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I'm gonna mess up my makeup.
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Hold up, hold up, hold up.
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I need makeup.
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Touch me up, baby, because I'm being a bad the whole episode, period.
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Oh!
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Hi!
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Hi!
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Okay.
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So today we have the most requested guests ever for a Grill Talk, Which would be our lovely mothers that really most requested guests.
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Yeah, I
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Was on live today and they were like bring the moms on bring the moms on and I was like hey
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Just wait, you know, they are pretty crucial like we would not be here if it weren't for our moms
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Like that's kind of crazy like but no for the dads I guess
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Love Ken, love Ken, right?
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Come on Ken.
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Okay.
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So I think we should just start off
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Each mom, each introduce themselves.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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Hi everyone.
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Hi.
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Everyone knows each other.
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Go ahead.
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I'm Pam and I'm Sarah's mom.
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Hi Pam.
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Hi Pam.
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Hi Pam.
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We're like at the AA meeting.
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I know literally.
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We're like in kindergarten.
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Hi Pam.
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Yeah.
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Trying to make friends.
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I'm Kim and I am Brooklyn's mom.
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Woo!
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Nice hanging.
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I'm Katie.
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Woo!
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Aubrey's mom.
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We have a double Katie in the house.
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Okay.
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I'm Yolanda and I'm Eliana's mom.
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Woo!
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Hi Yolanda.
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Hi Yolanda.
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Okay y 'all, so this is Katie.
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Katie introduced yourself.
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I'm Katie Tua.
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I'm not Sohee's mom.
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Listen, Heather was low -key out of town so she could not make it,
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but this is my stand -in mom because she's really been with all of us growing up.
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So I felt like she was a good candidate.
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She's known all of us forever since the beginning of time.
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Yeah.
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So together forever.
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Yeah, we were talking about how Sophie and I kind of look like twins in the baby photos.
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Everyone has baby photos in here.
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Like that one?
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Like we are the same human.
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That was us.
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Wait, can we see the photo of Kim with the pool stick?
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Like I really want a close up on that one.
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The ba -yang has been around.
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The bang has been banging.
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Yeah.
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For a long time.
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A long time.
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She's always here.
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I'm dead.
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These are some crazy photos.
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I really like the one of Aubrey in the purple
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you literally are the exact same like Nath the other day
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was talking about how Aubrey just always goes like this she pops out every time
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Like that's it.
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That's it right
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Yeah, Aubrey knew she was from an early age like bow
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I don't think Sophie knew who she was like there's like a lot of different eras going on here
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And Brooklyn knew she belonged in Hollywood Oh,
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yeah Who's in the frame?
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Oh, it's from Mean Girls.
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Oh, it's a mom from Mean Girls.
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Is it you Pam?
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It's yeah, a pretty self -explanatory that very fitting for today's yes.
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Yeah, super Okay, so we can start off I'd like to know from all the moms how
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Girl Talk is kind of a different project than what your child has been involved in previously.
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It's like the first project for us to be completely honest.
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And I think that it's like, I think it's the coolest thing.
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I think all of you guys are super awesome and I'm, I, Aubrey fits in and.
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Yes.
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Yeah.
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I'm just, a lot of people love you guys and I think it's really cool.
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Thank you.
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Awesome.
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Well said.
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That was tea.
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I remember when Pam and Sarah reached out.
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They're on social media, and sometimes they live this certain life.
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You think that they live this certain life, but it's just really cool that everybody can be very raw here.
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And just you're very relatable.
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And I think there's such an audience there of men and women who are just really searching to kind of like,
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they see you on social media, but you come across as real people that they can really relate to.
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Like, I have that same, you know, I have that same worry and I have that same deficiency.
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And I'm okay because people that I follow on social media, they're real as well, too.
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So I think it really brings up.
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It really sets things apart from other projects.
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Yeah, true.
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Yeah, I would have to agree.
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Like, other projects, you know, that she's been a part of, like, they're great projects, different things.
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But this one, she actually, like, I feel like the girls are able to show their phone.
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Already!
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My tissue is .
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No, they're able to show their vulnerable side their emotions.
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Honey, okay, she's done.
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Go, Katie.
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Katie, talk.
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Oh, for real.
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No, girl, don't ruin the makeup.
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No, I'm gonna mess up my makeup.
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Hold up, hold up, hold up, honey.
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Makeup!
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Touch me up, baby, because I'm being a bad the whole episode, period.
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Oh, okay.
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No, but really, I just, I like that they're able to express themselves, and they have history.
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Like, they are all different, but they have so many similarities.
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All of us have gone through something in some capacity.
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Definitely.
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And they're able to like still they're like night and day, but they're all like they have their like connections and stories and crazy stories.
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Yeah.
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I love it.
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We're a little kooky, a little kooky.
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Okay, Katie.
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I mean, I think that the world gets to see the girls that we get to see all the time.
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They're real versions of who they are.
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And I think that that's really special.
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Thanks, Mom.
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Like, damn.
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I'm pretty kidding.
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So I think for me, I'm a little more involved in girl talk than maybe everybody else is, all the other moms.
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And I think, you know, all of these girls, maybe with the exception of Aubrey, have been through a lot in their careers.
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And I think for me, having been in some of those situations that were stressful and toxic, it was really important to try and do something
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that had a really positive vibe to it and that girls enjoyed and they were friends and they truly supported each other.
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So for me, I've always wanted to make sure that we had a slightly different,
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you know, energy and chemistry and that we came together to do something really powerful for other girls. That was beautiful, Pam.
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Yes, I'm clacking on everything.
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Are any of the moms, like, nervous?
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Are any of you nervous?
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Yeah, are any of y 'all nervous today?
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No. Should we be?
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I am, because last time I was like with a bunch of moms.
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I have a little bit of PTSD going on this, because my background with like three seasons on a particular show,
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it's like, yeah, it really brings back a lot.
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But these are nice moms.
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Yes.
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I have a bad reputation with the moms too.
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Supposedly, allegedly, I locked two
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Hollywood moms in a car, in their own car, while they were in the front seat.
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But my question is, why couldn't you have just gotten out
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if it was like inside the car
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that's the big question here exactly how do you get locked into a car
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i mean i can't i couldn't hold down the lock like four doors in the car
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but but i locked them in their car
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and they were scared for their life i've been in the car a lot with kim
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and i've never experienced
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that no yeah no
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i haven't either well yola for you obviously like these are
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different moms the moms on there were like a little kooky themselves i mean let's face it, every mom has a little kookiness to her.
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Like, we wouldn't be moms.
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Like, you have to have that.
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And anybody who would say that they don't have that is lying to themselves.
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It's true.
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Y 'all have been through too much to not be a little kooky.
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Yeah, I mean, I think like as moms, like, it's like we want the best for our child.
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And maybe we're going to go at it a different way than somebody else.
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But I mean, let's be real.
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We all have a little bit of that in us.
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Because at the end of the day, you were just advocating for me.
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It was really the main goal.
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Always.
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And it got taken maybe a different way?
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It went far.
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Yeah, I mean that's the thing.
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Like even with Kim, things get, like rumors get started.
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I mean that happens on social media.
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I think that's something that so many people struggle with is like something starts and then it just spreads.
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And then everybody's adding their own narrative to it.
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And then all of a sudden you go from this where I was like, you know, Yolanda was looking at like,
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you know, a bowl of Cheerios to like,
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Yolanda like, you know, stole the car and had three people in the car when she stole the car.
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I mean, it's weird and that's like the scariness like piece of social media is how it can just Get fabricated.
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It can be get fabricated and it can destroy life.
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And that's even kind of happened to you.
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I mean, we all know that's happened to us, but yeah, right.
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Yeah, moms go through the same thing, I guess that are on social media.
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But I feel like it can happen in real life too.
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So like being in like a mom in social media, I'm sure you've definitely like had a kind of different experience and like personally you know,
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being in the spotlight yourself.
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Being like on Dance Moms, were there certain moments where it was like extra heightened
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that seemed like really dramatic and it was not even actually that serious or deep?
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Many moments.
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I mean, you have to understand too that it's like a very, very edited show and it's based off of views.
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And those views are based off of drama.
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So there are a lot of things that are clipped.
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There was a lot of, in our case, there was actually a lot of threats and if we didn't do something or myself,
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If I didn't do something for views, then we would be kicked off the show.
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And of course, that was said to me.
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So, like, producers would say that.
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Absolutely.
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Producers are, like, the biggest instigators.
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Yeah.
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Just, like, the worst.
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And mind games, too, because they would say it you know, either you go and you make fun of that mom's bow and her hair,
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which I knew, like, that's a friend of mine.
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I'm not going to do that because I'm going to get hate.
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And number one, most importantly, like you're not that type of person.
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Exactly.
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That's mean.
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I'm not going to make fun of something that somebody is doing that they like.
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But they were like would say either you do it
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or you're going to be kicked off the show and you can pack your bags and go home tomorrow.
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And they would say it in front of an eight year old who would then who
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that was like what she wanted to do.
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Who would then start crying, saying, Mom, just do it.
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Just do it.
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Yeah.
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Like please just do it literally having to go against your morals.
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That's crazy Something like that.
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Oh, yeah, you know
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So he said deja vu and as a child
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when you don't really know really the mind games that adults
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or know that and They will do anything for them to make a profit.
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Yeah, no exactly
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They don't care about destroying lives in the process.
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Yeah, those reality TV shows are just all about views, anything but views, which makes sense.
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I mean, people have to make a living.
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Right.
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They gotta put food on their table, so.
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And it's not just reality shows.
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I mean, like, Sophie, like with you, that wasn't a reality show.
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I mean, that was real life.
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That was like real life.
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Yeah.
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That was my life type shoes.
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Are you comfortable talking about, like, the big altercation that happened?
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Yeah, I mean, I have nothing, absolutely nothing to hide.
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OK, nice.
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So no, like, I never choked anybody.
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I mean, there were bodyguards there was footage of it and
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that when I'm trying to like you know get out of the situation
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which I was doing I was trying to say the producers
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because producers would keep all the mom's car keys yeah you couldn't take your keys in the morning
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so if you want to leave you can't leave I was like advocating for myself to be in a dance
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that I had experience with because I really felt I was the only girl that had experience with this certain situation.
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I should be in the dance.
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The dance teacher came out said your daughter in a beautiful store you can be the dance.
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Moms flip their That's all it was over?
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It was literally over me getting put in a dance.
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I just wanted to leave and that's what I went to the producers and said give me my keys.
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I am leaving.
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I want to have my child and at
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that time like Ellie's like mom they weren't bullying me which you know off camera.
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I was being excluded.
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She was just being excluded which is a form of bullying.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Exclusion is a form of bullying.
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There's no other way to hide it.
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I mean when I hear like slime parties going on right next door, it's a little obvious.
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It's hurtful.
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And it'd been going on for months.
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So people like the general public didn't know that.
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Right.
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So I don't know any mom like who wouldn't be a
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mama bear who would just say like what you're doing is wrong.
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Yeah.
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It's not okay.
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I guess when like no one else is telling me.
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Exclusion and I'm going to say it out there.
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Exclusion is a form of bullying.
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It's not okay for so anybody out there who is excluding others that is bullying no matter how you look at it.
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It makes you feel unwanted like damn bruh.
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When you hear like
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a mom was screaming in my face obviously
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you're gonna be like oh absolutely not like I get it right you know what
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if people get really you know really heightened
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when they hear things about their kid at the end of the day being mama bear is most important
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you know and you were advocating for me
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so it's all good yeah I think
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that the moral to the story is again like don't exclude others
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and when there's somebody that's like by themselves have some empathy
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and don't exclude Eliana specifically don't mess with me I got Yolanda on my side don't play.
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Don't play.
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Let's get back to girl talk.
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Okay, I have another question for all the moms.
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I want to know how you guys feel about how your child is perceived on social media.
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Obviously, I'm sure like every mom has some comments about their child.
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So I want to know what everyone's mom is thinking about the rep, you know?
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Kim, you go first.
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Oh my gosh, no. Water work.
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It's, it's, no. Um, the, a lot of times completely opposite of who she is.
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You're gonna cry again?
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I'm not gonna cry.
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No, I just feel like a lot of, um.
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She's about to cry.
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She puts up her voice.
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She pauses when she's talking.
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I try to have a talk.
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I'm just gonna cry.
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No, I just, I feel like she gets a lot of like, hate, like, but, but then there's parts of it, it's like, you know, Brooklyn,
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she's this rapper and then she's a, Oh my God.
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What is happening?
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You were just getting on her.
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Why are you fucking rapping?
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Why are you talking so good about me?
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No, my God.
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No, like, seriously, no. Like, she does so many different things, so depending what version of her you get,
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you will have a different opinion.
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Like, when you see her on Girl Talk, the people who know her from this, it's, oh, my God, Brooklyn, oh, she's a bad .
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She's tough.
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She sticks up for the girls.
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Like, she really is like that.
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Yeah.
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But then when you see...
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Tell them, girl.
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The rapper and the , you know, they see you rapping lyrics and all they can hear is, oh, she's a homewrecker.
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Oh, now she's trying to shake her ass for this boyfriend or that boyfriend.
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It's like, maybe she's doing it for her as well.
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She's a rapper.
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Like, she's an all -around entertainer.
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So, depending what version you see of Brooklyn, depending on what your personal opinion is, and I always tell her,
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like, Brooklyn, you could go out here and feed America or, you know, do community service or go to a dog shelter.
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They're still going to say, did you see how she pet that dog?
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Did you see how she pet that dog?
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Or is she going to go pet the poodle
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because she don't like the pit bull? like they're gonna have something to be mad at her about yeah
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it never fails she anything she does good they still have something bad to say
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but that's why it's like you know i just look at her i know who she is as a person
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and the people who know her for real know who she is as a person
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that's why i was telling her like don't care what nobody says about you like
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just but it's still hard to see because you still see like these comments that like that's your baby
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Absolutely, and you know her. For sure.
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I need tissue.
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Yeah, where's the tissue?
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Do we not have tissue, please?
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Got it!
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I'm sorry, I'm a crybaby, and she always yells at me, but you cried today.
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You cried first.
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But you know what, that's a catharsis, and I don't understand, like, and so often, like, people want us to be so strong,
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and I think it is a natural reaction, like, why, like, it is okay.
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It is, it's very cathartic for you, and I'm sure, like, sometimes you just want to scream to the world,
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like, you don't know my baby. For sure.
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This is like, just get to know her.
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And I was going to say, I think it's like harder.
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I mean, like, I feel like I've noticed this with my mom.
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Like, something won't be even that difficult for me.
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And it's like more difficult for her.
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Like, she takes it more personally than I do.
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Like, I'll be like, oh yeah, it happened, whatever.
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Like, moving on.
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And she'll be like, no, that was disrespectful.
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Like, this is rude.
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That's what I said about it.
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She's always, I'm calling her.
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I'm like, what the, did you see this?
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And it's like, recently they had her on some, somebody's page
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and it's like when a man found his girl's uh girlfriend's girlfriend's body count list
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and it's this list of these names
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and they got her picture next to it
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and it was never even about her they just randomly took her picture
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and put it on there because they figured oh we'll get a lot of people
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and it went like viral
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and all these people are like oh you're a bop
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you're a it wasn't even about her they just used wrongfully used her picture
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which was she was a minor at the time
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and they put her picture up there
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and we messaged them like can you this needs to be taken down like what is this
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but of course it's not like once you can't unsee something
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so even though you can advocate and take this down this is you know defamation
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or care it's out there
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and it went viral it's like damn how does she defend herself against
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that she could say okay this wasn't about me
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but it's out there and people are gonna have their opinion whether they believe it
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or not once they see it they've solidified their opinion you don't unsee it
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and I'll call her and sometimes you know not necessarily
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that situation because she was upset about that
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but it's like she's she'll like I'll call her about something
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that's like mom why are you more mad than me like don't be more mad
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and it's like you don't get it
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because I see the hard work you put it I see the everything you do it's like
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that I think that someday they'll get it really
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when they become a mom that's what yeah tell Eliana like for sure oh my god my mom always
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If I'm not mad at this, then you don't need to be mad at this.
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Yeah, that's what I always say.
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I'm like, how are you more irritated than me?
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It's my situation.
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Because we can understand the long -term repercussions.
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Oh my god.
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All you moms are the same.
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I feel like I'm talking to my mom.
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It's like five of my moms in the room or something. For sure.
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And I think a lot of times you guys have been programmed like...
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you know, like for Brooklyn is like, don't let what somebody says about, and this was before she got into social media.
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Don't let going to school, don't let what somebody says about you change how you feel about yourself.
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Make sure you be aware of your surroundings.
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Make sure you did it out.
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Like you're, you know, we try to prepare you.
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Yeah.
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And then it's like, you can't prepare you for the world.
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You can't protect them.
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You can't protect them from social media.
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That's the one thing I'll say.
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There's no protection from it.
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Yeah.
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And it's like, you know, So you guys just take it a lot of times, it's like we prepare you to be so strong,
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and then it's like, when you're strong, we're like, no, wait a minute,
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this, that, but I think you guys hold so much in that you don't show what you really feel.
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Yeah. So, cut!
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Yeah, cut.
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Sobie, for you, obviously, you did a whole documentary with your mom, and that was very public and a very difficult situation,
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and putting both of you again in this spotlight.
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And I think the thing with social media is it's, like, already difficult to go through something yourself,
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and then it's ten times more difficult to go online and do it.
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And talk about it.
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And with that situation, too, like, oh, my God.
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When it comes to certain things, it's, like, I lived through that.
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I lived in a house where it wasn't safe.
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And, like, you know, my mom had to come on and talk about it and say how, you know, how she felt about the situation and
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that she felt bad that there were certain things
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that she didn't know about were happening because I didn't talk out about it until like probably a year ish later.
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Half the stuff I didn't really know was bad, but like, you know, also I didn't want to be taken away from my friends.
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So like it still hurts me when people are on social media being like, well, the moms need to be held accountable.
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I agree that like accountability needs to be held on everything that happens in life.
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I think, you know what I mean?
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People need to be held accountable.
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But if you did not live that situation and you were not there, I really don't like it.
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Right for you to speak on it
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because how many other moms were there right especially with like i guess um claire reese
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and i we talked about that sort of trauma
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if our parents knew that we were being touched by a grown woman do you think
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that any of those damn parents would let us stay no
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and it's like that situation like hurts me
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because it's like damn bro like it's my fault loki
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because i didn't talk out sooner and i should have told my mom what was happening and i didn't and now
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You know, it's uncomfortable to talk about it for sure.
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And it's like when you're first going through it, it's the last thing you want to be speaking on.
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Like you're dealing with that trauma every single day.
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And then to talk about it is a whole other thing.
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Like it makes it very real.
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And then talking to your mom about it brings in a whole other level of seriousness
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that like half the time I don't ever want to deal with.
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You know what I mean?
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Right.
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And then it's like awkward too because I'm like, all right, like listen.
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Yeah, and emphasis on the like you didn't even know that it was wrong.
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Yeah.
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Because I kind of relate to that.
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Like there were things that happened to me in my earlier life that I, I mean, was thrown with.
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But at the time, I didn't know that that was not a normal thing.
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Yeah.
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Yes, because you're like, okay, but like she doing it to like everybody.
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Because it's a person in trust.
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Right.
486
So you think that they would never do anything bad.
487
So it's just looked at as a normal thing.
488
Yeah.
489
Until you talk, maybe talk to someone and like, oh, that's maybe not a normal thing.
490
I know.
491
I remember when I did talk to somebody about it and they're like, hold up.
492
And you're like, wait a damn minute.
493
I was like, wait, what?
494
Right.
495
And but like that stuff does like ruin, you know, your mind process
496
and like you don't realize like I always say this you do not realize what um like
497
if you're doing bad stuff to somebody
498
and you don't really care it's not affecting like
499
if you're a bad person it's not affecting your everyday life like I'm sure the lady who did all
500
that crappy stuff to me can go about life
501
because it doesn't it didn't impact her but like damn bro it impacted me
502
so bad that like I'm right like I have like weirdness
503
when it comes to like TMI but like activities because I'm like, damn, this is like scary for me now.
504
And like, I feel like we're doing this because I didn't have a good experience with it at all.
505
And she'll never know how much it damages me
506
and how hard it is now to build a relationship
507
or try to be in a relationship and explain it to somebody like, yo, it's not your fault.
508
It's a me thing.
509
Let me explain.
510
I had to look at her just now
511
because I have been living the same exact thing for a couple of years now as well.
512
So no, it's hard too and then like your boyfriend thinks it's your issue.
513
Yes, and it's like, no please, like I don't want to be like this, but it's just, it's a thing.
514
So I just like really be cautious about what you're doing and how you're presenting yourself to other people because again, if you're doing sh things,
515
it's not going to affect you at all.
516
But like, you know what I mean?
517
It affects that person for the rest of their life.
518
Thank you.
519
It really can.
520
And you have to understand that, like, as I emphasize this, as a victim, okay, like,
521
it, you, like, you really truly are.
522
And there's nothing, like, the advocation that you have to have for yourself, because you have to put yourself now as number one.
523
Yeah.
524
And, and, like.
525
you were a victim and yes you just like eliana like you you can't stay quiet
526
because in order to get over that
527
and to heal you gotta go to therapy you gotta do all
528
that absolutely and it's and and you're right when you say
529
that it is probably most likely will affect you for the rest of your life
530
and every single relationship
531
that you're in you're gonna have to be with somebody who's going to really understand
532
that all of a sudden like yeah it's just so tough
533
when you look yourself and you're like i'm
534
so horrible like why am i like this like you don't want to
535
and you want to try and you just you try to change
536
and it's just like there are things that just it's it's
537
so hard to change because your mind is just permanently like up like
538
that that's the last thing i'm gonna say on it
539
because i don't want to give anybody the time of day
540
but for you who are like get over it it was five years ago don't
541
you think i try like damn though like oh my god i pin try to get over it
542
but when you're having war flashbacks it's a little rough
543
and they're on a timeline right right from trauma doesn't have like a time it could be 20 30 years
544
that that's still gonna be there yeah
545
and people acting like they lived
546
it like oh get over it like they know what happened
547
talking about it like like they were there it's like oh right oh right I forgot
548
that you would fly on the wall like my bad my bad right it just pisses me off
549
and then when they don't want you to talk about it.
550
It's like, wait, what?
551
She can talk about it all she wants?
552
I should be scared to the world.
553
And by the way, telling people not to talk about it is such blaming of the victim.
554
Yes.
555
Into just this closet of just complete denial.
556
I mean, talking about it is one of the - Like trying to silence a victim.
557
It's a second victimization.
558
Gross.
559
It really honestly is.
560
It sucks.
561
And I actually am taking the steps and advocating.
562
I spoke at the United Nations to try to get laws changed
563
we're like for this industry that we're in and you know because child actors have like a lot of
564
laws and right register like regulations around them but influencers don't
565
and even still child actors need more protection around them too
566
so yeah i am trying to do something because i hate
567
when people are like she just talk about it
568
and don't do nothing um i am i'm doing stuff just behind the scenes
569
so another question i have for the moms is what is one lesson
570
that you would wish your daughter would really listen to?
571
Yeah, I would love to hear this.
572
I think the lesson that I would say is to learn from your mistakes.
573
So when you make the same, when you make the same mistakes.
574
She's a great woman.
575
Grace, bring that look.
576
It's hard as a mom when you see your child, and I mean, we're all mama bears.
577
Like, our job is to protect our kids, right?
578
We can't stop them from touching the stove, but we can let them touch the stove and let them learn for themselves.
579
But when they touch the stove over and over and over again, then it gets a little bit tricky.
580
And I think that's my lesson for my child.
581
And quite frankly, all these girls are like my kids.
582
It's like just, hey, just you've got to make the mistake a second time.
583
Okay, maybe you're a teenager.
584
But the third time, like we got to do something different.
585
Fair enough.
586
I'm not surprised that that was the lesson.
587
No, that's valid.
588
I've heard that one for sure.
589
So, yeah, girl, love it.
590
Will I follow it?
591
Hopefully one day.
592
Yeah.
593
I think you're doing great.
594
I do.
595
I would say like don't lose.
596
Oh my God.
597
I'm not even crying.
598
I can hear it in your face.
599
Don't lose.
600
Don't lose.
601
Don't lose.
602
Don't lose.
603
Pieces of yourself pouring into others that don't reciprocate. That energy.
604
Facts.
605
That's true.
606
Beautifully said.
607
You know what?
608
I feel like I've gotten some of the best advice as a mom from Kim.
609
Like Kim is my ride or die.
610
And I'll call her, text her if I'm having a hard time at 1 in the morning.
611
And I'll say, hey, could you call me tomorrow?
612
I need to talk.
613
And she'll be like, I can talk now.
614
And it's 4 in the morning for her.
615
And she will get up and she will talk to me and talk me through something.
616
And I love you for that.
617
And I feel like
618
Kim has the best advice for the girls.
619
Like if I need a piece of wisdom, I'll go to Kim.
620
And Kim, what's the saying you say about, you know, let your crown fall off or put it back on?
621
Yeah.
622
How is that?
623
Fix your crown and keep going.
624
Sometimes you've got to fix the other one's crown for them.
625
And Kim's not the kind of mom that thinks her daughter's perfect, even though I think you're perfect.
626
Or any of the girls that you're perfect, like she'll acknowledge when, hey, you need to do something a little differently.
627
Your crown isn't on straight.
628
Fix it.
629
Let's get it back on and then continue on. For sure.
630
I love you too, Kim.
631
I just want to say something really quick about Kim.
632
I've already said this before, but where's the tissue?
633
Look, this is too much for me.
634
I was at a really huge mental block in life and...
635
Oh, damn it, I don't want to cry.
636
Oh my God.
637
Oh my God!
638
Kim and Brooklyn and my mom and I, we drove past my abuser's house and she told me to fix my crown and she said,
639
go get your power back.
640
And so we drove by and I was really scared.
641
Like the entire time I had really bad anxiety.
642
I was like, I do not want to be here.
643
I want to like drive away.
644
This is going to be an issue.
645
She was like, no, we're going to get your power back.
646
And I rolled down the windows and I said, Sophie, Sophie Fergie rules, you guys.
647
And it was the best moment of my life because right after
648
that I had such this big up come and I just felt like myself again.
649
It really did like help me because I had such
650
that bad mental block and I didn't know what to do
651
and she was like you're letting these people take your power away
652
so we're gonna drive by and we did
653
and I just said Sophie Fergie rules
654
and it was the most probably alive I've ever felt and the most free I've ever felt.
655
Do it again.
656
Right. That part. That part.
657
Katie, what would be one lesson that you would preach to Aubrey?
658
Tell me, girl.
659
I think it's just like, don't forget who you are.
660
Yeah.
661
You know, because doing stuff like this, and I know a lot of you girls have been doing it longer, it's just like, like you,
662
you guys always have like outside people like in your ear on social media saying this or saying that.
663
But like at the end of the day, like know who you are,
664
stand on that and like just don't don't forget it like don't listen to all the people have to say and
665
You know, like we've been saying we all know who you guys are and that's why we get so emotional in
666
Certain situations and stuff.
667
Yeah, sure because we've known you guys since y 'all didn't even know yourselves
668
It's like a fifth grade on you kind of start to like learn yourself and see who you're gonna be and then
669
We've already known who you guys are since you were like little little.
670
That's crazy.
671
So Yeah, don't forget who you are Yolanda for you.
672
What is like one lesson that you want Eliana to listen to?
673
Sometimes I feel like I want to ask you what you think I would say.
674
I think you would say, you tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are.
675
Aww.
676
Yeah.
677
Okay.
678
Yeah.
679
Yeah.
680
Would you like to elaborate on what that means?
681
I just I feel like it's just you know who like who you have as friends really
682
objectifies who you are as a person you are who you hang out with absolutely
683
and it's and and and this industry as well too
684
and especially like in LA it's like I mean Eliana's circle keeps getting smaller
685
and smaller and smaller and that's okay you know it's honestly that's okay
686
because when you've been burned by
687
so many people like you lose a lot of trust but yes like that I would also say like knowing your worth.
688
Mistakes are a natural part of learning and you know this one.
689
To be in the driver's seat.
690
So like you are the one, you are the one who is going to determine
691
your future and the baby who doesn't cry for the milk doesn't get it.
692
Bow.
693
Okay.
694
Bow.
695
That's good.
696
I think in terms of your circle getting smaller and your mom just said it's okay.
697
It's true.
698
And I think one thing I didn't learn until I was way older
699
and I wish I had known
700
when I was all of your age was it's okay to let go of someone that doesn't make you feel good.
701
So I remember I had this friend for like 10 years and every time I was with her, like, I just, I don't know.
702
I couldn't really put my finger on it, but I'd leave kind of feeling bad about myself.
703
Finally, 10 years later, I'm like, why am I friends with this person?
704
And I ended the friendship and I felt a thousand times better.
705
And I thought, why didn't I end this friendship nine
706
and a half years ago and I felt I felt obligated to always be with her
707
or something or to not hurt her
708
and you know I didn't end it in a way
709
that would hurt her
710
but I think you know Eliana you do your mom's right like you're you're kind of surrounding yourself with people
711
that make you feel good or you need to find a little no absolutely
712
and honestly like I have told her this like I was really
713
I feel like I haven't been happy like this happy in a
714
while even though I may not have the most friends as you know the girl next store
715
and whatnot or anyone else in this industry but as long as I feel complete that's all that matters.
716
Yeah.
717
Yeah.
718
Right.
719
So that's kind of how I feel.
720
It's not about quantity, it's about quality.
721
Exactly.
722
You know I've done big friend groups
723
and multiple times I'm not even referring to like you know I've done it multiple times
724
and it's just never I never feel complete like I feel more empty with more friends than I do with less friends.
725
Yeah.
726
Okay so for the moms again, do y 'all see qualities that you had when you were younger within us?
727
Like is there a lot of similarities from when you guys were younger to us like when we're young?
728
I mean my mom used to call me the most stubborn human being she'd ever met.
729
So, is that, is that what you're trying to say?
730
Like, I'm just saying, throwing shots over here?
731
I definitely see it.
732
Like, Especially being able to twerk good.
733
Because I always say I'm a good twerker.
734
Demonstration!
735
Okay, look, look, we don't, here we go.
736
We're not gonna do this, too early.
737
Wait, we need to get all the moms to go out to like the club together or something.
738
Oh my gosh.
739
But yeah, I definitely see qualities myself in Brooklyn.
740
Yeah from the life of the party to the strength,
741
the attitude, even the rapping.
742
I don't know, you guys probably don't know, but I used to rap as well.
743
Okay, Miss Hills.
744
That's cool.
745
She got it honestly.
746
Me and her dad used to rap.
747
She raps.
748
She's just like a ball of energy.
749
She wants to protect.
750
She likes a lot of those qualities for sure.
751
Yes.
752
I mean, I feel like I am my mother.
753
Like, I feel like I am literally her in every way, shape, and form.
754
A little more sensitive than me, but...
755
You know what?
756
Aubrey is a little sensitive queen.
757
I am a sensitive queen.
758
She ails the emotions.
759
Yeah.
760
When you say anything to her, it's like she doesn't think we're joking.
761
It's like her feelings are hurt.
762
I can't take everything personal.
763
But like it is personal.
764
Like it is about me.
765
So like Katie did Sophie get any of your qualities?
766
All the good ones.
767
Yeah, I think
768
that I since I've known a lot of you guys since you were very very young
769
and I've known your moms for equally as long.
770
I think that
771
There is a piece of your mom in each one of you for sure like
772
that that you guys are growing and blossoming into
773
young adults when I speak to him like oh I'm speaking to Yolanda
774
or I'm speaking to Pam or I'm speaking to Heather
775
and speaking to Kim or Katie so it's very you guys definitely have
776
a lot of your moms
777
and all of you I feel like I have my mom's
778
like she's like slightly awkward around people like in big groups love her to death
779
but she is
780
and I low -key think that's me like I'll like I'll be in a group setting
781
and I'm either attached to one person or by myself and everyone's like, do you have a problem?
782
And like, no, I just, I like this corner.
783
Dude, I love me an awkward queen.
784
I'm not gonna lie.
785
They're like some, they're like my favorite women.
786
I'm like, come here.
787
But you are, you are a lot of fun though.
788
Your mom's a lot of fun.
789
Your mom is a lot of fun.
790
I know how to have a good time.
791
I would say for me, I feel like I got some of like
792
Kim and Brooke's qualities.
793
Like I almost feel like y 'all's daughter in a certain sense too, because.
794
Our daughter.
795
Yes, y 'all's daughter.
796
When I didn't know you guys I was like the most shy
797
I would also say nicer like I was a lot nicer
798
Frankly not that you guys are mean but I'm saying in a sense of like
799
Say it with your chest
800
Like I really get it
801
If someone did something I'm like you guys like it's okay like maybe they're having a bad day
802
Now I'm like oh
803
that is f*ing annoying like I'm pissed off too like she just irritated me you know what I mean
804
Like I think I got a little bit of the attitude
805
Confidence The attitude
806
Yeah, for sure.
807
Like confidence and don't let nobody just so much do anything happening.
808
Yeah, cuz what are you gonna do to them if they come up and push you?
809
Tiger crouch.
810
Tiger crouch.
811
Right in the eye.
812
Tiger crouch.
813
It's you take your nails and you dig it into the corner of their eyes.
814
Rip it.
815
Yes.
816
Should we tell this story?
817
I had this boy and he was like one day he was in our friend group
818
and he was just like all up in my face and I was getting really irritated,
819
whatever and I had had this girl that was like one of my friends
820
and for a while I wouldn't say she was abusing me
821
but we had definitely like tussled a couple times
822
and like I was getting my ass beat every time
823
you know what I mean like I didn't
824
I was not like a fighting chance going on I got my hair dragged across a parking lot one day
825
when I was like 13 probably filming a YouTube video
826
I think she's told this story like yeah like we like we like didn't even get into
827
or anything she was just like upset with me i guess
828
that day and we were like walking out of a wall
829
and she like literally took me by my hair
830
and just pulled me across the parking lot
831
and it was like i wasn't there messing me up
832
so i came home and i was like talking about it and i was like upset or whatever
833
and i had that boy all up in my face and
834
that was irritating me so kim had taught me that like oh
835
when they get up like in your face
836
if you just are standing there you're acting normal you just come around you smack them really hard
837
and put your hand back down and act like nothing happened and and all the time, you're like, what?
838
What?
839
Like, you have to be quick, like, flash, like, instinct.
840
Yeah.
841
And then the other one was like, if it's actually getting, like, really, you know, crazy and physical,
842
you take your two fingers and you dig it into the corner of their eyes
843
and you just pull and go up and down.
844
Because then when they can't see, you can be done it.
845
That's true.
846
Tiger crouch them.
847
Tiger crouch.
848
Tiger crouch.
849
Sarah, have you done it?
850
You know what?
851
I haven't got to done it yet.
852
I'm waiting for the fighting.
853
I haven't got to do it yet.
854
For the perfect time.
855
That English was fired.
856
I haven't gotten to do it yet.
857
What is, fam?
858
Yeah, what's the name?
859
The other thing about my mom is like, my mom doesn't understand lingo.
860
She doesn't understand slang.
861
Yeah, but it's hard though.
862
I understand it.
863
Pam clocks you on posture and words.
864
Like, I'll be saying a sentence and it's...
865
I am an English major.
866
Like, girl, you're not an English teacher.
867
Okay, but girls, when you walk in a room and you are like this, immediately people judge you.
868
100%.
869
Everyone thinks this person does not have self -confidence.
870
When you walk in the room with your shoulders back and your chin up high, like Coco Rocha, told you to do.
871
Coco Rocha.
872
Coco Rocha.
873
Immediately, the energy that you get from people is, oh damn, who's that?
874
I want to know more.
875
I want to get to know them.
876
Yes.
877
Also, grammar, I'm just going to say it.
878
The grammar is, like, people, they hear it and they don't say anything, but they clock it.
879
So I try and make sure that the girls...
880
I clocked it.
881
Yeah.
882
I just didn't...
883
Katie, too, I clocked it.
884
Oh, the bad grammar just now?
885
Yeah.
886
Well, she handled it, that's for sure.
887
She handled it.
888
I do try and correct the grammar a little bit.
889
Yeah, which is great, but when we're making a rap song, you know, and there's like, language, it's like, you go in a perfect form sentence,
890
like, with a period at the end.
891
But it depends on the audience.
892
I'm not gonna lie, that's something that you got from your mom, though, because you low -key, like, I'll say a sentence and you're like,
893
yeah, you didn't say that right.
894
I know, it's so true.
895
Because you girls are going to become like us so much more, whether you want to or not. For sure.
896
And I agree with Pam on the posture.
897
Like, I'm always, that was one of the things we clicked on when we first met.
898
Kim and I clicked on it immediately.
899
I'm like, push your posture.
900
And then I heard her say it and I said, see, Brooklyn?
901
I'm not the only one that's always like, sit up, fix your posture.
902
Why don't sit like that?
903
Sit up.
904
I also feel like a lot of times, like, our girls will not,
905
our women, young women, will not immediately like thank us or acknowledge most of the time what we're saying.
906
But I love it like, you know, with you, Eliana, when I say something and, you know, sometimes you might like roll your eyes,
907
you know, typical, like won't acknowledge it.
908
But then I'll see you say it or I'll hear you say it.
909
And then it's just like, okay, so like I know it's getting through.
910
I get upset when my mom says something that I see happening in front of my face.
911
Like she's been able to clock so many like fake friends
912
so many like situations like I wouldn't even tell her She's like that girl's fake.
913
She's gonna beat you up or that girl's this
914
Beat you up
915
My mom's just been like he's doing that and like I feel it and then I'm like nah you're you're you're capping
916
But like I just like always you know try to ignore it because it's like no let me learn for myself
917
But no my mom's been right about 99 % of situations
918
It's like when they say something you don't want to like really admit it but it's like damn she's right
919
Yeah, and like later on you figure it out and you're like, okay, whatever.
920
But you don't ever like go back and be like, yeah, you're like, right.
921
It's a hard balance because like you want, especially at this age, you want to be able to like give them the independence because that's ultimately,
922
you know, what our goal is to give you independence.
923
But like when we can also predict exactly what's going to happen based off of our experience,
924
like for me, it's really hard because I know that you're going to get hurt.
925
And I'm like, don't do it, don't do it, don't do it or do it this way
926
and I know that like you fight because you're like I have the knowledge
927
and I have the understanding of the intelligence to figure it out
928
but a lot of people will say like you need to like let her fail
929
and that's so hard because why would you want to purposely let your child get hurt
930
when you know it that's what's gonna happen
931
so that's a really hard balance that I don't know
932
if the other moms like like you trying to give
933
that independence but also still being
934
that mama bear it's a hard it's a hard it is hard and it's even harder when we're not just their moms,
935
we're in their careers like.
936
Momagers.
937
You know what I'm saying?
938
Momagers.
939
We're involved.
940
We're involved.
941
Exactly.
942
So it's a lot of roles.
943
Therapists.
944
Therapists.
945
There's days when I'm like, I gotta be mom, you know, and then there's days when I'm like,
946
I gotta be on you manager type of things like, oh, you need to be doing this, or make sure you post social media,
947
and she's just like, uh, uh, but then, you know, it's hard It's hard to get days where you can just be mom.
948
So it's like, you know.
949
From the child's perspective, okay.
950
I feel like we can't grow up if y 'all don't allow us to grow up.
951
Like we have to make the mistake.
952
Y 'all don't want to see us make the mistakes, but we have to do it.
953
Because like, what am I going to do if you're always there for me and like I'm doing everything right.
954
You have me doing everything right.
955
When you're not here and I do something wrong, I'm not gonna know how the to handle it.
956
I have to grow up at some point, you know what I mean?
957
Like you guys have to let us grow up
958
and go through things on our own so that
959
when you're not here or no one is there for us and we're just by ourselves that we can handle it.
960
We know how to handle it.
961
No, I absolutely 100 % respect that.
962
I really, really do.
963
And I totally know where you're coming from.
964
It's just such a hard transition.
965
And it's like, I mean, y 'all, we don't come as a mom with like a handbook.
966
And it's like we make mistakes as well too.
967
And like I've made a lot of freaking mistakes.
968
And I can say, as you've gotten older, and I can say within this past year.
969
Don't start arguing.
970
I'm not arguing with you.
971
I have stepped back on certain things, gave you my advice, and let you make your own decision, which technically have not been good for you.
972
So you are learning from your mistakes.
973
Because you went from an image of one way to me telling you, Brooklyn, forget what she's saying.
974
Do not pull up and fight this girl.
975
This is not going to be good.
976
But if you decide to do it, I'm right here and I went with you.
977
Okay?
978
By the way, that was not me.
979
That was not me in the video fighting on the ground.
980
Just let's be clear, that was not me.
981
But I did advise you not to do it, right or wrong.
982
As your mom and your...
983
Brooklyn, you got a flight to catch.
984
Do not let her pull you into this.
985
Just let it go.
986
But I still supported on the decision you chose to make because I know you were going through a lot
987
that the world don't know that you were going through.
988
Emotions were high.
989
Whatever I was going through don't matter.
990
But let me just tell you, that wasn't the only I also advised you not to mention anything about shrimp
991
because you were going to put it in a diss track.
992
And I said, you don't say that.
993
And you went ahead and went on live and said that.
994
And I said, you don't come back from certain things that you say and not just you, how it affects the other person.
995
So I did.
996
We came back from it.
997
We're back friends now.
998
But I'm just telling you.
999
So when you say we got to let you make those mistakes,
1000
I most certainly let you make some your own decisions that I felt were mistakes.
1001
And I feel you've had to learn from them.
1002
So I applaud you that you're learning from them.
1003
But understand that, like I said, you don't unsee things.
1004
Unfortunately, those are things people see of you that could make their opinion of you permanent.
1005
And that's the hard lesson you've got to learn.
1006
If somebody can do something to you and make you come out of your character,
1007
which in the end only sheds a bad light on you, then they win.
1008
You can take yourself out of the situation.
1009
Then they win.
1010
I think being a parent to young women and young men in this industry is much harder.
1011
We receive a lot of flack online, too.
1012
It's like you are doing this for yourself.
1013
And I would just have to say, we do this sacrifice.
1014
This isn't for me.
1015
You do these sacrifices, and that's so hard because everything that we get,
1016
it's like you must want the limelight no I'm not living vicariously through my daughter.
1017
Unfortunately there's a few bad apples that spoiled a whole bunch
1018
and so when people zone in on the bad they're not looking
1019
and or considering the fact that there's a lot of parents out here
1020
that are doing the right thing and that are there with their children
1021
and that are watching out for them and that are speaking up
1022
when they need to and when they know things are going on it's just things are so centered around the bad.
1023
I think we need to do something fun.
1024
Is there a mom game we can do?
1025
What we're gonna do is I have a bowl full of questions
1026
We're gonna rapid fire the questions and you're gonna lift up a stick that has
1027
Whatever mom on it.
1028
Oh my god did this I'm dead whose mom was arrested
1029
for allegedly stealing a wallet from nitro from American gladiators while he was dancing at a club
1030
All because she thought it would be funny to see if his ID really said nitro.
1031
I got my mind I'm moving.
1032
What are we talking about?
1033
That is the most my mom ever.
1034
Did you do that?
1035
No. It wasn't you.
1036
Who was it?
1037
You can reveal yourself.
1038
Who was it?
1039
Your mom?
1040
Really?
1041
I'm dead.
1042
Really?
1043
And it was really bad because it was my very first year of teaching.
1044
I was 21 years old.
1045
Wow.
1046
And his name was Clark.
1047
But I didn't know that until I got his ID and I was kind of grinding with him.
1048
And I pulled his wallet out just to be able to see if it actually said nitro on it.
1049
So wait a minute, wrong batteries and stuff?
1050
Yeah, and I ran to the bathroom, but the problem was in the bathroom I was like, Oh my God, oh my God,
1051
I have like nitro's wallet!
1052
And other people heard it, so then when I went out, I threw the wallet on the dance floor, and then he took, yeah,
1053
and then he like, they shut down like the whole club to find nitro's because this is in Colorado,
1054
and so it was a big deal to have him there.
1055
And I went running out of the club, and he ID'd me.
1056
Whose mom thumbed for a ride in middle school and accepted a ride from a man in a white van?
1057
Kim.
1058
I feel like that's kind of serving
1059
Pam to me, honestly.
1060
What?
1061
No. She's always talking about that her mom couldn't do this or something. Who knows?
1062
All right.
1063
Who was it?
1064
Who was it?
1065
Reveal themselves.
1066
That was me.
1067
Wait, really?
1068
Yolanda, what's going on?
1069
It was middle school.
1070
Whose mom would you call if you got pregnant?
1071
Kim, I call Kim.
1072
I can.
1073
Call yourself?
1074
I'm pregnant.
1075
I call, yeah.
1076
Miss Kimberly would be my call.
1077
No, I'd probably call Pam, honestly.
1078
I'm calling Pam or my mom.
1079
Oh, yeah, Pam or Kim.
1080
Good answer, good answer.
1081
Whose mom went to summer camp when she was 14, dressed up like she was Marilyn Manson while her summer boyfriend dressed in drag,
1082
and they made out in the woods behind her cabin?
1083
This is the most
1084
Pam st ever.
1085
Oh, my God, I have no idea.
1086
Like, that's like...
1087
I mean, yeah, maybe Katie.
1088
Seriously?
1089
Yeah.
1090
Okay, reveal yourselves.
1091
Yolanda.
1092
I am...
1093
Mom!
1094
I am fucking...
1095
It was a summer camp!
1096
I'm...
1097
God, literally what is always on, bro?
1098
It was a horning arts dance camp.
1099
We were a little bored.
1100
Next question.
1101
Who's mom got in a bar fight?
1102
Them.
1103
I feel like I've heard about this one.
1104
Katie, too.
1105
What?
1106
Okay, reveal yourself.
1107
I don't have an ear.
1108
I remember that one!
1109
Oh, wait, yeah, guys!
1110
I lost my ear in the bar...
1111
Oh, I've gotten into a few bar fights.
1112
It's one of them I lost my ear.
1113
Wait, what?
1114
What do you mean?
1115
Five years of sobriety, what?
1116
Yay!
1117
OK.
1118
Whose mom got drunk with her entire high school POMS team as a pre -celebratory brunch
1119
and drove drunk to the pre -state playoff game, where they all proceeded to perform intoxicated at halftime?
1120
I mean, I'm going to go with Yolanda.
1121
I feel like he is.
1122
I'm going to go with Yolanda on this one.
1123
God, is that Ashley?
1124
What are you right now?
1125
Oh my god.
1126
Do you guys not have a pass?
1127
She's not reading any of ours.
1128
Why are all these Yolanda?
1129
Was it you?
1130
Yes!
1131
And that's why she don't want you to make mistakes.
1132
There you go.
1133
Okay, whose mom befriended her high school AP history teacher who put all her trust in her to grade the papers
1134
She had success to all the answers
1135
and used them to have the highest grade in the class without ever opening the textbook.
1136
Oh my gosh.
1137
I feel like this is Katie.
1138
I said Pam and then I was like, I don't know.
1139
Reveal yourself.
1140
It wasn't A.
1141
Oh my God.
1142
It wasn't you.
1143
What?
1144
Yolanda.
1145
I thought it was you.
1146
I had to get an A in AP history.
1147
I had to get that A.
1148
And I became an educator.
1149
Don't let your students have the answers to, like, access to the answers.
1150
OK, how about this one?
1151
Whose mom fell asleep in the back of her boyfriend's caddy
1152
and got caught when his dad left for work the next morning?
1153
I feel like that's serving Pam.
1154
I feel like that's serving Kim.
1155
Kim.
1156
Yeah.
1157
That's serving either Katie or Pam.
1158
I don't know.
1159
Okay, reveal yourself.
1160
That'll be me.
1161
Oh!
1162
What is going on?
1163
In the back of the caddy calling him daddy.
1164
Honey.
1165
Who's mom snuck backstage at a Ja Rule concert then went on stage, took the mic from production,
1166
pretended she was a guest host, and introduced Ja Rule.
1167
Okay, I feel like that's
1168
Maybe like giving Yolanda?
1169
Let's give Kim.
1170
Oh.
1171
It was Kim.
1172
Hi, I'm Kim.
1173
How did you end up there?
1174
Before you were born, hunty.
1175
Whose mom threw a wagon through the bathroom window
1176
while her boyfriend was in the bathtub taking a bath and he had a glass bath and only got a couple cuts?
1177
I'm going to go with Kim.
1178
Yeah, let's just, it was me.
1179
It was me.
1180
What is going on?
1181
Okay.
1182
Whose mom went to LA strip club so many times they knew her by her name?
1183
Oh, I've got no clue about that one.
1184
Wait, there's like three that I'm like, maybe even Katie.
1185
It's Pam.
1186
I feel like that's Katie.
1187
It's Pam.
1188
No, it's Katie too.
1189
Reveal yourselves.
1190
It was me.
1191
Wait, what?
1192
I didn't know that.
1193
It was a different time of life.
1194
Wait, what?
1195
Amanda, she was my favorite.
1196
Pooh's mom was talking to two guys on the same basketball team
1197
that didn't like each other
1198
and they pulled up to practice one day matching in the same hoodie she bought both of them.
1199
Oh!
1200
Oh!
1201
Oh, Kimberly!
1202
Kimberly.
1203
That would be me.
1204
Oh my gosh.
1205
Pooh's mom had to stop, drop, and roll while trick -or -treating because her dress caught on fire from a pumpkin.
1206
That's some Katie to his .
1207
Yeah, I kind of feel like this is Katie.
1208
You guys really think a lot of me.
1209
Who was I?
1210
That was me.
1211
Kim!
1212
I was a southern belle, and my dress caught fire on the pumpkin, and I had to roll down and get the fire off and out.
1213
I'm dead.
1214
Who's mom would pull up to watch her daughter in a social media influencer fight?
1215
Oh wait, are you kidding me?
1216
Is this like hypothetically?
1217
I think this is like something from all of us.
1218
All of us.
1219
Yeah, everybody, but Kim did it.
1220
Oh, oh Kim, yeah, sorry.
1221
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
1222
She talked about that.
1223
Ooh, whose mom slept with her best friend's brother?
1224
Mom, I really hope this isn't you.
1225
Best friend's brother.
1226
I feel like it's Pam.
1227
I think it's Pam.
1228
Katie.
1229
Oh my god!
1230
You, little freak!
1231
Was not expecting that.
1232
I was a teenager.
1233
Whose mom ran away from home for a week as a teenager with five other friends?
1234
Katie.
1235
It was you girl.
1236
It was Katie.
1237
Okay, let's go ahead.
1238
We can put our hands in now.
1239
Thank you so much.
1240
We need a part two.
1241
Why don't we say we love our moms?
1242
Yeah.
1243
Oh, okay.
1244
Yeah, that's how it's lovely.
1245
We love our moms.
1246
Okay, ready? On three.
1247
One, two, three.
1248
We love our moms!
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Woordenschat en spreektips bij deze les
Deze video bevat 1247 zinnen en 11001 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 55:46. De spreker praat snel, ongeveer 197 woorden per minuut, dus reken op verbonden en ingeslikte klanken. 86% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden; de rest kun je beter vooraf bekijken.
Belangrijke woorden in deze video
15 woorden uit de video die het leren waard zijn, met uitspraak en betekenis:
| Woord | Uitspraak | Betekenis |
|---|---|---|
| lesson zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈlɛs.ən/ | les |
| reveal werkwoord | /ɹɪˈviːl/ | onthullen, zich ontpoppen |
| tiger zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈtaɪɡə/ | tijger |
| producer zelfstandig naamwoord | /pɹəˈdjuːsə/ | producent, vervaardiger |
| tissue zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈtɪʃ.(j)u/ | weefsel |
| advocate zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈæd.və.kət/ | advocaat, advocate |
| clock zelfstandig naamwoord | /klɑk/ | teller, kilometerteller |
| grammar zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈɡɹæm.ə(ɹ)/ | spraakkunst, grammatica |
| wallet zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈwɑl.ət/ | portemonnee, portefeuille |
| gosh | /ɡɑːʃ/ | gossie |
| exclude werkwoord | /ɪksˈkluːd/ | uitsluiten, buitensluiten |
| sensitive bijvoeglijk naamwoord | /ˈsɛn.sɪt.ɪv/ | gevoelig, prikkelbaar |
| steal werkwoord | /stiːl/ | stelen, ontvreemden |
| honey zelfstandig naamwoord | /ˈhʌni/ | honing |
| boom werkwoord | /bum/ | dreunen, donderen |
Phrasal verbs die je zult horen
| Woord | Uitspraak | Betekenis |
|---|---|---|
| grow up werkwoord | opgroeien | |
| get up werkwoord | opstaan | |
| mess up werkwoord | verrommelen, in de war brengen | |
| bring up werkwoord | opvoeden | |
| come across werkwoord | overkomen | |
| come around werkwoord | /kʌ.məˈɹaʊnd/ | bijkomen |
| come out werkwoord | /ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/ | uitkomen |
| dress up werkwoord | verkleden |
Zinnen om te herhalen
Korte, volledige zinnen uit de video die je in alledaagse gesprekken kunt gebruiken:
- I'm like, what the, did you see this?
- I'm like, how are you more irritated than me?
- I've already said this before, but where's the tissue?
- You know what I'm saying?
- Why don't we say we love our moms?
Grammatica in deze video
De structuren die de spreker het meest gebruikt, met de exacte woorden uit de video:
| Structuur | In de video |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — iets dat eerder begon en nog bezig is | has been banging · have been living · have been doing |
| “Used to” used to + werkwoord — een vroegere gewoonte of toestand die niet meer klopt | used to call · used to rap |
| Present perfect have/has + voltooid deelwoord — iets uit het verleden dat nu nog telt | she's really been · has been · has been involved |
| Lijdende vorm be + voltooid deelwoord — het gaat om wat er gebeurt, niet om wie het doet | has been involved · are based · are clipped |
Uitspraak om op te letten
De spreker gebruikt 419 samentrekkingen en verkorte vormen, zoals I'm, don't, you're. Spreek ze kort uit, zoals je ze hoort.
- De “th”-klanken: bath /bɑːθ/, therapist /ˈθɛɹəpɪst/
- De klanken “sh” en “zh”: tissue /ˈtɪʃ.(j)u/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, exclusion /ɪksˈkluːʒən/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/
- Lange woorden — let op de klemtoon: allegedly /əˈlɛdʒ.ɪd.li/, similarity /ˌsɪm.ɪˈlæɹ.ɪ.ti/, necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/, reputation /ˌɹɛpjʊˈteɪʃən/, anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/
Klanken die Nederlandstaligen lastig vinden:
- Stemhebbende eindmedeklinker — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ niet verscherpen: exclude /ɪksˈkluːd/, sensitive /ˈsɛn.sɪt.ɪv/, reward /ɹɪˈwɔɹd/, awkward /ˈɔk.wɚd/, acknowledge /əkˈnɑ.lɪd͡ʒ/
- /æ/ — opener dan de Nederlandse “e”: advocate /ˈæd.və.kət/, grammar /ˈɡɹæm.ə(ɹ)/, rap /ɹæp/, rapper /ˈɹæpɚ/, frankly /fɹæŋkli/
- /g/ — een harde plofklank, geen Nederlandse “g”: tiger /ˈtaɪɡə/, grammar /ˈɡɹæm.ə(ɹ)/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, argue /ˈɑɹ.ɡju/, finger /ˈfɪŋɡɚ/
Zo oefen je met deze video
- Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
- Begin op 0,75× snelheid, spreek zin voor zin na en ga terug naar normale snelheid zodra het makkelijk gaat.
- Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als lesson, reveal, tiger.
Wat is de Shadowing-techniek?
Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.