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Do you feel frustrated when you get stuck in English conversations?
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You want to keep your conversation going but you don't know what to say or maybe you freeze because you don't understand them.
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You completely forget your words.
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You don't know what to say.
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Or they don't understand you.
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I'm Emma, creator of mmmEnglish, where I help millions of English learners around the world develop confidence and fluency in English.
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Today I have thirty awesome phrases to help you get unstuck during English conversations so you know what to say and you can keep your conversation going.
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I've also made you a free PDF workbook with all of these useful common English expressions plus a quiz to help you make sure that you can use them accurately when you speak.
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The link to download it is in the description below.
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Every confident English speaker, whether they're native or non-native, uses the phrases and these strategies that I'm going to share today to help them communicate.
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Native speakers use these phrases all the time because it's a really natural part of communicating.
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We don't always know what to say and it doesn't always come out perfectly.
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Sometimes native speakers don't explain themselves clearly and we have to use the expressions and phrases in this video to react and to keep our conversations going.
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But the difference is that native speakers or proficient speakers are more likely to be confident English speakers.
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They just know how to quickly get themselves out of trouble if they need to, if they get stuck during a conversation.
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They know how to fix it without panicking too much.
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And this is the main difference between you and them.
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You just need to know what to say in those situations to get yourself unstuck.
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And there are plenty of phrases and expressions to help you in those situations.
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Imagine that you've just run into someone that you know, perhaps a colleague or a professor at your university and you've just started chatting in English.
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Things are going well but suddenly, you don't understand what they're saying.
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They've used a couple of words that you don't recognise or perhaps it could be because their accent's not one that you're familiar with.
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So in these situations, you could say: I'm sorry, I didn't catch that.
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Could you repeat that?
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Maybe you just didn't quite understand what they said because they were speaking so fast.
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In this case, you can ask: Could you say that again a little more slowly?
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Sorry, I'm not following you.
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We use this when we don't understand what someone means.
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When the meaning is a little bit unclear, if you're a little bit confused, then you can use it.
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I don't think I understood clearly.
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Could you say that again?
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Okay so studying and memorising these phrases is step one.
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But to make them your own, to make them part of your own active vocabulary, you need to practise putting them into use, using them in different situations with different people in different contexts.
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Okay here's a new situation.
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You're talking with someone but suddenly you forget your own words.
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It's like every English word in your head just disappears all of a sudden.
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Or you forget what you're talking about after you've already started talking.
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This is the worst because the other person that you're talking to is looking at you, waiting for you to continue.
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Their full focus is on you and you've lost your words.
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This happens to everyone, native speakers too.
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So what can you say when you forget your words?
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What's that word?
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It's on the tip of my tongue.
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We use this idiom to describe that very familiar feeling when the word is so close, it's so close in your mind, it's right here but you just can't get it.
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So frustrating!
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I'm sorry, I had a mental blank.
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I can't remember the word in English.
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At this point, the person that you're talking to will probably help you to remember or remind you of the word that you're looking for.
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You could even say: I forgot the English word.
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Do you know what I mean?
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Even if you can't find the word, don't let it stop you.
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Say something like: Never mind.
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And change the topic.
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Tell me about the new project you're working on.
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Never mind, it might come back in a minute.
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This will help you to change the topic and keep moving forward in your conversation.
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You don't need to get stuck.
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Sometimes it's not just a word that you've forgotten but you completely forget what you were talking about altogether.
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When this happens to me, I just say: Hang on, let me start over.
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Let me try that again.
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Oh, I completely lost my train of thought.
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Hopefully it'll come back to me in a moment.
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You have the choice to feel embarrassed and get frustrated with yourself or you have the choice to just hit that reset button.
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You just need to signal what happened to the person that you're talking to so they know what's happening but then the conversation can keep going.
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Listen to what I say but also how I say it.
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Notice that I'm not taking myself too seriously.
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I'm using facial expression just as much as the words that I'm choosing to help communicate what's happening.
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And this is a really important point.
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Honesty is really important in conversation.
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If someone is listening to you speak and then for some reason, you get stuck.
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All of those expressions that we just went through will help you to explain what happened and it'll give some clues to the person listening so that they can help you out.
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And let's be honest, it's going to happen to you a lot on your journey to English fluency and once you're fluent, it's still going to happen.
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Fluency does not mean perfect.
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It just means that you have all of the phrases and the expressions that you need to have successful conversations in English even when you mess up.
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There are plenty of times when you just don't know what to say.
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Maybe because you're not properly prepared.
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Maybe you've never talked about this topic before so you have no idea what to say or how to contribute.
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Or you might need a little bit of extra time to think about your answer.
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It's not something that you know instantly.
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And there are tons of things that we say in English when this happens.
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To be honest, I'm not really familiar with the political situation in Venezuela.
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If you need a little more time to think about your answer, then try: That's an interesting question.
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Let me think for a moment.
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That's tricky, I've never been asked that before.
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I'm not sure.
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Give me a second to think about it.
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Just give me a second to think how to explain it in English.
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All of these phrases will give you some extra time, just a few seconds so that you can take a deep breath, get your thoughts in order and think about what you're going to say next.
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If you're in a group conversation, you can even direct that question towards someone else.
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I need some time to think about my answer.
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Does anyone else want to jump in?
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Another really common situation, especially at work, is when someone asks you to share your opinion or your ideas about something but they catch you off guard.
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You don't have anything to share with them, yet.
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If you don't know what to say in these moments, you might freeze.
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You might start searching for words and it feels like every word has escaped your head and you've got nothing to share.
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So in this situation, you can try to return the question back towards them.
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I've never thought about that before.
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What about you?
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Oh gosh, I've never been asked that before.
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What do you think?
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Or even more casually.
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What's your take?
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This does two things.
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The other person will start talking so you'll have some extra time to think about your answer but if you don't really have an opinion or an idea to share about this topic, you'll probably get some ideas from what that other person is saying.
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They might inspire you to think of something to share or to say.
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Or maybe you agree or disagree with something that they said but it's a way for you to keep the conversation going.
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What if someone asks you something that you're not entirely comfortable with?
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This can happen in a lot of different situations and it's okay to not answer a question or not talk about a topic if you don't want to.
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So I've got a few phrases to explain that you'd prefer not to answer and you want to change the topic.
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I'd rather not answer that, if that's okay, for personal reasons.
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Is it okay if we talk about something else?
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What are you doing this weekend?
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You might find yourself in a situation where you're talking but you notice the face of the other person changing.
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They don't seem to be understanding you.
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That's okay!
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It might be your fault.
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Maybe you weren't being clear.
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But it could also be them.
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Maybe they got distracted or they weren't paying attention.
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So if you feel like this is happening, you could say: Am I making sense?
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Are you following?
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Remember we used the word following earlier in this lesson.
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We said: I'm not following you.
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So it's a good one to use in the context of a conversation.
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Are you following me?
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Both of these questions are used to check and to allow the person you're talking to to ask a question if they need it.
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If you feel really confident that they are not following, you could say something like: I don't think I'm being very clear.
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Let me try that again.
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Sometimes, despite all of our best efforts, miscommunication happens.
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They haven't understood you.
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But it's totally normal, we just need to be prepared to handle those situations when they come up.
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So you can say: Sorry, I think there was a misunderstanding.
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What I meant to say was...
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This allows you to rephrase your ideas in a different way to help the other person to understand.
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You could also say: I don't think I explained myself clearly.
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Or: I think you misunderstood.
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But the important point here is that you're putting the blame on the person that you're talking to when you say that.
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It's quite rude to tell someone else that they have misunderstood you.
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It just tells them it's their fault, not yours.
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So you want to be really confident that they are the one who misunderstood if you use it.
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Notice how in the first sentence, we use the passive voice.
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There was a misunderstanding.
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I'm not specifically saying who was responsible for the problem and that's usually the best way to go.
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You either assume that it was you and apologise and quickly fix it or generalise there was a problem here.
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Okay so now you have thirty useful expressions to help you when you're stuck in English and you need help keeping your conversation going.
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If you enjoyed this lesson, make sure you give it a like, leave me a comment down below, I love to hear from you.
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I suggest that you take all of these phrases and practise using them in real conversations.
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Want to keep practising?
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You know where to find me.
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See you in there!

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Deze spreekles op niveau B1 is gebaseerd op de video “Common English Phrases to Keep Your Conversation Going!”. Deze woorden komen het vaakst terug: conversation, English, word, situation, phrases. Deze video bevat 159 zinnen en 2082 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 14:00. De spreker praat in een gelijkmatig tempo van ongeveer 149 woorden per minuut, prettig om te shadowen. 89% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden, dus de woordenschat is goed te volgen.

Belangrijke woorden in deze video

De 15 moeilijkste woorden uit de video, met uitspraak en betekenis:

WoordUitspraakBetekenis
phrase zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈfɹeɪ̯z/uitspraak
misunderstand werkwoord/mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/misverstaan
fluency zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈfluːənsi/vlotheid
frustrate werkwoord/ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/frustreren
communicate werkwoord/kəˈmjuːnɪkeɪt/meedelen, mededelen
unstick werkwoordopstijgen
freeze werkwoord/ˈfɹiːz/bevriezen
miscommunication zelfstandig naamwoordmiscommunicatie
proficient bijvoeglijk naamwoord/pɹoʊˈfɪʃ.ənt/geoefend, competent
rephrase werkwoordherformuleren
practise werkwoord/ˈpɹæktɪs/oefenen
fluent bijvoeglijk naamwoord/ˈfluənt/vloeiend
distract werkwoord/dɪˈstɹækt/afleiden
newsletter zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈn(j)uzˌlɛtɚ/nieuwsbrief
vocabulary zelfstandig naamwoord/vəˈkæb.jə.lə.ɹi/woordenschat, vocabulaire

Phrasal verbs die je zult horen

WoordUitspraakBetekenis
come out werkwoord/ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/uitkomen
mess up werkwoordverrommelen, in de war brengen

Zinnen om te herhalen

Korte, volledige zinnen uit de video die je in alledaagse gesprekken kunt gebruiken:

  • Could you say that again?
  • Do you know what I mean?
  • What if someone asks you something that you're not entirely comfortable with?
  • Is it okay if we talk about something else?
  • What are you doing this weekend?

Grammatica in deze video

De structuren die de spreker het meest gebruikt, met de exacte woorden uit de video:

StructuurIn de video
Present perfect have/has + voltooid deelwoord — iets uit het verleden dat nu nog teltI've also made · you've just run · you've already started
Lijdende vorm be + voltooid deelwoord — het gaat om wat er gebeurt, niet om wie het doetbeen asked
Mogelijkheid met “might / may” might/may + werkwoord — iets is mogelijk maar niet zekermight come · might need · might freeze
Werkwoord + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — werkwoorden die door de -ing-vorm worden gevolgdstarted chatting · practise putting · started talking

Uitspraak om op te letten

De spreker gebruikt 85 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals don't, you're, I'm. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.

  • De “th”-klanken: altogether /ɔl.tuˈɡɛð.ɚ/, breathe /bɹiːð/
  • De klanken “sh” en “zh”: proficient /pɹoʊˈfɪʃ.ənt/, casually /ˈkæʒuəli/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/, workshop /ˈwɝk.ʃɑp/
  • Lange woorden — let op de klemtoon: misunderstand /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/, communicate /kəˈmjuːnɪkeɪt/, eligible /ˈɛl.ɪ.d͡ʒɪ.bəl/, generalize /ˈd͡ʒɛn.(ə.)ɹə.laɪz/, vocabulary /vəˈkæb.jə.lə.ɹi/

Klanken die Nederlandstaligen lastig vinden:

  • Stemhebbende eindmedeklinker — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ niet verscherpen: phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, misunderstand /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/, freeze /ˈfɹiːz/, generalize /ˈd͡ʒɛn.(ə.)ɹə.laɪz/, quiz /kwɪz/
  • /æ/ — opener dan de Nederlandse “e”: misunderstand /mɪs.ʌn.də(ɹ)ˈstænd/, practise /ˈpɹæktɪs/, casually /ˈkæʒuəli/, distract /dɪˈstɹækt/, vocabulary /vəˈkæb.jə.lə.ɹi/
  • /g/ — een harde plofklank, geen Nederlandse “g”: gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, colleague /ˈkɒliːɡ/, altogether /ɔl.tuˈɡɛð.ɚ/, disagree /dɪsəˈɡɹi/

Zo oefen je met deze video

  1. Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
  2. Spreek zin voor zin na op normale snelheid en herhaal elke zin tot je ritme gelijk is aan dat van de spreker.
  3. Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als phrase, misunderstand, fluency.

Wat is de Shadowing-techniek?

Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.

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