Shadowing Practice: The #1 sign they will cheat - Learn English Speaking with Video

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Do you have any signs that you can see
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if someone potentially would be a cheater that you're getting into a relationship with?
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Totally.
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I mean, yes, totally.
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So how can you identify a cheater ahead of time?
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So the big takeaway, and I'll never, the big takeaway was understanding the idea of enmeshment, which I didn't understand.
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Enmeshment is, if abandonment's when the parent doesn't take care of the child needs, enmeshment is when the child takes care of the parent's needs.
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people who are enmeshed
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and they get into relationships they like tend to date people they can help
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or save really like projects
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and then what happens is they date someone they want to help
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and save because that's how they get their worth and value right
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because that's how they got from mom
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or dad right exactly that's my job like
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if i don't have a job then i'm not lovable right
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and then what happens is after a while they can't really help save change
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that person and they start to resent like they did with their parent
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and then push them apart and cheat or act out.
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Like they feel trapped.
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Wow.

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Vocabulary and speaking notes for this lesson

This speaking lesson is built on the video “The sign they will cheat”. This video has 20 sentences and 198 words to shadow. The speech runs for 1:01. The speaker talks fast, about 193 words per minute, so expect linked and reduced sounds. 87% of the words are among the 3,000 most common in English, so the vocabulary is easy to follow.

Key vocabulary in this video

12 words from the video worth learning, with pronunciation and meaning:

WordPronunciationMeaning
potentially adverb/pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/In a manner showing much potential; with the possibility of happening in a given way.
trap noun/tɹæp/A machine or other device designed to catch (and sometimes kill) animals, either by holding them in a container, or by catching hold of part of the body.
cheat verb/ˈt͡ʃiːt/To violate rules in order to gain, or attempt to gain, advantage from a situation.
enmeshment nounThe state of being enmeshed; entanglement.
cheater noun/ˈt͡ʃiːtɚ/Someone who cheats; something that cheats.
takeaway noun/ˈteɪkəweɪ/A restaurant that sells food to be eaten elsewhere.
enmesh verb/ɛnˈmɛʃ/To mesh; to tangle or interweave in such a manner as not to be easily separated, particularly in a mesh- or net-like manner.
lovable adjective/ˈlʌvəbəl/Inspiring or deserving love or affection; adorable or cute.
resent verb/ɹiˈzɛnt/To feel resentment over; to consider as an affront.
parent noun/ˈpɛəɹənt/A person who raises a child (which they have made, adopted, fostered, taken as their own, etc.).
tend verb/ˈtɛnd/To look after (e.g. an ill person.)
identify verb/aɪˈdɛn.(t)ə.faɪ/To establish the identity of someone or something.

Phrasal verbs you will hear

WordPronunciationMeaning
act out verb/ˌækt ˈaʊ̯t/To perform something specific.

Pronunciation to watch

The speaker uses 7 contractions and reduced forms, such as can't, didn't, doesn't. Say them the short way, as you hear them.

  • The “sh” and “zh” sounds: potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/, enmesh /ɛnˈmɛʃ/
  • Long words — get the stress right: potentially /pəˈtɛnʃ(ə)li/, identify /aɪˈdɛn.(t)ə.faɪ/

How to practise with this video

  1. Listen to the whole video once without speaking and note the words you do not know.
  2. Start at 0.75× speed, shadow it sentence by sentence, then go back to normal speed once it feels easy.
  3. Record yourself and compare with the original, paying attention to words like potentially, trap, cheat.

What is the Shadowing Technique?

Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.

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