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gave him all of my money he took it he blocked me and disappeared
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and what did i do in today's video i will be sharing maybe a little bit too much
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but i think it's very important and necessary because i know
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that there are so many like me out there who struggle with similar things
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or have struggled with similar things and are trying to heal from it
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or maybe you don't even realize how much it's impacting you still
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and that's why i'm making this video i will talk about the struggles
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that you go through in a family setting as an immigrant as a muslim as a woman
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and i just hope and pray that this will be of benefit to you inshallah
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and maybe a little bit entertaining because why not there's some deep shit
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that i'm gonna talk about and i'm not gonna mention any names
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because i don't want to hurt like certain people's reputation i don't believe
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that that's the right thing I don't believe that's the right way to do it
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but I'm still gonna speak about my experiences
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because I want to share my journey and when I eventually become successful
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and I make it in life
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which I know I will inshallah I want to show the progress
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and everything that it took because growing up I never had a role model
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or like someone to compare myself with
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so my expectation of what it's going to take to reach that success that I'm craving was completely unrealistic,
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which led to a lot of stress on my part.
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We all think we know what stress is.
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There's the goal that you have matched with the resources available to you.
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The bigger that gap, the more stress you will feel and for me that gap was
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and still is so therefore my levels of stress are according
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accordingly yeah and i had to learn how to navigate
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and survive all of it and this will not fit in just one video
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which is why you should subscribe to my channel
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because i'm gonna share it all i'm gonna lay it all out i truly truly believe
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that there will be people who will benefit from this
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and inshallah you will see how much it actually takes to get successful whether
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that is an education or any kind of field in your career
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and you're in life okay so that when you're in the shit
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and you are going through it you have someone to compare yourself
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and be like yeah but that's what it takes
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because i did not have a blueprint
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or any sort of reference to to know
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that this is what it takes i just saw people who had it easy were born rich
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or inherited so much money that they really don't have to worry ever in their life
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and i also had to learn that these people are not my enemies there are
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so many rich people who really have good intentions
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and are good people even though they might not understand the level of struggle and pain
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that you go through there are a lot of them who will respect
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it though see there's a lot to unpack about me it's just a lot i just started out with this
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so bear with me if the editing or the lighting
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or the quality is a bit
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but i'm trying my best here okay let's get right into
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it can we get excited about palettes again like we did
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in 2016 please these colors are screaming for me to use them okay
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so let's get into this
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and talk about it i'm scared i grew up in a household
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that is lebanese and we're like a big clan family now i don't know
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if you know anything about like ashire
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and their way of living their way of thinking especially in the west the clash of culture
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and tradition with islam with modern western life
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and you as a an offspring who was born
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and raised in the west who's in the midst of all of this identity mess
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so growing up i really struggled with the way
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that women okay are treated
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it has always been a source of trauma a source of like extreme struggle mentally emotionally all of
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that now it's very very unusual for someone in the family
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for a woman in a family to first of all not be married at my age like i'm 27 alhamdulillah
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i'm not married even though i hear almost every single day from my parents from other people how it's wrong
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that i'm not married and that I'm not thinking about marriage.
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I'm running with both feet in my hands.
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I'm running away from men.
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I didn't want to live.
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the way my mother had to live
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if i got married i wanted to get married out of love stupid
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i had a cousin okay i'm not gonna say any names
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because the majority of my family okay also my extended family
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they all watch what i do i was 16 i was in high school
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so like um i was getting ready to do my abitur
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which is like your the highest school degree
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that you can get before you go to university
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and my cousin who i grew up with okay decided let
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me give you a couple facts about this person can you tell
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that i'm literally nervous to talk about this
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and i don't want to share these things about myself just to like entertain
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you my whole niya is i know there are girls out there like me who think getting married
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or pleasing their parents while sacrificing themselves is honorable
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and i'm here to tell you there's nothing right
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and honorable about you sacrificing yourself for anyone allah almighty your creator doesn't even want you to sacrifice yourself
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so why would you do that for men why would you do
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that for your father or your mother
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or whoever it is don't do it go
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and fight for your own sake your daughters eventually will thank you i looked at my mother
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and how she lived with so much sadness
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and grief all the way from childhood this cousin was someone who i loved him
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more than anyone in my family i don't know why like we grew up together my parents came to germany
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and there weren't really a lot of people that we
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that they know in terms of family
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so this group of people were the only family members
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that we were super close with and
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when you feel alienated in the west growing up you get
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so attached to family members who go through the same things as you
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so we would all sit down me and my cousins
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and my sister and we would talk about school
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and the things we go through and this person okay he's he was like the oldest son and that family
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and i always looked up to him i almost sort of idolized him i truly loved him too much so
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when I turned 16 he started doing weird things
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he started to like implement certain ideas in my head like oh
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so it's always when I talk to you it's
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so different you're not like the other girls even even your sister you're
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so different it amazes me how goal oriented
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you are I feel like you are like me all of these things
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that people know that men will tell you to make you feel special
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and boy did it work on my neglected ass and it gradually got to a point of him speaking about marriage
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i was 16 he was over 20 years old okay i think you get it
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but i was so stupid so young so lonely so neglected
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so depressed that the thought of having someone who's like you who went through the things
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that you went through who understands what it's like to struggle with your parents
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and he knows he understands and it was always that work ethic that made me bond with him so much
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and that's when things got really bad
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so this dude okay never got a degree never did really anything with his life
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but he kept telling me about his dreams of having a logistics company
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and like working in transportation
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but he was just a driver it was just his ego completely on display yeah
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so he always like put his ego at full display explaining
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to me how he wanted to do all of these things
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and i've always been a person to believe in others i've always been someone who motivates others
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and you know i want to see everyone around me succeed
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but he used
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that as a trap to take my money oh surprise once
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he successfully made me fall in love with him his narcissistic ass
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he started to like complain in front of me about how much he's struggling
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and oh my god the financial struggles and you know how our parents they have nothing they come from nothing
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And I'm trying to build this so that we can get married.
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So that we can have a future together.
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But I need your help.
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I need your help.
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Those words were the beginning of a life lesson.
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This whole story took place over a span of, wait, yeah, three years.
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Narcissistic men will creep up on you like a bliss.
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They start slow
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and will build momentum bit by bit
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they will give you some love some benefits some support stab
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you a little some support stab you a little more some support make
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you question yourself give you some support make
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you less confident totally like digging into your being your identity your whole sense of self
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they will take it apart bit by bit until there's nothing left that's how
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that kind of abuse goes okay and i still am in therapy
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because of that whole thing not
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because he physically abused me i feel like people always think physical abuse is the worst thing
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that could happen to you this level of emotional abuse
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and mental abuse at that age
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when i had no one to talk to about it like
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when i talked to my dad about it i got beat up
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so i really was alone in this shit the level of trauma that can cause you is
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is pretty serious anyway so he kept on telling me these things
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and mind you i started working at the age of 16
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by cleaning stairs okay my first job ever was cleaning the staircase for like 60 euros
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or something a month and i don't feel ashamed to say
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that i was cleaning i think it's normal to have these kind of jobs first of all
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when you're a teenager
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and second of all to this day in my cv i will always mention these kind of jobs
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that i did when i first started working
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because i take pride in working hard labor jobs especially
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because i always saw my father like he's he's a gardener
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and he will take jobs that are so physically exhausting and
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so physically demanding just to be able to provide for us
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that makes me proud
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it has a huge impact on my work ethic to see
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my father on a tree carrying huge loads on his back seeing
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that as a daughter does something to you it makes me respect people who work in these professions
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and it made me understand the importance of hard work eventually he started to tell me
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that he set up an account at the bank
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which is like a sparbuch where he would like save money okay these were his exact words
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i still remember it to this day he would put money in the bank account
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so that he could have the face okay
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which like in arabic means to like have the guts
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or the courage to stand in front of my father
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and ask for my hand and he kept saying that
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that was why he was in the shit financially
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because he opened up that that sparbuch
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which is like the the savings account he kept saying
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that he opened that savings account and
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that he had to put a certain amount of money in
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and he like committed to that and that's why he was struggling
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so much financially and it's a complete manipulative strategy to make me feel guilty
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because oh my god poor him he's doing that
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because he wants to get married to me
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and he made me feel guilty for the fact
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that he wants to marry me and
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that he had to like have a certain amount of money to like propose to me and
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that was enough to convince me to put everything i've saved everything
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i've worked my butt off to make into a pouch okay
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and just give it to him
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so he wanted me to go to my bank account to see how much money
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i had on it i literally took a photo of my balance
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and then he was like so you have i think it was like 1200
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or 1500 euros or something he was like so
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if you give me all of this in like two weeks i will give you 2000 back is
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that okay and i was like of course it's okay i love you
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so much i will support you through anything habibi
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don't do what i did and sacrifice yourself for love ever don't
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but yeah so i gave him all of my money he took it he blocked me
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and disappeared and what did i do of course i was devastated i felt stupid
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but a part of me knew
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that i was not at fault this person was lurking
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and creeped up on me when I was 16 is
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when he started to get into my life tell me all of these things
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and he took the time to really get to know everything about me everything
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that I am vulnerable towards every weakness every detail
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that he could use to manipulate me that's what makes this kind of abuse
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so bad because they will make you feel like they know you
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and they do so i have a super strong bond with my mother
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and i have a very strong bond
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or i i used to have a very strong bond with his mother
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so a little fun fact already when i was a child okay his parents
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and i still love them to death
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but it's just the kind of creepiness in our family
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when i was a child they would already say chenty boy i just know
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when my family sees this there's gonna be some drama
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but you know what this happened to me it was sweeped under the rug
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and now i have to deal with the consequences of my
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mental health being completely destroyed by what my family has done to me
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and even though i love them i will not stop talking about it
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because i want for future girls
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that are going to be in this family i want them to know
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that there is someone in this family who broke all the
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rules who didn't follow the the playbook okay who broke free
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and she made it so that when you are being forced
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or coerced or manipulated to get married to your cousin you have someone
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and i'm serious about it if you're watching this
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and you are in a situation like that dm me
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and i will help you i will try to at least listen to you
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and give you advice on how you can without sacrificing your
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relationship with your family without sacrificing your dean how you can get out of that situation
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and how you can make a life for yourself without getting married in my professional career
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i've also helped a lot of girls to like navigate these kind of situations
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and family dynamics because i know what it's like even
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when i was a little girl they were already like dreaming about me
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and him eventually getting married when we get older and hearing
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that already when you're so little from people you love
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so much it does something to you
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because you grow up thinking oh yeah okay
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so i'm gonna marry this person eventually and i know
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that happens in so many families and stop doing
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that stop telling kids okay oh yeah this this one
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and this one they're gonna get married when they get older don't install
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that in them just don't do it anyway
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so my reaction to him taking my money and disappearing was first of all i did my research
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And boy, did I dig up some things.
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I had no idea what this individual was actually doing with all of that money.
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And I will not say it because I don't want to like hurt the family's reputation,
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but I saw enough that it scared me and it made me want to get my money back.
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I was so mad.
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I was so angry i was like you kept telling me
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that this is
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because you want to get married to me you kept making me think this is out of love
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and we're in some sort of partnership and
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so what did i do i told my parents now mind
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you there were several occasions where i did tell my parents especially my father about this whole thing
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and he just punished me for talking to my cousin in
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that way and
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when i say punish i mean punish okay i love my dad i love my dad
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but it's these like ways of dealing with your kids where it's
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when you have no idea that made it so much worse
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because then it was like who do i turn to you know already at the age of 16
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i was like who do i turn to about my problems at school? who do i turn to about my flippin struggles?
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i couldn't turn to my parents because they were overwhelmed with financial problems,
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health problems, so much what that was going on in their lives that they couldn't,
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that as a kid i just couldn't load my petty fucking bullshit problems onto them i just couldn't do that to them.
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And I still struggle with that to this day,
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that idea of I don't want to burden anyone and I just take care of my problems on my own.
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And I will like isolate myself and not talk to anyone.
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And that's also wrong.
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Don't turn to your parents.
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And if you don't see the support that you need, give up.
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There are so many people out there who will be able to help you.
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Just go out and find them, go out and seek them.
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And yes, talk to Allah as well
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but I will never be the type of person to tell you it's enough to just talk to Allah.
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No, you need to talk to people, you need to find people who will help you in the times of struggle that you're going through.
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Go out and seek them.
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I wish I would have had someone to tell me these things when I was going through it.
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So I told my parents and this time I was like, okay, Baba, I know I did something wrong i know you're going to be angry
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but i need your help this man took all of my money
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and he disappeared guess what the reaction was they felt bad for me
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because i told them everything and they were just shocked
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because this person my cousin they saw him like their son
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because he was like we were all raised together basically
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so it was an an incredible disappointment an incredible shock to them
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when i told them also some details about the things he would tell me
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and how he would speak to me when i was 16
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and he would be here like he would come
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and visit us just to get to talk to me
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and was all under the guise of well i'm like her brother
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and my parents would allow me and him to like go out with the car
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and like drive around because they were thinking this person is
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so much older than nadine nadine is so small like they never thought
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that i don't know why i think they thought i was ugly
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but yeah they probably just didn't think that a dude
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or anyone would be interested in me romantically well boy i told my parents
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and they didn't have the heart to tell his mother directly
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like this is what your son has been doing all these years
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and we want our daughter's money back basically because i had proof to like show that this really happened
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And this boy, like, he underestimated me.
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Like, yes, when I'm in love, I'm stupid as fuck.
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Because I will do anything for the person that I love.
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But I'm not stupid.
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I kept every receipt, every proof, so that when shit hits the fan, I'm prepared.
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Just because I love you doesn't mean I completely throw my head out the window even though you might think
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that these actions that I took were stupid which they were
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but that's the thing they were only stupid because he took advantage of them if it would have actually been
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something truthful it could have been the beginning of a very beautiful love story
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and we wouldn't be sitting here with me doing my eyeshadow
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i'm telling you this story
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so i showed them everything they didn't have the heart to tell my uh
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they didn't have the heart to tell his mother
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so who did they tell everything to he had an older sister
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and they told her everything
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and she was beyond shocked
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you need to understand like my cousin had a certain reputation
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in the family of like being a good person being a muslim blah blah blah
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so hearing these things about him and
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that he did them to me was mind -blowing to everyone who ever like heard about this story
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and to this day almost no one knows about it like my other cousins
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they have no idea even his siblings okay who have nothing to do with this
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but the things they've probably heard are either from him
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or they don't know anything about it and i think that's better
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because it happened a long time ago and I got my justice because his sister told his mother.
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She was like, okay, but I cannot handle this situation without telling my mother.
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I have to tell her.
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So she did.
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And fast forward, his mom
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and his ass were in the living room in front of my dad apologizing i will never forget her face
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because she really doesn't deserve to have a son like
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that she deserves to have someone so much better instead of having this fucking disappointment but anyways
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and she he actually didn't apologize like he every time
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he wanted to say something she would shut him up every time
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that he wanted to say something she would be like
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I love her and I will always love her
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and mind you this was her oldest son this one is special to her
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and I know how much she loves him
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so for her to stand firm on justice make him put
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that money on the table in front of me I will never ever forget
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that and it just reminded me
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that the women specifically the women in my family are built different
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and i just hope and pray that eventually we as women understand
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that we don't have to please these men we don't have to please anyone other than allah
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and we definitely don't have to sacrifice
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and shouldn't sacrifice ourselves for these men i wish and i hope
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and i pray and i work towards this becoming a reality
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so that the women in my family step up to what is their right oh
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that was just one story
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that was another story with another cousin oh i know i know
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and i mean i can just quickly tell you he just
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cheated on me like i was engaged for two weeks
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and then he went and cheated on me
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and i took off the ring and that was it
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and since then that happened when i was 21 or 22
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but since then i have never ever considered marriage ever again
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and i know what you're gonna say well these were like people from your family
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and there's other men out there yeah
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but in general arab dudes are kind of the same they will lure you in with all these promises
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and once you are in a house with them and i've heard
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that from so many women okay once they have successfully trapped you once they have successfully trapped you,
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you will see their true face come out and you will be shocked
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that a person is able to hide who they really are, how they really think, how they really act, what they really do.
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You will be shocked because they are such good manipulators, such good liars, such good actors.
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Oh my god.
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So yeah, I'm just living my life, studying, working.
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Inshallah, I will have everything that I want
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because I will be able to give it and provide it myself and
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if I get married
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I will get married to an amazing man who I find amazing without me being in his life okay
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so what do I mean by that what I mean by
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that is men or like the man
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that I have known I did my experience once
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you come into the picture like their object of interest
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they will change everything about them to fit what they think you want
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so they will put on this whole act to impress you
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and to get you so
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when i say i will only marry a man who impresses me
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and who i find you know great as a person as an individual without me being in the picture it's
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because i'm scared of like being manipulated again
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and usually the way they are before meeting you before trying to get married to you is their truth
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and that's the kind of face that you will be living with if you get married to them so
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So right now for me, I'm on my healing journey, going to therapy, taking my medication,
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trying to stabilize emotionally and mentally, trying to heal physically because I struggle with chronic pain.
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I'm busy with all of that and also I've seen my mother
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and my sister and my aunts and my grandma
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and my other grandma and so many women in the family literally sacrificing everything because they got married.
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I want to make it very clear that you can love your family
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and recognize the pattern of abuse and struggle
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and you're one of the only ones who's trying to break
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free from it now i have a lot of cousins alhamdulillah who are like extremely supportive of me
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and they know okay they just get it
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but they are either still stuck in
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that chokehold of trying to please the family
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or they completely turned their backs to the to the family
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and i want to find a middle way where i don't have to completely turn my back towards my family
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and where i don't sacrifice myself for like the idea of pleasing them
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and now i have this chronic pain in my muscles and my joints
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And my therapist and like my doctors, they tell me that's the manifestation of all the emotional pain
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and trauma that put it in a back drawer somewhere in your subconscious.
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And that's the way that your body expresses emotional pain now.
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It's through your physical pain.
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It's through physical pain.
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I wake up every day in pain.
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I go to sleep in pain and I go through my day in pain.
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People's reactions are pretty interesting when I say that.
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because it's either complete disbelief because i don't look like i'm in pain
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and i have that from my mother she has the same condition
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and she's also the kind of person who
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when you meet her you will have no idea
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that she's going through all of that pain i know
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when you're in such a environment or like in a war zone
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and everything around you is just insane
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and extreme the last thing on your mind is to breathe
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the last thing on your mind is to sit down not
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grab your phone not grab something to do something the last thought in your mind
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i know okay i've also been in a war zone the
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last thing on your mind is to just be in the moment
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you want to do everything your power to escape the moment
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which is why you're so hyper vigilant
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which is why you're going crazy by the way i just bought
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this new huda beauty cherry peach easy bake duo like i usually only buy the cherry blossom
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but i want to see if this like two sides thing you know does anything
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and you can like either mix the two together oops
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i made a fucking mess anyways you can either mix the two powders together
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or like you put this in the middle
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and then you have either either the peach or the cherry blossom
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and i think i'm just gonna mix the two
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but i love the way
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that huda beauty's product smell take a breath through your nose hold it
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and exhale that's one thing
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that i do my lungs are filled with huda beauty powder now another thing
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that i will do is and that's what i will tell my parents also
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when they are like hyper vigilant notice your shoulders relax them
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notice your stomach relax it i'm serious when i say you prolong your life
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and i know
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when you're in the midst of all the bad things
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you really don't want to prolong your life i know how
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that feels like these are proven methods to significantly improve your mood and your mental health.
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I've really benefited from these things.
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We don't take that seriously but once we are all sick
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and have cancer or auto immune diseases that's when we take it seriously.
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I'm gonna finish this makeup look and then I'll be right back.
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I hope you guys enjoyed today...
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I can't forget speak!
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I hope you guys enjoyed my story time.
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I hope that you benefited somehow some way by me sharing this i really hope
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that you feel less alone if you're struggling with anything similar to what i'm struggling with
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or that i have struggled with if you're on your healing journey
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and you're trying to get better it's not easy i know
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but inshallah hopefully it will be worth it
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and i will share my journey through the through the thick
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and them through the ugly and the pretty through the good
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and the bad so that you can see inshallah
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when i make it the whole process to get there
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and what it took i won't sugarcoat anything i will tell you the truth of my experience
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and i just hope and pray
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that this will be of benefit to others as well especially my sisters
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if you're struggling know that you are not alone the only thing
458
that made me go through it without you know was allah
459
that's the only reason why i was able to justify staying on this train
460
so if you feel anything like that know that you're not alone
461
See you on the next one.
462
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คำศัพท์และข้อสังเกตด้านการพูดสำหรับบทเรียนนี้

บทเรียนฝึกพูดนี้ใช้วิดีโอ “Don't marry your cousin - STORYTIME” เป็นสื่อ วิดีโอนี้มี 462 ประโยค และ 5360 คำ สำหรับฝึกพูดตาม ช่วงที่มีเสียงพูดยาว 34:42 ผู้พูดพูดด้วยความเร็วเป็นธรรมชาติ ประมาณ 154 คำต่อนาที ใกล้เคียงกับบทสนทนาในชีวิตประจำวัน 87% ของคำอยู่ใน 3,000 คำที่ใช้บ่อยที่สุดในภาษาอังกฤษ คำศัพท์จึงตามได้ง่าย

คำศัพท์สำคัญในวิดีโอนี้

คำที่ควรเรียนรู้ 15 คำจากวิดีโอ พร้อมคำอ่านและความหมาย:

คำศัพท์คำอ่านความหมาย
cousin คำนาม/ˈkʌz(ə)n/ลูกพี่ลูกน้อง
sacrifice คำนาม/ˈsæk.ɹɪ.faɪs/ยัญ, เมธ
pray คำกริยา/pɹeɪ/สวด, อธิษฐาน
disappear คำกริยา/dɪsəˈpɪɹ/หาย, สูญ
reputation คำนาม/ˌɹɛpjʊˈteɪʃən/ชื่อเสียง
marry คำกริยา/ˈmæɹi/แต่งงาน, สมรส
trap คำนาม/tɹæp/กับ, กับดัก
cherry คำนาม/ˈt͡ʃɛɹi/เชอร์รี่
trauma คำนาม/ˈtɹɔm.ə/การบาดเจ็บ
punish คำกริยา/ˈpʌnɪʃ/ลงโทษ, ทำโทษ
compare คำกริยา/kəmˈpɛɚ/เปรียบเทียบ
ugly คำคุณศัพท์/ˈʌɡli/น่าเกลียด
relax คำกริยา/ɹɪˈlæks/ผ่อนคลาย
apologize คำกริยา/əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/ขอโทษ
grandma คำนาม/ˈɡɹænmɑː/ย่า, ยาย

กริยาวลีที่คุณจะได้ยิน

คำศัพท์คำอ่านความหมาย
go out คำกริยาออก, ออกไป
sit down คำกริยานั่ง
beat up คำกริยาทุบตี, ทำร้าย
give up คำกริยายอมแพ้
take off คำกริยาถอด
wake up คำกริยา/ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ตื่น, ตื่นนอน

ประโยคที่ควรฝึกพูดซ้ำ

ประโยคสั้น ๆ ที่สมบูรณ์จากวิดีโอ ซึ่งนำไปใช้ในบทสนทนาประจำวันได้:

  • I'm running with both feet in my hands.
  • I'm running away from men.
  • I didn't want to live.
  • Don't turn to your parents.
  • It's through your physical pain.

ไวยากรณ์ในวิดีโอนี้

โครงสร้างที่ผู้พูดใช้บ่อยที่สุด พร้อมคำพูดจริงจากวิดีโอ:

โครงสร้างในวิดีโอ
Present perfect have/has + กริยาช่อง 3 — เหตุการณ์ในอดีตที่ยังเกี่ยวข้องกับปัจจุบันhave struggled · have matched · has always been
Passive voice be + กริยาช่อง 3 — เน้นสิ่งที่เกิดขึ้น ไม่ใช่ผู้กระทำwere born · was born · are treated
Relative clauses who / which + อนุประโยค — ข้อมูลเพิ่มเติมเกี่ยวกับคนหรือสิ่งของpeople who will · people who had · people who really
กริยา + -ing enjoy, keep, stop… + -ing — กริยาที่ตามด้วยรูป -ingstarted doing · kept telling · started working

การออกเสียงที่ควรระวัง

ผู้พูดใช้รูปย่อและรูปลดเสียง 129 ครั้ง เช่น I'm, don't, you're ให้พูดแบบสั้นตามที่ได้ยิน

  • เสียง “th”: ethic /ˈɛθ.ɪk/, thick /θɪk/, breathe /bɹiːð/, therapist /ˈθɛɹəpɪst/
  • เสียง “sh” และ “zh”: shock /ʃɔk/, reputation /ˌɹɛpjʊˈteɪʃən/, punish /ˈpʌnɪʃ/, establishment /ɪˈstæb.lɪʃ.mənt/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/
  • คำยาว — ลงเสียงหนักให้ถูกพยางค์: reputation /ˌɹɛpjʊˈteɪʃən/, successfully /səkˈsɛs.fə.li/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/, establishment /ɪˈstæb.lɪʃ.mənt/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/

เสียงที่คนไทยมักออกเสียงยาก:

  • เสียงท้ายคำ — ออกเสียงให้ครบ ไม่เปลี่ยนเป็นตัวสะกดแบบไทย: sacrifice /ˈsæk.ɹɪ.faɪs/, heal /ˈhiːl/, punish /ˈpʌnɪʃ/, relax /ɹɪˈlæks/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/
  • /v/ — ไม่ใช่ /w/ ให้ฟันบนแตะริมฝีปากล่าง: navigate /ˈnæv.ɪ.ɡeɪt/, whoever /huˈɛvɚ/, convince /kənˈvɪns/, vulnerable /ˈvʌln(ə)ɹəbl̩/, supportive /səˈpɔɹtɪv/
  • /z/ — เสียงก้อง ไม่ใช่ /s/: cousin /ˈkʌz(ə)n/, physically /ˈfɪz.ɪ.kli/, apologize /əˈpɑləˌd͡ʒaɪz/, anyways /ˈɛn.iˌweɪz/, stairs /ˈstɛɹz/

วิธีฝึกกับวิดีโอนี้

  1. ฟังวิดีโอให้จบหนึ่งรอบโดยยังไม่ต้องพูด แล้วจดคำที่ยังไม่รู้จัก
  2. เริ่มที่ความเร็ว 0.75× พูดตามทีละประโยค แล้วกลับไปใช้ความเร็วปกติเมื่อเริ่มคล่อง
  3. อัดเสียงตัวเองแล้วเทียบกับต้นฉบับ โดยสังเกตคำอย่าง cousin, sacrifice, pray เป็นพิเศษ

เทคนิค Shadowing คืออะไร?

Shadowing เป็นเทคนิคการเรียนรู้ภาษาที่ได้รับการรับรองทางวิทยาศาสตร์ พัฒนาขึ้นสำหรับการฝึกนักแปลมืออาชีพ วิธีการนี้เรียบง่ายแต่ทรงพลัง: คุณฟังเสียงภาษาอังกฤษจากเจ้าของภาษาและพูดตามทันที — เหมือนเงาที่ตามผู้พูดด้วยช่วงเวลาห่าง 1-2 วินาที การวิจัยแสดงว่าเทคนิคนี้ปรับปรุงความแม่นยำในการออกเสียง ทำนองเสียง จังหวะ การเชื่อมเสียง การฟังเข้าใจ และความคล่องแคล่วในการพูดได้อย่างมีนัยสำคัญ

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