'm, you'll。请按听到的简短形式来说。

“sh” 和 “zh” 音: explanation /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/, crush /kɹʌʃ/, ambitious /æmˈbɪʃ.əs/, ambition /æmˈbɪʃ.ən/, expiration /ˌɛk.spɚˈeɪ̯.ʃən/
长单词——注意重音位置: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, explanation /ˌɛkspləˈneɪʃən/, psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/, psychologist /ˌsaɪˈkɑl.ə.d͡ʒɪst/

中文母语者容易读错的音：

/v/ — 不要读成 /w/，上齿轻触下唇: starve /stɑɹv/, actively /ˈæktɪvli/, detective /dɪˈtɛktɪv/, strive /ˈstɹaɪv/, envious /ˈɛnviːəs/
词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: fig /fɪɡ/, grief /ɡɹiːf/, endless /ˈɛndlɪs/, infinite /ˈɪnfɪnɪt/, starve /stɑɹv/
/r/ 和 /l/ 的区别: rarely /ˈɹɛəɹli/, partly /ˈpɑɹtli/, scroll /skɹoʊl/, presently /ˈpɹɛzəntli/, paralyze /ˈpæɹəˌlaɪz/

如何用这段视频练习

先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 fig, grief, endless 这类单词。

什么是跟读法？

跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。

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