Shadowing Practice: what to do when you feel like doing nothing (unmotivated, burnt out, unproductive) - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Sometimes you just get tired.
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I think I just want to do nothing and just read.
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I literally want to do nothing.
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Thank you.
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Hello my loves, welcome back to Lavendaire.
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Let's talk about what to do when you feel like doing nothing, when everything feels exhausting and you have no energy or motivation to do anything.
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I know some of you want to hear tips on how to be productive when you're feeling unmotivated, but the truth is, when you're in this low state,
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the best thing you can do is the opposite of being productive.
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You have to slow down, be gentle on yourself, and allow yourself to heal.
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together.
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Just allow yourself to be.
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If you're feeling this way, it's likely you have high expectations for yourself and you're frustrated
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because you haven't been able to show up the way you wanted.
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Or maybe others have high expectations on you, whether it's your parents or the people around you.
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Or maybe you've been pushing yourself too hard, taking too much on your plate and just burning yourself out.
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Other times, we might feel this way
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because we had expectations for what the world should be or what our life should look like, and In short, we lost our sense of control and didn't know how to handle it.
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Honestly, even the pandemic and seeing the ugly parts of society can be really disheartening
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and cause many of us to feel hungover, unmotivated, and exhausted.
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In terms of energy, we've been operating too much in our masculine, focusing on productivity, achievement, external success, and control.
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And now, our body and energy are telling us we need to surrender to our feminine to go slow down,
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heal, and love ourselves.
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Surrender is a key word here.
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We have to release our feeling of control, release our expectations on ourselves, and accept ourselves as we are right now.
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It's both hard and easy at the same time.
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It can be so hard to surrender, but on the other hand, it's so easy because all you have to do is let go.
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There's no action needed, just inaction.
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So what should you do when you feel like doing nothing?
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First of all, let yourself rest.
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Remove any and all pressure to be or do anything.
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Just exist.
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You'll probably feel burnt out or depleted, so just let your body and mind rest and recuperate.
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I think it's so ironic and magical that when you're unwell, all you have to do is do nothing,
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aka rest, because your body is fighting hard for you.
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Your immune system is doing the hard work, and your body literally already knows what to do.
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You don't have to do anything.
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Just sit back and allow your body to balance and heal itself.
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Secondly, give yourself love.
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Be kind and gentle with yourself, no matter what.
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Practice unconditional love, meaning give yourself love regardless of anything.
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Love is accepting, so accept yourself exactly as you are right now.
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Don't force anything and practice self -forgiveness if you've been hard on yourself.
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Wherever you are right now is okay.
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Also, try shifting your focus.
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Don't underestimate the power of changing your perspective.
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We often feel low because we've been focusing on the wrong or difficult things.
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I learned this while doing the Liberation Korea challenge.
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When you focus on what is hard, for example, the shoulder pain and shaking arms in that challenge, you feel like giving up because it's such a struggle.
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But when you focus on what is easy, like breathing, it makes it easier to get through the tough time.
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is hard, try focusing on what is easy.
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Instead of focusing on what's going wrong in your life, focus on what is still going right.
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Do this as a journaling exercise.
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Actively choose where you turn your attention to, because it matters and it makes a huge difference in how we feel.
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If you feel like you need more help, talk to someone in your life that you trust.
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We each need a support system in our lives, and our mental health suffers if we don't have one.
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Another option is to consider online therapy.
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Personally, I've used BetterHelp for the past couple years, so thank you BetterHelp for sponsoring this video.
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and is available for clients worldwide.
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Once you sign up, BetterHelp will assess your needs and match you with your own licensed professional therapist.
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On the app, you can message your counselor or schedule a weekly video or phone session.
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It's really easy since everything is done online and on your own time.
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What's great is that it's a minimal commitment.
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You can switch therapists if you don't like yours, and you can cancel anytime if you don't like it.
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It's more affordable than traditional offline counseling, and financial aid is also available.
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try BetterHelp.
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Visit betterhelp .com /ilean
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and join over 1 million people taking charge of their mental health with the help of an experienced professional.
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Just go to betterhelp .com /ilean.
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The next piece of advice I have for you when you're feeling low is: Stop consuming content that makes you feel worse.
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This includes any content that makes you feel bad about yourself, content that makes you compare yourself to others, and even positive or inspirational content,
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because sometimes it reminds you of what you're unable to do right now.
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Sometimes it can be hard to have a positive mindset about something, and that's okay.
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Allow yourself to feel whatever it is you're feeling right now.
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Amen.
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If you want an instant refresh, you can also go into nature.
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Being in nature heals you on a spiritual level.
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You're reminded of the stillness and ease in nature, and that you're just a small part of this bigger world.
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When you're out in nature, you feel small.
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Here you can revive your sense of peace.
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It doesn't even have to be a major trip.
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Just take a walk outside, go to a nearby park, maybe go to the beach or the mountains, or even your local nursery.
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I mean, even going to your local home improvement store where they have
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that outdoor nursery can make you feel a little better, because I feel like the energy of the plants and flowers can be so healing.
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Next, understand that life happens in cycles.
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Just like the cycle of the day, our moon, or our four seasons, life also happens in cycles.
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"Change is the only constant." This means that life never stays the same and is always going through cycles or seasons.
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Have you ever heard of the saying, "This too shall pass"?
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Whatever you're going through, know that it will pass.
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You might be going through a tough time right now, but it won't stay like this forever.
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Your situation and your feelings will change.
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Just stay patient and persevere through this season.
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Learn to embrace the cycles and seasons of your life, both the highs and the lows because without the lows, there wouldn't be highs and vice versa.
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It's the depth and the variety that allow you to feel the difference.
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If you only knew day but never knew night, you would take the sun for granted.
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You wouldn't appreciate it as much.
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It's because you know night that you can appreciate the day and vice versa.
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Same with our emotions.
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It's because you've experienced the lows that you can deeply appreciate the highs.
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Once you've given yourself rest and you're ready to take some action, start with baby steps.
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Again, release any expectations or pressure you might have for yourself.
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Break down your tasks into the smallest, easiest chunks you can.
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If you want to start exercising to nurture your health and boost your mood, instead of setting a goal like: I want to work out for an hour every day,
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set tiny goals like: put on my workout clothes today, put on my shoes, open a workout app, or step outside to walk for five minutes.
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Do as much as you feel you can and congratulate yourself for those small actions.
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We tend to want to be ambitious and set these big goals for ourselves, but when we don't we feel like we've failed and then we feel even worse about ourselves.
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The better approach is to start small and give yourself grace.
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A small effort is still an effort.
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By doing this, you take the pressure off and you're building your stamina to be able to do more.
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Lastly and importantly, find gratitude in every little thing.
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Get specific about all the small things in life you're grateful for.
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Open up your journal or a word doc
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and start writing a list of sentences that begin with "I'm grateful" or "I'm blessed".
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I actually did this exercise last night and ended up writing over 900 words in a list that went on and on.
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It's funny how once you start focusing on gratitude, more and more things pop up.
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music festivals and concerts pre -pandemic.
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I'm blessed to have a big family with a lot of cousins.
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I'm blessed to have a great relationship with my brother.
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I'm blessed to have healed from emotional baggage in my past.
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I'm blessed to be alive and healthy during a pandemic.
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I hope these ideas were helpful to you.
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It's a gentle reminder that if you feel like doing nothing, it's okay to do nothing.
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It's okay to be gentle with yourself.
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It's okay to give yourself space to breathe and to heal.
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We all need it from time to time.
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It's part of our cycle.
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Like I said, there's both masculine and feminine energies.
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Our world operates mostly on the masculine, and we're expected to do and achieve and add value to the world.
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that wants us to go inward, to allow, to be.
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I'm learning more and more the beauty of simply existing, of least effort, not trying to achieve or do more,
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but to do less and allow life to flow more naturally.
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I think people worry that if you don't do anything, your life won't move forward.
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But that's not true.
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Just as your body knows how to heal itself when you do nothing, your life will be guided forward and change will happen, because change is always happening,
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even if you're not trying to.
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And if you don't know what it's telling you, get quiet.
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Maybe it's telling you, "You need a break before I tell you what to do next." Thank you so much for watching.
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Please subscribe and leave a comment below with your thoughts.
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Are you able to surrender and flow with ease?
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Can you release those expectations you have on yourself?
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Sending you so much love for your journey.
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See you next time.
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Bye!
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Why practice speaking with this video?
This video addresses the feeling of being unmotivated and the struggle to find energy, a common experience for many. By practicing speaking with this content, you can enhance your English speaking practice while connecting with a shared human experience. Discussing feelings of burnout and the importance of self-care can deepen your conversational skills and allow you to express empathy.
Listening to the speaker’s gentle tone and reflective nature provides a calming backdrop for shadow speak exercises. You can imitate the cadence and inflection of the speaker, making your English sound more natural and fluent. Engaging with these themes can also improve your vocabulary related to emotional well-being, making you a more versatile speaker.
Grammar & Expressions in Context
The speaker in the video uses several grammatical structures and expressions that are invaluable for English learners. Here are a few key examples:
- Conditional phrases: “If you’re feeling this way, it’s likely...” This structure helps you articulate possibilities and understand hypothetical situations.
- Imperative sentences: “Just exist.” This command form is useful in giving advice or instructions, making your speech more authoritative.
- Present continuous tense: “We’ve been operating too much...” This tense indicates ongoing actions and is vital for discussing current feelings or states.
- Expressing acceptance: “Accept yourself exactly as you are right now.” This phrase encourages using supportive language, which is important in everyday interactions.
Common Pronunciation Traps
When practicing your speaking skills through this video, be mindful of certain pronunciation challenges:
- “Exhausting” – This word can be tricky, as the 'x' sound can often get swallowed, so remember to articulate clearly.
- “Motivated” – Pay attention to where the stress falls; it's critical for clarity. The second syllable should be stressed: mo-TI-vated.
- “Unconditional” – This can be pronounced quickly, which could lead to miscommunication. Practice breaking it down: un-con-DITION-al.
By focusing on these aspects, you can enhance your learn English with YouTube experience and improve your overall communication skills. Engaging with this heartfelt discussion not only allows you to practice the language but also builds your emotional vocabulary, enriching your ability to connect with others.
Grammar in this video
The structures the speaker uses most, with the exact words from the video:
| Structure | In the video |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — an action that started earlier and is still going on | you've been pushing · we've been operating · we've been focusing |
| Present perfect have/has + past participle — a past action that still matters now | haven't been · you've been · I've used |
| Passive voice be + past participle — the focus is on what happens, not who does it | is let · will be guided |
What is the Shadowing Technique?
Shadowing is a science-backed language learning technique originally developed for professional interpreter training and popularized by polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. The method is simple but powerful: you listen to native English audio and immediately repeat it out loud — like a shadow following the speaker with just a 1–2 second delay. Unlike passive listening or grammar drills, shadowing forces your brain and mouth muscles to simultaneously process and reproduce real speech patterns. Research shows it significantly improves pronunciation accuracy, intonation, rhythm, connected speech, listening comprehension, and speaking fluency — making it one of the most effective methods for IELTS Speaking preparation and real-world English communication.