Shadowing Practice: Why You Can't Focus: Is It ADHD or Just Stress? - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Why can one socially stressful interaction make you forget what you were doing, lose your train of thought, and feel as though your ADHD suddenly got worse?
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Or, if you've never been diagnosed, make you wonder whether you have ADHD?
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Maybe these sound familiar.
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You leave a tense meeting, and you can't settle into the next task.
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You read the same sentence several times without taking it in.
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You walk into a room and forget why you were there.
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You had something to say, and a few seconds later, it's gone.
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Those are examples of executive function being disrupted.
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Social stress can temporarily interfere with some of the same functions that are difficult in ADHD.
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That overlap can be confusing because the problems may come and go depending on the amount of social pressure you're under.
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I'm Dr. Tracy Marks, a psychiatrist, and I teach practical neuroscience to help you think clearly and stay steady under pressure.
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Today, I want to explain how social threat can affect executive function, how to look for the larger pattern without trying to diagnose yourself from one bad day,
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and what can help when you need to return to a task.
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This video can't diagnose you with ADHD or rule it out, and stress doesn't cause ADHD.
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A stressful period can make existing ADHD symptoms more noticeable,
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and it can temporarily disrupt attention and working memory in someone who doesn't have ADHD.
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The broader pattern helps you sort out which explanation or combination fits you.
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Executive function is the brain's capacity to direct attention and behavior toward a goal.
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It includes several skills, but I'm going to organize this discussion around three of them.
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Shifting, updating, and inhibition.
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Shifting is moving from one task, thought, or perspective to another.
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Updating is monitoring what you're holding in working memory and replacing information that's no longer relevant to what matters right now.
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Working memory is more than just storage.
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It's an active mental workspace that has to keep changing as the situation changes.
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So that's shifting and updating.
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The third function is inhibition.
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Inhibition is suppressing information or responses that interfere with the goal.
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That could mean ignoring a notification, holding back an immediate reaction, or keeping an unrelated thought from taking over the task.
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Executive function difficulties are common in ADHD, but ADHD is broader than executive function alone.
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These same functions can also be affected by stress, sleep, interest, structure, and the demands of a new situation.
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Now, imagine you're in a meeting with someone who's criticizing your work.
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Maybe the feedback is fair.
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Maybe the tone was snippier than it needed to be.
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Maybe you can't tell what the person meant.
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The meeting ends and you're expected to open a document and continue working, but you're sitting at your desk staring at the screen or fiddling on your phone.
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The first problem you're having may be shifting.
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The meeting is over on the calendar, but your attention is still assigned to it.
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Your mind reviews the wording, the facial expressions, what you've said, and what you wish you had said.
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And you may also be trying to predict what happens next.
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Is this a small correction?
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Is someone disappointed in me?
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Is there a larger problem that hasn't been stated directly?
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Those questions can keep circling in your mind well after the meeting's over.
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Then you open and read the first paragraph and just nothing registers.
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You check your email, return to the document, and replay the meeting again, perhaps with a more satisfying version of what you could have said.
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From the outside, this can look like procrastination or distractibility, but internally, the brain hasn't completed the transition.
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You're physically in the next task while your attention is still working on the previous interaction.
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The second problem may be updating.
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Working memory can only keep a limited amount of information active at one time.
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Think of it as a mental whiteboard.
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Part of the board is occupied by what was said, what it might mean, and what you need to do about it.
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The information needed for the task that you have to complete now has to compete for that leftover space.
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This can be what's happening when you lose the thread of a conversation.
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Forget what you were about to say miss a part of a multi-step instruction, or walk into a room and forget why you went there.
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The new information may enter working memory, but not stay there long enough to guide you into what you're supposed to be doing next.
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Then the third thing that could be happening is problems with inhibition.
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After a socially stressful interaction, it may be harder to filter out competing thoughts and distractions.
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You may keep getting pulled toward a notification, someone's facial expression, or a pause in the conversation,
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or even, you know, get stuck on the urge to explain yourself.
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That can make some people interrupt more,
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over-explain, ask for reassurance, or respond before they've had time to fully process what happened.
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Now, stress doesn't affect this filtering system the same way for everyone.
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Some people react more quickly or say more than they intended.
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Others become super hesitant or overly cautious or stuck trying to respond in just the right way.
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So impulsivity alone isn't the best sign to focus on.
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You're more likely to notice that you get mentally stuck, lose your train of thought, forget details, or have trouble shifting to the next task.
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And this can be confusing because it can look like inattention.
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But your attention may be tied up with replaying the interaction.
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and that leaves less room to focus on the report, the next conversation.
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It can look like ADHD in the moment, but it doesn't tell you whether or not you have ADHD.
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For that, you have to look at the pattern over time.
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ADHD is a neurodevelopmental condition.
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For an ADHD diagnosis, the pattern has to be persistent.
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Several symptoms need to have been present before age 12, even if no one recognized the condition until you were an adult.
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The symptoms also need to show up in more than one setting and interfere with daily life.
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A clinician has to consider whether something else explains the symptoms better.
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You can think about the pattern in four parts, timeline, context, persistence, and baseline.
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And this isn't a self-test.
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It just helps you sort out whether the problem looks temporary, longstanding, or worth evaluating.
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So first, when did these problems start?
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Were you having similar problems before the stressful period?
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Did you regularly lose things, miss instructions, struggle to finish routine tasks, or need a lot of reminders to stay on track?
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If you don't remember much about your childhood, you can look at old school reports or talk to family members about what they observed.
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Then, where does it happen?
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Is it showing up at work and at home, during routine tasks and relationships, and even when you're relatively calm?
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Or does it mainly happen after criticism, or when you feel watched, when you're not sure where you stand with someone?
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Next, how long does it last?
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Does it keep happening after you've slept, had time to recover, or stepped away from the stressful situation?
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Or does your thinking improve once the pressure passes?
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And what is your attention at baseline when you feel safe, rested, interested, and unobserved?
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Looking at how long it lasts helps, but it doesn't completely settle the diagnosis.
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People with ADHD can focus much better under some conditions, especially when something is interesting, urgent, new, or highly structured.
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So after you look at the overall pattern, three possibilities are still on the table.
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One, the executive function problem may be temporary and mainly related to social stress.
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Two, you may have ADHD and the stress may be making a long-standing pattern more noticeable.
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Or three, you may have both, a long-standing ADHD pattern and a separate temporary drop in executive function from the social stress.
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One difficult afternoon can't tell you which explanation fits.
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What matters is how the problem behaves over time and across settings.
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If these problems keep showing up across settings, interfere with your life, or go back to childhood, that's a reason to consider a formal evaluation.
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But what can you do in the moment when the interaction is over and you still can't get back to work?
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Before you push yourself into the next task, give your brain a chance to come down from the interaction.
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If it's still replaying what happened and watching for what comes next, you'll have a harder time shifting, remembering, planning, and filtering distractions.
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So here's what you can do.
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First, make a physical break.
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Stand up.
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Change rooms.
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Put down the phone.
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Turn your chair away from the screen.
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The moment helps separate what just happened from what you're doing next.
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Then use a brief reset.
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This is where I use a practice called look up.
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Lift your head and look away from the screen and let your eyes take in more of the room.
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Notice the edges of the room, like the view through a window or the horizon if you can see it.
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You're not really looking for anything.
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You're just letting your focus widen.
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You can pair this with a slower breath or another brief reset that works for you.
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The goal is to interrupt that narrowed, stuck state before you go back to the task.
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Sometimes 90 seconds is enough.
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Sometimes it isn't.
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You may still need to think about the interaction or decide whether to follow up.
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You're not ignoring it.
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You're just keeping it from taking over everything that comes next.
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Then get the next task out of your head and put it somewhere where you can see it.
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Write one sentence.
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My next task is to finish the paragraph.
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Or I need to verify three numbers.
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Or I need to send one reply before confirming the appointment.
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Your working memory already has a lot in it, so don't make it carry the whole plan for you.
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That sentence gives you something clear to return to if your attention drifts.
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Then take the first step in that task.
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Open the document.
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Read the first instruction.
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Put the first item on the desk.
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You're not trying to complete the whole task just yet.
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You're making it easier to get started.
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After you've had a little time to settle, check again.
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Can you follow the task now?
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Can you hold the next step in mind?
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Is the interaction taking up most of your attention?
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If you can focus better after these steps, that suggests that stress was part of what was getting in the way.
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It doesn't rule out ADHD, and if you can't focus, that doesn't confirm ADHD either.
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You can still be tired, upset, short on sleep, or need more time to settle after the interaction.
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This is why recovery matters so much for thinking.
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If your brain spent the last hour monitoring tone, conflict, or judgment, you may have less attention available, even after the conversation is over.
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You can leave the room both peopled out and mentally disorganized.
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So social pressure can disrupt executive function, and work can amplify that.
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Hierarchy, evaluation, and uncertainty can keep the threat response active longer and make it harder to regain your focus.
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In the next video, I'll talk about why your brain can start treating your boss like a threat.
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So here's the takeaway for today.
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If social stress seems to scramble your focus, don't assume one bad afternoon tells you what the problem is.
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It could be a temporary state effect, ADHD, or both.
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Looking at the larger pattern helps you decide what to do next.
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Thanks for watching today.
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See you next time.
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה B2 מבוסס על הסרטון “Why You Can't Focus: Is It ADHD or Just Stress?”. המילים שחוזרות הכי הרבה: Adhd, task, function, interaction, pattern. בסרטון הזה יש 154 משפטים ו-1977 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 11:52. הדובר מדבר בקצב טבעי של כ-167 מילים בדקה, קרוב לשיחה יומיומית. 86% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית; כדאי ללמוד את השאר לפני שמתחילים.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
15 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| distress שם עצם | /dɪˈstɹɛs/ | מוּעָקָה |
| symptom שם עצם | /ˈsɪm(p)təm/ | תַּסְמִין, סִימְפּטוֹם |
| diagnose פועל | /ˈdaɪ.əɡˌnoʊs/ | אבחן |
| instruction שם עצם | /ɪnˈstɹʌkʃən/ | הוראה |
| confuse פועל | /kənˈfjuːz/ | בלבל |
| reset פועל | /ɹiːˈsɛt/ | אפס |
| notification שם עצם | /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/ | הוֹדָעָה |
| paragraph שם עצם | /ˈpæɹəɡɹæf/ | פִּיסְקָה \ פִּסְקָה |
| diagnosis שם עצם | /daɪəɡˈnəʊsɪs/ | אִבחוּן |
| hesitant שם תואר | /ˈhɛzɪtənt/ | הססן |
| procrastination שם עצם | /pɹəʊˌkɹæs.tɪˈneɪ.ʃən/ | דחיינות |
| scramble פועל | /ˈskɹæmbl̩/ | טָרַף |
| takeaway שם עצם | /ˈteɪkəweɪ/ | טֵיְיק אֶוֶוי, אֲרוּחַת קַח וָלֵךְ |
| criticize פועל | /ˈkɹɪtɪsaɪz/ | ביקר |
| psychiatrist שם עצם | /ˌsaɪˈkaɪ.ə.tɹɪst/ | פְּסִיכִיאָטֶר |
Phrasal verbs שתשמעו
| מילה | משמעות |
|---|---|
| stand up פועל | קָם |
משפטים שכדאי לחזור עליהם
משפטים קצרים ושלמים מהסרטון שאפשר להשתמש בהם בשיחה יומיומית:
- Is someone disappointed in me?
- Were you having similar problems before the stressful period?
- Can you follow the task now?
- Can you hold the next step in mind?
- Is the interaction taking up most of your attention?
דקדוק בסרטון הזה
המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:
| מבנה | בסרטון |
|---|---|
| הווה מושלם (Present perfect) have/has + past participle — פעולה שקרתה בעבר ועדיין יש לה חשיבות או השפעה עכשיו | you've never been diagnosed · you've said · hasn't been stated |
| סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה | been diagnosed · being disrupted · be affected |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
הדובר משתמש ב-48 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו you're, doesn't, can't. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: inhibition /ɪnhɪˈbɪʃən/, instruction /ɪnˈstɹʌkʃən/, distraction /dɪsˈtɹæk.ʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/, socially /ˈsoʊʃəli/
- מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: inhibition /ɪnhɪˈbɪʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/, temporarily /ˌtɛmpəˈɹɛɹəli/, disorganized /dɪsˈɔːɡənaɪzd/, procrastination /pɹəʊˌkɹæs.tɪˈneɪ.ʃən/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /w/ — שפתיים מעוגלות, לא /v/: takeaway /ˈteɪkəweɪ/, whiteboard /ˈwaɪtbɔɹd/, workspace /ˈwɝkˌspeɪs/
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: distraction /dɪsˈtɹæk.ʃən/, paragraph /ˈpæɹəɡɹæf/, amplify /ˈæm.plə.faɪ/, procrastination /pɹəʊˌkɹæs.tɪˈneɪ.ʃən/, scramble /ˈskɹæmbl̩/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: distress /dɪˈstɹɛs/, stressful /ˈstɹɛsfəl/, disrupt /dɪsˈɹʌpt/, replay /ˈɹiːpleɪ/, instruction /ɪnˈstɹʌkʃən/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- התחילו במהירות 0.75×, תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט, וחזרו למהירות רגילה כשזה מרגיש קל.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו distress, symptom, diagnose.
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