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Embarrassment is the number one thing that's holding you back in life.

You need to understand this, okay?

When I stopped being embarrassed of anything, my life completely changed because this was the only time I felt free to be my authentic self,

to do whatever I want and to live my life the way I want.

Only when I stopped being embarrassed that was possible.

And in this video, we're going to talk about how you can do the same.

First of all, you need to understand that embarrassment is basically made up.

Embarrassment is not real.

Embarrassment only exists because we think it does, okay?

There's no rule that says that some things are embarrassing and some things aren't embarrassing.

What one person finds embarrassing, another person doesn't even care about at all.

You can think it's embarrassing to fall down on the street in front of a huge crowd

and another person might think it's funny or it's sad.

There's no rule for embarrassment because we decide what's embarrassing, okay?

We decide what's embarrassing.

And when we decide that nothing is embarrassing, nothing will be embarrassing anymore.

It's that easy.

I know that sounds crazy, but it's that easy.

Every time when I felt that feeling of embarrassment come over me, I stopped myself and I told myself, no, it's not embarrassing.

I decide now that it's not embarrassing.

And this feeling of embarrassment just disappeared because I decide what's embarrassing and what's not.

You really need to realize that you decide what's embarrassing.

And the same way you decided that this one thing is embarrassing, you can also decide

that the same thing is not embarrassing anymore okay you also need to understand

that embarrassment is actually the fear of rejection and of judgment

so most of the time you don't even feel embarrassed

because you think what you're doing is embarrassing but

because you are afraid that other people won't like you anymore

if you do this thing and that's when you stop being your authentic self

because you are so afraid of losing the people around you

but you need to understand you really need to understand

that people who reject you because of small and meaningless things never even liked you in the first place, okay?

They never even liked you because why should someone stop liking you because you started posting on TikTok, because you started following your dreams, because you started that business,

because you said something embarrassing, because you posted one embarrassing picture of you.

Why should someone who really genuinely likes you stop liking you because of those random things? Can you tell me?

People who really like you will like you no matter what you do, okay?

And people who don't like you also won't like you no matter what you do.

I can give you one example of my own life.

When I started my social media, I started social media two years ago, I think, on my German account.

This English account is very new, but I started social media on my German account a few years ago.

I almost didn't start the account because I was so afraid that people who know me would think I'm embarrassing,

would think I'm cringe, would stop being friends with me because I post on social media.

It almost held me back off posting.

The fear of rejection almost held me back off posting.

But then I thought to myself, when someone rejects me or thinks I'm cringe or thinks I'm embarrassing because I'm posting harmless videos on social media,

I don't need that person.

I don't need people who will judge me because I do harmless things, because I follow my dreams, I do what I want to do.

When people judge me because I do things that I like, I don't need those people, okay?

And you don't need those people either.

You can't control it anyway.

Someone who wants to judge you will judge you

and will find something to judge you for no matter what you do okay the next thing

that you need to understand is that

when you always feel embarrassed you give other people the power to decide over your life there's

that one quote that i love

that says it's better to be cringed in someone else's mind than caged in your own mic drop let

that quote sink in okay just think about it it is

so true it's so much better to be cringed in someone else's mind than caged in your own.

Because why should you stop living your life the way you want to live it?

Do the things you want to do because you are afraid what some random ass people will think of you.

What the hell?

Really?

This makes no sense at all that you create a smaller life for yourself just to be digestible for other people.

Don't do that, okay?

Don't do that.

Because when you're 80 years old, sitting there being sad that your life didn't turn out the way you wanted it to

because you were afraid of being judged by others those people

you were afraid of being judged by won't be there for you okay you will be there alone

so stop letting random ass people who don't even like you

decide how you live your life live your life the way

you want do the things the way you want to do them no matter

if anyone thinks you're cringe you're weird you whatever, because at the end of the day you will be the only one responsible

and regretting it if your life didn't turn out the way you wanted it to.

What also comes with that is that you need to understand

that people only have as much power over you as you give them.

Of course, if you're sitting at home always worrying about what other people might think of you, holding yourself back, not doing the things you like,

because you're so afraid that other people might think you're cringe, of course those people have power over you and your life, because you give them the power by doing those things.

You give other people the power by constantly worrying about what they think, by not doing the things you love because you are afraid what they might think.

You give other people the power over your life.

And the same way you give them the power, you can also take the power away from them.

Because the moment you stop wasting your precious time, worrying what others think of you and holding your own life back just to be digestible for others,

is the moment that you take the power back.

And that's also the moment that you start to realize that other people were never holding you back.

Your fear of their opinion was.

Also, very often people project their own insecurities.

People often judge others because of something they secretly wish they had the confidence to do it themselves.

If I judge you for having, for laughing loud on the street and having fun and I think, oh my god, that's so embarrassing,

that's so cringe, it's probably because I don't allow myself to do that.

I'm afraid to show that side of me in public

if someone judges you because you post videos on social media it's probably

because they wish they had the confidence to do the same thing

but they just don't and instead of admitting i wish i could do the two

or working on their confidence to one day have

that confidence to post on social media it's easier to them to just judge another person and say, oh my gosh, that's so embarrassing, because that makes them feel better about themselves.

So in conclusion, the way people react to you often says more about them than it says about you.

And the last thing I want to say in this video is

that the truly embarrassing people are the ones who find everything embarrassing.

In my opinion, really nothing is embarrassing except people that find everything embarrassing.

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You just need to imagine those people, how miserable they are sitting at home and judging others.

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They're sitting at home not doing anything with their lives, watching other people, how weird is that, and just judging them and saying oh my gosh what they do is so cringe.

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How can she pause on social media?

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She only has two followers.

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How can she do that?

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Did you see what she wore?

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Did you hear what she said?

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That's so cringe.

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That is truly the only thing that's embarrassing being a person who always judges everyone

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and that's it for today's video i really hope it was

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helpful i really hope i could help you to stop being embarrassed of anything

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and start living your life according to your own values

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and to your own desires that was my goal with

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that video and i would say i'll see you in my next video bye bye Thank you.

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Thank you.

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이 B2 수준 말하기 레슨은 영상 “How to NEVER feel embarrassed again”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: embarrassing, judge, afraid, decide, embarrassment. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 114개와 단어 1525개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 8:04입니다. 화자는 분당 약 189단어로 빠르게 말하므로 연음과 약하게 발음되는 소리가 많습니다. 단어의 90%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속해 어휘가 쉬운 편입니다.

이 영상의 핵심 어휘

영상에서 가장 어려운 단어 12개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.

단어	발음	뜻
embarrass 동사	/ɪmˈbæɹəs/	난처하다, 창피 주다
embarrassed 형용사	/ɪmˈbæɹ.əst/	부끄럽다
harmless 형용사	/ˈhɑɹmləs/	무해의
rejection 명사	/ɹɪˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/	거절
authentic 형용사	/ɔˈθɛn.tɪk/	진정하다, 진짜의
cage 명사	/keɪd͡ʒ/	우리
follower 명사	/ˈfɒləʊə(ɹ)/	추종자, 신봉자
pause 명사	/pɔːz/	멈춤, 휴지
secretly 부사	/ˈsiː.kɹɪt.li/	몰래
miserable 형용사	/ˈmɪz(ə)ɹəbəl/	불행한 상황
disappear 동사	/dɪsəˈpɪɹ/	사라지다
react 동사	/ɹiːˈækt/	반응하다

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영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:

I know that sounds crazy, but it's that easy.
I decide now that it's not embarrassing.
Can you tell me?
Did you see what she wore?
Did you hear what she said?

이 영상의 문법

화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.

문형	영상 속 표현
관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보	people who reject · someone who really · People who really
수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점	be cringed · being judged

주의할 발음

화자는 don't, you're, I'm 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 36번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.

“sh”와 “zh” 소리: rejection /ɹɪˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/
긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: embarrassment /ɪmˈbæɹ.əs.mənt/, digestible /daɪˈdʒɛstəbəɫ/, miserable /ˈmɪz(ə)ɹəbəl/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/

한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:

/z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: pause /pɔːz/, miserable /ˈmɪz(ə)ɹəbəl/
/r/과 /l/ 구별하기: harmless /ˈhɑɹmləs/, follower /ˈfɒləʊə(ɹ)/, secretly /ˈsiː.kɹɪt.li/, miserable /ˈmɪz(ə)ɹəbəl/

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자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, embarrass, embarrassed, harmless 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.

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