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It's been a while since we talked.
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Like, I mean, really talked.
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For those of you who don't know me, my name's Isaac.
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I'm 21.
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I'm from Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada.
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And I'm scared to get older.
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Or at least sometimes.
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Maybe a lot of times.
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Let me just explain how I think about life.
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And I know this is going deep really quick, but look, we ain't got much time.
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So literally and figuratively, I think of life in this way, right?
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You're a kid and then you're a teenager and then you're an adult, right?
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And along the way, you're trying to figure out what is your thing, right?
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Your purpose, finding meaning in your life.
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What are the things that you enjoy?
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What are the things that you're striving towards, your goals, your aspirations, finding success in some way? and so along the way,
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you know, finding meaning through maybe a spouse or marriage or
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and kids and all that kind of thing and so you're in this stage of, you know, especially in teens, young adults, you feel like you're in the in -between, right?
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You know, in high school and when you're a kid, nothing's really too much expected of you, right?
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Like, it's not a big deal that you don't know what you're doing with your life.
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You feel like you're lost.
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Of course you feel like you're lost.
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If you know what you're doing, then you're the outlier.
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But as you get older,
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especially young adulthood, and you feel like you haven't gotten to where you want to be
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and you're scared you'll never get there.
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You're scared that you'll wake up one day and you'll be 30
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and you've never accomplished anything or you'll be 40 and you've never accomplished anything and you've wasted the years you have.
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What people talk about, you know, what's insane to me.
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I hate when people do this.
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I hate it when people say, Oh man, you know, enjoy your, you know, enjoy your twenties.
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Those are the best years you'll ever have.
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Or like, those are the best years of your life or, you know, like things like that, because that makes me feel like, well, I'm not happy.
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I'm struggling.
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And you're telling me this is the best it's going to get.
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That's the, that's all you could say. That blows my mind.
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So I can't believe that.
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And I can't believe that I can't believe that the summit, that there is a summit, right?
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We think, at least in my mind, I think I've always wanted to get to a place
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or a certain specific goal where certain things measure up and they line up.
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And for at least one moment in time where I have, you know, I'm financially set and I'm relationally set and I'm,
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you know, emotionally set.
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And all these things align and then I've made it.
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I've won.
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I've done it.
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I've accomplished what I wanted to do.
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And I can be at peace.
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But that doesn't exist.
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I have to believe it doesn't exist.
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Everything I watch, every person I talk to that has accomplished what they wanted to accomplish, they're still hungrier.
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They're still looking for approval.
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They're still looking for love.
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They're still looking for meaning.
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They're still looking for purpose.
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So cornering myself off into believing
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that I need to get to a certain place at a certain time
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and accomplish a certain thing in order for me to be happy or be fulfilled or be
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be accomplished I think it's a sham I think it's a
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complete lie along the way my journey over the last two
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years at least with this ministry I set numerous goals of like stats
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and and and and all you know amount of followers
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or subscribers and goals and aspirations I wanted to get to And each time I would pass one of those milestones,
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I would look back and think back and remember myself before saying, if I could only get here, then I would be satisfied.
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Then I would be happy.
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Then I would be fulfilled.
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But I got to that place, and then all of a sudden that didn't look too hot.
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Actually, honestly, the fact that I got there was a failure in itself because I should have got there sooner.
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And that applies to a lot of aspects of my life.
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I think of, oh, when I get to this spot, then I'll be fulfilled.
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And then I get there and then I take it as a negative because it took me too long to get there.
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Because I should be further along than I am.
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And so you torture yourself because you have these expectations that are...
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You have expectations, but on top of those expectations is your really life motivation it's connected to
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that so if your expectations aren't met then your life motivation is just shriveled up.
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Your meaning, your sense of purpose, your sense of peace is all connected to that.
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Every day, every day that I don't feel like I've made a dent,
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like into something more, something meaningful,
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something that has legacy to it,
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Every day that I haven't done that, I feel angry.
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I feel frustrated.
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I feel discouraged.
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And so I feel like in some ways, every day I wake up with that motivation to do it,
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to make it, to tap into that more that God would have for me.
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But along the way, things pop up.
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Like my own desire to find love and acceptance from other people and to find identity, right?
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As long as I find my identity in my productivity,
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I'll never find peace, right? because I'll never be productive enough to give myself license to let go.
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Because it will never be enough.
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It will never be enough.
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And I think God designed it that way.
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He designed it that we can wake up early.
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We can, you know, grind and we can rise and grind or whatever the heck.
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We can do all that.
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We can strive.
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We can even make an impact.
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But at the end of the day, if our identity is disconnected from the one who created us,
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we will always be disconnected from who we truly are in Christ.
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and so as long as I find my identity in in being
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that kind of person that makes an impact or find
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that identity in in in being somebody that is is successful
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or or somebody that is productive or somebody that is smart
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or or liked or loved as long as I find my identity in
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that I will always be disconnected from who I truly am and I will never find the peace that passes all understanding.
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And so what I'm trying to do, and I know this is just a weird big therapy session, I guess, but you need one of those every once in a while.
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What I'm trying to do, what I'm trying to do is tap into my identity in Christ,
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step into that, letting go of the pressure to perform in order to gain God's love,
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but rather as I step into my identity, I want my productivity and my faithfulness to God's work,
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the work that he's given me to be an outflowing of his love.
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And I know I've talked about this before.
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And at certain points in my life, I felt like that was the moment.
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That's the one I like.
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I've made it.
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I get it now.
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I can do it.
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Yeah.
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But then I just go back to where I was before.
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Same mentality, same mindset, same anxieties and discouragements all fueled by this concept that,
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that, that I'm not where I'm supposed to be.
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And that feeds into, you know, every year I feel like I'm running out of time and,
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and look, I don't want to live this way.
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I don't think anybody wants to live this way.
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I love that God, I'm thankful that God has given me a desire for more,
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for more of him and what he would have for me and, you know, and all that.
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But I'm also, I need to be aware and I'm, and for those of you who are like this,
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you need to be aware that you need to fight off the,
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the things that will steal your joy and things that will take this identity in Christ and they'll pull it,
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pull it to things that shouldn't be like identity in money, how much you're making, or your status, or how much you're working,
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or how busy you are.
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All these things are going to distract you from the point of all this.
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I could wake up every day and work my butt off for God.
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But where is my relationship with God?
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Where is my identity in God?
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Because it seems like, it seems like sometimes,
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were the people that Tony Miano gave this example once were the people
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that or the the young man that goes to the the door of somebody
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and knocks on the door and you know older guy answers it
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and and the young man asked
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if I mow your lawn can I be your son and
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that sounds crazy guys like no you can't be my son if you just mow my lawn.
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That doesn't make any sense.
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But if that, you know, that older guy first adopts that young man as his son,
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then the outflowing of that will be, could be mowing his father's lawn.
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And so we're getting this out of order here.
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We're looking for more.
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We're looking for purpose.
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We're looking for identity.
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We're looking for love, we're looking for these core, like existential, fundamental aspects to our human nature.
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And yet we abandon the one thing that is free.
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A love, acceptance, a peace, so glorious as is available to us can only be a gift.
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We can never earn it.
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but it's not good enough for us.
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We, we, we want to earn it.
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We want to work for it.
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We want to find it in other things, but it always leaves us empty.
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It always leaves us discouraged.
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It always leaves us asking, is this all there is?
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When you've got to the peak of where you wanted to go, when you've accomplished the things you wanted to accomplish, will it be enough for you?
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If If you're scared of getting older, my question for you would be, where is your foundation?
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Is it in God's sovereignty over your life?
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Or is it in your own self -reliance on doing enough,
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earning enough, succeeding enough, achieving enough to gain God's love, to gain other people's love, to gain meaning,
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to gain purpose? us where is your foundation that's pretty much
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all I have to say I know this is kind of weird video
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if you sat through the whole thing thanks I love you guys I really do
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and I really am thankful for a platform
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that I can just get on
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and talk I mean yeah we're all working we're all trying
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to figure this out you know it takes it takes time takes a lifetime
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and the more honest
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and open we can be about what we're going through about what we're feeling especially with the people around us
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that can only be beneficial it can only be beneficial thanks for watching guys i'll see you next time god bless
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Vocabulaire et conseils d’expression pour cette leçon
Cette vidéo contient 171 phrases et 1923 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 13:38. Le locuteur parle à un rythme régulier d’environ 141 mots par minute, confortable pour le shadowing. 87 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais, le vocabulaire est donc facile à suivre.
Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo
15 mots de la vidéo à retenir, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :
| Mot | Prononciation | Sens |
|---|---|---|
| accomplish verbe | /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ/ | accomplir |
| scare verbe | /skɛɚ/ | effrayer |
| expectation nom | /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/ | attente |
| earn verbe | /ɝn/ | gagner |
| leaf nom | /lif/ | feuille |
| motivation nom | /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/ | motivation |
| lawn nom | /lɔːn/ | gazon, pelouse |
| fulfill verbe | /fʊlˈfɪl/ | combler, satisfaire |
| aspect nom | /ˈæspɛkt/ | aspect |
| connect verbe | /kəˈnɛkt/ | accoupler, connecter |
| summit nom | /ˈsʌmɪt/ | sommet |
| productive adjectif | /pɹəˈdʌk.tɪv/ | productif |
| acceptance nom | /əkˈsɛp.təns/ | acceptation |
| productivity nom | /ˌpɹɒdʌkˈtɪvəti/ | productivité |
| beneficial adjectif | /ˌbɛn.ɪˈfɪʃ.əl/ | bienfaisante, bénéfique |
Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez
| Mot | Prononciation | Sens |
|---|---|---|
| wake up verbe | /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ | se réveiller |
| figure out verbe | cerner | |
| look back verbe | se remémorer | |
| pop up verbe | se pointer |
La grammaire de cette vidéo
Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :
| Structure | Dans la vidéo |
|---|---|
| Present perfect have/has + participe passé — une action passée qui compte encore maintenant | It's been · haven't gotten · you've never accomplished |
| Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait | be fulfilled · be accomplished · would be fulfilled |
| Conseil avec « should » should + verbe — dire ce qu’il vaut mieux faire | should have · should be · shouldn't be |
| Superlatifs the -est / the most … — le plus haut ou le plus bas d’un groupe | the best |
Prononciation à surveiller
Le locuteur utilise 92 contractions et formes réduites, comme you're, I'm, we're. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.
- Les sons « sh » et « zh »: accomplish /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, beneficial /ˌbɛn.ɪˈfɪʃ.əl/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/
- Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/, motivation /ˈmoʊ.tə.veɪ.ʃən/, productivity /ˌpɹɒdʌkˈtɪvəti/, beneficial /ˌbɛn.ɪˈfɪʃ.əl/, anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/
Comment s’entraîner avec cette vidéo
- Écoutez la vidéo en entier une fois sans parler et notez les mots que vous ne connaissez pas.
- Répétez phrase par phrase à vitesse normale, en reprenant chacune jusqu’à ce que votre rythme corresponde à celui du locuteur.
- Enregistrez-vous et comparez avec l’original, en faisant attention à des mots comme accomplish, scare, expectation.
Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?
Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.