Shadowing Practice: Daddy Issues - Learn English Speaking with Video
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To say that someone has daddy issues is a somewhat rude
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and humiliating way of alluding to a very understandable longing – for a father who is strong and wise,
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who is judicious, kind, perhaps at points tough, but always fair and ultimately always on our side.
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It would be so understandable if we were to feel we wanted someone like this in our lives, – especially at moments of confusion and chaos.
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The longing for a strong father has been a recurring theme throughout history.
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Most religions have conceived of their central divinities as male parents.
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In ancient Greece, Zeus was described as the father of men and gods.
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In Christianity, God was the heavenly father.
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In Germanic mythology, Odin was the all -father, the father of all other gods.
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The longing has been no less present in secular culture.
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In the US, the individuals who led the War of Independence and drew up the constitution came to be known as the Founding Fathers.
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Garibaldi, the dignified and authoritative man who fought for the unification of Italy in the 19th century,
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earned himself the title of the Father of the Fatherland.
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In early childhood, we are all immensely weak and in need of protection.
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We can't understand the world.
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We're so fragile we could be killed by a moderately sized dog.
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So much feels mysterious and outside of our control.
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A hunger for a daddy is, in the circumstances, wholly natural.
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A grown man inevitably and rightly seems immensely impressive to a small child.
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They appear to know everything – the capital of New Zealand, how to drive a car, how to say a few words in a foreign language,
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how to peel an avocado.
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They go to bed mysteriously late.
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They're up before you.
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In the swimming pool, you can put your arms around their neck and rest on their back.
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They once kicked a football so high you nearly couldn't see it.
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It's beyond astonishing when one is four.
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The paradox of daddy issues is that those who have them are, almost always, people who didn't have very good fathers when they were small.
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Perhaps one's father was strong but ultimately cruel, bullying or disinterested.
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Perhaps he was more concerned with another sibling or with his work.
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Perhaps he wasn't around much, left the house after a divorce or died young.
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The adult longing for a father is not the result of having had a good father in childhood.
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It's a consequence of abandonment.
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The longing can incline us to some tricky patterns of behaviour.
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However mature and sceptical we may be in most areas, in relation to the idea of male protection,
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we remain a little like the young child we once were and haven't been allowed to mature away from.
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We secretly yearn for a man to step in and fulfil an unquenched fantasy role.
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They'll take charge, they'll make the big decisions, they'll be tough and certain to make our problems go away.
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They'll make sure the money side of things is sorted, they'll get angry and aggressive with anyone who hurts us,
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they'll be proud of us and love us as we are.
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We'll be looking out for daddies in friendships, at work and, not least, in politics.
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The danger is that these daddies may in the end hugely damage our trust,
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for it isn't in anyone's power to assuage the sort of longings we bring to bear on them.
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They may know very well what we want and naively or cynically promise to provide it for us,
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but gradually, too late, we stand to realise that they had a thousand flaws, as we all do.
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We may realise that they are bullying rather than noble, that our enemies haven't gone away, that they couldn't help us,
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that there isn't enough money in the world to do what they promised and that, in fact, they didn't really love us at all.
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The fantasy daddy figure of adulthood isn't, in fact, a good father for one big reason.
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Truly good humans know they aren't that powerful
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and are happy to admit to the fact cleanly and honestly just as soon as we're ready to take the news,
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which is normally when we're around 12 years old and conscious of new powers and capacities.
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A good father doesn't, beyond that age, pretend to be all -powerful.
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They confess they can't solve all our problems and can't magically save us from a myriad of dangers, no matter how much they wish they could.
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The good daddy disappoints us just as soon as we're strong enough to bear reality.
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Out of love, they deflate the idea that there could ever be a perfect ideal daddy.
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They try as best they can to help us grow up.
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If we encounter someone who has daddy issues, the temptation is to get frustrated, to tell them to mature,
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to mock them and in particular to poke fun at the particular daddy figure they might have identified.
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This isn't either a very wise or ultimately a very kind strategy.
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It simply tends to trench their devotion because whenever we're attacked,
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we of course feel ever more intensely than ever the need for the protection of an idealized father.
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What we really need to help us out of our daddy
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issues is something more like the actions of a genuinely good father.
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Someone who acknowledges our suffering and our fears, who deeply wants what's best for us and isn't reluctant to say so,
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but who at the same time, out of love, wants to help us to come to terms with a messy and essentially disappointing world.
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A man who, out of love, would encourage us to be independent and specifically not to fantasise that anyone,
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however outwardly imposing, can ever do the impossible.
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Good daddies allow us to bear the truth that there are, in the end, no daddies.
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this.
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה C1 מבוסס על הסרטון “Daddy Issues”. המילים שחוזרות הכי הרבה: father, daddy, longing, daddies, perhaps. בסרטון הזה יש 68 משפטים ו-985 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 5:59. הדובר מדבר בקצב טבעי של כ-165 מילים בדקה, קרוב לשיחה יומיומית. רק 81% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית, כך שאוצר המילים מאתגר.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
15 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| disappoint פועל | /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnt/ | אכזב |
| abandonment שם עצם | /əˈbæn.d(ə)n.m(ə)nt/ | נטישה, הפקרה |
| assuage פועל | /əˈswɑʒ/ | שִׁכֵּךְ |
| astonish פועל | /əˈstɑnɪʃ/ | הדהים |
| avocado שם עצם | /ˌɑvəˈkɑdoʊ/ | אָבוֹקָדוֹ |
| divinity שם עצם | /dɪˈvɪnɪti/ | אלוהות |
| frustrate פועל | /ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/ | תִּסְכֵּל |
| myriad שם עצם | /ˈmɪɹi.æd/ | רבבה, ריבוא |
| longing שם עצם | /ˈlɔːŋɪŋ/ | כְּמִיהָה, כיסופים \ כִּסּוּפִים |
| adulthood שם עצם | בַּגְרוּת | |
| sibling שם עצם | /ˈsɪb.lɪŋ/ | אַחַאי |
| paradox שם עצם | /ˈpæ.ɹəˌdɒks/ | פרדוקס |
| circumstance שם עצם | /ˈsɝ.kəmˌstæns/ | נסיבות |
| trench שם עצם | /ˈtɹɛnt͡ʃ/ | תְּעָלָה |
| temptation שם עצם | /ˌtɛmpˈteɪʃən/ | פיתוי |
Phrasal verbs שתשמעו
| מילה | משמעות |
|---|---|
| grow up פועל | גָּדַל |
דקדוק בסרטון הזה
המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:
| מבנה | בסרטון |
|---|---|
| הווה מושלם (Present perfect) have/has + past participle — פעולה שקרתה בעבר ועדיין יש לה חשיבות או השפעה עכשיו | has been · have conceived · haven't been allowed |
| סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה | was described · be known · could be killed |
| משפטי זיקה (Relative clauses) who / which + clause — מידע נוסף על אדם או דבר | man who fought · those who have · anyone who hurts |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
הדובר משתמש ב-30 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו they'll, isn't, we're. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.
- הצלילים של “th”: authoritative /əˈθɔɹɪˌteɪtɪv/, mythology /mɪˈθɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: assuage /əˈswɑʒ/, astonish /əˈstɑnɪʃ/, judicious /dʒuˈdɪʃ.əs/, unification /ˌjunəfəˈkeɪʃən/, temptation /ˌtɛmpˈteɪʃən/
- מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: abandonment /əˈbæn.d(ə)n.m(ə)nt/, authoritative /əˈθɔɹɪˌteɪtɪv/, avocado /ˌɑvəˈkɑdoʊ/, cynically /ˈsɪn.ɪk.(ə.)li/, disinterested /dɪsˈɪnt(ə)ɹəstəd/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /w/ — שפתיים מעוגלות, לא /v/: assuage /əˈswɑʒ/, outwardly /ˈaʊtwɚdli/, consequence /ˈkɑn.sɪ.kwəns/
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: abandonment /əˈbæn.d(ə)n.m(ə)nt/, fantasize /ˈfæntəˌsaɪz/, garibaldi /ɡæɹɪˈbældi/, magically /ˈmæd͡ʒ.ɪ.kli/, myriad /ˈmɪɹi.æd/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: authoritative /əˈθɔɹɪˌteɪtɪv/, disinterested /dɪsˈɪnt(ə)ɹəstəd/, frustrate /ˈfɹʌsˌtɹeɪt/, garibaldi /ɡæɹɪˈbældi/, myriad /ˈmɪɹi.æd/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- התחילו במהירות 0.75×, תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט, וחזרו למהירות רגילה כשזה מרגיש קל.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו disappoint, abandonment, assuage.
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