ฝึกพูดภาษาอังกฤษด้วยเทคนิค Shadowing จากวิดีโอ: I'm a 6/10. Here's How I Text Girls...
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After years of watching me and my friends completely fail, I started to wonder, what is the best scientific way to text girls?
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At first, I stumbled upon those guru techniques, but I knew they wouldn't work for the average guy like you and me.
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Therefore, I had to expand my research in social psychology and biology.
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Now, when it comes to texting girls, the first step is to find the right opener, and that, my friends, depends a lot on the scenario you are in.
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So I'm gonna talk about the most common ones.
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First, she's a random girl from Instagram.
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Now, very importantly, never just slide in her DMs with a simple and boring high.
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There's a thing called the principle of psychological reactance which says
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that we absolutely hate when people try too hard to enter our lives.
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So wait until she posts a story, then say something about her outfit, the background, or things like that.
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It's smoother and it's also good for creating an early conversation flow.
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Second, she's your classmate.
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Here it's pretty easy.
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Just ask for the homework or some notes.
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Then make a comment about the teacher.
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This will give you two common subjects to talk about.
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And third, she's part of your friend group.
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This is an opener I actually used to do.
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Before you guys go out, ask her how she's dressing.
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Now she might hit you with a big why.
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When this happens, tell her that you asked because you don't want to be underdressed or overdressed for the meetup.
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After she gives you the answer, compliment her outfit, especially if she sends you a picture, say something like, I love that t -shirt, or I love the colors.
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If there are any other situations you'd like me to talk about, let me know in the comments.
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After this part, we have to identify how interested she really is.
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How can you do that?
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Well, after the opener, continue the conversation, but keep it basic and see what her messages look like.
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If she leaves you on scene, her interest is basically 0%.
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If she takes longer periods to respond and her messages are pretty cold, her interest is between 0 -25%.
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In both of these cases, you should give up.
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The effort is not worth it.
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But, if she responds pretty fast, and you two have a great conversation ratio like this, and not this, her interest is between 25 -50%.
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As average dudes, that's pretty much the best starting point we can get.
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Yet, in order to really get somewhere with her, you need to level up to around 75 to 100%. But how?
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Well, the next step is to have a great base conversation.
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What does this mean?
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You have to create a sense of familiarity between you two without becoming boring.
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And there are a few strategies that I found just for this.
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Number 1.
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Don't use closed answers.
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If she asks you something like, how are you?
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Never, and I mean never, say something like, I'm fine.
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Because that's how you kill a conversation.
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Be specific in your answers.
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Say something like, I watched this movie about parrots, and give more details.
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That will give her more room to continue the conversation.
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But you may be asking, what if she gives you a closed answer like, that's nice?
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Well, then you say something related to the thing you're doing.
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For example, say something like, I love parrots, what's your favorite animal?
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Number 2.
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Create dopamine hooks.
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Basically, you have to leave the conversation on a cliffhanger so her brain can release dopamine while thinking about you.
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You can do that pretty easily by saying something like, I got a crazy story about my parrot, but I gotta tell you that one in person.
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Number three, activate her mirror neurons.
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You see, texting can become pretty emotionless, especially because you two don't see each other's faces.
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But you can add more emotion by using captions, multiple letters to certain words, and even emojis.
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But when it comes to emojis, be careful and don't overuse them.
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And number 4.
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Maintain the typing bubble effect.
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Turns out we often get a bigger dopamine hit when we see
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that someone is typing rather than when we actually get their message.
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So instead of taking more time to respond, take more time to actually press send.
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Now if you do all those things right, her interest should actually level up to 50 -75%, which is pretty good.
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At this point, you will no longer be the one who always starts the conversation.
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She'll respond even faster and will take more interest in your life.
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But this score will also put you in a very dangerous zone.
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Because here, you can make the same mistake as one of history's most powerful man, Napoleon Bonaparte.
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At his peak around the year 1810, Napoleon Bonaparte controlled most of Europe.
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Yet he was horrible at texting, aka sending letters.
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Don't believe me?
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Well, take a look at what his letters used to look like.
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It's crazy.
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Even though he had the world at his feet, he managed to lose the most important person in his life, his own wife.
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Moral of the story, don't turn needy.
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Because bro, we know how lonely life gets sometimes, and how important that one girl can become in such a short time.
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But if you cross the line, you'll lose her.
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On the other hand, you can't keep things the same way.
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If you do that, she'll just put you in the friend zone.
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So you have to move to the next part and put her in a high emotional state.
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Now, here's the deal.
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You can only do this during the night.
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why well studies have shown that people are more open to emotional conversations in the evening
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because their cortisol the stress hormone naturally drops plus to have
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a deeply emotional conversation you two need to have an extended period of time without distractions
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which is less likely to happen during the day now
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if you made it here i guarantee she will eventually open up about something
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that frustrates her scares her or negative things like
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that very important you don't want to play it safe otherwise
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you'll lose all the progress you've made let me give you an example
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when i was still in the talking stage with my ex
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one night she started to tell me how rough the last couple of days have been for her
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so my answer was damn
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if i were there i would hug you right now her response was something like this
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and my friend when you get this answer you know
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that you've won her interest is now between 75 to 100
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but even though her interest in you has reached the maximum potential, you will not get anywhere if you don't ask for a date.
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I know, easier said than done, especially because when you do that, there's no coming back.
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So you have to do it the right way. But how?
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By using something called the deal closing sequence.
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This technique is made up of three parts, qualifying, confirming, and closing.
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So instead of randomly asking her out midway through the conversation, bring up some things that you want to do in the near future, see which one of these activities seems fun to her,
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and then ask her to join you.
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And with that, you just got your first date with her.
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A big step for your relationship, yet with that, there comes a lot of other problems that you will have to deal with.
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Fortunately for you, I know the video that will solve them all.
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คำศัพท์และข้อสังเกตด้านการพูดสำหรับบทเรียนนี้
วิดีโอนี้มี 104 ประโยค และ 1280 คำ สำหรับฝึกพูดตาม ช่วงที่มีเสียงพูดยาว 6:43 ผู้พูดพูดเร็ว ประมาณ 190 คำต่อนาที จึงมีการเชื่อมเสียงและลดเสียงค่อนข้างมาก 89% ของคำอยู่ใน 3,000 คำที่ใช้บ่อยที่สุดในภาษาอังกฤษ คำศัพท์จึงตามได้ง่าย
คำศัพท์สำคัญในวิดีโอนี้
คำที่พบไม่บ่อย 15 คำจากวิดีโอ พร้อมคำอ่านและความหมาย:
- technique /tɛkˈniːk/ (คำนาม) — เทคนิค, กลเม็ด. The practical aspects of a given art, occupation etc.; formal requirements.
- bore /boɹ/ (คำกริยา) — เจาะ, ไช. To inspire boredom in somebody.
- mirror /ˈmiɹɚ/ (คำนาม) — กระจก, กระจกเงา. A smooth surface, usually made of glass with reflective material painted on the underside, that reflects light so as to give an image of what is in front of it.
- guarantee /ˌɡæɹ.ənˈtiː/ (คำนาม) — การรับประกัน. Anything that assures a certain outcome.
- solve /sɒlv/ (คำกริยา) — แก้, แก้ไข. To find an answer or solution to a problem or question; to work out.
- confirm /kənˈfɝm/ (คำกริยา) — ยืนยัน. To strengthen; to make firm or resolute.
- hook /hʊk/ (คำนาม) — ตะขอ, เบ็ด. A rod bent into a curved shape, typically with one end free and the other end secured to a rope or other attachment.
- ratio /ˈɹeɪ.ʃoʊ/ (คำนาม) — สัดส่วน, อัตราส่วน. A number representing a comparison between two named things.
- expand /ɪkˈspænd/ (คำกริยา) — ขยาย. To change (something) from a smaller form or size to a larger one; to spread out or lay open.
- sequence /ˈsiː.kwəns/ (คำนาม) — ลำดับ. A set of things next to each other in a set order; a series.
- principle /ˈpɹɪn.sɪ.pəl/ (คำนาม) — หลัก, คติ. A fundamental assumption, fundamental law or guiding belief.
- psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/ (คำนาม) — จิตวิทยา. The study of the human mind.
- slide /ˈslaɪ̯d/ (คำนาม) — กระดานลื่น. An item of play equipment that children can climb up and then slide down again.
- lonely /ˈloʊnli/ (คำคุณศัพท์) — เหงา. Unhappy due to feeling isolated from contact with other people.
- biology /baɪˈɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/ (คำนาม) — ชีววิทยา. The study of all life or living matter.
กริยาวลีที่คุณจะได้ยิน
- bring up (คำกริยา) — เลี้ยงดู, ฟูมฟัก. To mention.
- come back (คำกริยา) — กลับมา. To return to a place.
- give up (คำกริยา) — ยอมแพ้. To surrender (someone or something); to inform on (someone).
- go out (คำกริยา) — ออก, ออกไป. To leave, especially a building.
การออกเสียงที่ควรระวัง
ผู้พูดใช้รูปย่อและรูปลดเสียง 22 ครั้ง เช่น don't, I'm, she'll ให้พูดแบบสั้นตามที่ได้ยิน
- เสียง “sh” และ “zh”: ratio /ˈɹeɪ.ʃoʊ/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, distraction /dɪsˈtɹæk.ʃən/, caption /ˈkæp.ʃən/
- คำยาว — ลงเสียงหนักให้ถูกพยางค์: naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/, biology /baɪˈɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, importantly /ɪmˈpɔɹ.tənt.li/
วิธีฝึกกับวิดีโอนี้
- ฟังวิดีโอให้จบหนึ่งรอบโดยยังไม่ต้องพูด แล้วจดคำที่ยังไม่รู้จัก
- เริ่มที่ความเร็ว 0.75× พูดตามทีละประโยค แล้วกลับไปใช้ความเร็วปกติเมื่อเริ่มคล่อง
- อัดเสียงตัวเองแล้วเทียบกับต้นฉบับ โดยสังเกตคำอย่าง technique, bore, mirror เป็นพิเศษ
ไวยากรณ์ในวิดีโอนี้
โครงสร้างที่ผู้พูดใช้บ่อยที่สุด พร้อมคำพูดจริงจากวิดีโอ:
| โครงสร้าง | ในวิดีโอ |
|---|---|
| ประโยคเงื่อนไข if + อนุประโยค, will/would + กริยา — เงื่อนไขและผลลัพธ์ | If there are any other situations you'd like · if you cross the line, you'll lose · If you do that, she'll just |
| “used to” used to + กริยา — นิสัยหรือสภาพในอดีตที่ตอนนี้ไม่เป็นแล้ว | used to do · used to look |
| Present perfect have/has + กริยาช่อง 3 — เหตุการณ์ในอดีตที่ยังเกี่ยวข้องกับปัจจุบัน | have shown · you've made · have been |
| Passive voice be + กริยาช่อง 3 — เน้นสิ่งที่เกิดขึ้น ไม่ใช่ผู้กระทำ | be underdressed · is made |
เทคนิค Shadowing คืออะไร?
Shadowing เป็นเทคนิคการเรียนรู้ภาษาที่ได้รับการรับรองทางวิทยาศาสตร์ พัฒนาขึ้นสำหรับการฝึกนักแปลมืออาชีพ วิธีการนี้เรียบง่ายแต่ทรงพลัง: คุณฟังเสียงภาษาอังกฤษจากเจ้าของภาษาและพูดตามทันที — เหมือนเงาที่ตามผู้พูดด้วยช่วงเวลาห่าง 1-2 วินาที การวิจัยแสดงว่าเทคนิคนี้ปรับปรุงความแม่นยำในการออกเสียง ทำนองเสียง จังหวะ การเชื่อมเสียง การฟังเข้าใจ และความคล่องแคล่วในการพูดได้อย่างมีนัยสำคัญ