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What's the difference between a big ego and a strong one?
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That's what I'm talking about today.
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I'm Dr. Tracy Marks, a psychiatrist, and I make mental health education videos.
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The concept of the ego comes from psychoanalytic theory in Sigmund Freud's structural model of the mind.
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With this model, the mind is divided into three structures, the id, the ego, and the superego.
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The id is like your lizard brain.
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It represents your instinctual drives, including sexual and aggressive urges.
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These drives are unconscious and beyond your awareness.
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On the other end of the spectrum is the superego.
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Your superego represents your values and moral principles.
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It's like your sense of right and wrong.
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Your superego is completely conscious, and some people even equate it to your conscience.
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So you have your id part of your mind that wants to run loose and do whatever it feels like doing,
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and your superego that makes the judgments about whether what you really wanna do or think is acceptable.
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The moderator between these two structures is your ego.
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It does all the heavy lifting when it comes to making decisions and processing information that you get from your external world.
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It interprets that information and takes action.
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The stronger your ego, the more adaptive you are.
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Your ego develops in the first three years of your life.
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Your view of the world is formed by your early interactions.
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You form a vibrant, healthy view of the world and yourself if you have early relationships that affirm you with acceptance, empathy, and validation.
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These experiences don't come only from your mother.
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A baby can feel affirmed by a doting babysitter.
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Similarly, negative experiences in this stage of your life can chip away at your ego strength,
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but the net result is the sum total of your experiences.
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So one bad day stuck in a baby bouncer and ignored doesn't destroy your ego.
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It's the general experience that you have with the people that you spend a lot of time with.
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So you can think of your ego as your I or yourself because it's who you are at your core.
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But the term has morphed into meaning having an overblown view of yourself and something negative that you need to leave behind,
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like leave your ego at the door.
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That meaning is what people think of as having a big ego, but a big ego is not strong.
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It results from overcompensating to manage a weak ego.
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Your ego strength is how well your mind is able to fulfill the normal ego functions
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that help you self -regulate and adapt to prosperity, adversity, and change.
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And here are some of the functions of the ego.
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Abstract thinking, perception, and reality testing.
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And this is knowing when what you think is logical and fits with reality.
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Censorship, which is being able to determine when a thought or urge is appropriate.
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Social judgment, affect tolerance.
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This is how much you're able to tolerate strong emotions.
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Impulse control, defense mechanisms for coping and internal conflict resolution.
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If you have a strong ego, you have self -confidence, high frustration tolerance,
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you can postpone gratification, you can compromise and forego your own desires
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and wishes for the greater good when necessary and this is a measure of impulse control,
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and you can resolve internal conflicts before they cause problems for you.
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Here's an example of a conflict resolution issue.
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Suppose you have trouble committing to things because you don't wanna make the wrong decision.
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And this is an internal conflict that can manifest in any scenario of making daily decisions.
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In this case, it affects your relationships.
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You meet someone that you're attracted to and you start dating,
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but you're hesitant to become exclusive because you fear you're gonna miss out on someone better.
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A way to resolve this conflict is to accept
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that you can't control the unknown and there's always the possibility of finding someone that you think is better.
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They may be better in some ways, but not in others.
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So you reason to yourself that you'll never know how good
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or bad this person is going to be until you give it a full try.
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If it feels like it's a good fit for you,
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you remind yourself that no one is perfect and you could spend an eternity looking for someone better.
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If you resolve the conflict, you agree to having a committed relationship and see where it takes you.
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But if you get stuck on the conflict and don't resolve it, you push the person away, continue to have shallow relationships that don't lead anywhere,
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and end up unhappy because you can't seem to find the right person.
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Here are some signs of a weak ego.
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Being impulsive and needing immediate gratification.
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Emotional instability in the form of outbursts and explosions.
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You may apologize for the explosions and wish you didn't do them, but you keep doing them because you don't have the control.
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Feeling inferior and then needing to exert superiority over others in order to elevate yourself.
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An example of this is needing to see other people lose to feel a win for yourself.
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Another sign of a weak ego is having distorted reality perceptions.
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This may manifest as intense paranoia, always feeling someone has ill intentions.
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Another sign is having a fragile sense of self.
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You need others to define who you are, what you believe, and what you should do.
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You're dependent, but you don't wanna be.
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You look to others for direction, but then resent them for controlling you and making you feel like a child.
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A last sign that I'll mention is using primitive defenses.
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I talk about defense mechanisms in this video.
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Ego weakness doesn't have to be all of these things.
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It can affect certain aspects of your personality.
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How do you strengthen your ego?
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Here are two ways.
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First, engage in activities that increase your insight like therapy or journaling.
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There are many ways to journal and some types are gratitude journaling, developing affirming self -talk, or writing out daily observations for self -reflection.
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Writing these thoughts out rather than just thinking about them makes them more concrete and helps you consider other points of view.
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Opening your mind to other points of view of a situation increases your psychological flexibility.
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A second suggestion is to engage in self -care activities such as setting limits with people.
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Say no to activities and requests that don't serve you even if it's something that someone else wants.
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Eliminate negative people and situations from your life.
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Take care of your body with proper rest, exercise, and diet.
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Make time to be intentional in these areas.
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For example, make having a regular bedtime a priority.
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You don't wanna fall asleep only when everything is finished or when you feel tired, because if you stay up working on something,
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you may not feel tired at your ideal bedtime, and your body will allow
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you to stay awake for as long as it can until it gives up on you
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and turns the lights out for you.
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But that time may not be until 2 a .m.
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instead of 10 p .m.
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In your mind, you can think, I wasn't sleepy at 10, but you could have fallen asleep had you prepared for it and gotten in bed.
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But since you were up, your mind and body allowed you to keep going.
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And it's easy for busy people to sacrifice sleep in order to get things done.
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But all that does is subtract from your capacity to self -regulate and adapt.
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A third approach to strengthening your ego is to recognize if you use primitive defenses and change them to more mature ones.
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Watch this video on defense mechanisms and this one on psychological flexibility.
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Thanks for watching.
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See you next time.
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Wortschatz und Sprechhinweise zu dieser Lektion
Diese Sprechübung basiert auf dem Video „Big Egos vs. Strong Egos: How To Spot A Weak One“. Diese Wörter kommen am häufigsten vor: ego, conflict, self, superego, defense. Dieses Video enthält 103 Sätze und 1311 Wörter zum Nachsprechen. Der gesprochene Teil dauert 7:31. Der Sprecher spricht in natürlichem Tempo, etwa 175 Wörter pro Minute, ähnlich wie im Alltagsgespräch. 82 % der Wörter gehören zu den 3.000 häufigsten im Englischen; den Rest solltest du dir vor dem Üben ansehen.
Wichtiger Wortschatz in diesem Video
15 lernenswerte Wörter aus dem Video, mit Aussprache und Bedeutung:
| Wort | Aussprache | Bedeutung |
|---|---|---|
| resolve Verb | /ɹɪˈzɑlv/ | lösen, auflösen |
| mechanism Substantiv | /ˈmɛk.ə.nɪ.zəm/ | Mechanismus |
| asleep Adjektiv | /əˈsliːp/ | schlafend |
| engage Verb | /ɪnˈɡeɪd͡ʒ/ | beschäftigen |
| commit Verb | /kəˈmɪt/ | anvertrauen, (vertrauensvoll) übergeben |
| judgment Substantiv | /ˈd͡ʒʌd͡ʒ.mənt/ | Urteil |
| psychological Adjektiv | /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/ | psychologisch |
| explosion Substantiv | /ɛkˈsploʊ.ʒən/ | Explosion |
| perception Substantiv | /pɚˈsɛpʃ(ə)n/ | Wahrnehmung |
| urge Verb | /ɜːd͡ʒ/ | drängen, mahnen |
| tolerance Substantiv | /ˈtɑ.lə.ɹəns/ | Toleranz |
| strengthen Verb | /ˈstɹɛŋ(k)θən/ | verstärken, stärken |
| flexibility Substantiv | /ˌflɛksɪˈbɪlɪti/ | Flexibilität |
| adapt Verb | /əˈdæpt/ | anpassen, angleichen |
| regulate Verb | /ˈɹɛɡ.jə.leɪt/ | regeln, regulieren |
Phrasal Verbs, die du hören wirst
| Wort | Bedeutung |
|---|---|
| end up Verb | sich herausstellen, am Ende irgendwo / etwas sein |
| leave behind Verb | zurücklassen, hinterlassen |
| stay up Verb | aufbleiben, durchmachen |
| write out Verb | ausschreiben |
Sätze zum Wiederholen
Kurze, vollständige Sätze aus dem Video, die du im Alltag wiederverwenden kannst:
- That's what I'm talking about today.
- It's like your sense of right and wrong.
- These experiences don't come only from your mother.
- You're dependent, but you don't wanna be.
- How do you strengthen your ego?
Aussprache, auf die du achten solltest
Der Sprecher verwendet 28 Kurzformen und abgeschwächte Formen, zum Beispiel don't, you're, wanna. Sprich sie in der kurzen Form, so wie du sie hörst.
- Die „th“-Laute: strengthen /ˈstɹɛŋ(k)θən/, empathy /ˈɛmpəθi/
- Die Laute „sh“ und „zh“: explosion /ɛkˈsploʊ.ʒən/, perception /pɚˈsɛpʃ(ə)n/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, suggestion /səˈd͡ʒɛst.ʃən/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/
- Lange Wörter – auf die Betonung achten: mechanism /ˈmɛk.ə.nɪ.zəm/, psychological /ˌsaɪ.kəˈlɑː.d͡ʒɪ.kl̩/, flexibility /ˌflɛksɪˈbɪlɪti/, priority /pɹaɪˈɒɹɪti/, similarly /ˈsɪm.ə.lə.li/
Laute, die Deutschsprachigen schwerfallen:
- /w/ — mit runden Lippen, nicht wie das deutsche „w“ (/v/): awareness /əˈwɛɹ.nəs/, weakness /ˈwik.nɪs/, awake /əˈweɪk/, equate /ɪˈkweɪt/
- Stimmhafter Auslaut — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ am Wortende nicht verhärten: resolve /ɹɪˈzɑlv/, engage /ɪnˈɡeɪd͡ʒ/, urge /ɜːd͡ʒ/, primitive /ˈpɹɪmɪtɪv/, remind /ɹəˈmaɪnd/
- /æ/ — offener als „ä“: adapt /əˈdæpt/, manifest /ˈmæn.ɪ.fɛst/, aspect /ˈæspɛkt/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, sacrifice /ˈsæk.ɹɪ.faɪs/
So übst du mit diesem Video
- Höre dir das ganze Video einmal an, ohne zu sprechen, und notiere die Wörter, die du nicht kennst.
- Beginne mit 0,75-facher Geschwindigkeit, sprich Satz für Satz nach und wechsle zur normalen Geschwindigkeit, sobald es leichtfällt.
- Nimm dich auf und vergleiche mit dem Original; achte dabei auf Wörter wie resolve, mechanism, asleep.
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