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Okay, before I even say anything, let's lay out some ground rules.

This is probably gonna be the most open I'll ever get about my personal life.

I know I've shared tidbits of myself and life through little stories, but when it comes to personal stuff, I'm very private.

Especially within the past few years.

I'm gonna be talking in very general surface level terms

because specific personal details are for me to know and in the nicest way possible, none of your business.

Basically, this is something I want to talk about, share, and bring a spotlight to.

But at the same time you get the cliff notes version

So no trying to assume

or guess anything beyond what I'm sharing within this video at

the end of the day We're all just strangers refusing to listen to the stranger danger rule.

All right formalities aside Let's get into it.

I've come to realize that I'm aroace which stands for aromanic asexual and I know what you're thinking That's not gay.

What the hell is that?

And you know what that is completely fair because I didn't know what

that was either Aromantic and asexual are two different things and I'm gonna break them down to you separately, starting with aromantic because no one really knows what that one is.

And also it's my personal favorite.

Someone who's aromantic is defined as a person who feels very little to no romantic attraction to anyone at all.

So like they might not develop crushes on people or feel the need to be in a romantic relationship with anyone.

Very general terms, but hopefully you kind of get the gist.

If not, here's a little story example from me.

Growing up, I never developed crushes on anyone.

I remember when I was in fifth grade, kids were talking about their crushes left and right, and it was starting to feel like something I had to experience too, just because...

I thought that's just what happens.

Don't make fun of nine-year-old me, I was a sheep.

Anyway, I decided I needed to have a crush because that's just what happens to people, and I very robotically chose this random kid in the class who we can call Pikachu.

That's not his name.

He didn't mean anything to me, and I didn't do anything about this crush.

Like I didn't tell anyone or anything.

It was just a headcanon thing for me to feel up to speed

and like I was hitting my normal human emotions quota.

But it's funny because on Valentine's Day, you know how in elementary school everyone would bring cheesy Walmart Valentine's cards for everyone in the class

and then you'd have a box full of candy and hollow emotions from everyone?

Well, my school did that.

When I went through my box, I pulled out Pikachu's Valentine and thought to myself Someone who has a crush on someone would keep this Yeah,

I think so I put Pikachu's copy paste Batman Valentine in my drawer

and promptly forgot about it because it meant nothing to me But hey, that's just what I thought I was supposed to do

man I'm so good at this then like a year or

so later when my mom was going through my room She pulled out the card

and was like Why do you have this and I was like honestly?

I have no idea years past I entered junior high

and thought to myself all right This is the time where people start developing crushes and then do something about it.

Like get into relationships or something.

So I was like preparing to be interested in people.

On the first day of school I scoped out the room to see

if there was anyone that I thought looked like someone I could develop a crush on.

And this was when classes started being divided up into periods, so there were like six batches of people I sifted through.

But no one caught my eye and I thought, man.

Unlucky.

After the whole school year, next year old around classes changed, I did the same potentials crush scoping again.

And the same thing happened.

I wasn't drawn to anyone at all.

Man.

Unlucky again!

Every year, I thought something would change.

Especially going into high school, when people started actually hitting puberty and were getting conventionally attractive.

But my entire school life, grades kindergarten to senior year, which I'm pretty sure is like 13 years, I wasn't interested in a single person throughout any of it.

And what's funny was I was thinking, man, what's the deal?

Why is no one attractive?

And I went to a big high school.

There were like three and a half thousand students there.

Surely I am not the outlier in this formula.

Why are none of you attractive?

By the time I was going to college, I really felt like I had to find someone.

It felt like I was falling behind the curve or

if I was gonna find someone it was gonna have to happen now.

I made a lot of new friends and that's when I thought I developed my first genuine crush.

Long story short, in hindsight, no, it wasn't a crush and I was just wrong.

I just met someone who I thought was cool and funny and had a really strong desire to be close to them, but looking back, knowing what I do now,

it wasn't in a romantic way.

I realized I can get very excited

and tunnel vision on people I think are really cool

or interesting and kind of obsessed over getting to know them or just want to spend a lot of time with them.

But whenever I got into those tunnel vision moments

if I sat down and asked myself

if I actually wanted to be in a Relationship with them

and hold hands or cuddle or kiss the answer was not really

But if they wanted to I could go along with it

Which I do not think is right in my very old flirting video, which I refuse to rewatch I think at one point in it I said something along the lines of

if you're interested in someone, but they just want to be friends I don't understand why some people can't deal with that.

And that was primarily because I didn't realize there was an emotional difference between a crush

or falling in love and just being really good friends with someone.

So, oops, sorry for the bad take, I think.

I really just thought having a crush on someone was wanting to be their number one best friend.

Look, I said don't make fun of me!

To me, it used to feel like if I was wanting to become friends with someone to that high of a degree, that would be the next step or justify why I wanted to put this much time,

effort, and energy into one person.

And it didn't feel right or even fair going through all of this with someone

and then tell them they're just a friend.

I don't know.

It just didn't feel like it made sense, even though I really didn't technically see them in a romantic way.

I just didn't understand what was going on really or

that there was supposed to be real emotions instead of a logical understanding of steps.

And the fact that I was under the assumption

that I was supposed to be interested in people in a romantic way didn't help with anything.

I always preferred to say good friends, but never felt like I could have that.

And I worried that if I said no, that we would just start drifting apart, which I obviously didn't want either.

It's been a very long journey discovering this about myself.

Everything I'm saying has all been extremely subconscious and not understood or defined for many years.

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I even used to think I was bi or pan for the longest time because I would think to myself, well, bi is being interested in both genders.

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I don't really care for either, but zero is equal to zero, so I guess I'm bi or pan.

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I got math involved.

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If I knew what aromanticism was when I was growing up, things would have been a lot less complicated for me a lot sooner.

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I think it's mainly because people don't really talk about it or even know what it is or that it's real.

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Romance and love is the number one most talked about topic on the planet.

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Everything I've been taught or learned through society is that love and romance is everywhere

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Everyone feels it and it's gonna happen to you.

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Just a funny little note There is a point where I

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was listening to some generic romance song on the radio You know like all of them

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and I just suddenly thought to myself Wait, do people actually feel these things towards each other?

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Like all these mushy lyrics are real emotions They're not joking.

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That's when I started feeling like something was different I approached romance under the blanket term thought of, Sure, why not?

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And didn't recognize it was actually a feeling.

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Which might sound stupid, but look, I don't know.

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No one presented me with any other options.

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I did a lot of rationalizing.

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If someone ever expressed romantic interest in me, I would mentally make a kind of logical list of their pros

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and cons and the pros

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and cons of what a relationship would look like with them based on what I knew about them as a person.

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I didn't realize there was supposed to be an extra, like, excited feeling or the fact that you're not supposed to think about it as if it were a business exchange.

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I understand compatibility is a huge important variable when it comes to sharing a relationship with someone, but at the end of the day,

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it's still apparently still a very emotionally driven thing.

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And I've literally had to make that discovery and teach it to myself.

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Now, I'm going to talk about being asexual very briefly, and I'm going to preface it with let's all just be mature about this, all right?

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We're all pretending to be adults here.

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I've got I have my eye on some of you.

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Behave!

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Okay, this is definitely treading into uncomfortable personal boundary territory for me, but yeah, I do want to share that I'm asexual too,

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which is defined as someone who feels little to no intimate attraction to anyone.

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Look, I know we said we're all adults, but I'm still gonna dance around the vocabulary, alright?

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Yes, there's a difference between romantic and intimate attraction.

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Attraction, little side note, I will say you can experience romantic attraction to someone but no intimate attraction.

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Or you can experience intimate attraction but no romantic attraction.

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You can be one and not the other, it's not necessarily a package deal.

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Most people feel both, and I do not feel either.

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Anyway, I have never been magnetically attracted to the look or shape of a single person in my entire life, and did not realize it was a real thing until very recently.

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I'm able to identify when someone looks conventionally attractive,

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like by textbook definition, but I never realized people are genuinely drawn to people they think are attractive.

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I didn't know that people could just see someone and be like, wow, they're gorgeous.

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I would love to get to know that person

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or maybe go on a date with them or whatever else you people do.

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I didn't think it was real.

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I thought people were exaggerating or something.

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I don't know.

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And I also couldn't believe that some people feel that with multiple people.

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Or like, celebrities.

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Which sounds absolutely exhausting.

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It ties back to when I was in school, like, looking around for people to like.

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It makes sense now that no one caught my eye because that doesn't happen to me.

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I was just wasting my time for 13 years.

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I feel like such a fool.

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Now, there's an easy assumption to make about asexual people, and that they all have zero interest in being intimate with anyone at all, which actually isn't true.

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Some of them are genuinely turned off by it, and some aren't.

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Some reasons would be that they just don't mind it, or they want to make their partner happy, or enjoy the emotional closeness of it.

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There's a million different reasons and a million different people.

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Am I sharing what kind of a people I am?

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Nope.

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And you don't know me personally enough in the slightest to be able to try

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and parasocially analyze where I stand on that spectrum.

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I'm just here to say I am this.

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We are moving on.

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When I stumbled onto the term Arrow Ace and started realizing I fall into that category, it helped me feel much more confident and sure of myself.

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I've read a lot about how people say they felt broken or that something was wrong with them, but honestly I was the complete opposite.

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Coming from my very biased perspective, I think Arrow Ace is one of, if not the coolest and most confident orientations out there.

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Not needing a single gram of romantic or intimate validation from anyone is so cool.

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All you need is yourself to be happy, maybe friends and family too, and birds.

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The more I came to terms with the fact I'm Arrow Ace, the more empowered and capable I felt,

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but at the same time I was also starting to feel more alone and isolated.

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As cool and amazing and unique and awesome as I think it is, it can be really hard for other people to relate to or even understand.

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Everyone else and their orientations are able to bond and relate to the love and romance aspects, and we're over here like, we don't do that.

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I don't even know if I'm explaining it very well.

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It kind of does go against everything everyone's ever been taught about anything.

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Romance is taught to be a basic assumed emotion, which I do think is a bit misleading.

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A common argument used against the Aero Ace orientation is that romance and intimacy is what makes someone human.

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But I mean, I don't know, lots of birds mate for life, which is a better ratio than people, and all animals get frisky.

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You know, that's just how they became not extinct.

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It's not an exclusive to humans thing.

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If I were to guess, I would assume the thing that makes someone human is basic empathy.

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Like, I'm not an emotionalist monster, I can still love people.

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I love my family and my pets.

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Just...

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Platonically.

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And I would hope that you're the same.

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I just don't experience romantic love, which...

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I don't know, I don't think that's harming anyone.

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Definitely not me.

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I'm having the time of my life.

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I don't think you need to be in a relationship to be happy.

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And if you don't want to be just on your own, I think there's many types of people in relationships that push the boundaries of what a conventional relationship looks like.

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Telling someone that they need to be in a romantic relationship to be happy and fulfilled is weird.

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And then when that person says they're not happy, they're told relationships take a lot of work and that's just how it goes.

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And that's also weird.

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I don't know.

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I also think it's weird that once someone reaches a certain age, people inherently start thinking it's sad they're not in a romantic relationship or assume they're lonely and sad.

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No one thinks a child is sad and lonely just because they're not in a long-term relationship.

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I don't know.

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I don't get it.

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And I also think I'm rambling.

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At the end of the day, it's all very complicated to talk about these things, especially because I don't know the feelings I'm supposed to be feeling, let alone talk about.

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I just know for me the terms aromantic

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and asexual are able to articulate things I was subconsciously feeling

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and thinking before I even realized I was feeling and thinking them.

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I don't plan on talking about this very much, if at all, ever again.

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I just want to play my silly little video games, maybe tell a story here or there.

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But I wanted to bring the orientations to the surface

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and try to get more representation out there because I thought if I could help more people become more aware of this, then that would be awesome.

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I was confused as hell for a while and could have used something like this.

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It's a real thing.

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You don't have to feel any sort of romance or whatever to be considered a real person.

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Personally, I think it's really cool and badass.

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And don't be afraid to look more into aromanticism or asexualism

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if any of what I said in this video resonated with you to any degree.

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Like I said, this is all very surface level stuff.

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They're both much larger spectrums than you'd think and maybe you fall under some umbrella category with them.

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I don't know. Or not.

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Either way.

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This has all been my personal experience with this stuff.

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Is there more for me to figure out within it?

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Yeah, I'm pretty sure there is.

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It can get pretty complicated and confusing.

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Haha, awesome.

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Will I be sharing any of that with you?

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Nope, no way.

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This is all you get.

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Hope you can understand even just a little of what I talked about.

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And if not, that's totally fine.

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I just hope you can be nice.

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Thanks for listening.

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I never really intended on making this video because I haven't really felt a strong urge to...

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Like, I don't like using this phrase for myself, but, but come out.

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But I did end up wanting to make the video to make people more aware of this stuff

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because I think it's important and Someone has to there's not really that many people doing it right now Anyway, yeah, just moving forward.

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I guess see you later

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本課的詞彙與口語要點

這節 B2 級別的口語課以影片“Being Not Straight”為素材。這段影片共有 233 個句子、3064 個單詞可供跟讀。講話部分時長為 15:21。說話人語速較快，每分鐘約 200 個詞，會出現較多連讀和弱讀。 82% 的單詞屬於英語最常用的 3,000 詞，其餘的詞建議在練習前先學一下。

影片中的重點詞彙

影片中最難的 15 個單詞，附發音和釋義：

單詞	發音	釋義
crush 動詞	/kɹʌʃ/	擠壓, 擠
attraction 名詞	/əˈtɹækʃn̩/	吸引力
emotion 名詞	/ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/	感情, 情感
unlucky 形容詞	/ʌnˈlʌki/	不幸, 不走運 /不走運
assumption 名詞	/əˈsʌm(p).ʃ(ə)n/	假設 /假設
boundary 名詞	/ˈbaʊndɹi/	邊界 /邊界
cuddle 動詞	/ˈkʌd.l̩/	擁抱 /擁抱, 摟抱 /摟抱
exaggerate 動詞	/ɛɡˈzæd͡ʒ.ə.ɹeɪt/	誇大 /誇大, 誇張 /誇張
mislead 動詞	/mɪsˈliːd/	誤導 /誤導
obsess 動詞	/əbˈsɛs/	迷住, 著魔
preface 名詞	/ˈpɹɛfəs/	序言, 序文
puberty 名詞	/ˈpjuː.bə.ti/	青春期, 思春期
rewatch 動詞	/ɹiːˈwɒtʃ/	翻看, 重溫 /重溫
stumble 動詞	/ˈstʌmbəl/	絆倒 /絆倒, 蹣跚而行 /蹣跚而行
empower 動詞	/ɪmˈpaʊ.ə/	授權 /授權

影片中出現的短語動詞

單詞	發音	釋義
go through 動詞		通過 /通過
grow up 動詞		長大 /長大
come out 動詞	/ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/	出, 出來 /出來
drift apart 動詞		疏遠 /疏遠, 生疏
end up 動詞		到達
fall behind 動詞		遲到 /遲到
figure out 動詞		弄清楚
look back 動詞		回顧 /回顧

值得反覆跟讀的句子

影片中簡短而完整的句子，可以直接用在日常對話裡：

If not, here's a little story example from me.
I thought that's just what happens.
I wasn't drawn to anyone at all.
Why are none of you attractive?
Will I be sharing any of that with you?

影片中的語法

說話人最常用的結構，並附上影片中的原話：

結構	影片中的用法
條件句 if + 從句，will/would + 動詞 — 條件及其結果	if I said no, that we would just · If I were to guess, I would assume
“used to” used to + 動詞 — 過去的習慣或狀態，現在已不再如此	used to feel · used to think
現在完成時 have/has + 過去分詞 — 過去發生但與現在仍有關聯的事	I've shared · I've come · It's been
被動語態 be + 過去分詞 — 強調發生了什麼，而不是誰做的	is defined · being divided · wasn't drawn

需要注意的發音

說話人用了 107 次縮略和弱讀形式，例如 don't, I'm, didn't。請按聽到的簡短形式來說。

“th” 音: empathy /ˈɛmpəθi/, mathematics /mæθ(.ə)ˈmæt.ɪks/
“sh” 和 “zh” 音: crush /kɹʌʃ/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, orientation /ˌɔː.ɹi.ənˈteɪ.ʃən/, conventionally /kənˈvɛnʃənəli/
長單詞——注意重音位置: aromantic /ˌeɪ.ɹəʊˈmæn.tɪk/, orientation /ˌɔː.ɹi.ənˈteɪ.ʃən/, aromanticism /ˌeɪ.ɹəʊˈmæn.tɪ.sɪ.zəm/, conventionally /kənˈvɛnʃənəli/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/

中文母語者容易讀錯的音：

/v/ — 不要讀成 /w/，上齒輕觸下唇: conventionally /kənˈvɛnʃənəli/, validation /ˌvæl.əˈdeɪ.ʃən/, vocabulary /vəˈkæb.jə.lə.ɹi/, behave /bɪˈheɪv/, variable [ˈvæɹ.i.ə.bl̩]
詞尾子音 — 要讀清楚，後面不要加母音: crush /kɹʌʃ/, intimate /ˈɪn.tɪ.mət/, aromantic /ˌeɪ.ɹəʊˈmæn.tɪk/, closeness /ˈkloʊs.nəs/, exaggerate /ɛɡˈzæd͡ʒ.ə.ɹeɪt/
/r/ 和 /l/ 的區別: formality /fɔːrˈmælɪti/, outlier /ˈaʊtˌlaɪə(ɹ)/, ramble /ˈɹæmbəl/, rationalize /ˈɹæʃənəlaɪz/, articulate /ɑːɹˈtɪk.jə.leɪt/

如何用這段影片練習

先完整聽一遍影片，不要開口，記下不認識的單詞。
先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟讀，熟練之後再回到正常速度。
錄下自己的聲音並與原聲對比，特別注意 crush, attraction, emotion 這類單詞。

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本課的詞彙與口語要點

影片中的重點詞彙

影片中出現的短語動詞

值得反覆跟讀的句子

影片中的語法

需要注意的發音

如何用這段影片練習

什麼是跟讀法？