Shadowing Practice: Your Parents Didn't Have Everything Figured Out Either | B2 English Shadowing - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Have you ever looked at your parents and wondered when they became adults?
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Not legally, but emotionally.
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At what point did they suddenly learn how to make difficult decisions,
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handle disappointment, manage responsibilities, and navigate the countless uncertainties of life?
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As children, we often assume there must have been a moment when our parents figured everything out.
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We imagine adulthood as a destination, a place where confusion disappears and certainty finally takes its place.
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But what if that belief is one of the greatest illusions we carry from childhood?
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What if the people who raised you were never completely sure of what they were doing?
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What if, beneath the confidence they showed the world, they were simply trying to survive,
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adapt, and make the best choices they could with the knowledge they had at the time.
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For most of our lives, we see our parents through the eyes of a child.
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They're the ones who explain the world, set the rules, solve problems, and somehow keep life moving forward.
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When something breaks, they fix it.
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When we are afraid, they reassure us.
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When we have questions, they provide answers.
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From a child's perspective, this creates the impression that parents possess a level of certainty that ordinary people do not.
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They appear stronger, wiser, and more capable than everyone else.
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Yet this perception says more about childhood than it does about adulthood.
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Children need stability, and parents often become symbols of that stability, even when they do not feel stable themselves.
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The strange thing about growing older is that one day you reach the age your parents were when they were raising you.
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Suddenly, a number that once seemed impossibly mature begins to feel surprisingly young.
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You remember your father buying a house at 35
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or your mother raising children at 28 and you realize that you are now standing at the same point in life.
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The shock comes when you discover that you do not feel like the fully developed adult you once imagined.
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You still question your decisions.
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You still make mistakes.
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You still worry about the future.
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You still find yourself uncertain about things you thought adulthood would automatically teach you.
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And in that moment, a realization quietly emerges.
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Perhaps your parents felt exactly the same way.
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This realization is often uncomfortable because it forces us to reconsider the narrative we have built around our parents.
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Throughout childhood, it is tempting to believe that they acted the way they did because they knew better.
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If they were strict, they must have had a good reason.
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If they made mistakes, those mistakes must have been exceptions.
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If they appeared confident, it must have been because they truly understood what they were doing.
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However, adulthood gradually reveals a more complicated truth.
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Many decisions are made without complete information.
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Many choices involve uncertainty.
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Sometimes people simply choose the option that seems least risky and hope it works out.
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What once looked like certainty may have been nothing more than courage in the face of uncertainty.
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Perhaps one of the most profound shifts that occurs with age is learning to see your parents as individuals rather than roles.
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Before they became your parents, they were people with ambitions, insecurities, fears, and dreams.
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They had private struggles that had nothing to do with you.
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They experienced heartbreak, disappointment, failure, and confusion long before you entered their lives.
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Yet children rarely think about this.
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We tend to view our parents as characters in our own story rather than as protagonists in stories of their own.
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It is only later that we begin to understand the complexity of the lives they were living behind the scenes.
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Consider, for a moment, how much pressure many parents carry.
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They are expected to provide financial stability, emotional support, guidance, protection, and consistency.
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Society often treats these expectations as ordinary, yet they are enormous responsibilities.
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Parents are frequently required to make decisions that affect an entire family while having no guarantee that those decisions are correct.
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They worry about money, health, education, relationships, and the future.
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They carry fears they rarely express because they believe it is their responsibility to appear strong.
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The paradox is that the people who seem most confident are often the ones carrying the greatest uncertainty.
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What makes this realization even more powerful is recognizing that many parents were dealing with challenges their children never saw.
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A child may remember a father who seemed distant, while never knowing the stress he carried at work.
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A daughter may remember a mother who appeared constantly worried, without understanding the financial pressure that existed behind closed doors.
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A son may remember arguments between his parents without realizing how much effort it took for them to keep the family together.
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Childhood provides only a partial view of reality.
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As adults, we gain access to details that were once hidden from us, and those details often transform the way we interpret the past.
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Of course, understanding your parents does not mean idealizing them.
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One of the dangers of maturity is confusing empathy with denial.
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Some parents made serious mistakes.
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Some caused emotional wounds that lasted for years.
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Some failed to provide the support their children needed.
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Acknowledging their humanity does not erase those realities.
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In fact, genuine understanding requires us to hold two truths at the same time.
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Our parents may have loved us deeply, and they may have hurt us.
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They may have tried their best, and their best may not always have been enough.
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Human beings are capable of both care and failure, often simultaneously.
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This complexity can be difficult to accept because simplicity is emotionally comfortable.
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It is easier to divide people into categories of right and wrong, good and bad, victim and villain.
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Yet real life rarely follows such neat boundaries.
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Most people exist somewhere in between.
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They make admirable decisions in some moments and regrettable ones in others.
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They act out of wisdom one day and fear the next The older we become,
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the more we recognize this contradiction within ourselves And once we see it in ourselves,
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it becomes easier to recognize it in our parents There is another reason this realization matters
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Many of us spend years carrying resentment toward our parents for not being who we needed them to be
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Sometimes that resentment is justified.
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Sometimes it protects us from pain.
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However, there comes a point when understanding becomes more liberating than blame.
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Seeing our parents as imperfect human beings does not excuse every mistake they made,
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but it allows us to stop measuring them against impossible standards.
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We begin to understand that they were not competing against perfection.
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They were competing against exhaustion, fear, limited resources, personal struggles, and the unpredictability of life itself.
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Ironically, one of the signs that we are growing up is realizing how difficult parenting must be.
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Even people without children often reach this conclusion as they take on greater responsibilities.
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Managing a career is difficult.
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Maintaining healthy relationships is difficult.
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Caring for your own mental well-being is difficult.
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Balancing all of these responsibilities at once can feel overwhelming.
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When we imagine doing all of that while also being responsible for another human being, the challenge becomes almost unimaginable.
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Suddenly, many of the decisions our parents made begin to look different.
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What once seemed obvious becomes complicated.
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What once seemed easy becomes incredibly difficult.
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At some point, many people experience a moment that changes everything.
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It may happen during a conversation with an aging parent.
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It may happen while looking at old photographs.
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It may happen when hearing a family story that was never shared before.
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In that moment, the parent who once seemed larger than life becomes unmistakably human.
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You notice the sacrifices they never mentioned.
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You recognize the fears they never revealed.
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You understand the loneliness they sometimes carried.
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And perhaps for the first time, you see not a parent standing above you, but a person standing beside you.
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This shift in perspective can be surprisingly emotional.
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We spend so many years trying to earn our parents' approval that we rarely consider how much they may have doubted themselves.
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We assume they were evaluating us while forgetting that they were often evaluating themselves.
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Were they making the right choices?
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Were they providing enough?
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Were they protecting their children adequately?
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Were they succeeding or failing?
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Many parents carry these questions for decades.
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The difference is that children rarely witness those private moments of uncertainty.
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As our parents grow older, this realization often becomes impossible to ignore.
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The people who once guided us begin asking us for advice.
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The people who once appeared invincible begin showing signs of vulnerability.
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We notice the passage of time in ways we never did before,
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and with that awareness comes a deeper appreciation for everything they carried while trying to build a life.
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We understand that strength is not the absence of fear.
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More often, strength is the decision to continue despite fear.
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Perhaps that is the lesson hidden beneath this entire realization.
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Adulthood is not a state of complete understanding.
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It is not the moment when all confusion disappears.
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It is not the achievement of permanent certainty.
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Adulthood is learning how to move forward despite uncertainty
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It is making decisions without guarantees It is accepting responsibility without
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possessing all the answers It is continuing to show up even when you feel lost And when we finally understand this,
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we begin to see our parents differently One day,
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you will realize that your parents were figuring life out too They were not reading from a secret instruction manual.
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They were not operating with perfect knowledge.
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They were learning through trial and error, adapting to circumstances they could not always control,
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and doing their best to navigate a world that confused them just as much as it confuses everyone else.
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Some succeeded more gracefully than others.
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Some made mistakes they would later regret.
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but most were simply trying to find their way forward.
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And perhaps the most humbling part of all is recognizing that one day, someone may look at us in exactly the same way.
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They may assume we have everything figured out.
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They may believe we are certain when we are not.
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They may see confidence where there is actually doubt.
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And years later, they may come to the same realization we eventually reach about our parents, that we were never experts at life.
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We were simply human beings doing our best to understand it while we lived it.
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה B2 מבוסס על הסרטון “Your Parents Didn't Have Everything Figured Out Either”. המילים שחוזרות הכי הרבה: parent, decision, moment, realization, begin. בסרטון הזה יש 142 משפטים ו-1748 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 13:38. הדובר שומר על קצב יציב של כ-128 מילים בדקה, קצב נוח לתרגול Shadowing. 85% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית; כדאי ללמוד את השאר לפני שמתחילים.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
15 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| adulthood שם עצם | בַּגְרוּת | |
| certainty שם עצם | /ˈsɝtn̩ti/ | וַדָּאוּת |
| confusion שם עצם | /kənˈfjuːʒən/ | בִּלְבּוּל |
| confuse פועל | /kənˈfjuːz/ | בלבל |
| navigate פועל | /ˈnæv.ɪ.ɡeɪt/ | נִוֵּט |
| disappointment שם עצם | /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/ | אכזבה |
| complexity שם עצם | /kəmˈplɛk.sɪ.ti/ | מורכבות |
| disappear פועל | /dɪsəˈpɪɹ/ | נֶעֱלַם |
| contradiction שם עצם | /ˌkɑːntɹəˈdɪkʃən/ | סתירה |
| imperfect שם תואר | /ɪmˈpɜː(ɹ)fɪkt/ | לֹא מוּשְלָם |
| liberate פועל | /ˈlɪbəˌɹeɪt/ | שיחרר \ שִׁחְרֵר |
| paradox שם עצם | /ˈpæ.ɹəˌdɒks/ | פרדוקס |
| loneliness שם עצם | /ˈloʊnlinəs/ | בְּדִידוּת |
| protagonist שם עצם | /pɹəˈtæɡ.ə.nɪst/ | דְּמוּת רָאשִׁית, גִּבּוֹר |
| empathy שם עצם | /ˈɛmpəθi/ | אֶמְפַּתְיָה |
Phrasal verbs שתשמעו
| מילה | משמעות |
|---|---|
| figure out פועל | הֵבִין, מצא תשובה |
| grow up פועל | גָּדַל |
דקדוק בסרטון הזה
המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:
| מבנה | בסרטון |
|---|---|
| משפטי זיקה (Relative clauses) who / which + clause — מידע נוסף על אדם או דבר | people who raised · ones who explain · people who seem |
| סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה | are made · are expected · is justified |
| הווה מושלם (Present perfect) have/has + past participle — פעולה שקרתה בעבר ועדיין יש לה חשיבות או השפעה עכשיו | Have you ever looked · have built · have been |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: realization /ˌɹɪə.laɪˈzeɪ.ʃən/, confusion /kənˈfjuːʒən/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, contradiction /ˌkɑːntɹəˈdɪkʃən/, reassure /ˌɹi.əˈʃʊɹ/
- מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: realization /ˌɹɪə.laɪˈzeɪ.ʃən/, uncertainty /ʌnˈsɜːtənti/, disappointment /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/, complexity /kəmˈplɛk.sɪ.ti/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /w/ — שפתיים מעוגלות, לא /v/: overwhelm /ˌoʊ.vɚˈwɛlm/, quietly /ˈkwaɪ.ɪt.li/
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: navigate /ˈnæv.ɪ.ɡeɪt/, adapt /əˈdæpt/, admirable /ˈæd.məɹ.ə.bəl/, unimaginable /ˌʌnɪˈmædʒɪnəbəl/, paradox /ˈpæ.ɹəˌdɒks/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: realization /ˌɹɪə.laɪˈzeɪ.ʃən/, resentment /ɹɪˈzɛnt.mənt/, surprisingly /səˈpɹaɪzɪŋli/, disappear /dɪsəˈpɪɹ/, admirable /ˈæd.məɹ.ə.bəl/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט במהירות רגילה, וחזרו על כל משפט עד שהקצב שלכם תואם את הדובר.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו adulthood, certainty, confusion.
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