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Let's talk about push -pull.
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What is push -pull?
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How can we use this?
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I'll give you a couple examples of it as well.
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Great technique to be using when you're flirting with a girl.
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It's a great way, kind of building off of the last video
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that you just saw in terms of not putting pressure on the girl, but still being able to display a little bit of intent.
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Okay, so let's go over this what is a push pull exactly well
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it could be described as a compliment plus a little bit of a diss
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or a positive plus a negative
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or it's also known as like a backhanded compliment okay
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so essentially what it is is like telling some kind of verbal intent to the girl
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that's half of it that's like the pull
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and then there's also a push which is like literally uh metaphorically speaking it's like pushing the girl away with your verbal.
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So that's why the positive is a pull.
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And then the negative is like a push away.
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So if you think about like trying to bring the girl in versus pushing the girl away, it's a push pull.
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So the sentence would be a positive plus a negative.
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And the idea behind this is we're showing some intent, but we're not putting too much pressure on the girl.
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Actually, if anything, we're, we're really taking the pressure off of the girl on this one
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because there's a positive and a little bit of a negative, right?
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So in the last video, I described giving the girl a compliment and then continuously talking
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or maybe asking a question or making a statement about something that was going on in the conversation.
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Push pull is a step further, okay?
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So it's like a positive plus the negative.
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So an example of this would be instead of just telling the girl she's cute, it would be something like,
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you're cute, but I feel like you're trouble or you're cute
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but i feel like you're like low -key a brat
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or you're cute but i don't think we would get along okay
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so you could see that's like a positive you're cute
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and then the negative the negative it's not even a huge negative
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but it's it's just taking the pressure off of the positive right it's like you're cute
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but this other thing okay and by doing that
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and by saying these push -pull lines
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it takes the pressure off of the girl it takes her mind off of the compliment, right?
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Because people have a tendency to just instinctually, if I told you a bunch of positives about yourself,
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and then I still had one negative thing to say about you,
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I guarantee you would be thinking about that negative thing way more than the positives.
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It's just how we are as human beings.
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We have a tendency to focus on negatives from people or focus on criticism from people.
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I was the same way in my dating content, right?
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I post up a video, i get a hundred comments that are all positive but there's that one negative comment that i'm so
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focused on right so it's like because of that reason excuse me
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because of that reason that's that's the same concept of why the push pull is effective
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because it's the girl's not going to be fixated
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so much on the fact that you complimented or
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if anything she's going to be like trouble wait why am i trouble
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or brat i'm not a brat what do you mean are you you're cute honestly but like you're so feisty.
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And then another thing you could do is you say the push pull and you also still continue talking.
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So it kind of builds off of the previous video that I was just saying about complimenting and then keep talking.
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Another thing you could do is compliment plus the negative and then keep talking as well.
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Okay.
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And that's like a even more powerful technique.
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I would say I'm not saying one of these is better than the other in this week's videos.
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I'm, I'm just giving you guys a bunch of different tools.
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Okay.
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Each tool is more effective in a, in, in a different scenario, right?
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Like a push pull is like a hammer.
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The other technique I told you was like a screwdriver.
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I'm not saying the hammer is better than the screwdriver.
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It's just, they're both tools that you could use.
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And at the right time with the right situation, each tool can be more effective than the other tool.
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Okay.
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So if I'm in a playful banter back and forth already with the girl, and then I use the push -pull,
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and then I keep talking as well, that could be very powerful, okay?
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If we're not in that much of a banter, and the girl's not being super playful with me, that may not be the route to go.
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In that case, you have another tool you can use.
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I'm going to give you guys more tools throughout this week as well, but this is a good one, the push -pull.
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So one other thing I wanted to point out about the push -pull is
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that it doesn't always need to be the positive first
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and then the negative it can be negative and then positive
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or positive negative positive there's a bunch of different ways to do this okay
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it should just be kind of flowing naturally based on how the conversation is going
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if you're brand new to this
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and this seems like a little bit of a struggle for you okay cool in
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that case i would say just focus on doing a very basic line.
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And don't try to go so complex with it at first, right?
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We want to start off very basic, right?
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So I'm going to give you a couple of lines in this video
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and later on in this week that you could just use verbatim, word for word.
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And as you get more comfortable with these things, you'll just start to embody these behaviors
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and these mannerisms naturally to the point where eventually you won't even need to think about the line.
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They just kind of come out naturally just based on having conversation with them.
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You know, like I'm never at I'm at a point where I'm never actively thinking about the push pulls.
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I just kind of embodied that playful back and forth banter with a girl.
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Right.
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And the way I got there, though, was by practicing these lines, writing down some lines, going out,
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doing approaches and trying to make an active attempt to inject one of these lines.
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OK, so that's the art of the push pull.
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It's the compliment.
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And then this other exception to the compliment.
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OK, and then you keep talking as well.
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I'm not like you're cute, but you're trouble.
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Right.
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And then I put the microphone up to her because that's just seeking a response.
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And that's try hard.
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And it could also be too much pressure on the girl.
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It should be playful when when we're incorporating these lines.
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OK, and that's how you're going to get that playful, fun banter that everybody wants to have with women.
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Okay, so super powerful tool right here.
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Be sure to start applying this into your interactions.
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I'll see you in the next video.
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I hope you guys enjoyed this video.
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And quick announcement, by the way, I just released my brand new 12 -week mentorship program.
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So for anybody that's interested in leveling up and achieving their goals with women and dating, click the link in the description,
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All right, I'll talk to you soon.
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本课的词汇与口语要点
这节口语课以视频“Flirting Techniques: How To Use Push Pull”为素材。 视频中反复出现的词有：negative, push, pull, positive, tool。 这段视频共有 107 个句子、1313 个单词可供跟读。 讲话部分时长为 6:35。 说话人语速较快，每分钟约 199 个词，会出现较多连读和弱读。 87% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，词汇容易理解。
视频中的重点词汇
视频中 15 个值得学习的单词，附发音和释义：
| 单词 | 发音 | 释义 |
|---|---|---|
| compliment 名词 | /ˈkɑmpləmənt/ | 稱讚 /称赞, 道賀 /道贺 |
| technique 名词 | /tɛkˈniːk/ | 技術 /技术, 技巧 |
| intent 名词 | /ɪnˈtɛnt/ | 意圖 /意图 |
| hammer 名词 | /ˈhæmɚ/ | 摃錘仔 /𫼱锤仔, 錘子 /锤子 |
| tendency 名词 | /ˈtɛn.dən.si/ | 趨勢 /趋势, 傾向 /倾向 |
| verbal 形容词 | /ˈvɜː.bəl/ | 詞的 /词的 |
| guarantee 名词 | /ˌɡæɹ.ənˈtiː/ | 保證 /保证 |
| essentially 副词 | /ɪˈsɛnʃəli/ | 本質上 /本质上, 基本上 |
| exception 名词 | /əkˈsɛpʃən/ | 排除 |
| versus | /ˈvɝsəs/ | 對 /对 |
| announcement 名词 | /əˈnaʊns.mənt/ | 公告, 發表 /发表 |
| interaction 名词 | /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/ | 相互作用 |
| scenario 名词 | /sɪˈnɛəɹioʊ/ | 腳本 /脚本, 場景 /场景 |
| continuously 副词 | /kənˈtɪnjuəsli/ | 不斷 /不断, 一直 |
| incorporate 动词 | /ɪŋˈkɔɹ.pɚ.eɪt/ | 组成 |
视频中出现的短语动词
| 单词 | 发音 | 释义 |
|---|---|---|
| come out 动词 | /ˌkʌm ˈaʊt/ | 出, 出來 /出来 |
| fill out 动词 | /fɪl ˈaʊt/ | 填, 填寫 /填写 |
| get along 动词 | 相處 /相处 | |
| go out 动词 | 出, 出口 | |
| write down 动词 | 寫下來 /写下来, 寫下 /写下 |
值得反复跟读的句子
视频中简短而完整的句子，可以直接用在日常对话里：
- Let's talk about push -pull.
- How can we use this?
- It's just how we are as human beings.
- It's just, they're both tools that you could use.
- I'm not like you're cute, but you're trouble.
视频中的语法
说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：
| 结构 | 视频中的用法 |
|---|---|
| 被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么，而不是谁做的 | could be described · be fixated |
| 动词 + -ing enjoy、keep、stop… + -ing — 后接 -ing 形式的动词 | keep talking · start applying |
| 比较级 -er than / more … than — 比较两个事物 | better than · more effective than |
| 过去进行时 was/were + -ing — 过去某一时刻正在进行的动作 | was going · was just saying |
需要注意的发音
说话人用了 43 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 you're, I'm, we're。请按听到的简短形式来说。
- “sh” 和 “zh” 音: essentially /ɪˈsɛnʃəli/, exception /əkˈsɛpʃən/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/
- 长单词——注意重音位置: naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, essentially /ɪˈsɛnʃəli/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, continuously /kənˈtɪnjuəsli/, incorporate /ɪŋˈkɔɹ.pɚ.eɪt/
中文母语者容易读错的音：
- /v/ — 不要读成 /w/，上齿轻触下唇: verbal /ˈvɜː.bəl/, versus /ˈvɝsəs/, actively /ˈæktɪvli/, screwdriver /ˈskɹuˌdɹaɪvɚ/, verbatim /vəɹˈbeɪ.tɪm/
- 词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: compliment /ˈkɑmpləmənt/, technique /tɛkˈniːk/, intent /ɪnˈtɛnt/, versus /ˈvɝsəs/, announcement /əˈnaʊns.mənt/
- /æ/ — 嘴张大，不要读成 /e/: naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, hammer /ˈhæmɚ/, guarantee /ˌɡæɹ.ənˈtiː/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, actively /ˈæktɪvli/
如何用这段视频练习
- 先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
- 先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
- 录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 compliment, technique, intent 这类单词。
什么是跟读法？
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。