Shadowing Practice: How To Fix Your Attention Span (Before It's Too Late) - Learn English Speaking with Video

For several years, I worked as a family doctor in a university student health center, which means that I saw a lot of bright,

ambitious young adults who were convinced that there was something wrong with them because they couldn't focus.

And yes, some of them had ADHD.

But many of them were also living in a world

that had basically turned their brain into a browser with 47 tabs open.

And honestly, that is not just a student problem anymore.

If you can't get through a chapter of a book, if you pick up your phone without even realizing it,

if you open your laptop to do one thing and then 20 minutes later you are looking at vacation rentals in Portugal,

googling why am I like this and somehow have not done the thing, this video is for you.

Because not only does your attention span affect your productivity, It also affects your confidence,

your relationships, and your ability to build the life that you actually want.

So today I am going to walk you through how to

fix your attention span by retraining your brain in a way that actually works in real life.

Because I want to be very clear about something before we go any further.

This is not a moral failure.

Most people did not wake up one day and say, you know what I would really like?

I would love to absolutely destroy my ability to concentrate.

No. Most people adapted to an environment that is designed to fragment them.

Your brain has been rewarded for interruption.

Every time that you check your phone, there might be something interesting there.

A message, a comment, a piece of news.

Your phone is basically a tiny slot machine.

Sometimes there's nothing.

Sometimes there's praise.

Sometimes there's drama.

And your brain learns check again, and again, and again.

So when you sit down to do something slow and important, your brain may start saying, excuse me, where are the snacks?

Where is the novelty?

Where's the little hit?

And then we misinterpret that discomfort as inability.

We say, I can't focus.

But the truth is probably closer to, I have trained my brain to expect constant stimulation and now ordinary effort feels intolerable.

That is a different problem.

And it is a fixable one.

But there is another piece here that we need to talk about.

A lot of what we call distraction is actually emotional avoidance.

You open the document and you feel unsure how to start.

So you check email.

You sit down to study and you feel behind.

So you scroll.

You know you need to have a difficult conversation

and suddenly you are deeply interested in checking the weather in a city that you are not currently in.

And this is where we need to be honest

because sometimes your phone is just the tool you use to escape a feeling of boredom,

or overwhelm, or resentment, or fear that if you really try and it still doesn't work, you have to confront what that means.

A lot of what we call distraction is actually emotional avoidance in disguise.

And this is why a lot of attention advice doesn't go deep enough.

Because yes, you can set a timer, you can put your phone in another room, those are all helpful.

But if every time you feel uncomfortable, your brain has learned to reach for escape,

you also need to learn how to stay with that discomfort just a little longer than you normally would.

By the way, if this is something that you recognize in yourself, then this is exactly why I created the self-sabotage recovery guide.

If you know that you keep getting in your own way, but you don't know how to stop doing that, then you can download the guide for free.

I will link it in the description below.

Okay, now let's get into the fix.

This is the how of fixing your attention span, and we are going to walk through the three levels of this.

The first level of rebuilding your attention is your environment.

If your phone is beside you, your notifications are on, your inbox is open, your browser has 19 tabs,

and you are trying to do hard work in the middle of basically what I call a digital carnival, that is an environmental design problem.

We all like to blame ourselves and beat ourselves up and say that we have an attention problem.

But really, let's give ourselves a break here.

So the first step is to make focus easier and distraction harder.

That's it.

Put your phone in another room.

Turn off non-essential notifications.

Close your inbox unless email is the actual task.

Keep only the tabs open that you actually need.

Add friction because a lot of distraction survives because it is effortless.

Your hand just kind of goes to your phone because it's sitting right there.

So your job is to interrupt the automatic pattern.

And one of the simplest ways to do this is to create a focus start ritual.

For example, you make a cup of tea.

You put your phone in another room.

You put on headphones.

You open the document.

You close everything else.

You set a timer and then you begin.

Your brain loves cues.

The more you repeat the same sequence, the more your brain starts to understand this is where we focus.

You're basically training it with repetition.

The second level is about your nervous system.

So the first 10 minutes of focused work can feel terrible.

Your brain is still agitated.

You want novelty.

You feel restless.

You suddenly remember nine urgent things.

You feel an almost physical pull to check something.

And then you think, see, I can't focus.

But that is not necessarily true.

You may just be experiencing the transition into focus.

The first 10 minutes of focus can feel like trying to put a toddler into a car seat.

Your brain is twisting and negotiating and fighting you in it.

So here is what I want you to practice.

Choose one task and set a timer for 10 minutes.

And during those 10 minutes, you are allowed to do the task badly.

You are allowed to feel restless.

You are allowed to want to stop.

You are allowed to be bored.

But you are not allowed to switch.

That's the rule.

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If your mind wanders, you bring it back.

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If you open another tab, you close it and return.

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Because focus is the practice of coming back.

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And just to be clear, this is not me saying ADHD is not real or that everyone can magically focus if they just try harder.

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ADHD is real.

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I saw it constantly in my medical practice and I have upfront personal experience with it with some of my family members.

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Also, for what it's worth, I have come to see that ADHD can come with some absolutely remarkable strengths like creativity energy,

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intensity, humor, and hyperfocus.

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I actually believe it can be a superpower, but those strengths often need structure and support and systems.

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And for almost everyone, ADHD or not,

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one of the most powerful things that you can practice is staying for slightly longer than your impulse wants you to.

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And again, we're just talking about 10 minutes.

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One task, no switching.

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Come back when you wander.

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That's how you begin.

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The third level is identity.

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And this is the piece that I never hear people talk about

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because many people do all the right little hacks

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while still carrying the identity of someone who would say that they have no attention span.

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They say things like, I can never finish anything.

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My brain is broken.

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I have no discipline.

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And listen, I understand why people say that when you have disappointed yourself enough times,

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it starts to feel like you're just recognizing and stating a truth.

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But those statements become a cage.

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Because once you identify as a scattered person, you start interpreting every distracted moment as proof.

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You sit down to work, your mind wanders, and you think, see, this is who I am.

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But what if that is not who you are?

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What if that is just what you have practiced?

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What if the new identity is, I am someone who returns to the task at hand?

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That is the identity I want you to practice.

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It's not about never getting distracted or having a mind that never drifts.

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It's about noticing that your mind has wandered and then come back.

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That moment is the identity shift.

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You are becoming a person who can stay with what matters.

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Okay, so now I want to give you a very practical plan.

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The seven-day attention repair plan.

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Day one, audit your attention leaks.

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Don't judge them.

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Just notice them.

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What apps steal the most time?

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What time of day are you the most distractible?

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What emotions trigger your scrolling?

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What task do you avoid the most?

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Here, you're just gathering information.

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Next, day two, remove one major source of interruption.

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Turn off non-essential notifications.

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Move social media off your home screen.

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Keep your phone out of your workspace.

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Close email when you're doing deep work.

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Choose one obvious leak and patch it.

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Day three, do one 10-minute attention rep.

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One task, 10 minutes, no switching.

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And remember, the goal is not to feel focused the entire time.

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The goal is to return when you wander.

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Day 4, increase to 20 minutes.

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Again, not perfect, just 20 minutes of practicing the identity of someone who can stay.

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Day 5, add a boredom practice.

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This sounds silly, but I think it's really powerful.

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Stand in line without checking your phone.

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Drink your coffee without listening to anything.

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Go for a short walk without a podcast.

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Sit in the car for two minutes before turning on music.

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Let your brain be unstimulated.

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Boredom is not an emergency.

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It's your brain remembering how to be with itself.

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Day six, protect one high-value focus block.

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Choose the thing that actually matters.

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The thing that, if you actually gave it attention, would move your life forward.

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Give it your best available focus before the day starts attacking you.

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And then day seven, reflect.

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Ask yourself, what improved?

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What was hardest?

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What triggered me?

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What helped?

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What do I need to change in my environment?

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And most importantly, what identity am I practicing?

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Because that is the real work.

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It's so important to start treating your attention as one of the most valuable things that you own.

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Because it is.

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Your attention is how you build trust with yourself.

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It's also how you create work that matters.

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What you give your attention to is what you feed.

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It's what you strengthen and what you build.

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So when I say fix your attention span before it's too late, I don't mean panic.

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I mean choose.

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In other words, choose what gets access to your mind and what gets your best energy.

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Because every day, your brain is being trained by something.

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The only question is whether you are choosing what trains it.

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Now, I would love to hear from you what is the one thing that your attention keeps getting pulled away from?

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Is it your health, your creative work, your relationship, your business?

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Sometimes naming the thing is the first step in protecting it.

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And if you enjoyed this video, then I think that you are going to love the one that I have got queued up for you next.

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I will link it on the next screen, and then I will see you there.

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And this is why a lot of attention device, Attention device?

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No no no no. Okay.

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Attention advice.

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That's funny.

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Then you can download the gov. I have hair.

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Choose one obvious leak and patch it.

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Is that clear?

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Patch it.

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Anyway.

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Oh my god.

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I'm overthinking it.

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Okay.

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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları

Bu B2 seviyesindeki konuşma dersi “How To Fix Your Attention Span” videosuna dayanıyor. En çok tekrarlanan kelimeler: attention, brain, focus. Bu videoda gölgeleme çalışması için 205 cümle ve 1993 kelime var. Konuşma bölümü 11:55 sürüyor. Konuşmacı dakikada yaklaşık 167 kelimeyle, günlük konuşmaya yakın doğal bir hızda konuşuyor. Kelimelerin %87’i İngilizcede en sık kullanılan 3.000 kelime arasında, bu yüzden kelime dağarcığını takip etmek kolay.

Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler

Videodaki en ileri düzey 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:

Kelime	Telaffuz	Anlam
wander fiil	/ˈwɑndɚ/	gezinmek
boredom isim	/ˈbɔɹ.dəm/	can sıkıntısı, bunaltı
notification isim	/ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/	bildirme, bilgilendirme
tab isim	/tæb/	sekme
leak isim	/liːk/	sızıntı
patch isim	/pæt͡ʃ/	yama
interruption isim	/ˌɪntəˈɹʌpʃən/	sekte
novelty isim	/ˈnɑvəlti/	yenilik
distract fiil	/dɪˈstɹækt/	dikkati dağıtmak
scroll isim	/skɹoʊl/	tomar
agitate fiil	/ˈæ.d͡ʒɪ.teɪt/	sarsmak
effortless sıfat	/ˈɛfə(ɹ)tlɪs/	zahmetsiz
repetition isim	/ˌɹɛp.əˈtɪʃ.ən/	tekrarlama, tekrar
scatter fiil	/ˈskætɚ/	dağılmak, yaymak
superpower isim		süper güç

Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller

Kelime	Telaffuz	Anlam
turn off fiil		kapamak
wake up fiil	/ˌweɪk ˈʌp/	uyanmak

Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler

Videodan, günlük konuşmada yeniden kullanabileceğiniz kısa ve tam cümleler:

What if that is just what you have practiced?
What time of day are you the most distractible?
What emotions trigger your scrolling?
What task do you avoid the most?
What do I need to change in my environment?

Bu videodaki dil bilgisi

Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:

Yapı	Videoda
Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli	were convinced · is designed · has been rewarded
Present perfect have/has + fiilin üçüncü hâli — geçmişte olan ama şimdi de önemli olan bir eylem	have not done · has been rewarded · have trained
İlgi cümlecikleri who / which + cümle — bir kişi ya da şey hakkında ek bilgi	center, which means · someone who would · someone who returns

Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar

Konuşmacı you're, can't, don't gibi kısaltılmış biçimleri 15 kez kullanıyor. Bunları duyduğunuz gibi kısa söyleyin.

“sh” ve “zh” sesleri: distraction /dɪsˈtɹæk.ʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/, interruption /ˌɪntəˈɹʌpʃən/, repetition /ˌɹɛp.əˈtɪʃ.ən/, sabotage /ˈsæb.əˌtɑʒ/
Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/, interruption /ˌɪntəˈɹʌpʃən/, intolerable /ɪnˈtɑləɹəbl̩/, misinterpret /ˌmɪs.ɪnˈtɜː.pɹɪt/, repetition /ˌɹɛp.əˈtɪʃ.ən/

Türkçe konuşanların zorlandığı sesler:

/w/ — dudaklar yuvarlak, /v/ değil: wander /ˈwɑndɚ/, overwhelm /ˌoʊ.vɚˈwɛlm/, workspace /ˈwɝkˌspeɪs/
Kelime başındaki ünsüz kümesi — araya ünlü eklemeyin: scroll /skɹoʊl/, browser /ˈbɹaʊ.zəɹ/, scatter /ˈskætɚ/, fragment /ˈfɹæɡmənt/, stimulation /stɪm.jʊˈleɪ.ʃən/
/æ/ — “e”den daha açık: distraction /dɪsˈtɹæk.ʃən/, tab /tæb/, patch /pæt͡ʃ/, distract /dɪˈstɹækt/, agitate /ˈæ.d͡ʒɪ.teɪt/

Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır

Videonun tamamını konuşmadan bir kez dinleyin ve bilmediğiniz kelimeleri not edin.
0,75× hızla başlayın, cümle cümle tekrar edin ve kolaylaşınca normal hıza dönün.
Kendinizi kaydedin ve orijinaliyle karşılaştırın; wander, boredom, notification gibi kelimelere özellikle dikkat edin.

Gölgeleme Tekniği Nedir?

Gölgeleme, başlangıçta profesyonel tercüman eğitimi için geliştirilen ve çok dilli Dr. Alexander Arguelles tarafından popüler hale getirilen, bilim destekli bir dil öğrenme tekniğidir. Yöntem basit ama güçlüdür: ana dili İngilizce olan bir sesi dinler ve hemen yüksek sesle tekrar edersiniz — konuşmacıyı 1-2 saniye gecikmeyle takip eden bir gölge gibi. Pasif dinleme veya dilbilgisi alıştırmalarının aksine, gölgeleme beyninizi ve ağız kaslarınızı gerçek konuşma kalıplarını eşzamanlı olarak işlemeye ve yeniden üretmeye zorlar. Araştırmalar, telaffuz doğruluğu, tonlama, ritim, bağlı konuşma, dinleme anlama ve konuşma akıcılığını önemli ölçüde geliştirdiğini göstermektedir — bu da onu IELTS Konuşma hazırlığı ve gerçek dünya İngilizce iletişimi için en etkili yöntemlerden biri yapar.

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Bu dersin kelimeleri ve konuşma notları

Bu videodaki önemli kelimeler

Duyacağınız deyimsel fiiller

Tekrar etmeye değer cümleler

Bu videodaki dil bilgisi

Dikkat edilecek telaffuzlar

Bu videoyla nasıl çalışılır

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