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When I tell you the next five minutes is going to change your life, I do not say it lightly.
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This one question that I continually ask myself has taken me out of longing.
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of waiting for things to happen in my life
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or feeling lost misaligned and like all this stuff i wanted would happen somewhere in the future
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so if you've been struggling with maintaining momentum discipline, consistency, finally seeing those results in your life or leveling up, right?
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Getting to the next version of yourself.
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This one question is going to break through all of that noise.
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It's going to cut through all the thoughts in your head
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and all the things that feel like they're clouding your judgment in order to get there
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and give you the answer you've been looking for.
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Are you ready for it?
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Here it is.
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If someone were to watch you for a whole week, would they say that you were serious about the life you say that you want?
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Let that sink in for a moment.
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If someone were to watch you for a whole week, we'll follow you around, would they say that you're serious about the life you say you want?
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Not what you hope to become, not what you want to be next month, next year, but the way you move this week, today, right here, right now.
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Do your habits and your behaviors prove it?
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Do they prove that you deserve the life that you want?
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Because the hard truth is most of us are waiting for results of a life
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that we're not prepared to show up for now or that we're not yet showing up for.
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We have to create some sort of check and balance and build accountability with ourselves every single day.
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If we are viewing ourselves as this person that's so far removed from the things that we want,
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then we're actually not really acting like the person that has the life we want. in the future.
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And of course, There are practical things we need to do over time to achieve certain things.
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But if you want to be a healthy person, if you want to be a motivated person, if you want to be a disciplined person, and I followed you around for a week,
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would your routine and habits tell me that those things are true?
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Irrespective of how much money you want to make, what kind of career you want, what kind of business you want to start, the person you want to be, the life that they have.
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"Would I believe you if I was to look at your current routine?"
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And building this accountability with yourself through inner reflection by asking yourself this question
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is so powerful to build that discipline within yourself, because you can hold yourself accountable.
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You can look at your routine.
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You know exactly what you do every single day.
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You know best how you spend your time.
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You can't lie to yourself.
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Would you believe yourself in the life you're trying to create?
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And if there is that gap or that discrepancy, well, that could be a very simple reason you are A, losing momentum, B, not being consistent,
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and C, in this prolonged state of waiting rather than having arrived or being already where you want to be.
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And I just want to say, like, this question doesn't ask you to be perfect, right?
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Life happens.
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It's full of ebbs and flows.
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It's not just about saying, oh, today I've had an off day.
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Of course, like, this doesn't reflect the life I want.
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the time, right?
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The 80 % of your time, not the 20 % that are like off days or emergencies or like urgent client things or whatever it is.
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Like what are you doing most of the time?
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And does that prove to someone, most importantly yourself, the kind of life that you want or that you say you want?
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Now here's how you can break it down
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and actually use this question practically to help you get a bit of clarity and become your own accountability buddy.
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First one is getting clarity.
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What do you want?
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What life do you want?
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What are the things that you want?
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What kind of, Is it more financial freedom?
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Is it more time freedom?
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Is it a bigger house?
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Is it moving to another city?
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Get clarity, what is the life that you say that you want?
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Get clarity on it and make sure it is aligned for you.
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It's something that you genuinely want.
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The second step is to reflect weekly.
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So I typically like to do this on a Sunday.
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I like to just reflect and simply ask myself.
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For me, it's like an internal conversation.
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Some people like to journal, some people like to meditate.
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You find your own way to do it, right?
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you reflect and you say, would last week's version of me
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or this week's version of me tell someone seriously of the life I'm trying to create or the life that I want?
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I hold myself accountable and I create that space to check in with myself and say, actually, it didn't because every single night I spent scrolling on my phone
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and I didn't take my bedtime seriously or I was really slack with the gym and so
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I'm trying to be a healthier person that doesn't really align, right?
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It gives you these beautiful moments of pause and reflection to hold yourself accountable, because nobody is going to knock on your door and say,
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hey, you're not working towards your goals in an aligned way.
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You're not building the life you want.
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You say you want this, but you're acting like this.
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You have to do that for yourself.
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So the third step here is what if you answer no, right?
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What if the answer is I didn't act?
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If someone followed me around last week, they wouldn't say I'm serious about being a healthier person or get building financial freedom or all those things, right?
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If the answer's no. Don't spiral.
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step one, but in all honesty, you want to course correct, but you want to pick one thing.
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So say you noticed last week, you spent a lot of time on your phone, make that the focus of next week, right?
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Pick just one thing that you want to find true, not all 10 things, or maybe you have a list.
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We want to go one thing at a time.
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So it's sustainable, right?
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Pick one thing for this coming week that you can course correct and then reflect on again.
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And then it's just kind of like this process of, okay, I'm holding myself accountable and reflecting, I'm course correcting, tweaking.
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And slowly over time, you start acting like the person who says they want that life.
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And the by -product of that is you end up getting that life too, because you're living it, breathing it, you're not waiting for it.
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And Hold the vision.
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Step four is to hold the vision.
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What I mean when I say this is when you're working towards something, right?
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A particular type of life, it sometimes, depending on what it is you're working towards, it's an evolution, right?
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It doesn't just happen overnight.
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And so you need to hold the vision.
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knowing that you're showing up and doing everything like the person who's going to have
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that life or that is building that life and
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that you might just need a bit of patience for it to all fall into place.
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And there is a skill in holding that vision whilst you're waiting for your reality to change.
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That is a superpower and that is something you need to hone into
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so you can maintain your consistency in spite of what's going on.
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And I'll give you guys a really quick example here.
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Like when I started this channel, when I started this podcast, I have a vision in my head of where it's going when nowhere close, baby, we are on the way,
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Do you think that if I let that stop me my first one, two, three, four years, I'd be anywhere close to building that reality?
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No, I would have stopped because what I saw in front of me was not what I see in my head, which is the vision.
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So I have that vision that keeps me going, that allows me to show up every day like the person who already has the podcast that's at
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that level that I have in my mind.
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That's why I show up every week and I don't miss an episode.
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That's how I stay consistent and motivated towards where I'm going.
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Because if someone was to look at the how I spend my time
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and the dedication and effort I put into the podcast, they would say I'm serious about that life that I say I want, about that vision in my head.
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is there or not at the moment.
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And so that's what the last step is all about.
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This question, has really helped me stay grounded and focused.
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And it's helped me cut through all the noise and the mess.
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when life gets busy, you know, and you're kind of stuck in your own head.
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It helps me really bring it back down and say, have that check in with myself, hold myself accountable.
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So today you can follow these four steps and you can really simply ask yourself, what is the life you're trying to build?
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Is it aligned for you?
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And are you actually building that dream life or are you just sitting here thinking about it?
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And if that question makes you uncomfortable, good, because that's where change starts.
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If you guys love this episode, I'm going to link another one I did about
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a lot if you've enjoyed this episode so the link to
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that is in the show notes it's on the screen now
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if you're watching on youtube and i'll see you guys all next week in another episode until then stay balanced
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Về Bài Học Này
Trong bài học này, bạn sẽ thực hành kỹ năng nói tiếng Anh thông qua việc lắng nghe và nhại lại những câu nói từ video "Cách Ngừng Cảm Thấy Bị Kẹt Trong Cuộc Sống." Bạn sẽ có cơ hội để tự kiểm tra thói quen hàng ngày của mình và xem liệu bạn có đang thực sự sống đúng với những ước mơ và mục tiêu mà bạn đề ra hay không. Bài học sẽ giúp bạn cải thiện khả năng phát âm, ngữ điệu và sự tự tin khi giao tiếp bằng tiếng Anh.
Từ Vựng & Cụm Từ Quan Trọng
- Momentum: Động lực
- Accountability: Trách nhiệm cá nhân
- Discipline: Kỷ luật
- Habits: Thói quen
- Clarity: Sự rõ ràng
- Reflect: Phản chiếu
- Results: Kết quả
- Daily routine: Thói quen hàng ngày
Mẹo Thực Hành
Khi thực hành kỹ thuật shadow speech với video này, hãy chú ý đến tốc độ và giọng điệu của người nói. Dưới đây là một số mẹo để bạn tối đa hóa hiệu quả thực hành shadowing:
- Nghe Lặp Lại: Hãy nghe từng câu một, sau đó nhại lại ngay lập tức. Nếu bạn không hiểu hoàn toàn, hãy dừng lại và nghe lại để nắm rõ ngữ nghĩa và cách diễn đạt.
- Ghi Chép: Khi bạn nghe, hãy ghi lại một số từ vựng và cụm từ quan trọng. Điều này sẽ giúp bạn nhớ và sử dụng chúng trong các tình huống giao tiếp khác.
- Thực Hành Đều Đặn: Dành ít nhất 20 phút mỗi ngày để luyện tập với video này hoặc các video khác trên các trang web shadowing. Thời gian này sẽ giúp nâng cao kỹ năng của bạn từng chút một.
- Chú Ý Đến Tâm Thế: Khi bạn thực hành, hãy tưởng tượng rằng bạn đang giao tiếp thật sự với một người khác. Điều này sẽ giúp bạn tăng cường sự tự tin và cải thiện kỹ năng nói của mình.
- Phần Mềm Shadowing: Sử dụng phần mềm shadowing nếu có thể, để giúp bạn theo dõi tiến trình và nhận phản hồi hiệu quả từ chính bản thân mình.
Hãy nhớ rằng việc tự kiểm tra thói quen và hành vi của bản thân là cực kỳ quan trọng. Những thói quen hàng ngày của bạn có thể cho bạn biết bạn có đang tiến gần tới mục tiêu của bản thân hay không. Thực hành đều đặn sẽ giúp bạn không chỉ cải thiện tiếng Anh mà còn giúp bạn tạo ra sự thay đổi tích cực trong cuộc sống của mình.
Ngữ pháp trong video
Những cấu trúc người nói dùng nhiều nhất, kèm đúng cụm từ trong video:
| Cấu trúc | Trong video |
|---|---|
| Thì hiện tại hoàn thành tiếp diễn have/has been + -ing — việc bắt đầu từ trước và vẫn đang tiếp tục | you've been struggling · you've been looking |
| Câu điều kiện if + mệnh đề, will/would + động từ — điều kiện và kết quả | if you're watching on youtube and i'll see |
| Thì hiện tại hoàn thành have/has + quá khứ phân từ — việc đã xảy ra nhưng còn liên quan đến hiện tại | has taken · has really helped · you've enjoyed |
| Mệnh đề quan hệ who / which + mệnh đề — thêm thông tin về người hoặc vật | person who says · head, which is · person who already |
Phương Pháp Shadowing Là Gì?
Shadowing là kỹ thuật học ngôn ngữ có cơ sở khoa học, ban đầu được phát triển cho chương trình đào tạo phiên dịch viên chuyên nghiệp và được phổ biến rộng rãi bởi nhà đa ngôn ngữ học Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Nguyên lý cốt lõi đơn giản nhưng cực kỳ hiệu quả: bạn nghe tiếng Anh của người bản xứ và lặp lại to ngay lập tức — như một "cái bóng" (shadow) đuổi theo người nói với độ trễ chỉ 1–2 giây. Khác với luyện ngữ pháp hay học từ vựng bị động, Shadowing buộc não bộ và cơ miệng phải đồng thời xử lý và tái tạo ngôn ngữ thực tế. Các nghiên cứu khoa học xác nhận phương pháp này cải thiện đáng kể phát âm, ngữ điệu, nhịp điệu, nối âm, kỹ năng nghe và độ lưu loát khi nói — đặc biệt hiệu quả cho người luyện IELTS Speaking và muốn giao tiếp tiếng Anh tự nhiên như người bản ngữ.