शैडोइंग अभ्यास: Are We Measuring Life the Wrong Way? | B2 English Shadowing - YouTube के साथ अंग्रेजी बोलना सीखें
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From the day we are born,
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our lives are recorded in numbers.
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Doctors measure our weight and height.
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Teachers measure our grades and test scores.
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Companies measure our performance, productivity, and income.
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Social media platforms measure our popularity through likes, shares, and followers.
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Numbers seem clear and objective.
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They give us a simple way to compare,
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rank, and evaluate Because of this,
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we often trust them We believe they show our progress
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and even our value But what if numbers only tell part of the story?
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What if, by focusing too much on measurable results We are misunderstanding what it truly means to live a good life?
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In school, children quickly learn that high scores bring praise.
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A student who gets excellent grades is often called intelligent and hardworking.
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Meanwhile, a student who struggles with exams may feel ashamed,
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even if they are creative,
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empathetic, or talented in other areas.
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Over time, many students connect their self-worth to their academic performance.
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They start to believe that their value depends on measurable success This mindset can follow them into adulthood Later in life,
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professional achievement becomes the main measurement When meeting someone new,
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one of the first questions we ask is What do you do?
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This question may seem normal,
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but it shows how strongly we connect identity with career A prestigious job title or a high salary often earns admiration.
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People who choose less competitive paths may feel invisible or undervalued,
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even if they are satisfied and fulfilled.
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In this way, society quietly teaches us that success equals status.
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The influence of social media has made this culture of measurement even more intense.
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Today, almost everything can be counted.
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We can see how many people viewed our post,
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how many reacted to it,
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and how many follow our account.
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These numbers create a visible ranking system.
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It becomes easy to compare ourselves with others.
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If someone our age appears more successful,
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more attractive, or more popular online, we may feel behind.
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However, what we see on social media is usually a carefully edited version of reality.
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We rarely see the struggles,
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doubts, or failures behind the images.
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Constant comparison can damage our sense of contentment.
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Instead of appreciating our own journey,
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we focus on what we lack.
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We measure our lives against the highlight reels of others.
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This habit can lead to dissatisfaction,
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even when we are objectively doing well.
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The problem is not ambition itself.
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Wanting to improve is natural and healthy.
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The problem arises when we are doing well.
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The problem is not ambition itself.
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Wanting to improve is natural and healthy.
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The problem arises when comparison becomes the main way we evaluate ourselves.
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Another issue with overmeasuring life is that it prioritizes visible achievements over invisible growth.
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Qualities such as patience, honesty,
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resilience, and kindness are difficult to measure.
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There is no simple number that represents emotional maturity or integrity.
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Yet these qualities strongly influence our relationships and overall well-being.
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A person may are a high income but struggle to maintain meaningful connections.
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Another person may live modestly but feel deeply fulfilled because of strong relationships and personal peace.
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Modern culture often emphasizes productivity.
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We are encouraged to use our time efficiently and to avoid wasting it.
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The expression, time is money,
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suggests that every moment should produce something measurable.
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As a result, people may feel guilty when they rest,
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spend time with family, or simply do nothing.
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However, rest is not a sign of laziness.
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It is necessary for mental clarity and emotional stability.
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Without balance, constant productivity can lead to stress and burnout.
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Burnout has become increasingly common, especially among young professionals.
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Many feel pressure to succeed quickly.
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They compare their progress to others and set extremely high expectations for themselves.
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At first, this drive may feel motivating,
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but when achievement becomes the only measure of worth,
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any pause feels like failure.
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Over time, exhaustion replaces excitement.
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Ironically, in trying to build a successful life,
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people may sacrifice their health and happiness.
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It is important to recognize that measurement itself is not negative.
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Goals and evaluation can guide improvement.
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For example, tracking progress while learning a new skill can be encouraging.
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Businesses need data to make informed decisions.
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Athletes rely on measurable results to improve performance.
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The problem occurs when measurement becomes the ultimate purpose rather than a helpful tool.
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When numbers define our identity, we lose perspective.
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We should also consider who defines the standards of success.
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Many societal expectations are shaped by economic systems and media messages.
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Advertisements frequently suggest that happiness can be bought.
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Large houses, expensive cars, and luxury vacations are presented as symbols of achievement.
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Gradually, these images influence our desires.
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We may begin chasing goals not because they reflect our true values,
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but because they promise recognition.
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If we pause and reflect honestly,
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we may notice that our most meaningful experiences are often simple.
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A deep conversation with a close friend.
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A quiet moment in nature.
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Helping someone without expecting a reward these moments rarely increase our status
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or income yet they leave a lasting impact on our hearts they remind us
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that life's richness cannot always be measured there is also a psychological pattern called arrival fallacy it is the belief
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that once we reach a specific goal lasting happiness will follow.
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We tell ourselves, I will be happy when I get promoted,
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or I will feel confident when I earn more money.
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However, after reaching the goal, satisfaction is often temporary.
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Soon, a new target appears.
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This cycle can continue endlessly,
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keeping happiness always in the future.
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If we measure life only by milestones,
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we may never fully appreciate the present.
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A healthier approach might involve redefining success on personal terms.
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Instead of asking, how much have I achieved compared to others?
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We could ask, am I living according to my values?
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Instead of focusing solely on results,
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we might pay attention to the quality of our daily actions.
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Did we act with integrity?
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Did we show compassion?
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Did we learn something new?
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These questions encourage reflection rather than competition.
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Internal standards are more stable than external ones.
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External markers, such as income,
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appearance, or popularity, can change quickly.
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Economic crises, health issues, or unexpected events can alter our situation overnight.
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If our self-worth depends entirely on these factors,
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we may feel lost when they disappear.
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In contrast, character and values provide a more consistent foundation.
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They guide decisions even during uncertainty.
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Another aspect to consider is the importance of relationships.
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Numerous psychological studies suggest that strong social connections are among the most significant predictors of long-term happiness.
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Yet relationships are not easily measured.
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The depth of trust, the comfort of shared silence,
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and the support during difficult times cannot be reduced to statistics.
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When we measure life mainly by professional success,
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we may unintentionally neglect the relationships that truly sustain us.
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Technology has increased the speed of life.
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Information travels instantly and achievements are shared immediately.
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This fast pace can create unrealistic expectations.
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We see young entrepreneurs becoming millionaires and artists gaining global recognition overnight.
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Such stories are inspiring, but they are not typical.
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When extraordinary success becomes the standard,
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ordinary progress may feel insufficient.
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However, steady growth and quiet dedication are often more sustainable.
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Rethinking how we measure life requires conscious effort.
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It may involve setting boundaries with technology,
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choosing meaningful goals over impressive ones,
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and accepting that growth is not always visible.
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It may also require patience.
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Inner development takes time and does not always produce immediate results.
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But its effects are long-lasting.
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Gratitude can change our perspective When we regularly acknowledge what we already have Health,
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supportive people, opportunities to learn We shift focus from scarcity to abundance This does not mean we stop striving Rather,
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we balance ambition with appreciation In doing so,
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we reduce the constant pressure to prove ourselves Ultimately,
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the question is not whether numbers are useful.
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They clearly are.
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The deeper question is whether we allow them to control our sense of identity.
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If we measure life only by achievements,
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income, and recognition, we risk overlooking essential dimensions—authenticity, kindness, growth, and love.
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These qualities may not appear on a resume or a social media profile,
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yet they define the depth of our experience.
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Perhaps we are not entirely measuring life the wrong way,
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but we may be measuring only one side of it.
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Life is both visible and invisible dimensions.
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Visible achievements can be counted.
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Invisible qualities must be felt.
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A truly meaningful life likely requires attention to both.
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Success without inner fulfillment feels empty.
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Fulfillment without any effort may feel incomplete.
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Balance is key.
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As we move forward, we might ask ourselves a different set of questions.
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Not only, how much did I accomplish,
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but also, how deeply did I live?
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Not only, how do I compare,
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but also, am I true to myself?
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These questions do not have simple numerical answers,
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yet they may guide us toward a life that feels genuinely rich rather than nearly impressive.
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In the end, perhaps the most important measure of life is not how high we climb,
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but how well we connect,
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how honestly we act, and how courageously we grow.
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When we shift our focus from constant comparison to conscious living,
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we may discover that the true value of life cannot be captured by numbers alone.
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- मापना - Measure
- उच्चारण - Pronunciation
- प्रगति - Progress
- संतोष - Contentment
- योजनाएँ - Ambitions
- समाज - Society
- संख्याएँ - Numbers
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