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You need to realize that if you want to do something, there's not going to be a special moment.
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I feel like people are going to make fun of me and .
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Yeah, people probably gonna, but it's okay.
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Who gives a ?
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If you don't ask for it, you're not going to get it.
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If you don't work for it, you're not going to get it.
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It's just that simple.
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Okay, so you have to go for it.
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Number 12, you do not need to be friends with everyone.
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It's okay to lose friends.
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There's going to be some XYZ, some friend to save me.
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Like, no, .
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You save yourself.
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You do everything for yourself.
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Okay guys, welcome back to my channel.
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Okay, you might be like, wow, you look really fantastic today.
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You might be ovulating.
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Yeah, you're right.
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I look amazing because it is my birthday.
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I am turning motherfucking 25, babes, 25.
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So, in honor of my 25th birthday, I want to do some of your guys' personal favorite f*ing videos of my journal entries, okay?
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So I wanted to just do this topic, 25 things I learned at the age of 25.
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I know, super cringy, not original at all.
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But it is currently 4.48 in Korea right now.
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And you know what's crazy?
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I started this journal in January today.
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I filled her out.
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Guess what?
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I'm on the last page.
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This is exactly what I wrote, okay?
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I wrote down a bunch of stuff that I'm gonna talk to you about.
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And if you're like, what are the stickers about?
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The stickers are basically my mood.
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I bought this like sticker and I never used it in my journals, like ever.
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So basically, yeah, I wrote down everything.
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I went to a cafe this morning and I was like, you know what?
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Let me just write down some stuff.
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And I'm not gonna lie, for those who follow my Instagram, You would see
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that it was kind of hard for me to write down anything to be honest at the beginning
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But then once it started flowing it just started flowing
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So I also want to have this edited like my usual journal entries.
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So, you know feels kind of nostalgic I don't know.
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So let's just get started
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because I feel like personally for me I don't think 25
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is a very very Special special type of year at least for me, but I do feel like it's still a number I mean, it's the oldest I've been which is I mean for every single birthday
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that you go through
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But I just feel like 25 is just an interesting number
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to me like it's like five is just right in the middle You know, you're in your mid-20s, literally in your mid-20s.
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And so, yeah, I just want to say some stuff to you guys, or at least some stuff that I wanted to tell my younger self that I didn't know of.
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Number one, I wrote down, once you want it, it'll become true.
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You can become what you want.
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The only limit is you.
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And I think that that was something I realized in college, maybe a few years ago.
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And I think that when you grow up in a certain environment, people put limitations onto you, right?
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Because they themselves don't believe that they can become what they want to be.
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So, of course, they put that limitation onto whoever.
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You know, when you believe something, you tell other people to believe it as well.
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So when you're younger, of course, you're going to believe that because, you know, you're a kid, right?
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But the thing is that when you really want something and you always act on it, it's bound to become true.
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Because from my experience, it's just it wouldn't work the other way around.
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So that is something that I think a lot of you guys need to know.
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Like if there's something that you really want to do, like I always say on my channel is just you should do it.
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We don't have infinite amount of time on Earth.
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So you might as well do it.
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You can just be a little cringe because I think being cringe is very freeing, you know, and.
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Sure, if something you do are like, oh, I feel like people are going to make fun of me and shit.
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Yeah, people probably gonna.
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But it's okay.
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Who gives a fuck?
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You know, you're going to be living the dream life.
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And the people who make fun of you are going to
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be the exact same people who are going to slide into your DMs and be like, you want to hang out?
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Anyways.
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Number two.
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A day is very long.
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A lot you can accomplish.
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And the mood that I put for that one is literally this face.
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Okay.
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This face, which is like honestly a very bad mood.
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Okay.
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I think that's a good thing.
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Like you can think of it as a good thing because you can get so much done.
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But I think that I've gotten to the point
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that I feel like sometimes like I feel like an hour
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feels very long Like I can accomplish a lot within an hour
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So hence when I do take a break it's just it's very weird for me
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because i'm like i'm wasting time I'm literally wasting time.
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I can do so much within an hour What I want to get at is just
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that you can do so much There's so many different possibilities I can do
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and you can improve yourself in so many different ways Like within a day
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so much can change
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and I don't want this to come off as I don't know Toxic positivity
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or toxic like productivity like
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if you don't go to bed exhausted then you're not doing enough Like I've seen people say
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that and low-key like I get sold into that too
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But like there's also moments where you just have to be like hold up, hold up I gotta I gotta I gotta I gotta rest
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because you will get burnt out You need to have a healthy balance of the two number three I said
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that you don't know how hard other people have it and I put in quotations don't romanticize Slash idolize others.
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I think that sometimes like when we see people, right?
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Especially online you idolize them.
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You're like, oh, they're like doing like the best They're living like the dream life
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But the thing is that I say this but it's like I feel like we don't practice it enough You see celebrities.
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Oh my god, if I have her face, it's like so simple You don't know that maybe she gets constantly sexualized.
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Maybe there's like predatory ass men going for her And then
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when you think that way when you idolize someone you feel really shit about yourself
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And i'm not saying this to make you feel better about yourself.
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Like oh, they have it super hard It's just that we're all human at the end of the day.
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So you just might as well focus on yourself Okay, we all have our own issues and
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when you see someone I don't know celebrity whatever you only
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see the peak You only see what they want you to see.
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You never know what people are going through, right?
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It's just you don't know that and I think that
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that itself creates a sort of like connection in a way
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like like we're all human at the end okay i think that's very important for us to remember
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and it's also a sense of like empathy towards others as
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well you don't know what the they're going through you know
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what i mean all right number four i think i already
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mentioned this everyone's human we're all like in other countries more
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than others there's like this very intense like idolization like people
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like to idolize people people like to put people on pedestals i don't think i'm an odd person out
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but i think that there's some people who do it to the very extreme
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that i don't understand like don't get me wrong back
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when i was in high school i love celebrities you know it got me through school i love
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that obsession over people they bring me entertainment it's like you know whatever yeah as i got older
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and also just also making content as well i just feel like they're literally human i personally just don't like
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when people put other people on pedestals i just don't think it's healthy
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and i just don't think it makes sense you know i mean everyone has flaws like what makes you think
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that just because you look a certain way just
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because you're this person life is perfect life might be easier
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for some other people you know they might not have to go to certain struggles
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but everyone has your own very like certain struggles that you probably just can't comprehend.
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Number five, I said that if you don't change, it won't change.
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The thing is that you need to realize that if you want to do something, there's not going to be a special moment.
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There's not going to be a rainbow in the sky or somebody knocking on your door being like, you have to do this.
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Like maybe, maybe if you do have that, then that's great.
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If you have a great friend who inspired you, whatever, great.
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But for most people, that's not really the case.
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Like if you want to do something you have to be the one willing to do it
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and that is the hardest part it just takes time to keep practicing
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and practicing like this is your life you call the shots it's exactly that simple
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and it's also just like closed mouths don't get fed i think i saw this one model say
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that before and that's very true
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if you don't ask for it you're not gonna get it
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if you don't work for it you're not gonna get it it's just
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that simple okay
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so you have to go for it number six i said nobody's saving you you save yourself
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which is basically like number five i don't know i think
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especially for us women i don't know like back then watching
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a lot of like fk ass disney shows like i always
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imagine oh there's gonna be a prince charming to save me
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there's gonna be some xyz some friend to save me like no you save yourself you do everything for yourself
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which is why like for me like even spoiling myself i
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don't expect anyone to spoil me i spoil myself i do everything for myself you know this hotel was
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so expensive and like nobody got it for me got it for myself
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because i'm like nobody's gonna get it for me like
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if somebody got it for me
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that would be amazing like somebody treats me this would be amazing
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but like i don't expect that i don't think
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that we should live life expecting like oh like a man's
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gonna come xyz do this for me like we live in 2025 babes like i mean like
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if you want that like you do you babes
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but i also wanted to say
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that like we live in 2025 us women like we can
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do everything for ourselves you can treat yourself out to a really nice dinner you can buy yourself
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that luxury ass bag that you wanted number seven you still feel 14
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and 25 you don't feel 25 and scared for the future
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so i think that when i was younger like especially in high school i
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or in in college i expected myself to like have everything figured out at 25
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because like you know if you're 18 you just think
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that old 25 is like super old like you should probably have everything figured out the truth is
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that you don't okay at least for me i don't i
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don't feel like i have everything figured out i don't feel 25 i still feel like i'm like
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that 14 year old kid like i'm the 18 year old kid you know
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and like mentality wise i still don't know what the is
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going on i'm still scared of the future yeah i feel like i don't know i don't know
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if that's like something people talk about when they turn 25
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but at least for me i still feel young um And number eight, I said that I can't imagine being 35 or in my 30s.
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Same thing when I was 18.
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Like, I couldn't imagine being in my 20s.
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Even, like, when I was 14, I can't imagine when I was in my 20s that I would be in my 20s.
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And even now, I can't imagine being in my 30s or, like, 35.
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Which honestly just shows you how precious time is.
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Spend it wisely.
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And I think that sometimes I still do think that I restrict myself a lot from happiness sometimes.
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Because I'm, like, seeing, like, how happy I get when I travel.
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And I'm like, bitch, why don't you travel?
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And I'm like, oh, because I'm scared, because I'm scared.
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Sometimes you just got to push yourself.
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You know, you are the only person that can push yourself, essentially.
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Number nine, save up, invest in luxury, then poor quality since luxury lasts longer.
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When I was younger, I would say that I would buy 10 bags and they add up to $1,000.
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Rather than buying $1,000 back, just one bag, you know, and I just thought the more options, the better, but the things that those things get worn.
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So I think that it's a lot better for you to be investing in high quality items.
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It doesn't have to be luxury items, but it needs to be high quality.
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Trust me, it's worth the investment.
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And I think that as you get older, you know what your taste is.
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You know what is versatile to you you know what you're going to wear invest in those okay
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because trust me those last number 10 um
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spoil yourself no one can spoil you more than yourself i
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literally just mentioned this i guess i forgot i wrote
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that down but yeah you are your biggest prize okay you need to recognize
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that and some people who makes you feel like oh you spend
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so much money like like
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if you earn the money yourself you're spending on yourself why
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you know why are you like you know why are people judging you for
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that you know like you are your most important thing you
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should be spoiling yourself nobody knows you better than you know yourself
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so like you know what exactly you like you buy
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that for yourself okay
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because you are the biggest prize number 11 people who are
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your friends slash nice to you may not have your best interest at heart
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that was something that i feel like as i got older i just learned
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that it wasn't surprising but i think that not like a black
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and white thing you know it's
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because it might be due to their own insecurities due to their own problems
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that they're going through and it's like we all have problems
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and that's completely fine
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but it's just at the end of the day it's like
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some people don't have your best interests at heart that's just
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as plain as simple like they might not mean it
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which is you know it's completely okay some people who are
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nice to you you know they just want access to you
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they just want access to you as a human they don't really want to see you succeed like even
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if they do want you succeed it's also at a point
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like i do feel like sometimes they don't want to see you go over a certain point especially
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when they're not doing good in life themselves
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which is why personally it's important to choose your friends wisely i'm a strong believer
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that the people around you strongly impact who you are
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so pick your friends wisely number 12 you do not need
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to be friends with everyone it's okay to lose friends I think that coming from a formal people pleaser, I still struggle with it, but I've gotten so much better at it,
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is that sometimes I feel really sh about myself when I see that certain friendships don't work out, certain friendships died, you know, just lost certain friendships.
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And I'm like, oh sh, I should have like preserved that.
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I feel like everyone tries to maintain it in a certain way.
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They don't want to like cut it super obvious.
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Like I'm never going to be friends with you because you never know.
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Like you might see them at a certain occasion or whatever
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and some people might go on coffee dates with them even
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though they don't really want to be friends with these friends
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but they don't want to create bad blood you know there's those type of people
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and i feel like for me i just don't entertain that
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and i don't think there's right
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or wrong answers to this it just depends on you
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and i think that for me i just don't have the energy to do
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that and sometimes i think about it i'm like maybe i should do
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that maybe i should have just maybe pretend like not in like a bad way
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but sometimes i'm like oh i feel like i'm making more enemies
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and friends at the end of the day it is what it is
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and for me my logic is just that why put in energy
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and time when i know
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that i don't see a future with this friend you know there's like
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so many qualities that doesn't sit with me
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and am i really just gonna pour in time just to
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avoid the uncomfortableness of us like not being friends anymore you know like the awkwardness
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and i feel like people shouldn't take offense to people who don't want to be your friends
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because sometimes just like the vibes are just it's different you know it's like there's
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so much people in the world you can't be friends with
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everyone number 13 people treat you based on how you look yes i think
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that that is just something i learned
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because of growing up ugly quotation marks it's like
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when you look a certain way people treat you better it's just how it works
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which is sad especially in korea people really like that
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that is like true
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but like in korea it really gets emphasized you know like
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you go out now wearing makeup yeah people treat you differently it's just how it is
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which is why i think it's very important to invest in
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your looks in your character in your education in your career everything about yourself
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and you might be like oh yeah you're being
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so materialistic we live in a materialistic world i'm just being real with you You don't have to take my advice.
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You can be like, wow, she's like so toxic.
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Like she only believes and looks.
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Like it's up to you, but I'm just telling you from my 25 years of living, people judge you based off how you look.
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People treat you better if you look prettier.
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People treat you better if you look more put together, okay?
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And it's also confidence.
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Confidence is very important.
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If you're, like, confident and you take up space, people will treat you according to that.
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But when you're very insecure, like, you know, people will disrespect you.
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Number 14, don't take advice from people you don't want to become.
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Very, very important.
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I feel like in the older generation, especially family members, they will literally give you unsolicited advice.
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Like, even friends sometimes, they will give you unsolicited advice.
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I know that like it can sometimes just be for your best interest, right?
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But sometimes like if I didn't ask, don't give it to me.
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But even when they do give it to you, if it's like a stranger or whatever, and you're like, what the f* are they thinking?
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Like, why would I take your advice?
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Like, you know, I don't like that advice.
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Do you want to become them?
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Then you really think about it.
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If you don't want to become that person, don't take their advice, you know?
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Like even if you do want to become that person, still take it with a grain of salt.
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Really think through it.
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Is this for me?
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Because everyone has different sorts of, you know, like context.
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Like it's like different for everyone in situations. And
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so you have to really think through it number 15 don't control slash waste energy on what you can't control
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that i feel like has really helped me a lot like it makes me like feel a lot more relieved
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when i think about it i'm like okay literally it's
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that simple when you're passing your test it's done don't stress about it
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and i know it's hard honestly it's hard
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because i remember back then people tell me that
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and i was still stressed about it but the thing is
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that it's just that simple especially as you get older
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and older like whatever you put out there you cannot control it anymore it's out there
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so you might as well just let it go and
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that honestly when i tell myself that when i clock myself when when I'm like stressing about it, it really brings me a lot of peace because I do think that I'm like a very, like a control freak, which is not a good thing.
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Like I just feel like things need to go in a certain way.
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And it's like, it's a very bad flaw of mine and I really hate it.
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But these days I just tell myself, if I can't control it, I can't control it.
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Let it go.
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Number 16, authenticity is powerful.
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It attracts people.
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Not only is that powerful, I think it makes you happy.
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Okay, it's just very important.
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I think that is one of the key things I learned this year is just be yourself.
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Just do whatever the fuck you want.
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Just do what aligns with you.
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You laugh super weird.
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Okay, then you laugh super weird like yeah i might judge you like people might judge you
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but you be yourself you being authentically yourself is going to attract people
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because we live in a society
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that we try to cover hide a lot of ourselves
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and i get it like sometimes it's for work it's just how we deal with it as a society
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but at the same time like at a healthy amount of authenticity is very nice you know
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and yes it's like we're all scared of being judged
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because we all want to fit in and
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so we want to be accepted who doesn't want to be accepted right sometimes they can make you really miserable
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because they can make you very suppressed and you're doing things
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that you don't really want to you know do and
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so it's very important
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that you stick true to who you are okay number 17 stay away from people pleasers as friends okay
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and it's like i get it like especially in work settings
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like you have to like you know you have to be nice to your boss like yes i get
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that but like as friends
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because as a formal people pleaser myself like i used to
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like be a certain way to get people to like me
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and i don't realize how manipulative that is
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because like i'm literally trying to get you to like me
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literally i said this in my journal entry on my other
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channel my second channel kindness without truth is manipulation emma watson said
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that okay in a podcast i remember and you don't realize
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that but the thing is that you're just trying to get
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that person to like you and you're not even showing your real self
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and this also grows secret resentment because you keep playing
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and playing this character
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and then it's like it builds a certain rhythm it builds a certain type of dynamic
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and then you're like oh my god why is this dynamic
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like this like how the did it become like this well you made it like
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that you wanted that person to like you so bad
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but the thing is that the people
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that will be your friends will come to you
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if you just be yourself
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so personally for me i don't like people pleasers everyone can
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have their preferences don't come for me okay i'm just saying like i I like to know people for who they are.
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And this is coming from a formal people pleaser, okay?
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Number 18, be friends with people who match your energy.
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It's very important.
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Like, especially if you're super high maintenance, if you're a very ambitious person and if you're very disciplined, be friends with those people because those people will only make you more disciplined.
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Yes, I think it's like, it's good to have friends, you know, like kind of different all across, but it's very important that your friends share your core values.
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I think as you get older, I think it's better to be friends with people who are more compatible with you.
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But it's really up to you
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because I know some people like having friends for different needs
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like oh I have my ice skating friend I have my
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friends who talk about emotions I have my friends who talk about work like you do you you know
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that everything can work like everything is not black
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and white you know it's up to you anyways
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so 19 realizing you come farther than you think I think
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it's very important especially living in like a I don't know I think we're living in a world
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or I might just be in certain countries where it's like very fast-paced
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so constantly running constantly hustling constantly grinding you don't really reflect on much you know you don't really think
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that oh I've actually came really far I'm really grateful for
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you know xyz I think it's very important for us to just be like, okay, we came a long way.
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Like, let's take a moment and be happy.
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You know what I mean?
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And like being proud of yourself and something
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that I started doing recently is just to say out loud every single morning three things I'm grateful for.
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It can be so f*ing like simple.
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I'm like, I'm grateful for my health.
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I'm grateful to be traveling.
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I'm grateful to eat the food I want.
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It's that simple and it really just makes you feel a little bit better.
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Number 20, I still don't know what I'm doing, but I have more experience.
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I think that especially when we're younger, we always think that we'll have everything figured out.
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You don't, but you have more life experiences that's teaching you something.
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I think life is just what you do with the time you're given.
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You don't need to have a purpose in this world.
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It's just you just have time.
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You have time and it's a privilege to be alive.
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And you just do whatever the f* you want to do with that time.
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Number 21, discipline slash hard work is greater than talent.
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If you can grind, then you will go farther than anyone else.
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I've said this multiple times.
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Like, it's very important that you put in hard work.
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And again, I always say this.
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It's not mutually exclusive, okay?
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You can have discipline and also talent.
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You just need to want it that bad.
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You can make up excuses all that because we're all played with the cards we're given.
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Okay, that is just the truth at the end of the day Some people have easier.
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Okay, and some people have a harder but that is just your cards Okay, you can't be complaining about it because
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that are just your fucking cards You cannot change the cards you're given only have to just go forward
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because if you sit and whine about it You're still with those cards.
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Okay, it's not gonna like it's gonna change the fucking cards
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because life is unfair You can't control where you're born who you're born with like it's just you're born
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and there you go This is your fucking life and you go with it.
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Let me just say this for my chinese followers you know i don't really know how to explain this
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but it's like it's like
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if you can withstand certain obstacles you can constantly just keep grinding
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and like do the most i don't think anything can stop you in this lifetime
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because not many people can go through obstacles not many people can go through the hardships
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and i think the hardest thing in life is
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that you put in a lot of work
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and you constantly see failure i don't want to say failure
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because i always think that you're getting slightly better
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but it's like you don't get the outcome you want and you have to constantly keep going and going.
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I think that is the hardest part and i think that's very scary
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and not many people can keep doing that so i think
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that for those of you who can do that it's very impressive things
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that i saw one video i think someone said
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that you just need to outlast your competition because i've always thought
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that oh everyone grinds everyone thinks like me but the thing is
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that it's that's not true not everyone thinks like that not everyone's
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that obsessed there's only certain people who are that obsessed
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and those are the ones that succeed in life
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so it's very important that you know that and
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that i don't want to say
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that you're special i like i don't want to get it to your head
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but you are special you are that okay you just have to grind
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and not everyone can grind so the fact
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that you're already grinding you're bound to succeed 22 how people
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treat you is how they feel about themselves like yes
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if an employee gives you an attitude it sucks you know
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and it's like me telling you this like how they treat
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is just how they feel about themselves i'm sure it's not gonna make you feel better
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but that's just the truth how people treat you people judge you like yes it's gonna still feel like
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but it's genuinely just because of themselves like sometimes like
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when i'm like in a bad mood and
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when i give people attitude it's not really
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because of what they've done like yes sometimes it could be
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because of what they've done but like majority of time it's like
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if you feel you didn't do anything wrong it's just
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because of they're having a day okay so we shouldn't hold on to
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that and be like oh
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but it's hard like i'm a sensitive ass too like it
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gets to me it's just what it is you know number
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23 a lot of things in the world is transactional plus that's okay
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and i think that's just something
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that i learned in adult world especially you know it's just
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what it is like some people even like friendships i'm with you
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because i have a good time with you or you hang out with
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that person to be networking like
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that i used to be really naive i'm like what the
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like i just want to be friends with this person like what why is
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that but sometimes that's just how the world works
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and that's like you accepting
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that just makes it easier you know like it's like you're benefiting from this
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that person's benefiting from this it's just that simple you know
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and that's okay that's okay but i think it's a little different
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when it's like maybe like the expectations is different around like let's say you're dating someone
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and you genuinely love this guy you're like oh this guy makes me happy
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and this guys just want to have sex i don't know i think it's
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if it's not like the same then we have an issue
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but both of you guys just want to you know have
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sex you know whatever like friends with benefits this is such a bad example why i'm giving this example
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but whatever this is the one that comes in my head
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but just like when it's like different i think
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that causes a bit of an issue
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but you guys seem to feel free to disagree with me in the comments okay
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because everything i say is like open for discussions i am
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one person i am one woman saying whatever the i'm saying
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you can feel free to disagree this is my take okay
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number 24 the simple moments are key to real happiness me waking up going to a 7-eleven going to get
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that big ass americano with the winter melon milk
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that brings me a lot of joy that's my happiness happiness is not a grand thing happiness are little bits
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and that's just important for you to know and
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that will make just make your life happier
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because tiny little happiness equals big happiness
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and happiness is just moments you i don't think you can be happy all the time
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because if you don't feel a wide range of emotions you cannot feel happiness
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if you don't know sadness you're not gonna feel happiness
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if you're happy all the time what the is
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that that's just became the baseline then
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so it's very important for you to to realize
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that 25 you don't need to wait for a quote-unquote milestone to deserve something you're allowed to live
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and take up space and that made me happy i think
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that just goes for everything especially in life like you're always
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waiting for something you're like oh it has to be like xyz i have to do
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that in order to get myself
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that of course yeah it's like you have to make it like financially it makes sense you know like
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if you don't if you don't got a job maybe don't buy
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that crazy ass thing that's gonna cost you rent just giving
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you a little disclaimer here i'm sure we all know what the f* i mean
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but it's like i can only wear a bikini
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if my body looks a certain way I can only be going on a solo traveling if I look a certain way, you know, I can only be talking to so-and-so or I don't know, be friends with X, Y,
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Z if I got into a certain college, like stupid like that.
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Don't make your life so conditional.
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Don't put conditions on your life because that makes it so restricting because the thing is that things constantly evolve.
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When you evolve in a certain point, your condition is going to evolve again, you know, it's never ending.
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Okay.
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So you might as well not put conditions on your life.
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Just do what you want to do.
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That was the last piece of advice, but I think I wrote down something in the back.
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I said that lastly, if you don't feel secure it'll reflect onto everything plus perception
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of everything external things plus money won't make you more confident
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from within maybe it'll make you more confident in your skills
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but internally you need to do the work
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and i put a very sad face with that because i think
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that for majority of my life i always thought
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that external things can make me happy like yes it brings you closer to happiness
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but at the end internal stuff really f*ing matters
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and it's like you know you might be oh i feel
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insecure let me go travel you're still gonna feel insecure like yes i can make you happy temporarily
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but like the key issues the internal issues is still going to be within you.
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If your issues lie within like external stuff, then yes, you moving to a different place, you changing your scenery is going to fix that because your original issues will do to external things.
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But if your issues lie within internally, it's going to stay that way.
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So it's very important that we look within and it's like, can't escape from your issues.
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So yeah, I really hope you guys like that.
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Yeah, I just wanted to do this in celebration of my 25th birthday today.
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I'm very blessed to be turning 25 and I think
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that I can officially say that my frontal was developed yeah
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and I think that I am looking forward to more things to learn
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because I think that right now I'm like oh I know everything
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but I think like
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that all the time every single mother birthday I'm like oh I know everything
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and then I'm like oh I didn't life is always gonna be humbling you
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but at the same time it's gonna give you more wisdom that's just how it works
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and I think that when you learn how much you don't know that's wisdom you know
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but yeah I just want to say
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that thank you guys for being with me for another year
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and I'm excited to continue being with you guys for the following year I'm I'm excited and we can both grow together.
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I think back to like my past two years or three years being online and I'm like, wow, things has changed.
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I see a lot of comments where people are like, oh, you've grown more confident.
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Or there's also those comments where, whoa, she's changed.
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And it's like, you know, it can be negative.
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It can be positive.
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You can be the one sole judge of that.
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But I do think that for me, it's been more positive.
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And it's like, you know, I had to see comments where people aren't like, oh, she changed.
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I don't like her anymore.
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That's completely fair.
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I'm not everyone's cup of tea.
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It's completely fine.
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You don't have to watch me.
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You don't have to like me completely.
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Okay, I don't take offense to that and I hope you have a great life.
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It's just that simple.
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That's just the sh that happens when you post yourself online.
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That's completely cool.
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You know, I know what I signed up for.
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But yeah, I just want to say that.
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Thank you guys for being here.
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Thank you guys for watching this video.
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Yeah, wish me a happy birthday in the comments.
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I would love that.
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Anyways, I think that definitely when I post it, it's probably not gonna be my birthday anymore, but I would love a belated birthday.
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But yeah, I hope you guys have an amazing, amazing rest of your day and rest of your week.
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And I am ready to take some bomb ass fking photos in this fking dress.
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Hopefully the photos I'm gonna post on Instagram fk eat down.
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Yeah, anyways, I will see you guys very very soon and until then have an amazing amazing rest of your day, okay?
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Bye guys!
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Love you!
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה B1 מבוסס על הסרטון “25 things I learned at 25”. בסרטון הזה יש 560 משפטים ו-6613 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 24:24. 88% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית, כך שקל לעקוב אחרי אוצר המילים.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
15 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| grind פועל | /ˈɡɹaɪnd/ | טחן |
| spoil שם עצם | /spɔɪl/ | שָׁלָל |
| discipline שם עצם | /ˈdɪsəplɪn/ | מִשְׁמַעַת |
| sticker שם עצם | /ˈstɪkə/ | מַדְבֵּקָה |
| toxic שם תואר | /ˈtɒk.sɪk/ | רעיל |
| celebrity שם עצם | /səˈlɛb.ɹɪ.ɾi/ | יְדוּעָן, סֶלֶבְּרִיטִי |
| pedestal שם עצם | /ˈpɛdɪstəl/ | כַּן |
| obstacle שם עצם | /ˈɑbstəkəl/ | מִכְשׁוֹל |
| restrict פועל | /ɹɪˈstɹɪkt/ | הִגְבִּיל |
| accomplish פועל | /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ/ | בִּצֵּעַ |
| emotion שם עצם | /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ | רֶגֶשׁ |
| offense שם עצם | /əˈfɛns/ | עֶלְבּוֹן |
| wisdom שם עצם | /ˈwɪzdəm/ | חוכמה \ חָכְמָה |
| dynamic שם תואר | /daɪˈnæm.ɪk/ | דינמי |
| americano שם עצם | אָמֶרִיקָנוֹ |
Phrasal verbs שתשמעו
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| write down פועל | רָשַׁם | |
| figure out פועל | הֵבִין, מצא תשובה | |
| go out פועל | יָצָא | |
| grow up פועל | גָּדַל | |
| wake up פועל | /ˌweɪk ˈʌp/ | התעורר |
משפטים שכדאי לחזור עליהם
משפטים קצרים ושלמים מהסרטון שאפשר להשתמש בהם בשיחה יומיומית:
- And you know what's crazy?
- I'm on the last page.
- And if you're like, what are the stickers about?
- Do you want to become them?
- You know what I mean?
דקדוק בסרטון הזה
המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:
| מבנה | בסרטון |
|---|---|
| משפטי תנאי (Conditional sentences) if + clause, will/would + verb — תנאי ותוצאה שלו | if you don't change, it won't change · If you can grind, then you will go · if you don't feel secure it'll reflect |
| הווה מושלם (Present perfect) have/has + past participle — פעולה שקרתה בעבר ועדיין יש לה חשיבות או השפעה עכשיו | I've been · I've gotten · I've seen |
| משפטי זיקה (Relative clauses) who / which + clause — מידע נוסף על אדם או דבר | those who follow · been which is · people who make |
| סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה | being judged · be accepted · was developed |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
הדובר משתמש ב-279 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו don't, I'm, you're. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.
- הצלילים של “th”: authenticity /ɑθɛnˈtɪsɪti/, withstand /wɪðˈstænd/, empathy /ˈɛmpəθi/, rhythm /ˈɹɪð.əm/
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: limitation /lɪmɪˈteɪʃən/, accomplish /əˈkɑm.plɪʃ/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, quotation /kwoʊˈteɪʃn̩/, hardship /ˈhɑɹdˌʃɪp/
- מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: celebrity /səˈlɛb.ɹɪ.ɾi/, materialistic /məˌtɪəɹ.i.əˈlɪs.tɪk/, unsolicited /ˌʌnsəˈlɪsɪtɪd/, authenticity /ɑθɛnˈtɪsɪti/, limitation /lɪmɪˈteɪʃən/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /w/ — שפתיים מעוגלות, לא /v/: anyways /ˈɛn.iˌweɪz/, wisely /ˈwaɪzli/, wisdom /ˈwɪzdəm/, quotation /kwoʊˈteɪʃn̩/, withstand /wɪðˈstænd/
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: attract /əˈtɹækt/, dynamic /daɪˈnæm.ɪk/, withstand /wɪðˈstænd/, lastly /ˈlæstli/, mentality /mɛnˈtæləti/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: grind /ˈɡɹaɪnd/, insecure /ɪnsəˈkjʊɹ/, celebrity /səˈlɛb.ɹɪ.ɾi/, materialistic /məˌtɪəɹ.i.əˈlɪs.tɪk/, restrict /ɹɪˈstɹɪkt/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט במהירות רגילה, וחזרו על כל משפט עד שהקצב שלכם תואם את הדובר.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו grind, spoil, discipline.
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