跟读练习: How To Stop Feeling Stuck In Life - 通过视频学习英语口语
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When I tell you the next five minutes is going to change your life, I do not say it lightly.
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This one question that I continually ask myself has taken me out of longing.
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of waiting for things to happen in my life
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or feeling lost misaligned and like all this stuff i wanted would happen somewhere in the future
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so if you've been struggling with maintaining momentum discipline, consistency, finally seeing those results in your life or leveling up, right?
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Getting to the next version of yourself.
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This one question is going to break through all of that noise.
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It's going to cut through all the thoughts in your head
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and all the things that feel like they're clouding your judgment in order to get there
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and give you the answer you've been looking for.
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Are you ready for it?
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Here it is.
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If someone were to watch you for a whole week, would they say that you were serious about the life you say that you want?
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Let that sink in for a moment.
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If someone were to watch you for a whole week, we'll follow you around, would they say that you're serious about the life you say you want?
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Not what you hope to become, not what you want to be next month, next year, but the way you move this week, today, right here, right now.
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Do your habits and your behaviors prove it?
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Do they prove that you deserve the life that you want?
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Because the hard truth is most of us are waiting for results of a life
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that we're not prepared to show up for now or that we're not yet showing up for.
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We have to create some sort of check and balance and build accountability with ourselves every single day.
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If we are viewing ourselves as this person that's so far removed from the things that we want,
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then we're actually not really acting like the person that has the life we want. in the future.
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And of course, There are practical things we need to do over time to achieve certain things.
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But if you want to be a healthy person, if you want to be a motivated person, if you want to be a disciplined person, and I followed you around for a week,
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would your routine and habits tell me that those things are true?
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Irrespective of how much money you want to make, what kind of career you want, what kind of business you want to start, the person you want to be, the life that they have.
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"Would I believe you if I was to look at your current routine?"
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And building this accountability with yourself through inner reflection by asking yourself this question
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is so powerful to build that discipline within yourself, because you can hold yourself accountable.
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You can look at your routine.
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You know exactly what you do every single day.
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You know best how you spend your time.
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You can't lie to yourself.
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Would you believe yourself in the life you're trying to create?
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And if there is that gap or that discrepancy, well, that could be a very simple reason you are A, losing momentum, B, not being consistent,
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and C, in this prolonged state of waiting rather than having arrived or being already where you want to be.
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And I just want to say, like, this question doesn't ask you to be perfect, right?
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Life happens.
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It's full of ebbs and flows.
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It's not just about saying, oh, today I've had an off day.
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Of course, like, this doesn't reflect the life I want.
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the time, right?
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The 80 % of your time, not the 20 % that are like off days or emergencies or like urgent client things or whatever it is.
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Like what are you doing most of the time?
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And does that prove to someone, most importantly yourself, the kind of life that you want or that you say you want?
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Now here's how you can break it down
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and actually use this question practically to help you get a bit of clarity and become your own accountability buddy.
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First one is getting clarity.
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What do you want?
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What life do you want?
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What are the things that you want?
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What kind of, Is it more financial freedom?
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Is it more time freedom?
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Is it a bigger house?
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Is it moving to another city?
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Get clarity, what is the life that you say that you want?
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Get clarity on it and make sure it is aligned for you.
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It's something that you genuinely want.
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The second step is to reflect weekly.
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So I typically like to do this on a Sunday.
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I like to just reflect and simply ask myself.
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For me, it's like an internal conversation.
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Some people like to journal, some people like to meditate.
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You find your own way to do it, right?
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you reflect and you say, would last week's version of me
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or this week's version of me tell someone seriously of the life I'm trying to create or the life that I want?
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I hold myself accountable and I create that space to check in with myself and say, actually, it didn't because every single night I spent scrolling on my phone
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and I didn't take my bedtime seriously or I was really slack with the gym and so
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I'm trying to be a healthier person that doesn't really align, right?
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It gives you these beautiful moments of pause and reflection to hold yourself accountable, because nobody is going to knock on your door and say,
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hey, you're not working towards your goals in an aligned way.
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You're not building the life you want.
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You say you want this, but you're acting like this.
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You have to do that for yourself.
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So the third step here is what if you answer no, right?
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What if the answer is I didn't act?
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If someone followed me around last week, they wouldn't say I'm serious about being a healthier person or get building financial freedom or all those things, right?
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If the answer's no. Don't spiral.
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step one, but in all honesty, you want to course correct, but you want to pick one thing.
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So say you noticed last week, you spent a lot of time on your phone, make that the focus of next week, right?
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Pick just one thing that you want to find true, not all 10 things, or maybe you have a list.
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We want to go one thing at a time.
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So it's sustainable, right?
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Pick one thing for this coming week that you can course correct and then reflect on again.
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And then it's just kind of like this process of, okay, I'm holding myself accountable and reflecting, I'm course correcting, tweaking.
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And slowly over time, you start acting like the person who says they want that life.
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And the by -product of that is you end up getting that life too, because you're living it, breathing it, you're not waiting for it.
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And Hold the vision.
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Step four is to hold the vision.
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What I mean when I say this is when you're working towards something, right?
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A particular type of life, it sometimes, depending on what it is you're working towards, it's an evolution, right?
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It doesn't just happen overnight.
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And so you need to hold the vision.
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knowing that you're showing up and doing everything like the person who's going to have
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that life or that is building that life and
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that you might just need a bit of patience for it to all fall into place.
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And there is a skill in holding that vision whilst you're waiting for your reality to change.
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That is a superpower and that is something you need to hone into
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so you can maintain your consistency in spite of what's going on.
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And I'll give you guys a really quick example here.
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Like when I started this channel, when I started this podcast, I have a vision in my head of where it's going when nowhere close, baby, we are on the way,
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Do you think that if I let that stop me my first one, two, three, four years, I'd be anywhere close to building that reality?
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No, I would have stopped because what I saw in front of me was not what I see in my head, which is the vision.
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So I have that vision that keeps me going, that allows me to show up every day like the person who already has the podcast that's at
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that level that I have in my mind.
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That's why I show up every week and I don't miss an episode.
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That's how I stay consistent and motivated towards where I'm going.
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Because if someone was to look at the how I spend my time
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and the dedication and effort I put into the podcast, they would say I'm serious about that life that I say I want, about that vision in my head.
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is there or not at the moment.
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And so that's what the last step is all about.
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This question, has really helped me stay grounded and focused.
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And it's helped me cut through all the noise and the mess.
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when life gets busy, you know, and you're kind of stuck in your own head.
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It helps me really bring it back down and say, have that check in with myself, hold myself accountable.
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So today you can follow these four steps and you can really simply ask yourself, what is the life you're trying to build?
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Is it aligned for you?
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And are you actually building that dream life or are you just sitting here thinking about it?
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And if that question makes you uncomfortable, good, because that's where change starts.
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If you guys love this episode, I'm going to link another one I did about
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a lot if you've enjoyed this episode so the link to
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that is in the show notes it's on the screen now
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if you're watching on youtube and i'll see you guys all next week in another episode until then stay balanced
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背景与背景
在生活中，我们常常会感到迷失和不确定。许多人在追求理想生活的过程中，面临着懒惰、缺乏动力或是缺乏毅力等问题。视频中的演讲者提到，通过自我反思和提问，我们可以打破这些障碍，逐步实现目标。通过建立自我责任感与明确目标，我们可以提高索求与实现自我所需生活的能力，更好地应对生活中的挑战。这个过程不仅有助于我们的个人成长，还可以帮助我们在英语口语练习中，变得更加自信，提高英语发音和沟通能力。
日常交流中的五个关键短语
- 你是否认真对待你想要的生活？
- 你的习惯是否证明你值得拥有所想？
- 你当前的日常作息能反映出你的目标吗？
- 在大多数时间里，你的行为与目标一致吗？
- 通过反思，如何在生活中建立自我责任感？
这些短语不仅是自我检查的工具，还可以帮助我们在英语口语交流中，更加流利和自然。将这些短语运用到日常练习中，通过看YouTube学英语的方式，不断重复，强化自己的语言表达能力。这样的练习有助于提高我们的发音和自信心，特别是在进行雅思口语练习时，能够使我们更从容地应对考题。
逐步模仿指导
为了更好地应对视频中的内容和提高口语能力，可以采取以下步骤：
- 明确目标：首先思考你真正想要的是什么，并写下来。这个步骤将帮助你在进行英语口语练习时有明确的方向。
- 模仿练习：观看视频时，逐句模仿演讲者的发音和语调。这个过程可以提升你的英语口语技巧，尤其是在提高英语发音方面。
- 自我检查：使用前面提到的短语进行自我评估。检查你的日常生活习惯是否与目标一致，看看是否需要调整。
- 寻找反馈：可以找朋友一起练习，互相反馈，改进自己的表达能力。
- 持续练习：每天花一定时间进行shadowspeak练习，逐步建立自信，适应不同的口音和语速。
通过这种逐步模仿与自我反思的结合，你将能够在日常生活中进行更流利的英语交流，同时也能使自己更接近理想的生活状态。
视频中的语法
说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：
| 结构 | 视频中的用法 |
|---|---|
| 现在完成进行时 have/has been + -ing — 以前开始、现在仍在继续的动作 | you've been struggling · you've been looking |
| 条件句 if + 从句，will/would + 动词 — 条件及其结果 | if you're watching on youtube and i'll see |
| 现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事 | has taken · has really helped · you've enjoyed |
| 定语从句 who / which + 从句 — 补充说明人或事物 | person who says · head, which is · person who already |
什么是跟读法？
跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。