Shadowing Practice: I hate being performative - Learn English Speaking with Video
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I hate being performative.
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I hate it when I can just feel this angst inside myself
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when I'm trying to either seek someone's approval or I'm trying to just fit in.
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Now, I think there's different levels.
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There's different levels of being performative or performance.
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And one is sort of, maybe all of them are sort of out of this sense of insecurity.
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But some of them, I guess, are worse than others.
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Some of them, someone is completely fake Someone could be, I don't know, maybe their whole life is a liar Just what they say and how they act is disingenuine
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Versus someone who is trying to fit in, but they don't quite know how And I guess that's where I am Not right now,
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but I have been in the latter
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Trying to either fit in with a group Or just feel like I am not a complete outsider
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and I guess especially in school high school I felt
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so much anxiety and maybe I wasn't performative
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but I was just very very aware too aware too conscious
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to the point where I guess I wasn't really doing a whole lot from the outside
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but from the inside I felt like I wasn't me I wasn't acting like myself
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and it was performance without any actual outside performance
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but just constant monitoring of myself which is in some sense performance
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or maybe just really bad anxiety
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but nonetheless I don't feel this way anymore at least not nearly as much as
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when I was in school maybe sometimes in some way I feel this way
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but um it's definitely gotten a lot better But I think it's weird because,
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especially with social media, but even maybe just in a place like school, you know, who is being real, who is just performing?
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And you wonder, well, who am I in relation to all this?
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Am I performing?
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Or is everyone just kind of hiding something, hiding how they really feel about their life?
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I don't know.
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Are people just kind of ignorant or are people just very good at performance?
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I don't know but I feel like in some way our whole life is just an act.
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We're all just trying to make people think we are someone
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that we don't really feel like or that we hope to be
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but we don't necessarily feel like we are
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and we're just doing things to convince everyone but
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if everyone's doing this then what's the point maybe we can all just drop the act
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and just start being more real with each other maybe we can stop trying to focus
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so much on being this person who is thought highly of instead just not care so much.
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I don't know.
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To many, it probably isn't that easy.
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Maybe even to me.
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I mean, just recording this video, maybe this is a performance.
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I don't know.
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But here's what I'll say.
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To me, I do not trust the person who is always agreeable, nor do I trust the person who is always disagreeable.
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I think especially on social media,
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there is sort of this idea that if you're someone who's super duper relatable or super duper just like repulsive or disagreeable,
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then you'll be popular.
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And I wonder, well, how much of it is just trying to be agreeable or trying to be disagreeable just for,
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you know, the views, the likes or the follows or whatever versus what do you actually think?
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Because that's what I want to know.
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I don't want to know what you think that is politically correct.
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I don't know what you want to think that you think other people will approve of.
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I just want to know what you think.
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And it's difficult in society, at least in Western society.
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Maybe this is probably just a whole world thing, but not wanting to be perceived in a certain way as negative based off of either how you act
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or what you think or your opinions.
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And it's maybe in some context, maybe in some context, you could say maybe it's a good thing.
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But I think overall, overall, probably in 99% of situations,
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it's bad because everyone kind of just keeps what they really think on the inside.
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and instead they just perform.
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And I don't think it helps anyone.
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I don't think it helps society.
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I don't think it helps people grow.
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I don't think it helps people get along better either.
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I think really it's just performance, like I've been saying so many times.
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But yeah, I don't want to be performative.
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It's like the thing about social media, posting on here, It's like, what's going to happen to me if I get famous?
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Or if people start, you know, commenting more, saying things, whatever, whether it's good or bad, what's going to happen?
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Will I turn into someone who I'm not actually?
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Will I just start performing and just lose myself?
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I hope not.
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I hope not.
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But maybe it's also a test of character. And that's the thing.
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Like you see people like when they get famous, some people say, oh, that guy really changed.
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They changed or they weren't the same way they are.
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But I wonder in what way?
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In what way did they change?
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Did they change in a better way or a worse way?
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It's usually a worse way when people talk about it that way. But why?
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Is it fame?
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Is it money?
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Is it power?
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I wonder.
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I really do.
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But I guess here's my declaration or proclamation.
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I'll say it out loud here.
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I declare that I will not let it destroy me or ruin me or strip out the things that are genuine.
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Because in some way, the more popular or famous you get, the more you have to lose.
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and it's like people care more about how they are perceived versus just in some sense their dignity
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their dignity their dignity of what they stand on what they believe in And I don't like that, you know?
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It's unfortunate.
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And I guess I don't want to become that way.
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So we'll have to see.
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We'll have to see what happens to me, to my life.
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In one way, I guess success would be a great thing.
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But in another way, it's a test.
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It's a test to see who will I become Will I just become another performer Or will I somehow remain me
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I think fame changes everyone To some extent
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But it shouldn't change you In a super negative way In some sense it should
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I don't know Amplify the good things about you I mean, I guess that's what I would hope it would do, but maybe that's just like wishful thinking.
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That's probably not what happens most of the time.
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But yeah, that's what I'm thinking.
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I don't want to be performative.
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I just want to be me.
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Vocabulario y notas de pronunciación para esta lección
Este vídeo tiene 103 frases y 1161 palabras para practicar shadowing. La parte hablada dura 8:19. El hablante mantiene un ritmo constante de unas 139 palabras por minuto, cómodo para el shadowing. El 86 % de las palabras está entre las 3.000 más comunes del inglés; conviene repasar el resto antes de empezar.
Vocabulario clave de este vídeo
15 palabras del vídeo que vale la pena aprender, con su pronunciación y significado:
| Palabra | Pronunciación | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| versus | /ˈvɝsəs/ | contra, en vez de |
| dignity sustantivo | /ˈdɪɡnɪti/ | dignidad |
| anxiety sustantivo | /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/ | zozobra, ansiedad |
| fame sustantivo | /feɪm/ | fama, nombradía |
| perceive verbo | /pɚˈsiv/ | percibir, apercibirse de |
| necessarily adverbio | /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/ | necesariamente |
| extent sustantivo | /ɪkˈstɛnt/ | extensión |
| genuine adjetivo | /ˈd͡ʒɛn.juˌɪn/ | genuino, auténtico |
| monitor sustantivo | /ˈmɑ.nɪ.tɚ/ | monitor |
| strip verbo | /ˈstɹɪp/ | remover |
| relation sustantivo | /ɹɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/ | relación |
| ruin sustantivo | /ˈɹuː.ɪn/ | ruina |
| convince verbo | /kənˈvɪns/ | convencer, llevar al huerto |
| conscious adjetivo | /ˈkɑn.ʃəs/ | consciente |
| unfortunate adjetivo | /ʌnˈfɔː.t͡ʃə.nɪt/ | desafortunado, desgraciado |
Phrasal verbs que vas a escuchar
| Palabra | Significado |
|---|---|
| get along verbo | llevarse bien con, avenirse |
Gramática en este vídeo
Las estructuras que más usa el hablante, con las palabras exactas del vídeo:
| Estructura | En el vídeo |
|---|---|
| Oraciones de relativo who / which + oración — información extra sobre una persona o cosa | someone who is · myself which is · person who is |
| Voz pasiva be + participio pasado — importa lo que ocurre, no quién lo hace | is thought · be perceived · are perceived |
Pronunciación a tener en cuenta
El hablante usa 40 contracciones y formas reducidas, como don't, I'm, wasn't. Dilas en su forma corta, tal como las oyes.
- Los sonidos de “sh” y “zh”: relation /ɹɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, conscious /ˈkɑn.ʃəs/, declaration /ˌdɛk.ləˈɹeɪ.ʃən/, proclamation /ˌpɹɑkləˈmeɪʃən/, wishful /ˈwɪʃfəl/
- Palabras largas — cuida el acento: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, necessarily /ˌnɛs.əˈsɛɹ.ə.li/, unfortunate /ʌnˈfɔː.t͡ʃə.nɪt/, declaration /ˌdɛk.ləˈɹeɪ.ʃən/, disagreeable /dɪsəˈɡɹi.əbəl/
Cómo practicar con este vídeo
- Escucha el vídeo entero una vez sin hablar y anota las palabras que no conoces.
- Haz shadowing frase por frase a velocidad normal, repitiendo cada una hasta que tu ritmo coincida con el del hablante.
- Grábate y compara con el original, prestando atención a palabras como versus, dignity, anxiety.
¿Qué es la Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing es una técnica de aprendizaje de idiomas respaldada por la ciencia, desarrollada originalmente para la formación de intérpretes profesionales y popularizada por el políglota Dr. Alexander Arguelles. El método es simple pero poderoso: escuchas audio en inglés nativo y lo repites en voz alta de inmediato, como una sombra que sigue al hablante con solo 1-2 segundos de retraso. A diferencia de la escucha pasiva o los ejercicios de gramática, el shadowing obliga a tu cerebro y músculos de la boca a procesar y reproducir simultáneamente patrones de habla reales. Las investigaciones muestran que mejora significativamente la precisión de la pronunciación, la entonación, el ritmo, el habla conectada, la comprensión auditiva y la fluidez al hablar, convirtiéndola en una de las metodologías más efectivas para la preparación del IELTS Speaking y la comunicación en inglés en el mundo real.