शैडोइंग अभ्यास: Why Does Confidence Disappear Around Certain People? | B1 English Shadowing - वीडियो के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें
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Have you ever felt confident all day and then suddenly felt small when one particular person walked into the room?
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You know what you want to say.
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You know what you believe.
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But around that person, you become quiet.
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You think too much.
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You worry about every word.
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And later, you may wonder, why am I like this around them?
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The strange part is that your confidence may not have disappeared at all.
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Sometimes, certain people simply make you forget how confident you can be.
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In this Level B 1 shadowing practice, we will look at three reasons this happens and how you can take your confidence back.
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Listen to my voice and speak just behind me.
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Copy my pronunciation, rhythm, and emotion.
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If you miss a word, do not stop.
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Let's begin.
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Imagine you are in a meeting at work.
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You usually speak clearly.
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You share your ideas.
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You ask questions when you do not understand something.
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Then one particular co-worker starts talking.
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Suddenly, everything feels different.
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You check your words before saying them.
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You wonder if your ideas sound stupid.
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You listen to your own voice and think.
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Do I sound nervous?
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Maybe you say less than you wanted to say.
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After the meeting, you think about it again.
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You remember the small mistake you made.
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You think about what you should have said.
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But here is the important question.
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Did your ability really change?
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Probably not.
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You were the same person before the meeting.
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You had the same knowledge, the same experience, the same voice.
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What changed was the way you saw yourself?
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Around certain people, we can start looking at ourselves through their eyes.
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If we think someone is smarter, more successful, or more confident, we may give their opinion too much power.
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A simple look from them can feel like judgment.
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A short answer can feel like rejection.
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Even silence can make us think, did I do something wrong?
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But we do not always know what another person is thinking.
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Maybe they are tired, maybe they are busy, maybe they are thinking about something completely different.
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Still, our minds can create a story.
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And once we believe that story, our behavior changes.
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We speak less.
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We avoid questions.
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We stop sharing ideas.
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Then something interesting happens.
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Because we act less confident, we feel less confident.
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It becomes a cycle.
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We doubt ourselves, so we become quiet.
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Then our silence makes us doubt ourselves even more.
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So the first step is not to force yourself to feel confident.
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It is to notice the pattern.
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Ask yourself, am I actually less capable or do I simply feel less confident around this person?
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That question can create space between you and your fear.
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And sometimes, that space is enough to help you see yourself clearly again.
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Sometimes, a person affects your confidence because of your history with them.
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Maybe it is a parent.
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Maybe it is an old friend.
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Maybe it is a former partner.
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Maybe it is someone who criticized you many times.
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You may be a confident adult now you may have a good job you may make your own decisions
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but when you are with that person
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something changes you suddenly feel like an older version of yourself
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you become quiet again you try to make them happy you become afraid of making a mistake why
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because old patterns can be very strong.
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Imagine someone who often told you, you are too sensitive.
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After hearing it many times, you may start questioning your own feelings.
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Or imagine someone who always corrected the way you spoke.
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After a while, you may become afraid to speak freely around them.
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The person may not even say much anymore.
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You already know what you expect from them.
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Your mind remembers the old pattern, and your body reacts before you have time to think.
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This is why one person can make you feel completely different from another.
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With one friend, you laugh easily.
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You speak without thinking too much.
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You can make mistakes and move on.
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But with another person, every sentence feels like a test.
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That does not mean your confidence is fake.
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It means the relationship has a history, and that history can still affect you.
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But here is where things can change.
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You do not have to become the old version of yourself just because you are around an old person.
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You can pause.
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You can breathe.
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You can remind yourself, I am not that person anymore.
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You have learned new things.
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You have made difficult choices.
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You have survived situations you once thought were impossible.
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Your past may explain your reaction
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But it does not have to control your next one There is one more trap here
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Sometimes we lose confidence
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because we try too hard to make someone see our value
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We explain ourselves We defend every decision We work harder We want them to finally say You are good enough
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But what if they never say it?
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Does that mean you are not good enough?
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No. And that leads to the biggest question in this video.
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Are you building your confidence or are you waiting for someone else to give it to you?
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When we feel insecure around someone, we often try to fix the feeling by proving ourselves.
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We want to look smart.
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We want to sound successful.
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We want to say the perfect thing.
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We want that person to respect us.
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So we focus on their reaction.
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Did they like my idea?
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Did they agree with me?
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Did they notice my work?
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Did they think I sounded confident?
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Now something important has happened.
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Our confidence is in their hands.
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One smile can make us feel great one cold response can make us feel terrible
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that is exhausting and the more we try to prove our value the more power we give them
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so what if we stopped what if confidence is not about looking impressive what
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if it is simply being comfortable enough to be yourself
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you do not need to be the smartest person in the room you do not need everyone to like your ideas
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You do not need to win every conversation.
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You can simply say, I see it differently.
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You can say, I need some time to think about that.
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You can say, I do not agree.
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And you can say it calmly.
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That is confidence too.
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Sometimes confidence is not speaking louder.
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Sometimes It is staying calm when someone does not agree with you.
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Think about someone who always makes you feel small.
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You may spend years trying to show them that you are successful.
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You explain your choices.
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You defend your life.
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You hope they will finally understand.
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Then one day you stop.
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You stop trying to prove everything.
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You stop asking for approval.
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You still hear their opinion, but you no longer need it to feel good about yourself.
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That is, when your confidence starts coming back, not because they changed, because you changed your relationship with their opinion.
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Of course, this does not mean you should ignore all criticism.
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Good feedback can help you grow.
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But ask yourself, is this feedback helping me grow, or is it making me afraid to be myself?
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Learn to notice the difference.
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And if someone repeatedly makes you feel worthless or afraid to speak freely, you can step back.
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You can spend less time with them.
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You can share less.
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You can protect your peace.
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You do not have to prove your worth to someone who refuses to see it.
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Maybe there is someone who makes you feel smaller than you really are.
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Around them, you may become quiet.
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You may question yourself.
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You may try too hard to be accepted.
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But remember, their opinion does not decide your value.
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You were still yourself before they entered the room.
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and you are still yourself after they leave.
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So next time you feel small around someone, pause.
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Take a breath.
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Ask yourself, why am I giving this person so much power over how I see myself?
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You do not need everyone to understand you.
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You do not need everyone to approve of you.
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And you do not need to prove your worth every time you walk into a room.
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The goal is not to feel confident around everyone.
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The goal is to know who you are even when someone else does not see it.
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Your confidence may become quiet, but it is not gone.
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You may have simply forgotten that it was yours.
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You have completed this Level B 1 English Shadowing Practice.
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If some sentences felt difficult, listen again and follow the rhythm.
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Keep practicing and let your confidence grow with every repetition.
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इस पाठ की शब्दावली और बोलने के सुझाव
इस वीडियो में शैडोइंग के लिए 161 वाक्य और 1454 शब्द हैं। बोला गया हिस्सा 11:03 लंबा है। वक्ता लगभग 132 शब्द प्रति मिनट की स्थिर गति से बोलता है, जो शैडोइंग के लिए आरामदायक है। 93% शब्द अंग्रेज़ी के 3,000 सबसे आम शब्दों में से हैं, इसलिए शब्दावली आसान है।
इस वीडियो की मुख्य शब्दावली
वीडियो के 15 कम प्रचलित शब्द, उच्चारण और अर्थ के साथ:
- defend /dɪˈfɪnd/ (क्रिया) — रक्षा करना. To ward off attacks against (something or someone).
- silence /ˈsaɪ̯ləns/ (संज्ञा) — शांति, सन्नाटा. The absence of any sound.
- shadow /ˈʃædəʊ̯/ (संज्ञा) — परछाई, छाया. A dark image projected onto a surface where light (or other radiation) is blocked by the shade of an object.
- feedback /ˈfiːdˌbæk/ (संज्ञा) — प्रतिपुष्टि, प्रतिक्रिया. Critical assessment of a process or activity or of their results.
- breathe /bɹiːð/ (क्रिया) — सांस लेना. To draw air into (inhale), and expel air from (exhale), the lungs in order to extract oxygen and excrete waste gases.
- rhythm /ˈɹɪð.əm/ (संज्ञा) — ताल. The variation of strong and weak elements (such as duration, accent) of sounds, notably in speech or music, over time; a beat or meter.
- ignore /ɪɡˈnɔː/ (क्रिया) — उपेक्षा, उपेक्षा करना. To deliberately not listen or pay attention to.
- worker /ˈwɝ.kɚ/ (संज्ञा) — मज़दूर, श्रमिक. One who works: a person who performs labor for a living; traditionally, especially, manual labor.
- refuse /ɹɪˈfjuːz/ (क्रिया) — अस्वीकार करना, अस्वीकारना. To decline (a request or demand).
- remind /ɹəˈmaɪnd/ (क्रिया) — याद दिलाना. To cause one to experience a memory (of someone or something); to bring to the notice or consideration (of a person).
- judgment /ˈd͡ʒʌd͡ʒ.mənt/ (संज्ञा) — मूल्यांकन. The act of judging.
- emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ (संज्ञा) — भावना, जज़्बा. A person's internal state of being and involuntary physiological response to an object or a situation, based on or tied to physical state and sensory data.
- disappear /dɪsəˈpɪɹ/ (क्रिया) — मिटना, ग़ायब होना. To vanish.
- approve /əˈpɹuːv/ (क्रिया) — अनुमोदन करना. To officially sanction; to ratify; to confirm; to set as satisfactory.
- worthless /ˈwɜːθ.ləs/ (विशेषण) — असार, बेकार. Having no worth or use; without value.
वीडियो में आने वाली फ़्रेज़ल वर्ब
- think about /ˈθɪŋk əˌbaʊt/ (क्रिया) — चिंतन करना. To ponder.
- look at (क्रिया) — हेरना. To observe or watch.
- come back (क्रिया) — वापस आना. To return to a place.
ध्यान देने योग्य उच्चारण
- “th” की ध्वनियाँ: breathe /bɹiːð/, rhythm /ˈɹɪð.əm/, worthless /ˈwɜːθ.ləs/
- “sh” और “zh” की ध्वनियाँ: shadow /ˈʃædəʊ̯/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, rejection /ɹɪˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/, pronunciation /pɹəˌnʌn.siˈeɪ.ʃən/, repetition /ˌɹɛp.əˈtɪʃ.ən/
- लंबे शब्द — बलाघात सही रखें: differently /ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/, repeatedly /ɹɪˈpiːtɪdli/, pronunciation /pɹəˌnʌn.siˈeɪ.ʃən/, repetition /ˌɹɛp.əˈtɪʃ.ən/
इस वीडियो से अभ्यास कैसे करें
- पहले बिना बोले पूरा वीडियो एक बार सुनें और जो शब्द नहीं आते उन्हें लिख लें।
- सामान्य गति पर एक-एक वाक्य की शैडोइंग करें और हर वाक्य तब तक दोहराएँ जब तक आपकी लय वक्ता से न मिल जाए।
- अपनी आवाज़ रिकॉर्ड करें और मूल से तुलना करें, ख़ासकर defend, silence, shadow जैसे शब्दों पर ध्यान दें।
इस वीडियो का व्याकरण
वक्ता जिन संरचनाओं का सबसे अधिक प्रयोग करता है, वीडियो के असली शब्दों के साथ:
| संरचना | वीडियो में |
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| Relative clauses who / which + उपवाक्य — व्यक्ति या वस्तु के बारे में अतिरिक्त जानकारी | someone who criticized · someone who often · someone who always |
| Present perfect have/has + past participle — बीता हुआ काम जिसका असर अभी भी है | have learned · have made · have survived |
| “might / may” से संभावना might/may + क्रिया — जो हो सकता है पर पक्का नहीं | may wonder · may not have · may give |
| क्रिया + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — वे क्रियाएँ जिनके बाद -ing रूप आता है | starts talking · start looking · stop sharing |
शैडोइंग तकनीक क्या है?
शैडोइंग (Shadowing) एक विज्ञान-समर्थित भाषा सीखने की तकनीक है जो मूल रूप से पेशेवर दुभाषिया प्रशिक्षण के लिए विकसित की गई थी। विधि सरल लेकिन शक्तिशाली है: आप मूल अंग्रेज़ी ऑडियो सुनते हैं और तुरंत इसे ज़ोर से दोहराते हैं — जैसे वक्ता की छाया 1-2 सेकंड की देरी से। शोध से पता चलता है कि यह उच्चारण सटीकता, स्वर, लय, जुड़ी हुई ध्वनियाँ, सुनने की समझ और बोलने की प्रवाहशीलता में काफ़ी सुधार करता है।