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Psalm 45 says, God has anointed us with the oil of joy.

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Psalm 45 says, God has anointed us with the oil of joy.

When you walk in your anointing,

there's an oil on you to where nothing can stick.

You're like a Teflon pan.

Disrespect will come.

People will say hurtful things.

The good news is you have a no-stick anointing.

You can let that go and it'll slide right off of you,

not have any effect.

That coworker leaves you out, plays politics.

You could be offended.

upset

but you have the oil of joy you just let it

go someone's rude to you jumps down your throat you could

be rude back to them give them a piece of your mind

but like that teflon pan it slides right off you go on

and enjoy the day you weren't created to hold on to things offense disrespect hurtful words next time something happens

that could upset you instead of responding the same way.

Try a different approach.

Father, thank you that I've been anointed with the oil of joy.

I'm going to stay in peace.

I'm going to focus on my goals,

knowing that you are fighting my battles.

You can't get rid of the difficult people,

but if you'll respond the right way,

they won't keep you from having a blessed, productive, favor-filled day.

Are you letting things upset you that don't have to upset you?

Are you giving away your power,

letting what people do determine whether

or not you're going to be happy you need to take

control back of your happiness quit putting it in someone else's hands

if you're counting on everyone to treat you nice be kind

say good things then you're going to be happy you're giving

them your power you control your happiness you have to make

up your mind no matter what people do no matter what they say,

how they treat you, they're not going to steal your joy.

They may not want to be happy,

but they shouldn't keep you from being happy.

They may be rude, angry,

disrespectful, but you can't let their issues sour your day.

Be like that Teflon pan.

Let it bounce off of you and enjoy your day despite what they do.

I was at an electronic store to buy some parts for our television equipment.

This was back when I worked behind the scenes in production here at Lakewood.

The parts were in the back.

The staff had to get them for you.

I had done this many times before.

The man at the counter was on the phone.

He wasn't in any hurry to get off.

He could see me standing there,

but he talked about 15 minutes.

I waited patiently.

Eventually, he hung up, and I thought he would acknowledge me and see what I needed,

but he never looked up.

Finally, I asked if he could help me.

You would have thought I just insulted him.

He said so gruffly, very aggravated, what do you need?

I asked him for this certain part.

He looked at it and said, we don't carry that.

We never have.

I told him how I'd purchased it there many times before.

His face got real red.

Smoke started coming out of his ears.

He looked like he's about to explode.

He used several curse words and said,

but I told you I don't have it.

Now, don't ask me for it again.

I wanted to say, I'll ask you as many times as I feel like asking.

I'll call you in the middle of the night if I want to.

But I noticed he was bigger than me,

so I just smiled, said,

no problem, just have a nice day.

Didn't mean it, but at least I said it.

I had to make this choice.

Was I going to let his poison get in me,

pollute my day, sour my attitude,

spend my emotional energy upset,

aggravated, or was I going to be a Teflon pan,

have that no-stick anointing, let all that disrespect,

the anger, the poison slide right off of me.

I decided to let it go.

You can't stop people from dumping their garbage,

but you can keep your lid on.

You don't have to let all their trash get in you.

Sometimes we have unrealistic expectations.

We think we'll have a good day as long as we don't encounter any rude people,

as long as our family says nice things,

as long as our coworkers perform perfectly,

then we'll stay in peace.

That's not reality.

Difficult people are all around.

There will be someone that can steal your joy,

get you offended, leave you out,

say something that's not true.

The key is not trying to avoid it.

It's to handle it the right way.

Don't take the bait.

Don't let the offense stay.

Don't dwell on the negative comments.

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Keep yourself oiled up to where you don't let anything stick.

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This is how you live happy,

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not by avoiding difficult people,

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but by not taking their garbage,

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by not responding to them the way they treated you.

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It's by being an eagle,

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by rising higher than the offense, the hurt, the jealousy.

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When God can trust you to do the right thing when it's hard,

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there's no limit to how high he will take you.

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There was a man walking down the street with his friend to get a newspaper.

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When they arrived at the corner store,

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the clerk in the small newsstand was very cold,

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inconsiderate, not friendly at all.

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The man bought the paper and said politely,

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I hope you have a great day.

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As they walked away, his friend said,

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is that clerk always that rude?

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The man said, yes, every morning.

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He said, well, are you always that nice to him?

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The man said, yes, every morning.

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The friend looked puzzled and said, why?

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The man said, I've made up my mind.

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I'm not going to let one person ruin my day.

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Like him, you have to have a made-up mind.

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You're not going to let one negative comment ruin your day.

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You're not going to let a disrespectful coworker,

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a classmate that's making fun of you,

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a driver that cuts you off in traffic to sour your day.

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Decide ahead of time, I'm putting on the oil of joy.

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whatever comes my way negative comments disrespect rude people that's going

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to slide right off of me how much more will you enjoy your life

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if you'll have this no-stick anointing you can't control what people

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do they want to be offensive rude hard to get along with that's their choice

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but you can control how you respond the most powerful thing

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you can do is let it slide right off don't give at the time of day.

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Don't think about it anymore.

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Don't relive it.

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Don't go call your friends,

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tell them what they said.

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Keep your heart pure.

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Save your emotional energy to live this day to the full,

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to pursue your dreams, to love your family,

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to be good to your neighbors.

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When someone is rude, they're offensive.

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Don't take that personally.

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It's not about you.

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It's their own struggles on the inside.

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They don't like themselves.

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That's why they don't like you.

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They're upset over things that have nothing to do with you.

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You just happen to enter their story when they're blowing off steam.

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Stay oiled up and move on.

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None of that will stop your destiny unless you get distracted and start fighting battles that don't matter,

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trying to pay people back instead of letting God be your vindicator.

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This is what David did.

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1 Samuel 25, David and his men had been living out in the countryside.

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They were on the run from King Saul.

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A man named Nabal lived in the city of Carmel,

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not far from David.

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He was very wealthy, thousands of sheeps, goats.

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But verse 3 says, Nabal was a mean man.

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He was dishonest and hard to get along with.

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David and his army had been protecting Nabal's property by just being there.

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They were very powerful.

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They could have taken the flocks,

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got rid of his shepherds,

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but they were good to Nabal.

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It was time for shearing the sheep, the harvest season.

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So David sent messengers to Nabal asking for food since they had been protecting his family and flocks.

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You would think Nabal would be grateful.

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He had these men watching after him,

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but Nabal was very rude.

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He said, who is this man, David?

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I never asked him to do anything for me.

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I don't owe him a penny.

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Tell him to forget it.

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I'm not going to give him anything.

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When David heard that, it set him off.

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He didn't think about the oil of joy.

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He didn't sing the psalm he wrote,

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this is the day the Lord has made.

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Let's be glad.

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He was furious.

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He told his men, pack up we're going to go take care of Nabal.

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He said, as surely as I live,

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not one of Nabal's family members will be alive by this time tomorrow.

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David was offended, angry.

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He wasn't going to let Nabal get by with insulting him.

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And yes, there are times we're supposed to fight.

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We need to take action.

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David fought Goliath, but you have to make sure that battle is between you and your destiny.

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If not, it's a distraction.

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David was so wrought up in his emotions,

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he didn't realize this wasn't a battle he was supposed to fight.

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How many times are we fighting battles because like David,

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we're offended, we're upset.

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They did us wrong, but that wasn't a battle between us and our destiny.

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It was just our flesh getting riled up,

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wanting to take matters into our own hands.

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We were supposed to let it slide off,

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not dwell on it, and trust God to be our vindicator.

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Here's how merciful God is.

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David was headed toward Nabal's house,

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full speed ahead, about to make a mistake that would hinder his destiny.

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Nabal's wife was a lady named Abigail.

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She was a wise woman.

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She loaded up 200 loaves of bread,

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200 bottles of wine, 500 cakes,

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and headed out to meet David.

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When she saw him, she bowed down low and said,

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David, my husband is a fool.

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He's hard-headed, hot-tempered, dishonest.

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He shouldn't have insulted you.

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I brought you these gifts hoping you'll forgive him.

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She went on to say,

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David, you are called to be the king of Israel.

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Why would you even fight with this fool?

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Why would you waste your time with this stubborn man?

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Don't let this needless battle be a blemish on your record.

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She spoke wisdom into David.

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She was saying, David, look at who you are.

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You're the next king.

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God is going to entrust you with an enduring dynasty dynasty,

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but you're about to blow it,

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taking revenge on this fool.

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David came to his senses.

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He said, Abigail, the Lord God of Israel surely has sent you to me today.

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For if you had not kept me from carrying out vengeance with my own hands,

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not one of your family members would be alive.

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We're all going to encounter Nabals in life,

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people that are rude, hard to get along with,

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offensive i'll ask you what abigail asked david why are you

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fighting with a fool why are you in conflict with someone that's not going anywhere why are you upset with

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that person that cut you off in traffic you don't even know them why are you offended at

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that co-worker they're not between you

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and your destiny they can't stop what god has planned for you so they don't like you they made negative comments.

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They left you out.

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That's a test.

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You can't reach your destiny without difficult people.

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Don't get distracted, baited into conflict,

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in battles that don't matter.

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Be like that Teflon pan.

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Don't let any of it stick.

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God has an awesome future for you,

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but the enemy will work overtime,

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like with David, to try to get you distracted,

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offended, trying to pay people back.

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Don't take the bank.

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Abigail came back home the next morning,

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told her husband what she had done.

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When he heard it, Nabal had a stroke, became paralyzed.

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Ten days later, he died.

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Abigail was a beautiful woman.

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David didn't waste any time.

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He sent word asking her to become his wife.

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She agreed.

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When you let God fight your battles,

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you'll come out better than you were before.

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I'm not saying you're going to get an extra wife,

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but he'll make it up to you.

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But if it hadn't been for Abigail,

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if she had not stopped David from acting on his emotions,

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we might not be talking about David.

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If you let people get you upset,

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offended, where you're focused on paying them back,

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you can miss your destiny.

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Maybe today I'm your Abigail.

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Maybe God sent me to remind you to not let difficult people bait you into conflict,

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steal your joy, cause you to live frustrated,

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spending energy on things that don't matter.

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You can't get away from the Nabals.

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You may pray one away,

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Nabal Jr. will show up tomorrow.

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You have to make up your mind that difficult people are not going to control you.

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You're not going to let them offend you,

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upset you, push your buttons.

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Turn those buttons off.

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Stay in peace.

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Time is short.

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We're not always going to be here.

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Don't waste another minute fighting with crows,

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arguing with chickens, debating with turkeys.

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Be an eagle.

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Start rising above that.

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