Prática de Shadowing: relationships are hard. - Aprenda a falar inglês com vídeo
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So I just broke up with my girlfriend.
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And I'm not going to...
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I'm not asking for pity or support or anything.
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I'm fine.
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But I wanted to talk about this while it was still fresh because
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I think that's when the best time to talk about things is when it's fresh.
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Thank you.
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Relationships are hard.
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You know?
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People, uh...
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People break up and stay together for all kinds of different reasons.
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And in my particular case, I thought it was time to break up. And...
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The good thing is we're on good terms, you know?
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We're still...
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Love each other. But...
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One of us is not there as much as...
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They used to be.
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I'm going to try and spare the details, but...
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It just wasn't the same, you know? And, uh...
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it wasn't the same in a way that you couldn't fix it.
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This wasn't a...
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you know We can sit and talk about this and it'll heal.
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It was a...
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this can't go on any longer because we're going to hate each other type of deal.
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And You know, we both have to accept that.
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You both have to accept this fact for reasons Reasons that life won't tell you. But...
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I wanted to take this opportunity to talk about relationships.
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Relationships are hard, people.
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You need to work at them.
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You need to constantly work and build them.
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Something that didn't happen with mine.
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And I know that now and I've learned from this issue. But, uh...
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You also have to not be afraid to end relationships that aren't working out.
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when there really isn't much that can be done about them when there really isn't much that can be done about it.
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And that is what I believe my case was.
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And I don't know if I already said this, but I'm going to call my girlfriend Velvet so that we can refer to her.
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And Velvet, if you're seeing this, I'm sorry if you've had to somehow manage to get to your recommended page.
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I'm sorry if you have to...
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hear about this second hand But...
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I'm gonna try and have as minimal amount of cuts as possible.
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Thank you.
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I want to keep this as raw and original as possible.
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I think that in general that's a goal with this channel, but in this specific episode, I want it to be real.
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I want it to be so real that...
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You can feel the...
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I guess the pain Because pain is good.
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People don't realize it, but you need pain in your life.
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You need pain to learn and grow from.
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You need pain so that certain things won't hurt later in life or it's just useful for many reasons
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And it's hard for me to cast my thoughts right now.
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Honestly, I'm surprised I'm not tearing up.
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Yeah, if you're in a relationship and you feel that, you know, If you feel that you're unhappy, or if you feel that something's wrong,
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you need to tell your partner.
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And if it's something that If it's something that's so detrimentally wrong that You can't even really tell your partner.
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Something that you really can't tell them because it's just going to hurt their feelings beyond...
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Any other recognition?
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Thank you.
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That's one of the times when you might have to lie a little bit. And...
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Luckily, that's not what happened in my case.
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I didn't have to lie about what happened.
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Or why we broke up.
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which I think is why we're still amicable.
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And still able to talk to each other.
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Is that a witch's hut?
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That is a witch's hut.
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Let's go over there.
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I've been in a few relationships, right?
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This was the only one that was real. And, um...
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I've learned from all of them.
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And what I've learned from the other two is that You shouldn't really...
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let your guard down too quickly.
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Because people don't show who they are until a year after the relationship really is going on.
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Because it really takes that level of time. And, um...
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Effort to find out these things, right?
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You can't just learn who a person is in a day or a month or even three months.
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Because people in the first three months of a relationship usually are still in what's called the honeymoon phase.
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And the so -called honeymoon phase...
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Isn't...
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Thank you.
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It's not a real thing.
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It's not a phase that really can tell.
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It's when people put up their best show.
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Like when girls still wear makeup to bed type of thing.
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When guys are always clean in their houses before...
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You know, they start farting all over the place and leaving the dirty shit.
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all over the floor.
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Yeah.
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So it takes that first three month period.
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And then there's another three months, right?
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And those other three months are where...
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Do I want this cauldron?
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Can I even break this cauldron with...
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I can.
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Okay.
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And then the next three months are a phase of, oh, this person kind of annoys me.
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This person is like...
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Um, This person is giving me multiple icks, as certain girls say.
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And that's fine too.
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You have to go through that phase to see if the things
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that you once thought were cute about this person were now
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just going to annoy the shit out of you for the rest of your life.
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if you're that sort of partner seeker.
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looking for a life partner and then you go into the next three months which Or when you start to realize like,
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okay, I can handle this or this is worth staying with this person for or You know, this is worth X, Y, and Z.
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And I still really love this person for this reason.
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Thank you.
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And you go on, and the list goes on, right?
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And, you know, that's nine months.
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That's nine months at least.
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And of course it's not the same for everybody.
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It can be nine months.
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It can be two years.
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It could be Hell, it could be less.
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The reality is it's going to take time to find out
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what you need about a person before you can make the decision to either stay with them And...
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See if they're the person for you.
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I'm going to die to a spider now because I'm...
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Okay.
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Thank you.
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So when you reach that final point of like the final decision, that you're gonna make of staying with this person or...
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doing to be with this person.
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That's when the relationship really starts.
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Thank you that's when you really start to have the difficult conversations.
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It's when you start to have the, The hard stuff go on. And...
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That's the part where love hurts.
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You know, in my specific case, It had been hurting for a while. Because...
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Thank you.
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For lack of a better...
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way up god I'm gonna die I'm so boned I'm so boned I'm so bound, I'm so bound, I'm so bound.
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Um, Oh no, I'm boned.
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I'm f*ed.
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I'm f*ed.
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I'm so f*ed.
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Wait.
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Oh, you're kidding.
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Oh, you're kidding.
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No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no I guess I'm dead.
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And it reached a point in my relationship, right, where One of us was hurting the other.
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And it was hurting in a way that
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You can't really do anything about it As the party that's hurting the other party.
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The only thing you can do is let them down...
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Slowly or let them down easily rather not slowly And it's hard to be that person.
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It's hard to be the person who's going to be the bad guy in the end.
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We're not necessarily the bad guy, just, you know.
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the one to end it all.
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People don't really ever tell you about that.
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People always talk about it's hard to get broken up with and you'll heal and it'll be okay.
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But no one tells you what it's like to be on the other side of that coin.
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Thank you.
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And the other side of that coin is just as bad.
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if not worse, for people that really care about their partners.
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And that was the truth for me.
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I still love Velvet.
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She's a great person.
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Amazing woman.
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Thank you. But.
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It wasn't going to work out between us, and I could see it.
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And at the time, or right now, she can't see that.
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She doesn't understand it.
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But I have faith that she will.
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I hope that you will.
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And I wish you the best of luck.
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And I was sure...
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I just wish her happiness.
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And that's how you should be, right?
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If you break up with someone, right?
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Unless they were a total piece of garbage to you.
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Unless they like...
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abused you emotionally or something like that.
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If you're going to let them down, try to be kind.
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Try to be nice to them.
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Because at the end of the day, this was a person that you spent a good, significant part of your time with for a certain amount of years or months or whatever.
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And this person may or may not have loved you, you know?
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If you're going to rip their heart out, do it kindly.
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as kind as you can be about something like that.
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And if you're on the other side of that coin, you know, if you're the one being broken up with, as I have been a couple of times, Just know that there's going to be something else.
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There's going to be someone else who can either fix your heart Or break it all over again.
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But I think that's the beauty of love and relationships.
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They're unpredictable.
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And they can be fun and painful and good and bad in so many ways.
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And Velvet, if you did happen to find this video and you're still watching, wherever you are at whatever point in your life...
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I, uh...
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I hope you're doing okay. And, uh...
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I hope you're happy.
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Anyway, guys.
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I'm gonna try and find my items, but I won't spare you through the boredom.
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So, uh, goodnight.
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And good luck.
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Por que praticar a fala com este vídeo?
Praticar a conversação em inglês por meio deste vídeo pode ser extremamente benéfico, pois aborda um tema muito comum nas relações interpessoais: os desafios dos relacionamentos. Ao ouvir a experiência do falante, os aprendizes têm a oportunidade de se conectar emocionalmente com o conteúdo, o que pode facilitar a absorção da linguagem. Além disso, o vídeo permite que os alunos pratiquem a técnica conhecida como shadow speak ou shadowing em inglês, onde eles replicam a fala do falante, ajudando na fluência e na expressão verbal. Essa prática é ideal para melhorar a pronúncia em inglês, pois os estudantes podem repetir as frases imediatamente após a audição, ajustando suas entonações e ritmos.
Gramática & Expressões em Contexto
O falante utiliza várias estruturas gramaticais que são úteis para conversas diárias. Aqui estão algumas expressões-chave que merecem destaque:
- “I thought it was time to break up.” - Esta frase é um exemplo de como expressar uma decisão pessoal importante. A estrutura “I thought it was time” é útil para indicar a reflexão antes de tomar uma decisão.
- “We both have to accept this fact.” - Aqui, a expressão “have to” é importante para transmitir necessidade ou obrigação, uma construção comum em inglês.
- “It wasn’t the same.” - Essa expressão simples é eficaz para descrever mudanças nas relações, proporcionando uma maneira de discutir sentimentos complexos de forma direta.
Essas estruturas ajudarão os alunos a se expressar em situações semelhantes e a gerenciar conversas sobre temas difíceis, como relacionamentos. Ao praticar essas frases no contexto de prática de conversação em inglês, os alunos podem se familiarizar com o vocabulário e as expressões necessárias em situações pessoais.
Armadilhas Comuns de Pronúncia
Identificar palavras e expressões desafiadoras pode ajudar os alunos a evitar erros comuns. No vídeo, algumas palavras e frases podem ser complicadas devido ao sotaque e à entonação:
- “Relationships” - Esta palavra pode ser difícil de pronunciar devido à combinação de sílabas. A prática em shadowspeak pode ajudar a melhorar a pronúncia.
- “Accept” - A pronúncia de “c” pode ser pronunciada de maneiras diferentes dependendo do sotaque. Escutar e repetir pode ajudar a fixar a forma correta.
A prática de repetição após ouvir o falante é crucial para refinar a pronúncia em inglês. Ao focar em palavras que causam confusão, os alunos podem cada vez mais se sentir confiantes ao se comunicar em inglês.
Gramática neste vídeo
As estruturas que o falante mais usa, com as palavras exatas do vídeo:
| Estrutura | No vídeo |
|---|---|
| Present perfect have/has + particípio passado — uma ação passada que ainda importa agora | I've learned · you've had · I've been |
| Voz passiva be + particípio passado — o foco está no que acontece, não em quem faz | can be done · is let · being broken |
O que é a Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing é uma técnica de aprendizado de idiomas com base científica, originalmente desenvolvida para o treinamento de intérpretes profissionais. O método é simples, mas poderoso: você ouve áudio em inglês nativo e repete imediatamente em voz alta — como uma sombra seguindo o falante com 1-2 segundos de atraso. Pesquisas mostram melhora significativa na precisão da pronúncia, entonação, ritmo, sons conectados, compreensão auditiva e fluência na fala.