Shadowing Practice: Better Without You (Lyrics) Sherell Hodge UNOFFICIAL RELEASE!! - Learn English Speaking with Video

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I'm better without you Every time you call,
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I pick up on the first ring Drop whatever I'm doing, you don't gotta ask me You say jump,
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I say how high, tell me where to land I done bent myself in half just to fit inside your plans
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I learned all your triggers, watched the words I choose Swallowed how I felt
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so I wouldn't bother you And somehow after everything I do to make it right
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I'm still the problem every time we fight You say you want peace, I want it too
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But peace shouldn't hurt the way it does with you I'm
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tired of proving what you already know How much more of me I gotta lose to make you whole
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Cause I'm better without you I sleep better, breathe better,
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think clearer without you Ain't nobody making me question what I
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know is true Ain't nobody making me feel crazy like you do Oh,
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I'm better without you So why the hell do I still want you?
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Why I still reach for my phone when I know what we'll do?
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You drain the life out of me, then I miss you when you're gone How can somebody feel so wrong and still feel,
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feel like home Everything's a bit in war, who hurt, who the most?
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Who called first, who cared less, who gets to let it go?
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Can't tell you that you hurt me without hurting you somehow By the time we finish arguing,
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I forget what started it now You negate my feelings, then tell me I'm too much Make me beg for basic things
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and call that shit love And I hate who I become
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when I'm fighting to be heard I'm explaining my heart while you're just picking apart my words Oh,
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you say you want peace, but peace don't compete Peace don't leave me crying too exhausted to speak
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And every time I finally get myself back again There you go,
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calling And I let you back in I'm better without you I sleep better, breathe better,
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think clearer without you Ain't nobody making me question what I
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know is true Ain't nobody making me feel crazy like you do Oh,
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I'm better without you So why the hell do I still want you?
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Why I still wish for my phone when I know what we'll do You drain the life out of me,
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then I miss you when you're gone How can somebody feel so wrong?
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It still feel, feel like

Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This speaking lesson is built on the video “Better Without You (Lyrics) Sherell Hodge UNOFFICIAL RELEASE!!”. The speaker keeps coming back to these words: peace, nobody, hurt. This video has 29 sentences and 421 words to shadow. The speech runs for 3:09. The speaker talks at a steady 133 words per minute, a comfortable pace for shadowing. 85% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English; the rest is worth studying before you start. 6 of its 29 sentences are questions, so it is good practice for question intonation and short answers.

Key vocabulary in this video

12 words from the video worth learning, with pronunciation and meaning:

WordPronunciationMeaning
breathe verb/bɹiːð/To draw air into (inhale), and expel air from (exhale), the lungs in order to extract oxygen and excrete waste gases.
drain noun/dɹiːn/A conduit allowing liquid to flow out of an otherwise contained volume; a plughole (UK)
argue verb/ˈɑɹ.ɡju/To show grounds for concluding (that); to indicate, imply.
bother verb/ˈbɑðɚ/To annoy, to disturb, to irritate; to be troublesome to, to make trouble for.
compete verb/kəmˈpiːt/To be in battle or in a rivalry with another for the same thing, position, or reward; to contend.
trigger noun/ˈtɹɪɡɚ/A finger-operated lever used to fire a gun.
bend verb/bɛnd/To cause (something) to change its shape into a curve, by physical force, chemical action, or any other means.
exhaust verb/ɪɡˈzɔst/To draw or let out wholly; to drain completely.
negate verb/nɪˈɡeɪt/To deny the existence, evidence, or truth of; to contradict.
somehow adverb/ˈsʌmhaʊ/In one way or another; in a way not yet known or explained; by some means
jump verb/d͡ʒʌmp/To propel oneself rapidly upward, downward and/or in any horizontal direction such that momentum causes the body to become airborne.
cry verb/kɹaɪ/To shed tears; to weep, especially in anger or sadness.

Phrasal verbs you will hear

WordMeaning
pick apart verbTo review or analyse in great detail
pick up on verbTo notice, observe, learn, or understand, especially something otherwise overlooked.

Grammar in this video

The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:

StructureIn the video
Present continuous am/is/are + -ing — something happening right now or around nowI'm doing · I'm fighting
Future with “will” will + verb — a decision, promise or predictionwe'll do

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 28 contractions and reduced forms, such as I'm, ain't, don't. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

  • The “th” sounds: breathe /bɹiːð/, bother /ˈbɑðɚ/

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Shadow it sentence by sentence at normal speed, repeating each one until your rhythm matches the speaker.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like breathe, drain, argue.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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