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There are two kinds of smart.
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One gets you into the room.
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The other decides what happens once you're inside.
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And most people spend their whole lives training the wrong one.
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You've probably heard the debate.
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Smart people say IQ is what matters.
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Kind people say it's EQ, emotional intelligence.
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Both sides are sure they're right.
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By the end of this video, you'll know what the research actually says about who wins, where each one fails, and the one thing
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that matters more than both let's start with the one everyone
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knows what iq really is iq measures something psychologists call general mental ability how fast
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you learn how well you reason how easily you solve problems
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you've never seen before it's one of the most studied measurements in all of psychology
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and it's not just a number on a test in a famous 1998 review of decades of research psychologists
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Frank Schmidt and John Hunter found
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that general mental ability was one of the strongest predictors of how well people perform at work, especially in complex jobs.
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Later researchers argued those numbers were somewhat overestimated.
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But the main point still stands.
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Being able to think clearly and learn quickly helps you almost everywhere.
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People with higher IQs tend to get more education, earn more money, and even live a little longer on average.
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So that's it, right?
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IQ wins!
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Video over!
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Not quite.
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Because there's a famous story that complicates everything.
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The kids who were too smart.
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In 1921, Stanford psychologist
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Lewis Terman began one of the longest studies in history.
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He tested huge numbers of school children in California and selected around 1 ,500 with very high IQs.
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He followed them for the rest of their lives, expecting to watch a generation of geniuses change the world.
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Many of them did well.
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They became lawyers, professors, doctors, and engineers.
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But no one in the group became a world -changing genius at the level Terman had hoped for.
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And here's the twist.
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Two boys who were tested for the study didn't score high enough to be included.
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Their names were William Shockley and Luis Alvarez.
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Both went on to win the Nobel Prize in physics.
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High IQ raised the floor for Terman's kids.
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It didn't guarantee the ceiling.
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And there's more. In 2007, a researcher at Ohio State named Jay Zagorski looked at thousands of Americans and compared their IQ scores with their finances.
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Higher IQ was linked to higher income, but it wasn't linked to higher overall wealth.
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People with high IQs were just as likely as anyone else to max out their credit cards, miss payments, or go broke.
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Earning money takes intelligence.
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Keeping it takes something else.
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What EQ really is.
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The idea of emotional intelligence was introduced by psychologists
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Peter Salovey and John Mayer in 1990.
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They described it as the ability to notice emotions, understand them, and manage them, both your own and other people's.
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Then, in 1995, journalist Daniel Goleman wrote a book called Emotional Intelligence, and it exploded.
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It became a huge bestseller, and suddenly everyone was talking about EQ.
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Some people even claimed it mattered more than IQ for success.
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Here's the honest truth.
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Those biggest claims went further than the evidence.
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When researchers carefully tested emotional intelligence, they found it does predict job performance, but more modestly than the hype suggested.
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It matters most in jobs full of emotions—nurses, salespeople, managers, customer service—anywhere you have to deal with people at their worst.
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So does that mean EQ loses?
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Not even close, because work is only one part of life.
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The part of EQ that changes everything.
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In the 1960s, at Stanford, psychologist Walter Mischel ran what became known as the Marshmallow Test.
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Young children were offered one treat right away, or two if they could wait alone in a room for a few minutes.
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Years later, the kids who waited longer seemed to have better outcomes.
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But in 2018, a bigger replication found the effect was much smaller than people thought, and that a lot of it was explained by family background.
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So the marshmallow test alone isn't the magic predictor it was made out to be.
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A different study tells a stronger story.
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In Dunedin, New Zealand, researchers followed about 1 ,000 people from birth into adulthood.
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They measured each child's self -control between the ages of 3 and 11.
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Their focus, their patience, how well they managed frustration.
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By their thirties, the children with lower self -control had more health problems, more money problems, and more criminal convictions.
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And this held true even after the researchers accounted for IQ and the family's social class.
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Self -control is more than one of the most important things
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in the world isn't the same thing as emotional intelligence
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but it lives right next to it it's the ability to
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feel an emotion an urge a craving an angry impulse
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and not let it drive the iq can know the answer
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the emotions decide whether you actually do it the dark side of eq before
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you decide eq is purely good there's something you should know reading and managing emotions is a skill skill, and skills can be used for anything.
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In 2011, a team of researchers led by Stéphane Côté studied people's ability to regulate emotions.
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For people with a strong sense of morality, that skill was linked to more helpful behavior.
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But for people high in Machiavellianism, a personality trait linked to manipulating others, the same skill was linked to more harmful behavior,
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like embarrassing and undermining others.
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Remember the psychopath video?
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Many manipulators are extremely good at reading your emotions.
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They know exactly what you feel.
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They just use it against you.
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High EQ without good values isn't kindness.
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It's a weapon.
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So, which one wins?
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Here's how most researchers would put it.
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IQ is better at predicting what you can do.
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Your grades, your job performance, your ability to master difficult things.
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It decides which doors open for you.
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EQ, along with self -control, is better at predicting how you do it.
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How you handle stress, whether people want to work with you, whether you can keep a relationship alive through hard times.
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A brilliant engineer who can't control his temper loses his team.
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A warm, likeable manager who can't think clearly makes bad decisions that everyone likes.
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Each one alone has a ceiling.
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But if the question is who actually wins at life, there's one more study you need to hear about.
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The longest study of happiness.
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In 1938, Harvard researchers began following a group of young men and later added their wives and children.
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It's now one of the longest studies of adult life ever conducted.
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Researchers tracked their careers, their health, their marriages, and their happiness for more than 80 years.
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Some became doctors and lawyers.
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Some struggled with addiction.
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One became president of the United States.
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The study's current director, psychiatrist Robert Waldinger, summed up its biggest lesson simply.
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The people who were healthiest and happiest as they aged weren't the richest, the most successful, or the smartest.
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They were the ones with the warmest relationships, people who had someone to count on.
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Your IQ didn't decide that.
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Your ability to love people well and let them love you back did.
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So if winning at life means money and status, IQ gives you a real head start. But
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if winning at life means a life
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you're actually happy to have lived the research points the other way the answer most people miss
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Here's what's strange about this debate.
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It treats IQ and EQ like two teams
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But you don't have to pick one your IQ is relatively stable once you're an adult
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But the skills behind emotional intelligence noticing your feelings pausing before you react understanding another person's point of view,
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can be practiced, like a muscle, and one of the simplest exercises takes about two seconds.
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In 2007, researchers at UCLA showed people photos of angry and frightened faces while scanning their brains.
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When people simply put a name to the emotion they were seeing, with a word like angry or scared,
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activity in the amygdala, the brain's alarm center, went down.
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Psychologists call it affect labeling.
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So the next time you feel something rising, a wave of anger or panic, try naming it.
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This is frustration.
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This is fear.
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It sounds almost too simple, but naming a feeling is often the first step to steering it, instead of being steered by it.
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Which means the most useful thing you can do isn't to be born smarter.
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It's to learn when to use which kind of smart.
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So next time you're in a hard moment, a fight with someone you love, a decision at work, a message you're about to send in anger,
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pause and ask yourself one question.
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Does this moment need me to be right or does it need me to understand?
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Sometimes the answer is to be right.
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Do the math, check the facts, make the clear decision.
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That's IQ.
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Sometimes it's to understand.
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Listen, slow down, notice what the other person is actually feeling.
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That's EQ.
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The people who win at life aren't the ones with the highest score in either.
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They're the ones who know which one the moment needs.
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So tell me in the comments, if you could only have one, high IQ or high EQ, which would you pick?
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And subscribe, because next time we're going deeper into emotional intelligence, and the simple habits that actually raise it.
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영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 단어 | 발음 | 뜻 |
|---|---|---|
| researcher 명사 | /ˈɹiˌsɝ.t͡ʃɚ/ | 연구원, 연구자 |
| emotion 명사 | /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ | 감정 |
| skill 명사 | /skɪl/ | 기술, 스킬 |
| psychologist 명사 | /ˌsaɪˈkɑl.ə.d͡ʒɪst/ | 심리학자 |
| predict 동사 | /pɹɪˈdɪkt/ | 예언하다, 예측하다 |
| earn 동사 | /ɝn/ | 벌다 |
| happiness 명사 | /ˈhæpinɪs/ | 행복, 기쁨 |
| anger 명사 | /ˈæŋɡə/ | 성, 분노 |
| genius 명사 | /ˈd͡ʒin.jəs/ | 천재 |
| ceiling 명사 | /ˈsilɪŋ/ | 천장 |
| pause 명사 | /pɔːz/ | 멈춤, 휴지 |
| stable 명사 | /ˈsteɪ.bəl/ | 마구간, 축사 |
| lesson 명사 | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | 수업, 과 |
| argue 동사 | /ˈɑɹ.ɡju/ | 논하다, 의논하다 |
| carefully 부사 | /ˈkɛɹf(ə)li/ | 주의하여, 조심스럽게 |
영상에 나오는 구동사
| 단어 | 뜻 |
|---|---|
| go down 동사 | 내려가다 |
이 영상의 문법
화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.
| 문형 | 영상 속 표현 |
|---|---|
| 수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점 | were tested · was linked · was introduced |
| 관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보 | kids who were · kids who waited · people who were |
| 현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때 | You've probably heard · you've never seen |
주의할 발음
화자는 you're, isn't, didn't 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 24번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.
- “th” 소리: thirty /ˈθɝti/, mathematics /mæθ(.ə)ˈmæt.ɪks/, psychopath /ˈsaɪkəʊpæθ/
- “sh”와 “zh” 소리: emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, frustration /fɹʌsˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/, patience /ˈpeɪ̯.ʃəns/, addiction /əˈdɪkˌʃən/, conviction /kənˈvɪkʃən/
- 긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: psychologist /ˌsaɪˈkɑl.ə.d͡ʒɪst/, psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, mathematics /mæθ(.ə)ˈmæt.ɪks/, morality /məˈɹælɪti/, psychiatrist /ˌsaɪˈkaɪ.ə.tɹɪst/
한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:
- /f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: frustration /fɹʌsˈtɹeɪ.ʃən/, carefully /ˈkɛɹf(ə)li/, helpful /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/, physics /ˈfɪz.ɪks/, harmful /ˈhɑɹmfl̩/
- /v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: solve /sɒlv/, conviction /kənˈvɪkʃən/, craving /ˈkɹeɪ.vɪŋ/, overestimate /ˌəʊvəɹˈɛstɪmeɪt/
- /z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: pause /pɔːz/, physics /ˈfɪz.ɪks/
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