跟读练习: Daddy Issues - 通过视频学习英语口语

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To say that someone has daddy issues is a somewhat rude

and humiliating way of alluding to a very understandable longing – for a father who is strong and wise,

who is judicious, kind, perhaps at points tough, but always fair and ultimately always on our side.

It would be so understandable if we were to feel we wanted someone like this in our lives, – especially at moments of confusion and chaos.

The longing for a strong father has been a recurring theme throughout history.

Most religions have conceived of their central divinities as male parents.

In ancient Greece, Zeus was described as the father of men and gods.

In Christianity, God was the heavenly father.

In Germanic mythology, Odin was the all -father, the father of all other gods.

The longing has been no less present in secular culture.

In the US, the individuals who led the War of Independence and drew up the constitution came to be known as the Founding Fathers.

Garibaldi, the dignified and authoritative man who fought for the unification of Italy in the 19th century,

earned himself the title of the Father of the Fatherland.

In early childhood, we are all immensely weak and in need of protection.

We can't understand the world.

We're so fragile we could be killed by a moderately sized dog.

So much feels mysterious and outside of our control.

A hunger for a daddy is, in the circumstances, wholly natural.

A grown man inevitably and rightly seems immensely impressive to a small child.

They appear to know everything – the capital of New Zealand, how to drive a car, how to say a few words in a foreign language,

how to peel an avocado.

They go to bed mysteriously late.

They're up before you.

In the swimming pool, you can put your arms around their neck and rest on their back.

They once kicked a football so high you nearly couldn't see it.

It's beyond astonishing when one is four.

The paradox of daddy issues is that those who have them are, almost always, people who didn't have very good fathers when they were small.

Perhaps one's father was strong but ultimately cruel, bullying or disinterested.

Perhaps he was more concerned with another sibling or with his work.

Perhaps he wasn't around much, left the house after a divorce or died young.

The adult longing for a father is not the result of having had a good father in childhood.

It's a consequence of abandonment.

The longing can incline us to some tricky patterns of behaviour.

However mature and sceptical we may be in most areas, in relation to the idea of male protection,

we remain a little like the young child we once were and haven't been allowed to mature away from.

We secretly yearn for a man to step in and fulfil an unquenched fantasy role.

They'll take charge, they'll make the big decisions, they'll be tough and certain to make our problems go away.

They'll make sure the money side of things is sorted, they'll get angry and aggressive with anyone who hurts us,

they'll be proud of us and love us as we are.

We'll be looking out for daddies in friendships, at work and, not least, in politics.

The danger is that these daddies may in the end hugely damage our trust,

for it isn't in anyone's power to assuage the sort of longings we bring to bear on them.

They may know very well what we want and naively or cynically promise to provide it for us,

but gradually, too late, we stand to realise that they had a thousand flaws, as we all do.

We may realise that they are bullying rather than noble, that our enemies haven't gone away, that they couldn't help us,

that there isn't enough money in the world to do what they promised and that, in fact, they didn't really love us at all.

The fantasy daddy figure of adulthood isn't, in fact, a good father for one big reason.

Truly good humans know they aren't that powerful

and are happy to admit to the fact cleanly and honestly just as soon as we're ready to take the news,

which is normally when we're around 12 years old and conscious of new powers and capacities.

A good father doesn't, beyond that age, pretend to be all -powerful.

They confess they can't solve all our problems and can't magically save us from a myriad of dangers, no matter how much they wish they could.

The good daddy disappoints us just as soon as we're strong enough to bear reality.

Out of love, they deflate the idea that there could ever be a perfect ideal daddy.

They try as best they can to help us grow up.

If we encounter someone who has daddy issues, the temptation is to get frustrated, to tell them to mature,

to mock them and in particular to poke fun at the particular daddy figure they might have identified.

This isn't either a very wise or ultimately a very kind strategy.

It simply tends to trench their devotion because whenever we're attacked,

we of course feel ever more intensely than ever the need for the protection of an idealized father.

What we really need to help us out of our daddy

issues is something more like the actions of a genuinely good father.

Someone who acknowledges our suffering and our fears, who deeply wants what's best for us and isn't reluctant to say so,

but who at the same time, out of love, wants to help us to come to terms with a messy and essentially disappointing world.

A man who, out of love, would encourage us to be independent and specifically not to fantasise that anyone,

however outwardly imposing, can ever do the impossible.

Good daddies allow us to bear the truth that there are, in the end, no daddies.

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本课的词汇与口语要点

这节口语课以视频“Daddy Issues”为素材。视频中反复出现的词有：father, daddy, longing, daddies, perhaps。这段视频共有 68 个句子、985 个单词可供跟读。讲话部分时长为 5:59。说话人语速自然，每分钟约 165 个词，接近日常对话。只有 81% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，词汇难度较高。

视频中的重点词汇

视频中 15 个值得学习的单词，附发音和释义：

单词	发音	释义
daddy 名词	/ˈdædi/	爸爸, 爹
mature 形容词	/məˈt͡ʃʊ(ə)ɹ/	成熟, 成長 /成长
bullying 名词	/ˈbʊ.li.ɪŋ/	欺負 /欺负, 恃強欺弱 /恃强欺弱
understandable 形容词		可懂的, 可以理解的
disappoint 动词	/ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnt/	使…失望, 辜負 /辜负
immensely 副词	/ɪˈmɛnsli/	非常, 十分
earn 动词	/ɝn/	掙 /挣, 賺 /赚
impressive 形容词	/ɪmˈpɹɛsɪv/	令人印象深刻
encourage 动词	/ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/	鼓勵 /鼓励, 激勵 /激励
suffer 动词	/ˈsʌfɚ/	受苦, 遭受
deeply 副词	/ˈdi(ː)pli/	深, 深深
ideal 形容词	/aɪˈdi(ə)l/	理想的
essentially 副词	/ɪˈsɛnʃəli/	本質上 /本质上, 基本上
solve 动词	/sɒlv/	解決 /解决
friendship 名词	/ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/	友誼 /友谊, 友情

视频中出现的短语动词

单词	释义
go away 动词	離開 /离开, 走
draw up 动词	草擬 /草拟, 起草
grow up 动词	長大 /长大

视频中的语法

说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：

结构	视频中的用法
现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事	has been · have conceived · haven't been allowed
被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么，而不是谁做的	was described · be known · could be killed
定语从句 who / which + 从句 — 补充说明人或事物	man who fought · those who have · anyone who hurts

需要注意的发音

说话人用了 30 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 they'll, isn't, we're。请按听到的简短形式来说。

“th” 音: mythology /mɪˈθɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, authoritative /əˈθɔɹɪˌteɪtɪv/
“sh” 和 “zh” 音: essentially /ɪˈsɛnʃəli/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, relation /ɹɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, confusion /kənˈfjuːʒən/, conscious /ˈkɑn.ʃəs/
长单词——注意重音位置: essentially /ɪˈsɛnʃəli/, mysterious /mɪˈstɪɹi.əs/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/, inevitably /ɪˈnɛvɪtəbli/, mythology /mɪˈθɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/

中文母语者容易读错的音：

/v/ — 不要读成 /w/，上齿轻触下唇: impressive /ɪmˈpɹɛsɪv/, solve /sɒlv/, divorce /dɪˈvɔːs/, aggressive /əˈɡɹɛs.ɪv/, inevitably /ɪˈnɛvɪtəbli/
词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: disappoint /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪnt/, impressive /ɪmˈpɹɛsɪv/, encourage /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/, solve /sɒlv/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/
/r/ 和 /l/ 的区别: relation /ɹɪˈleɪʃ(ə)n/, gradually /ˈɡɹæd͡ʒuəli/, cruel /ˈkɹuːəl/, secretly /ˈsiː.kɹɪt.li/, fragile /ˈfɹæd͡ʒəl/

如何用这段视频练习

先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 daddy, mature, bullying 这类单词。

什么是跟读法？

跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。

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