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I'm gonna mess up my makeup.

Hold up, hold up, hold up.

I need makeup.

Touch me up, baby, because I'm being a bad the whole episode, period.

Oh!

Hi!

Okay.

So today we have the most requested guests ever for a Grill Talk, Which would be our lovely mothers that really most requested guests.

Yeah, I

Was on live today and they were like bring the moms on bring the moms on and I was like hey

Just wait, you know, they are pretty crucial like we would not be here if it weren't for our moms

Like that's kind of crazy like but no for the dads I guess

Love Ken, love Ken, right?

Come on Ken.

Okay.

So I think we should just start off

Each mom, each introduce themselves.

Yeah.

Okay.

Hi everyone.

Hi.

Everyone knows each other.

Go ahead.

I'm Pam and I'm Sarah's mom.

Hi Pam.

We're like at the AA meeting.

I know literally.

We're like in kindergarten.

Hi Pam.

Yeah.

Trying to make friends.

I'm Kim and I am Brooklyn's mom.

Woo!

Nice hanging.

I'm Katie.

Woo!

Aubrey's mom.

We have a double Katie in the house.

Okay.

I'm Yolanda and I'm Eliana's mom.

Woo!

Hi Yolanda.

Okay y 'all, so this is Katie.

Katie introduced yourself.

I'm Katie Tua.

I'm not Sohee's mom.

Listen, Heather was low -key out of town so she could not make it,

but this is my stand -in mom because she's really been with all of us growing up.

So I felt like she was a good candidate.

She's known all of us forever since the beginning of time.

Yeah.

So together forever.

Yeah, we were talking about how Sophie and I kind of look like twins in the baby photos.

Everyone has baby photos in here.

Like that one?

Like we are the same human.

That was us.

Wait, can we see the photo of Kim with the pool stick?

Like I really want a close up on that one.

The ba -yang has been around.

The bang has been banging.

Yeah.

For a long time.

A long time.

She's always here.

I'm dead.

These are some crazy photos.

I really like the one of Aubrey in the purple

you literally are the exact same like Nath the other day

was talking about how Aubrey just always goes like this she pops out every time

Like that's it.

That's it right

Yeah, Aubrey knew she was from an early age like bow

I don't think Sophie knew who she was like there's like a lot of different eras going on here

And Brooklyn knew she belonged in Hollywood Oh,

yeah Who's in the frame?

Oh, it's from Mean Girls.

Oh, it's a mom from Mean Girls.

Is it you Pam?

It's yeah, a pretty self -explanatory that very fitting for today's yes.

Yeah, super Okay, so we can start off I'd like to know from all the moms how

Girl Talk is kind of a different project than what your child has been involved in previously.

It's like the first project for us to be completely honest.

And I think that it's like, I think it's the coolest thing.

I think all of you guys are super awesome and I'm, I, Aubrey fits in and.

Yes.

Yeah.

I'm just, a lot of people love you guys and I think it's really cool.

Thank you.

Awesome.

Well said.

That was tea.

I remember when Pam and Sarah reached out.

They're on social media, and sometimes they live this certain life.

You think that they live this certain life, but it's just really cool that everybody can be very raw here.

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And just you're very relatable.

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And I think there's such an audience there of men and women who are just really searching to kind of like,

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they see you on social media, but you come across as real people that they can really relate to.

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Like, I have that same, you know, I have that same worry and I have that same deficiency.

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And I'm okay because people that I follow on social media, they're real as well, too.

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So I think it really brings up.

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It really sets things apart from other projects.

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Yeah, true.

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Yeah, I would have to agree.

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Like, other projects, you know, that she's been a part of, like, they're great projects, different things.

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But this one, she actually, like, I feel like the girls are able to show their phone.

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Already!

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My tissue is .

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No, they're able to show their vulnerable side their emotions.

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Honey, okay, she's done.

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Go, Katie.

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Katie, talk.

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Oh, for real.

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No, girl, don't ruin the makeup.

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No, I'm gonna mess up my makeup.

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Hold up, hold up, hold up, honey.

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Makeup!

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Touch me up, baby, because I'm being a bad the whole episode, period.

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Oh, okay.

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No, but really, I just, I like that they're able to express themselves, and they have history.

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Like, they are all different, but they have so many similarities.

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All of us have gone through something in some capacity.

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Definitely.

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And they're able to like still they're like night and day, but they're all like they have their like connections and stories and crazy stories.

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Yeah.

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I love it.

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We're a little kooky, a little kooky.

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Okay, Katie.

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I mean, I think that the world gets to see the girls that we get to see all the time.

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They're real versions of who they are.

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And I think that that's really special.

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Thanks, Mom.

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Like, damn.

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I'm pretty kidding.

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So I think for me, I'm a little more involved in girl talk than maybe everybody else is, all the other moms.

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And I think, you know, all of these girls, maybe with the exception of Aubrey, have been through a lot in their careers.

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And I think for me, having been in some of those situations that were stressful and toxic, it was really important to try and do something

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that had a really positive vibe to it and that girls enjoyed and they were friends and they truly supported each other.

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So for me, I've always wanted to make sure that we had a slightly different,

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you know, energy and chemistry and that we came together to do something really powerful for other girls. That was beautiful, Pam.

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Yes, I'm clacking on everything.

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Are any of the moms, like, nervous?

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Are any of you nervous?

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Yeah, are any of y 'all nervous today?

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No. Should we be?

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I am, because last time I was like with a bunch of moms.

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I have a little bit of PTSD going on this, because my background with like three seasons on a particular show,

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it's like, yeah, it really brings back a lot.

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But these are nice moms.

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Yes.

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I have a bad reputation with the moms too.

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Supposedly, allegedly, I locked two

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Hollywood moms in a car, in their own car, while they were in the front seat.

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But my question is, why couldn't you have just gotten out

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if it was like inside the car

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that's the big question here exactly how do you get locked into a car

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i mean i can't i couldn't hold down the lock like four doors in the car

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but but i locked them in their car

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and they were scared for their life i've been in the car a lot with kim

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and i've never experienced

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that no yeah no

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i haven't either well yola for you obviously like these are

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different moms the moms on there were like a little kooky themselves i mean let's face it, every mom has a little kookiness to her.

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Like, we wouldn't be moms.

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Like, you have to have that.

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And anybody who would say that they don't have that is lying to themselves.

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It's true.

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Y 'all have been through too much to not be a little kooky.

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Yeah, I mean, I think like as moms, like, it's like we want the best for our child.

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And maybe we're going to go at it a different way than somebody else.

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But I mean, let's be real.

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We all have a little bit of that in us.

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Because at the end of the day, you were just advocating for me.

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It was really the main goal.

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Always.

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And it got taken maybe a different way?

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It went far.

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Yeah, I mean that's the thing.

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Like even with Kim, things get, like rumors get started.

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I mean that happens on social media.

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I think that's something that so many people struggle with is like something starts and then it just spreads.

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And then everybody's adding their own narrative to it.

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And then all of a sudden you go from this where I was like, you know, Yolanda was looking at like,

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you know, a bowl of Cheerios to like,

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Yolanda like, you know, stole the car and had three people in the car when she stole the car.

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I mean, it's weird and that's like the scariness like piece of social media is how it can just Get fabricated.

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It can be get fabricated and it can destroy life.

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And that's even kind of happened to you.

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I mean, we all know that's happened to us, but yeah, right.

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Yeah, moms go through the same thing, I guess that are on social media.

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But I feel like it can happen in real life too.

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So like being in like a mom in social media, I'm sure you've definitely like had a kind of different experience and like personally you know,

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being in the spotlight yourself.

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Being like on Dance Moms, were there certain moments where it was like extra heightened

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that seemed like really dramatic and it was not even actually that serious or deep?

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Many moments.

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I mean, you have to understand too that it's like a very, very edited show and it's based off of views.

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And those views are based off of drama.

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So there are a lot of things that are clipped.

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There was a lot of, in our case, there was actually a lot of threats and if we didn't do something or myself,

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If I didn't do something for views, then we would be kicked off the show.

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And of course, that was said to me.

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So, like, producers would say that.

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Absolutely.

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Producers are, like, the biggest instigators.

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Yeah.

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Just, like, the worst.

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And mind games, too, because they would say it you know, either you go and you make fun of that mom's bow and her hair,

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which I knew, like, that's a friend of mine.

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I'm not going to do that because I'm going to get hate.

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And number one, most importantly, like you're not that type of person.

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Exactly.

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That's mean.

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I'm not going to make fun of something that somebody is doing that they like.

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But they were like would say either you do it

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or you're going to be kicked off the show and you can pack your bags and go home tomorrow.

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And they would say it in front of an eight year old who would then who

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that was like what she wanted to do.

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Who would then start crying, saying, Mom, just do it.

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Just do it.

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Yeah.

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Like please just do it literally having to go against your morals.

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That's crazy Something like that.

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Oh, yeah, you know

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So he said deja vu and as a child

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when you don't really know really the mind games that adults

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or know that and They will do anything for them to make a profit.

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Yeah, no exactly

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They don't care about destroying lives in the process.

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Yeah, those reality TV shows are just all about views, anything but views, which makes sense.

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I mean, people have to make a living.

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Right.

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They gotta put food on their table, so.

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And it's not just reality shows.

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I mean, like, Sophie, like with you, that wasn't a reality show.

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I mean, that was real life.

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That was like real life.

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Yeah.

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That was my life type shoes.

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Are you comfortable talking about, like, the big altercation that happened?

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Yeah, I mean, I have nothing, absolutely nothing to hide.

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OK, nice.

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So no, like, I never choked anybody.

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I mean, there were bodyguards there was footage of it and

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that when I'm trying to like you know get out of the situation

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which I was doing I was trying to say the producers

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because producers would keep all the mom's car keys yeah you couldn't take your keys in the morning

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so if you want to leave you can't leave I was like advocating for myself to be in a dance

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that I had experience with because I really felt I was the only girl that had experience with this certain situation.

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I should be in the dance.

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The dance teacher came out said your daughter in a beautiful store you can be the dance.

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Moms flip their That's all it was over?

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It was literally over me getting put in a dance.

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I just wanted to leave and that's what I went to the producers and said give me my keys.

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I am leaving.

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I want to have my child and at

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that time like Ellie's like mom they weren't bullying me which you know off camera.

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I was being excluded.

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She was just being excluded which is a form of bullying.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Exclusion is a form of bullying.

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There's no other way to hide it.

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I mean when I hear like slime parties going on right next door, it's a little obvious.

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It's hurtful.

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And it'd been going on for months.

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So people like the general public didn't know that.

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Right.

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So I don't know any mom like who wouldn't be a

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mama bear who would just say like what you're doing is wrong.

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Yeah.

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It's not okay.

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I guess when like no one else is telling me.

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Exclusion and I'm going to say it out there.

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Exclusion is a form of bullying.

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It's not okay for so anybody out there who is excluding others that is bullying no matter how you look at it.

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It makes you feel unwanted like damn bruh.

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When you hear like

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a mom was screaming in my face obviously

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you're gonna be like oh absolutely not like I get it right you know what

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if people get really you know really heightened

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when they hear things about their kid at the end of the day being mama bear is most important

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you know and you were advocating for me

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so it's all good yeah I think

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that the moral to the story is again like don't exclude others

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and when there's somebody that's like by themselves have some empathy

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and don't exclude Eliana specifically don't mess with me I got Yolanda on my side don't play.

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Okay, I have another question for all the moms.

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I want to know how you guys feel about how your child is perceived on social media.

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Obviously, I'm sure like every mom has some comments about their child.

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So I want to know what everyone's mom is thinking about the rep, you know?

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Kim, you go first.

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Oh my gosh, no. Water work.

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It's, it's, no. Um, the, a lot of times completely opposite of who she is.

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You're gonna cry again?

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I'm not gonna cry.

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No, I just feel like a lot of, um.

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She's about to cry.

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She puts up her voice.

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She pauses when she's talking.

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I try to have a talk.

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I'm just gonna cry.

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No, I just, I feel like she gets a lot of like, hate, like, but, but then there's parts of it, it's like, you know, Brooklyn,

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she's this rapper and then she's a, Oh my God.

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What is happening?

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You were just getting on her.

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Why are you fucking rapping?

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Why are you talking so good about me?

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No, my God.

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No, like, seriously, no. Like, she does so many different things, so depending what version of her you get,

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you will have a different opinion.

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Like, when you see her on Girl Talk, the people who know her from this, it's, oh, my God, Brooklyn, oh, she's a bad .

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She's tough.

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She sticks up for the girls.

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Like, she really is like that.

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Yeah.

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But then when you see...

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Tell them, girl.

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The rapper and the , you know, they see you rapping lyrics and all they can hear is, oh, she's a homewrecker.

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Oh, now she's trying to shake her ass for this boyfriend or that boyfriend.

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It's like, maybe she's doing it for her as well.

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She's a rapper.

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Like, she's an all -around entertainer.

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So, depending what version you see of Brooklyn, depending on what your personal opinion is, and I always tell her,

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like, Brooklyn, you could go out here and feed America or, you know, do community service or go to a dog shelter.

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They're still going to say, did you see how she pet that dog?

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Did you see how she pet that dog?

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Or is she going to go pet the poodle

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because she don't like the pit bull? like they're gonna have something to be mad at her about yeah

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it never fails she anything she does good they still have something bad to say

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but that's why it's like you know i just look at her i know who she is as a person

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and the people who know her for real know who she is as a person

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that's why i was telling her like don't care what nobody says about you like

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just but it's still hard to see because you still see like these comments that like that's your baby

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Absolutely, and you know her. For sure.

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I need tissue.

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Yeah, where's the tissue?

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Do we not have tissue, please?

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Got it!

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I'm sorry, I'm a crybaby, and she always yells at me, but you cried today.

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You cried first.

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But you know what, that's a catharsis, and I don't understand, like, and so often, like, people want us to be so strong,

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and I think it is a natural reaction, like, why, like, it is okay.

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It is, it's very cathartic for you, and I'm sure, like, sometimes you just want to scream to the world,

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like, you don't know my baby. For sure.

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This is like, just get to know her.

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And I was going to say, I think it's like harder.

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I mean, like, I feel like I've noticed this with my mom.

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Like, something won't be even that difficult for me.

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And it's like more difficult for her.

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Like, she takes it more personally than I do.

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Like, I'll be like, oh yeah, it happened, whatever.

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Like, moving on.

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And she'll be like, no, that was disrespectful.

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Like, this is rude.

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That's what I said about it.

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She's always, I'm calling her.

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I'm like, what the, did you see this?

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And it's like, recently they had her on some, somebody's page

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and it's like when a man found his girl's uh girlfriend's girlfriend's body count list

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and it's this list of these names

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and they got her picture next to it

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and it was never even about her they just randomly took her picture

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and put it on there because they figured oh we'll get a lot of people

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and it went like viral

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and all these people are like oh you're a bop

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you're a it wasn't even about her they just used wrongfully used her picture

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which was she was a minor at the time

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and they put her picture up there

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and we messaged them like can you this needs to be taken down like what is this

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but of course it's not like once you can't unsee something

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so even though you can advocate and take this down this is you know defamation

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or care it's out there

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and it went viral it's like damn how does she defend herself against

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that she could say okay this wasn't about me

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but it's out there and people are gonna have their opinion whether they believe it

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or not once they see it they've solidified their opinion you don't unsee it

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and I'll call her and sometimes you know not necessarily

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that situation because she was upset about that

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but it's like she's she'll like I'll call her about something

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that's like mom why are you more mad than me like don't be more mad

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and it's like you don't get it

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because I see the hard work you put it I see the everything you do it's like

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that I think that someday they'll get it really

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when they become a mom that's what yeah tell Eliana like for sure oh my god my mom always

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If I'm not mad at this, then you don't need to be mad at this.

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Yeah, that's what I always say.

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I'm like, how are you more irritated than me?

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It's my situation.

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Because we can understand the long -term repercussions.

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Oh my god.

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All you moms are the same.

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I feel like I'm talking to my mom.

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It's like five of my moms in the room or something. For sure.

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And I think a lot of times you guys have been programmed like...

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you know, like for Brooklyn is like, don't let what somebody says about, and this was before she got into social media.

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Don't let going to school, don't let what somebody says about you change how you feel about yourself.

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Make sure you be aware of your surroundings.

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Make sure you did it out.

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Like you're, you know, we try to prepare you.

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Yeah.

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And then it's like, you can't prepare you for the world.

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You can't protect them.

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You can't protect them from social media.

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That's the one thing I'll say.

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There's no protection from it.

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Yeah.

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And it's like, you know, So you guys just take it a lot of times, it's like we prepare you to be so strong,

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and then it's like, when you're strong, we're like, no, wait a minute,

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this, that, but I think you guys hold so much in that you don't show what you really feel.

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Yeah. So, cut!

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Yeah, cut.

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Sobie, for you, obviously, you did a whole documentary with your mom, and that was very public and a very difficult situation,

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and putting both of you again in this spotlight.

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And I think the thing with social media is it's, like, already difficult to go through something yourself,

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and then it's ten times more difficult to go online and do it.

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And talk about it.

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And with that situation, too, like, oh, my God.

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When it comes to certain things, it's, like, I lived through that.

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I lived in a house where it wasn't safe.

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And, like, you know, my mom had to come on and talk about it and say how, you know, how she felt about the situation and

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that she felt bad that there were certain things

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that she didn't know about were happening because I didn't talk out about it until like probably a year ish later.

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Half the stuff I didn't really know was bad, but like, you know, also I didn't want to be taken away from my friends.

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So like it still hurts me when people are on social media being like, well, the moms need to be held accountable.

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I agree that like accountability needs to be held on everything that happens in life.

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I think, you know what I mean?

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People need to be held accountable.

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But if you did not live that situation and you were not there, I really don't like it.

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Right for you to speak on it

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because how many other moms were there right especially with like i guess um claire reese

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and i we talked about that sort of trauma

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if our parents knew that we were being touched by a grown woman do you think

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that any of those damn parents would let us stay no

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and it's like that situation like hurts me

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because it's like damn bro like it's my fault loki

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because i didn't talk out sooner and i should have told my mom what was happening and i didn't and now

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You know, it's uncomfortable to talk about it for sure.

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And it's like when you're first going through it, it's the last thing you want to be speaking on.

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Like you're dealing with that trauma every single day.

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And then to talk about it is a whole other thing.

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Like it makes it very real.

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And then talking to your mom about it brings in a whole other level of seriousness

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that like half the time I don't ever want to deal with.

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You know what I mean?

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Right.

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And then it's like awkward too because I'm like, all right, like listen.

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Yeah, and emphasis on the like you didn't even know that it was wrong.

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Yeah.

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Because I kind of relate to that.

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Like there were things that happened to me in my earlier life that I, I mean, was thrown with.

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But at the time, I didn't know that that was not a normal thing.

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Yeah.

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Yes, because you're like, okay, but like she doing it to like everybody.

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Because it's a person in trust.

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Right.

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So you think that they would never do anything bad.

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So it's just looked at as a normal thing.

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Yeah.

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Until you talk, maybe talk to someone and like, oh, that's maybe not a normal thing.

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I know.

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I remember when I did talk to somebody about it and they're like, hold up.

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And you're like, wait a damn minute.

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I was like, wait, what?

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Right.

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And but like that stuff does like ruin, you know, your mind process

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and like you don't realize like I always say this you do not realize what um like

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if you're doing bad stuff to somebody

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and you don't really care it's not affecting like

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if you're a bad person it's not affecting your everyday life like I'm sure the lady who did all

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that crappy stuff to me can go about life

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because it doesn't it didn't impact her but like damn bro it impacted me

502

so bad that like I'm right like I have like weirdness

503

when it comes to like TMI but like activities because I'm like, damn, this is like scary for me now.

504

And like, I feel like we're doing this because I didn't have a good experience with it at all.

505

And she'll never know how much it damages me

506

and how hard it is now to build a relationship

507

or try to be in a relationship and explain it to somebody like, yo, it's not your fault.

508

It's a me thing.

509

Let me explain.

510

I had to look at her just now

511

because I have been living the same exact thing for a couple of years now as well.

512

So no, it's hard too and then like your boyfriend thinks it's your issue.

513

Yes, and it's like, no please, like I don't want to be like this, but it's just, it's a thing.

514

So I just like really be cautious about what you're doing and how you're presenting yourself to other people because again, if you're doing sh things,

515

it's not going to affect you at all.

516

But like, you know what I mean?

517

It affects that person for the rest of their life.

518

Thank you.

519

It really can.

520

And you have to understand that, like, as I emphasize this, as a victim, okay, like,

521

it, you, like, you really truly are.

522

And there's nothing, like, the advocation that you have to have for yourself, because you have to put yourself now as number one.

523

Yeah.

524

And, and, like.

525

you were a victim and yes you just like eliana like you you can't stay quiet

526

because in order to get over that

527

and to heal you gotta go to therapy you gotta do all

528

that absolutely and it's and and you're right when you say

529

that it is probably most likely will affect you for the rest of your life

530

and every single relationship

531

that you're in you're gonna have to be with somebody who's going to really understand

532

that all of a sudden like yeah it's just so tough

533

when you look yourself and you're like i'm

534

so horrible like why am i like this like you don't want to

535

and you want to try and you just you try to change

536

and it's just like there are things that just it's it's

537

so hard to change because your mind is just permanently like up like

538

that that's the last thing i'm gonna say on it

539

because i don't want to give anybody the time of day

540

but for you who are like get over it it was five years ago don't

541

you think i try like damn though like oh my god i pin try to get over it

542

but when you're having war flashbacks it's a little rough

543

and they're on a timeline right right from trauma doesn't have like a time it could be 20 30 years

544

that that's still gonna be there yeah

545

and people acting like they lived

546

it like oh get over it like they know what happened

547

talking about it like like they were there it's like oh right oh right I forgot

548

that you would fly on the wall like my bad my bad right it just pisses me off

549

and then when they don't want you to talk about it.

550

It's like, wait, what?

551

She can talk about it all she wants?

552

I should be scared to the world.

553

And by the way, telling people not to talk about it is such blaming of the victim.

554

Yes.

555

Into just this closet of just complete denial.

556

I mean, talking about it is one of the - Like trying to silence a victim.

557

It's a second victimization.

558

Gross.

559

It really honestly is.

560

It sucks.

561

And I actually am taking the steps and advocating.

562

I spoke at the United Nations to try to get laws changed

563

we're like for this industry that we're in and you know because child actors have like a lot of

564

laws and right register like regulations around them but influencers don't

565

and even still child actors need more protection around them too

566

so yeah i am trying to do something because i hate

567

when people are like she just talk about it

568

and don't do nothing um i am i'm doing stuff just behind the scenes

569

so another question i have for the moms is what is one lesson

570

that you would wish your daughter would really listen to?

571

Yeah, I would love to hear this.

572

I think the lesson that I would say is to learn from your mistakes.

573

So when you make the same, when you make the same mistakes.

574

She's a great woman.

575

Grace, bring that look.

576

It's hard as a mom when you see your child, and I mean, we're all mama bears.

577

Like, our job is to protect our kids, right?

578

We can't stop them from touching the stove, but we can let them touch the stove and let them learn for themselves.

579

But when they touch the stove over and over and over again, then it gets a little bit tricky.

580

And I think that's my lesson for my child.

581

And quite frankly, all these girls are like my kids.

582

It's like just, hey, just you've got to make the mistake a second time.

583

Okay, maybe you're a teenager.

584

But the third time, like we got to do something different.

585

Fair enough.

586

I'm not surprised that that was the lesson.

587

No, that's valid.

588

I've heard that one for sure.

589

So, yeah, girl, love it.

590

Will I follow it?

591

Hopefully one day.

592

Yeah.

593

I think you're doing great.

594

I do.

595

I would say like don't lose.

596

Oh my God.

597

I'm not even crying.

598

I can hear it in your face.

599

Don't lose.

600

Don't lose.

601

Don't lose.

602

Don't lose.

603

Pieces of yourself pouring into others that don't reciprocate. That energy.

604

Facts.

605

That's true.

606

Beautifully said.

607

You know what?

608

I feel like I've gotten some of the best advice as a mom from Kim.

609

Like Kim is my ride or die.

610

And I'll call her, text her if I'm having a hard time at 1 in the morning.

611

And I'll say, hey, could you call me tomorrow?

612

I need to talk.

613

And she'll be like, I can talk now.

614

And it's 4 in the morning for her.

615

And she will get up and she will talk to me and talk me through something.

616

And I love you for that.

617

And I feel like

618

Kim has the best advice for the girls.

619

Like if I need a piece of wisdom, I'll go to Kim.

620

And Kim, what's the saying you say about, you know, let your crown fall off or put it back on?

621

Yeah.

622

How is that?

623

Fix your crown and keep going.

624

Sometimes you've got to fix the other one's crown for them.

625

And Kim's not the kind of mom that thinks her daughter's perfect, even though I think you're perfect.

626

Or any of the girls that you're perfect, like she'll acknowledge when, hey, you need to do something a little differently.

627

Your crown isn't on straight.

628

Fix it.

629

Let's get it back on and then continue on. For sure.

630

I love you too, Kim.

631

I just want to say something really quick about Kim.

632

I've already said this before, but where's the tissue?

633

Look, this is too much for me.

634

I was at a really huge mental block in life and...

635

Oh, damn it, I don't want to cry.

636

Oh my God.

637

Oh my God!

638

Kim and Brooklyn and my mom and I, we drove past my abuser's house and she told me to fix my crown and she said,

639

go get your power back.

640

And so we drove by and I was really scared.

641

Like the entire time I had really bad anxiety.

642

I was like, I do not want to be here.

643

I want to like drive away.

644

This is going to be an issue.

645

She was like, no, we're going to get your power back.

646

And I rolled down the windows and I said, Sophie, Sophie Fergie rules, you guys.

647

And it was the best moment of my life because right after

648

that I had such this big up come and I just felt like myself again.

649

It really did like help me because I had such

650

that bad mental block and I didn't know what to do

651

and she was like you're letting these people take your power away

652

so we're gonna drive by and we did

653

and I just said Sophie Fergie rules

654

and it was the most probably alive I've ever felt and the most free I've ever felt.

655

Do it again.

656

Right. That part. That part.

657

Katie, what would be one lesson that you would preach to Aubrey?

658

Tell me, girl.

659

I think it's just like, don't forget who you are.

660

Yeah.

661

You know, because doing stuff like this, and I know a lot of you girls have been doing it longer, it's just like, like you,

662

you guys always have like outside people like in your ear on social media saying this or saying that.

663

But like at the end of the day, like know who you are,

664

stand on that and like just don't don't forget it like don't listen to all the people have to say and

665

You know, like we've been saying we all know who you guys are and that's why we get so emotional in

666

Certain situations and stuff.

667

Yeah, sure because we've known you guys since y 'all didn't even know yourselves

668

It's like a fifth grade on you kind of start to like learn yourself and see who you're gonna be and then

669

We've already known who you guys are since you were like little little.

670

That's crazy.

671

So Yeah, don't forget who you are Yolanda for you.

672

What is like one lesson that you want Eliana to listen to?

673

Sometimes I feel like I want to ask you what you think I would say.

674

I think you would say, you tell me who your friends are and I'll tell you who you are.

675

Aww.

676

Yeah.

677

Okay.

678

Yeah.

679

Yeah.

680

Would you like to elaborate on what that means?

681

I just I feel like it's just you know who like who you have as friends really

682

objectifies who you are as a person you are who you hang out with absolutely

683

and it's and and and this industry as well too

684

and especially like in LA it's like I mean Eliana's circle keeps getting smaller

685

and smaller and smaller and that's okay you know it's honestly that's okay

686

because when you've been burned by

687

so many people like you lose a lot of trust but yes like that I would also say like knowing your worth.

688

Mistakes are a natural part of learning and you know this one.

689

To be in the driver's seat.

690

So like you are the one, you are the one who is going to determine

691

your future and the baby who doesn't cry for the milk doesn't get it.

692

Bow.

693

Okay.

694

Bow.

695

That's good.

696

I think in terms of your circle getting smaller and your mom just said it's okay.

697

It's true.

698

And I think one thing I didn't learn until I was way older

699

and I wish I had known

700

when I was all of your age was it's okay to let go of someone that doesn't make you feel good.

701

So I remember I had this friend for like 10 years and every time I was with her, like, I just, I don't know.

702

I couldn't really put my finger on it, but I'd leave kind of feeling bad about myself.

703

Finally, 10 years later, I'm like, why am I friends with this person?

704

And I ended the friendship and I felt a thousand times better.

705

And I thought, why didn't I end this friendship nine

706

and a half years ago and I felt I felt obligated to always be with her

707

or something or to not hurt her

708

and you know I didn't end it in a way

709

that would hurt her

710

but I think you know Eliana you do your mom's right like you're you're kind of surrounding yourself with people

711

that make you feel good or you need to find a little no absolutely

712

and honestly like I have told her this like I was really

713

I feel like I haven't been happy like this happy in a

714

while even though I may not have the most friends as you know the girl next store

715

and whatnot or anyone else in this industry but as long as I feel complete that's all that matters.

716

Yeah.

717

Yeah.

718

Right.

719

So that's kind of how I feel.

720

It's not about quantity, it's about quality.

721

Exactly.

722

You know I've done big friend groups

723

and multiple times I'm not even referring to like you know I've done it multiple times

724

and it's just never I never feel complete like I feel more empty with more friends than I do with less friends.

725

Yeah.

726

Okay so for the moms again, do y 'all see qualities that you had when you were younger within us?

727

Like is there a lot of similarities from when you guys were younger to us like when we're young?

728

I mean my mom used to call me the most stubborn human being she'd ever met.

729

So, is that, is that what you're trying to say?

730

Like, I'm just saying, throwing shots over here?

731

I definitely see it.

732

Like, Especially being able to twerk good.

733

Because I always say I'm a good twerker.

734

Demonstration!

735

Okay, look, look, we don't, here we go.

736

We're not gonna do this, too early.

737

Wait, we need to get all the moms to go out to like the club together or something.

738

Oh my gosh.

739

But yeah, I definitely see qualities myself in Brooklyn.

740

Yeah from the life of the party to the strength,

741

the attitude, even the rapping.

742

I don't know, you guys probably don't know, but I used to rap as well.

743

Okay, Miss Hills.

744

That's cool.

745

She got it honestly.

746

Me and her dad used to rap.

747

She raps.

748

She's just like a ball of energy.

749

She wants to protect.

750

She likes a lot of those qualities for sure.

751

Yes.

752

I mean, I feel like I am my mother.

753

Like, I feel like I am literally her in every way, shape, and form.

754

A little more sensitive than me, but...

755

You know what?

756

Aubrey is a little sensitive queen.

757

I am a sensitive queen.

758

She ails the emotions.

759

Yeah.

760

When you say anything to her, it's like she doesn't think we're joking.

761

It's like her feelings are hurt.

762

I can't take everything personal.

763

But like it is personal.

764

Like it is about me.

765

So like Katie did Sophie get any of your qualities?

766

All the good ones.

767

Yeah, I think

768

that I since I've known a lot of you guys since you were very very young

769

and I've known your moms for equally as long.

770

I think that

771

There is a piece of your mom in each one of you for sure like

772

that that you guys are growing and blossoming into

773

young adults when I speak to him like oh I'm speaking to Yolanda

774

or I'm speaking to Pam or I'm speaking to Heather

775

and speaking to Kim or Katie so it's very you guys definitely have

776

a lot of your moms

777

and all of you I feel like I have my mom's

778

like she's like slightly awkward around people like in big groups love her to death

779

but she is

780

and I low -key think that's me like I'll like I'll be in a group setting

781

and I'm either attached to one person or by myself and everyone's like, do you have a problem?

782

And like, no, I just, I like this corner.

783

Dude, I love me an awkward queen.

784

I'm not gonna lie.

785

They're like some, they're like my favorite women.

786

I'm like, come here.

787

But you are, you are a lot of fun though.

788

Your mom's a lot of fun.

789

Your mom is a lot of fun.

790

I know how to have a good time.

791

I would say for me, I feel like I got some of like

792

Kim and Brooke's qualities.

793

Like I almost feel like y 'all's daughter in a certain sense too, because.

794

Our daughter.

795

Yes, y 'all's daughter.

796

When I didn't know you guys I was like the most shy

797

I would also say nicer like I was a lot nicer

798

Frankly not that you guys are mean but I'm saying in a sense of like

799

Say it with your chest

800

Like I really get it

801

If someone did something I'm like you guys like it's okay like maybe they're having a bad day

802

Now I'm like oh

803

that is f*ing annoying like I'm pissed off too like she just irritated me you know what I mean

804

Like I think I got a little bit of the attitude

805

Confidence The attitude

806

Yeah, for sure.

807

Like confidence and don't let nobody just so much do anything happening.

808

Yeah, cuz what are you gonna do to them if they come up and push you?

809

Tiger crouch.

810

Tiger crouch.

811

Right in the eye.

812

Tiger crouch.

813

It's you take your nails and you dig it into the corner of their eyes.

814

Rip it.

815

Yes.

816

Should we tell this story?

817

I had this boy and he was like one day he was in our friend group

818

and he was just like all up in my face and I was getting really irritated,

819

whatever and I had had this girl that was like one of my friends

820

and for a while I wouldn't say she was abusing me

821

but we had definitely like tussled a couple times

822

and like I was getting my ass beat every time

823

you know what I mean like I didn't

824

I was not like a fighting chance going on I got my hair dragged across a parking lot one day

825

when I was like 13 probably filming a YouTube video

826

I think she's told this story like yeah like we like we like didn't even get into

827

or anything she was just like upset with me i guess

828

that day and we were like walking out of a wall

829

and she like literally took me by my hair

830

and just pulled me across the parking lot

831

and it was like i wasn't there messing me up

832

so i came home and i was like talking about it and i was like upset or whatever

833

and i had that boy all up in my face and

834

that was irritating me so kim had taught me that like oh

835

when they get up like in your face

836

if you just are standing there you're acting normal you just come around you smack them really hard

837

and put your hand back down and act like nothing happened and and all the time, you're like, what?

838

What?

839

Like, you have to be quick, like, flash, like, instinct.

840

Yeah.

841

And then the other one was like, if it's actually getting, like, really, you know, crazy and physical,

842

you take your two fingers and you dig it into the corner of their eyes

843

and you just pull and go up and down.

844

Because then when they can't see, you can be done it.

845

That's true.

846

Tiger crouch them.

847

Tiger crouch.

848

Tiger crouch.

849

Sarah, have you done it?

850

You know what?

851

I haven't got to done it yet.

852

I'm waiting for the fighting.

853

I haven't got to do it yet.

854

For the perfect time.

855

That English was fired.

856

I haven't gotten to do it yet.

857

What is, fam?

858

Yeah, what's the name?

859

The other thing about my mom is like, my mom doesn't understand lingo.

860

She doesn't understand slang.

861

Yeah, but it's hard though.

862

I understand it.

863

Pam clocks you on posture and words.

864

Like, I'll be saying a sentence and it's...

865

I am an English major.

866

Like, girl, you're not an English teacher.

867

Okay, but girls, when you walk in a room and you are like this, immediately people judge you.

868

100%.

869

Everyone thinks this person does not have self -confidence.

870

When you walk in the room with your shoulders back and your chin up high, like Coco Rocha, told you to do.

871

Coco Rocha.

872

Coco Rocha.

873

Immediately, the energy that you get from people is, oh damn, who's that?

874

I want to know more.

875

I want to get to know them.

876

Yes.

877

Also, grammar, I'm just going to say it.

878

The grammar is, like, people, they hear it and they don't say anything, but they clock it.

879

So I try and make sure that the girls...

880

I clocked it.

881

Yeah.

882

I just didn't...

883

Katie, too, I clocked it.

884

Oh, the bad grammar just now?

885

Yeah.

886

Well, she handled it, that's for sure.

887

She handled it.

888

I do try and correct the grammar a little bit.

889

Yeah, which is great, but when we're making a rap song, you know, and there's like, language, it's like, you go in a perfect form sentence,

890

like, with a period at the end.

891

But it depends on the audience.

892

I'm not gonna lie, that's something that you got from your mom, though, because you low -key, like, I'll say a sentence and you're like,

893

yeah, you didn't say that right.

894

I know, it's so true.

895

Because you girls are going to become like us so much more, whether you want to or not. For sure.

896

And I agree with Pam on the posture.

897

Like, I'm always, that was one of the things we clicked on when we first met.

898

Kim and I clicked on it immediately.

899

I'm like, push your posture.

900

And then I heard her say it and I said, see, Brooklyn?

901

I'm not the only one that's always like, sit up, fix your posture.

902

Why don't sit like that?

903

Sit up.

904

I also feel like a lot of times, like, our girls will not,

905

our women, young women, will not immediately like thank us or acknowledge most of the time what we're saying.

906

But I love it like, you know, with you, Eliana, when I say something and, you know, sometimes you might like roll your eyes,

907

you know, typical, like won't acknowledge it.

908

But then I'll see you say it or I'll hear you say it.

909

And then it's just like, okay, so like I know it's getting through.

910

I get upset when my mom says something that I see happening in front of my face.

911

Like she's been able to clock so many like fake friends

912

so many like situations like I wouldn't even tell her She's like that girl's fake.

913

She's gonna beat you up or that girl's this

914

Beat you up

915

My mom's just been like he's doing that and like I feel it and then I'm like nah you're you're you're capping

916

But like I just like always you know try to ignore it because it's like no let me learn for myself

917

But no my mom's been right about 99 % of situations

918

It's like when they say something you don't want to like really admit it but it's like damn she's right

919

Yeah, and like later on you figure it out and you're like, okay, whatever.

920

But you don't ever like go back and be like, yeah, you're like, right.

921

It's a hard balance because like you want, especially at this age, you want to be able to like give them the independence because that's ultimately,

922

you know, what our goal is to give you independence.

923

But like when we can also predict exactly what's going to happen based off of our experience,

924

like for me, it's really hard because I know that you're going to get hurt.

925

And I'm like, don't do it, don't do it, don't do it or do it this way

926

and I know that like you fight because you're like I have the knowledge

927

and I have the understanding of the intelligence to figure it out

928

but a lot of people will say like you need to like let her fail

929

and that's so hard because why would you want to purposely let your child get hurt

930

when you know it that's what's gonna happen

931

so that's a really hard balance that I don't know

932

if the other moms like like you trying to give

933

that independence but also still being

934

that mama bear it's a hard it's a hard it is hard and it's even harder when we're not just their moms,

935

we're in their careers like.

936

Momagers.

937

You know what I'm saying?

938

Momagers.

939

We're involved.

940

We're involved.

941

Exactly.

942

So it's a lot of roles.

943

Therapists.

944

Therapists.

945

There's days when I'm like, I gotta be mom, you know, and then there's days when I'm like,

946

I gotta be on you manager type of things like, oh, you need to be doing this, or make sure you post social media,

947

and she's just like, uh, uh, but then, you know, it's hard It's hard to get days where you can just be mom.

948

So it's like, you know.

949

From the child's perspective, okay.

950

I feel like we can't grow up if y 'all don't allow us to grow up.

951

Like we have to make the mistake.

952

Y 'all don't want to see us make the mistakes, but we have to do it.

953

Because like, what am I going to do if you're always there for me and like I'm doing everything right.

954

You have me doing everything right.

955

When you're not here and I do something wrong, I'm not gonna know how the to handle it.

956

I have to grow up at some point, you know what I mean?

957

Like you guys have to let us grow up

958

and go through things on our own so that

959

when you're not here or no one is there for us and we're just by ourselves that we can handle it.

960

We know how to handle it.

961

No, I absolutely 100 % respect that.

962

I really, really do.

963

And I totally know where you're coming from.

964

It's just such a hard transition.

965

And it's like, I mean, y 'all, we don't come as a mom with like a handbook.

966

And it's like we make mistakes as well too.

967

And like I've made a lot of freaking mistakes.

968

And I can say, as you've gotten older, and I can say within this past year.

969

Don't start arguing.

970

I'm not arguing with you.

971

I have stepped back on certain things, gave you my advice, and let you make your own decision, which technically have not been good for you.

972

So you are learning from your mistakes.

973

Because you went from an image of one way to me telling you, Brooklyn, forget what she's saying.

974

Do not pull up and fight this girl.

975

This is not going to be good.

976

But if you decide to do it, I'm right here and I went with you.

977

Okay?

978

By the way, that was not me.

979

That was not me in the video fighting on the ground.

980

Just let's be clear, that was not me.

981

But I did advise you not to do it, right or wrong.

982

As your mom and your...

983

Brooklyn, you got a flight to catch.

984

Do not let her pull you into this.

985

Just let it go.

986

But I still supported on the decision you chose to make because I know you were going through a lot

987

that the world don't know that you were going through.

988

Emotions were high.

989

Whatever I was going through don't matter.

990

But let me just tell you, that wasn't the only I also advised you not to mention anything about shrimp

991

because you were going to put it in a diss track.

992

And I said, you don't say that.

993

And you went ahead and went on live and said that.

994

And I said, you don't come back from certain things that you say and not just you, how it affects the other person.

995

So I did.

996

We came back from it.

997

We're back friends now.

998

But I'm just telling you.

999

So when you say we got to let you make those mistakes,

1000

I most certainly let you make some your own decisions that I felt were mistakes.

1001

And I feel you've had to learn from them.

1002

So I applaud you that you're learning from them.

1003

But understand that, like I said, you don't unsee things.

1004

Unfortunately, those are things people see of you that could make their opinion of you permanent.

1005

And that's the hard lesson you've got to learn.

1006

If somebody can do something to you and make you come out of your character,

1007

which in the end only sheds a bad light on you, then they win.

1008

You can take yourself out of the situation.

1009

Then they win.

1010

I think being a parent to young women and young men in this industry is much harder.

1011

We receive a lot of flack online, too.

1012

It's like you are doing this for yourself.

1013

And I would just have to say, we do this sacrifice.

1014

This isn't for me.

1015

You do these sacrifices, and that's so hard because everything that we get,

1016

it's like you must want the limelight no I'm not living vicariously through my daughter.

1017

Unfortunately there's a few bad apples that spoiled a whole bunch

1018

and so when people zone in on the bad they're not looking

1019

and or considering the fact that there's a lot of parents out here

1020

that are doing the right thing and that are there with their children

1021

and that are watching out for them and that are speaking up

1022

when they need to and when they know things are going on it's just things are so centered around the bad.

1023

I think we need to do something fun.

1024

Is there a mom game we can do?

1025

What we're gonna do is I have a bowl full of questions

1026

We're gonna rapid fire the questions and you're gonna lift up a stick that has

1027

Whatever mom on it.

1028

Oh my god did this I'm dead whose mom was arrested

1029

for allegedly stealing a wallet from nitro from American gladiators while he was dancing at a club

1030

All because she thought it would be funny to see if his ID really said nitro.

1031

I got my mind I'm moving.

1032

What are we talking about?

1033

That is the most my mom ever.

1034

Did you do that?

1035

No. It wasn't you.

1036

Who was it?

1037

You can reveal yourself.

1038

Who was it?

1039

Your mom?

1040

Really?

1041

I'm dead.

1042

Really?

1043

And it was really bad because it was my very first year of teaching.

1044

I was 21 years old.

1045

Wow.

1046

And his name was Clark.

1047

But I didn't know that until I got his ID and I was kind of grinding with him.

1048

And I pulled his wallet out just to be able to see if it actually said nitro on it.

1049

So wait a minute, wrong batteries and stuff?

1050

Yeah, and I ran to the bathroom, but the problem was in the bathroom I was like, Oh my God, oh my God,

1051

I have like nitro's wallet!

1052

And other people heard it, so then when I went out, I threw the wallet on the dance floor, and then he took, yeah,

1053

and then he like, they shut down like the whole club to find nitro's because this is in Colorado,

1054

and so it was a big deal to have him there.

1055

And I went running out of the club, and he ID'd me.

1056

Whose mom thumbed for a ride in middle school and accepted a ride from a man in a white van?

1057

Kim.

1058

I feel like that's kind of serving

1059

Pam to me, honestly.

1060

What?

1061

No. She's always talking about that her mom couldn't do this or something. Who knows?

1062

All right.

1063

Who was it?

1064

Who was it?

1065

Reveal themselves.

1066

That was me.

1067

Wait, really?

1068

Yolanda, what's going on?

1069

It was middle school.

1070

Whose mom would you call if you got pregnant?

1071

Kim, I call Kim.

1072

I can.

1073

Call yourself?

1074

I'm pregnant.

1075

I call, yeah.

1076

Miss Kimberly would be my call.

1077

No, I'd probably call Pam, honestly.

1078

I'm calling Pam or my mom.

1079

Oh, yeah, Pam or Kim.

1080

Good answer, good answer.

1081

Whose mom went to summer camp when she was 14, dressed up like she was Marilyn Manson while her summer boyfriend dressed in drag,

1082

and they made out in the woods behind her cabin?

1083

This is the most

1084

Pam st ever.

1085

Oh, my God, I have no idea.

1086

Like, that's like...

1087

I mean, yeah, maybe Katie.

1088

Seriously?

1089

Yeah.

1090

Okay, reveal yourselves.

1091

Yolanda.

1092

I am...

1093

Mom!

1094

I am fucking...

1095

It was a summer camp!

1096

I'm...

1097

God, literally what is always on, bro?

1098

It was a horning arts dance camp.

1099

We were a little bored.

1100

Next question.

1101

Who's mom got in a bar fight?

1102

Them.

1103

I feel like I've heard about this one.

1104

Katie, too.

1105

What?

1106

Okay, reveal yourself.

1107

I don't have an ear.

1108

I remember that one!

1109

Oh, wait, yeah, guys!

1110

I lost my ear in the bar...

1111

Oh, I've gotten into a few bar fights.

1112

It's one of them I lost my ear.

1113

Wait, what?

1114

What do you mean?

1115

Five years of sobriety, what?

1116

Yay!

1117

OK.

1118

Whose mom got drunk with her entire high school POMS team as a pre -celebratory brunch

1119

and drove drunk to the pre -state playoff game, where they all proceeded to perform intoxicated at halftime?

1120

I mean, I'm going to go with Yolanda.

1121

I feel like he is.

1122

I'm going to go with Yolanda on this one.

1123

God, is that Ashley?

1124

What are you right now?

1125

Oh my god.

1126

Do you guys not have a pass?

1127

She's not reading any of ours.

1128

Why are all these Yolanda?

1129

Was it you?

1130

Yes!

1131

And that's why she don't want you to make mistakes.

1132

There you go.

1133

Okay, whose mom befriended her high school AP history teacher who put all her trust in her to grade the papers

1134

She had success to all the answers

1135

and used them to have the highest grade in the class without ever opening the textbook.

1136

Oh my gosh.

1137

I feel like this is Katie.

1138

I said Pam and then I was like, I don't know.

1139

Reveal yourself.

1140

It wasn't A.

1141

Oh my God.

1142

It wasn't you.

1143

What?

1144

Yolanda.

1145

I thought it was you.

1146

I had to get an A in AP history.

1147

I had to get that A.

1148

And I became an educator.

1149

Don't let your students have the answers to, like, access to the answers.

1150

OK, how about this one?

1151

Whose mom fell asleep in the back of her boyfriend's caddy

1152

and got caught when his dad left for work the next morning?

1153

I feel like that's serving Pam.

1154

I feel like that's serving Kim.

1155

Kim.

1156

Yeah.

1157

That's serving either Katie or Pam.

1158

I don't know.

1159

Okay, reveal yourself.

1160

That'll be me.

1161

Oh!

1162

What is going on?

1163

In the back of the caddy calling him daddy.

1164

Honey.

1165

Who's mom snuck backstage at a Ja Rule concert then went on stage, took the mic from production,

1166

pretended she was a guest host, and introduced Ja Rule.

1167

Okay, I feel like that's

1168

Maybe like giving Yolanda?

1169

Let's give Kim.

1170

Oh.

1171

It was Kim.

1172

Hi, I'm Kim.

1173

How did you end up there?

1174

Before you were born, hunty.

1175

Whose mom threw a wagon through the bathroom window

1176

while her boyfriend was in the bathtub taking a bath and he had a glass bath and only got a couple cuts?

1177

I'm going to go with Kim.

1178

Yeah, let's just, it was me.

1179

It was me.

1180

What is going on?

1181

Okay.

1182

Whose mom went to LA strip club so many times they knew her by her name?

1183

Oh, I've got no clue about that one.

1184

Wait, there's like three that I'm like, maybe even Katie.

1185

It's Pam.

1186

I feel like that's Katie.

1187

It's Pam.

1188

No, it's Katie too.

1189

Reveal yourselves.

1190

It was me.

1191

Wait, what?

1192

I didn't know that.

1193

It was a different time of life.

1194

Wait, what?

1195

Amanda, she was my favorite.

1196

Pooh's mom was talking to two guys on the same basketball team

1197

that didn't like each other

1198

and they pulled up to practice one day matching in the same hoodie she bought both of them.

1199

Oh!

1200

Oh!

1201

Oh, Kimberly!

1202

Kimberly.

1203

That would be me.

1204

Oh my gosh.

1205

Pooh's mom had to stop, drop, and roll while trick -or -treating because her dress caught on fire from a pumpkin.

1206

That's some Katie to his .

1207

Yeah, I kind of feel like this is Katie.

1208

You guys really think a lot of me.

1209

Who was I?

1210

That was me.

1211

Kim!

1212

I was a southern belle, and my dress caught fire on the pumpkin, and I had to roll down and get the fire off and out.

1213

I'm dead.

1214

Who's mom would pull up to watch her daughter in a social media influencer fight?

1215

Oh wait, are you kidding me?

1216

Is this like hypothetically?

1217

I think this is like something from all of us.

1218

All of us.

1219

Yeah, everybody, but Kim did it.

1220

Oh, oh Kim, yeah, sorry.

1221

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1222

She talked about that.

1223

Ooh, whose mom slept with her best friend's brother?

1224

Mom, I really hope this isn't you.

1225

Best friend's brother.

1226

I feel like it's Pam.

1227

I think it's Pam.

1228

Katie.

1229

Oh my god!

1230

You, little freak!

1231

Was not expecting that.

1232

I was a teenager.

1233

Whose mom ran away from home for a week as a teenager with five other friends?

1234

Katie.

1235

It was you girl.

1236

It was Katie.

1237

Okay, let's go ahead.

1238

We can put our hands in now.

1239

Thank you so much.

1240

We need a part two.

1241

Why don't we say we love our moms?

1242

Yeah.

1243

Oh, okay.

1244

Yeah, that's how it's lovely.

1245

We love our moms.

1246

Okay, ready? On three.

1247

One, two, three.

1248

We love our moms!

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يحتوي هذا الفيديو على 1247 جملة و11001 كلمة للتدرب على الترديد. مدة الكلام 55:46. يتكلم المتحدث بسرعة، نحو 197 كلمة في الدقيقة، لذا ستسمع كثيرًا من وصل الكلمات واختزال الأصوات. 86% من الكلمات ضمن أكثر 3,000 كلمة شيوعًا في الإنجليزية، ويُستحسن مراجعة الباقي قبل البدء.

أهم المفردات في هذا الفيديو

15 كلمة من الفيديو تستحق التعلّم، مع النطق والمعنى:

الكلمة	النطق	المعنى
lesson اسم	/ˈlɛs.ən/	دَرْس, حِصَّة
reveal فعل	/ɹɪˈviːl/	كَشَفَ
tiger اسم	/ˈtaɪɡə/	نِمْر, بَبْر
producer اسم	/pɹəˈdjuːsə/	مُنْتِج
tissue اسم	/ˈtɪʃ.(j)u/	مَنْدِيل, مِنْدِيل
advocate اسم	/ˈæd.və.kət/	محامي, محامية
bullying اسم	/ˈbʊ.li.ɪŋ/	إِرْهَاب, تَنَمُّر
grammar اسم	/ˈɡɹæm.ə(ɹ)/	عِلْم قَوَاعِد
wallet اسم	/ˈwɑl.ət/	مِحْفَظَة, حَافِظَة
sensitive صفة	/ˈsɛn.sɪt.ɪv/	ذُو إِحْسَاس
steal فعل	/stiːl/	سَرَقَ
honey اسم	/ˈhʌni/	عَسَل, شَهْد
reward اسم	/ɹɪˈwɔɹd/	مُكَافَأَة, ثَوَاب
emotion اسم	/ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/	عَاطِفَة, عَوَاطِف
acknowledge فعل	/əkˈnɑ.lɪd͡ʒ/	شَكَرَ

الأفعال المركبة التي ستسمعها

الكلمة	النطق	المعنى
grow up فعل		كَبُرَ, ْنَشَأ
get up فعل		قَامَ, نَهَضَ
come out فعل	/ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/	خَرَجَ, غَادَرَ
come up فعل		طَلَعَ
drive away فعل		طَرَدَ
go out فعل		خَرَجَ
go up فعل		صَعِدَ, يَصْعَدُ

جمل تستحق التكرار

جمل قصيرة وكاملة من الفيديو يمكنك استخدامها في الحديث اليومي:

I'm like, what the, did you see this?
I'm like, how are you more irritated than me?
I've already said this before, but where's the tissue?
You know what I'm saying?
Why don't we say we love our moms?

القواعد في هذا الفيديو

أكثر التراكيب التي يستخدمها المتحدث، مع العبارات نفسها من الفيديو:

التركيب	في الفيديو
المضارع التام المستمر have/has been + -ing — حدث بدأ سابقًا وما زال مستمرًا	has been banging · have been living · have been doing
“used to” used to + فعل — عادة أو حالة في الماضي لم تعد قائمة	used to call · used to rap
المضارع التام have/has + اسم المفعول — حدث ماضٍ ما زال له أثر الآن	she's really been · has been · has been involved
المبني للمجهول be + اسم المفعول — التركيز على ما يحدث لا على من يفعله	has been involved · are based · are clipped

نطق يحتاج إلى انتباه

يستخدم المتحدث 419 من الصيغ المختصرة، مثل I'm, don't, you're. انطقها بصيغتها القصيرة كما تسمعها.

أصوات “th”: bath /bɑːθ/, therapist /ˈθɛɹəpɪst/
أصوات “sh” و“zh”: tissue /ˈtɪʃ.(j)u/, gosh /ɡɑːʃ/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, exclusion /ɪksˈkluːʒən/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/
الكلمات الطويلة — انتبه لموضع النبر: allegedly /əˈlɛdʒ.ɪd.li/, similarity /ˌsɪm.ɪˈlæɹ.ɪ.ti/, necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/, reputation /ˌɹɛpjʊˈteɪʃən/, anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/

أصوات يجدها متحدثو العربية صعبة:

/p/ — ليس /b/: انطقه مع نفخة هواء: producer /pɹəˈdjuːsə/, posture /ˈpɑst͡ʃɚ/, rap /ɹæp/, rapper /ˈɹæpɚ/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/
/v/ — ليس /f/: مع اهتزاز الأوتار الصوتية: reveal /ɹɪˈviːl/, advocate /ˈæd.və.kət/, sensitive /ˈsɛn.sɪt.ɪv/, yourselves /jəˈsɛlvz/, stove /stoʊv/
تتابع الصوامت — لا تضف حركة بينها: producer /pɹəˈdjuːsə/, clock /klɑk/, grammar /ˈɡɹæm.ə(ɹ)/, exclude /ɪksˈkluːd/, steal /stiːl/

كيف تتدرب بهذا الفيديو

استمع إلى الفيديو كاملًا مرة واحدة دون أن تتكلم، ودوّن الكلمات التي لا تعرفها.
ابدأ بسرعة 0.75×، وردّد جملة جملة، ثم عُد إلى السرعة العادية عندما يصبح الأمر سهلًا.
سجّل صوتك وقارنه بالأصل، مع الانتباه إلى كلمات مثل lesson, reveal, tiger.

ما هي تقنية التظليل الصوتي؟

التظليل الصوتي (Shadowing) تقنية تعلم لغة مدعومة علمياً، طُورت أصلاً لتدريب المترجمين الفوريين المحترفين. الطريقة بسيطة لكنها قوية: تستمع لصوت إنجليزي أصلي وتكرره فوراً بصوت عالٍ — كظل يتبع المتحدث بتأخير 1-2 ثانية. تُظهر الأبحاث تحسناً كبيراً في دقة النطق والتنغيم والإيقاع وربط الأصوات والاستماع والطلاقة.

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