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There's this girl I met online and I liked her, but her friend texted she doesn't like you in a crush way and also said, just so you don't get your hopes up.
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That's fine.
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That's really like good of her for doing that.
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So you don't get your hopes up and waste your time.
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You know what this means?
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Now you can move on and get with other women and get other crushes.
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Isn't that awesome?
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How nice that somebody, and two things could happen.
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Number one, that friend is honest and that girl does not like you.
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And now you moved on and you will be able to like, move on and meet new people and meet, or maybe she told you that.
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And then in a month when you move on and you do other stuff, she'll be like, no, you know what?
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Actually, I really like, I really like Chig.
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I really did.
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So either or you benefit.
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I think that's awesome.
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I think you saved yourself a lot of heartbreak and like the worst thing that people can do, I think is waste your time.
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And don't get me wrong.
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Okay, sometimes, all right, let's talk about it.
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Sometimes people have this idea of like, let's say you date somebody for three years
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and then let's say you do or you don't get married
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and they go oh you wasted my time okay
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but you kind of needed to get serious get together do
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stuff to get oh sorry do stuff together to realize am
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i wasting my like you know you can't just be like
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oh i can't believe we dated for six months you wasted my time okay
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but while you were dating while you were going on dates
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while you were talking about the future while you were opening up
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while they were kind of becoming themselves you then realize right
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because it's very easy i'll give women as an example right
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so let's say you start dating a girl
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and she's like i love cooking i never drink
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and i don't talk to any of my ex-boyfriends
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and then a month goes through she's fine after three months
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you're like wait a second you never cook you always talk to an ex
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and you're out you drink every day so clearly that's stuff
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that you wouldn't have been able to figure out within a month
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because you believe her when you know why would you assume she would be lying to you
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so yeah i think it's fine i think i think time waste kind of happens
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when people are going back and forth and all that
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but even then you have to kind of date people
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and be friends with them and hang out with them
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and do stuff to kind of realize wait a second well
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this always kind of happens how does one date at the
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age of 30 unfortunately you just you just got to talk to people i think the biggest way is probably
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if I were you I'd annoy your friends I tell your
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friends hey I am looking for this this this this this this this
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if you know anybody let me know set me up on
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dates annoy your friends also talk to people right like um the other day
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when I had lunch with my friend somebody next to me
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was talking about a place called night market in Silver Lake I didn't know it was in Silver Lake
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so I was like oh my god where is this like I heard about it and
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so just kind of make conversation with people you know all
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your friends are married perfect they might have some unmarried friends or they might know some unmarried friends.
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I think in life, a lot of stuff is unfortunately kind of like, you only need one yes, right?
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It's kind of like a job.
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If you think about it, if you want to have a beautiful, lovely, sweet wife, you only need to meet one beautiful,
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lovely, sweet woman that you and her agree to go on dates and get married and be together.
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It's the same thing like if you're looking for a job, you only need the job to say yes.
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And I know it's scary, but knowing that like you only need one yes, Got with my ex situationships best friend.
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Hey.
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Ex situationships best friend.
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I mean, okay, this is gonna, for legal reasons, this is a joke.
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Okay.
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So legally speaking, let's say I decide that one of my, one of my ex-husbands can, you know, the ones that are alive can get out of the,
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I don't know, the dog house or wherever they're at.
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And if it doesn't work out with them, that sucks
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but they got friends they also have friends
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so I get it good for you um personally you know it things it's fine
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if things don't work out with people by the way if
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if you know if you date a person
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and you have three kids together two dogs
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and then your best friend swoops in without ever having the conversation with you
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and like buries them from under your nose and you're devastated that's different
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but if you go on a few dates with a girl
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and she's kind of nice but then you meet her friend and you
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and the friend just vibe each other a lot more as
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long as you guys are both honest I think as long
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as you guys are like look I think you're nice we had two dates together you're very sweet
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but I just think you know your friend is just my type she
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and I have the same humor we like the same stuff
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we have the same interests you know maybe like you drink a lot
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and I don't like that she also is sober I think it's fine
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and I think the older you get as long as people come up to you with respect
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and kind of tell you like hey I know this is a hard conversation um
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but you think it's bro code violation to date another bro's ex but also like what are we in the 1700s, like don't marry another man's widow.
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Like at a certain point, people have dated, people have history.
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And I'll give you this example.
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Okay.
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One of my ex-husbands, he's still alive.
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Good for him.
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I actually introduced him to one of his future partners because,
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okay, me and this ex-husband dated like 20 plus years ago for like few months.
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What does that mean now suddenly forever?
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I have to go to every woman to be like, you could never, don't even look at him one time when we, you know, when we were in our,
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like 20 years ago, when we were in our early whatever 20s, like we held hands and kissed maybe one time.
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You're not a bro, but it's the same thing for like women, right?
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Where it's like, what am I now, if I introduce him and he gets along with a girl, you know?
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Always marry another man's widow.
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She's lonely and hags are worth loving.
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True.
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I think there's also a time limit of like, how long ago did you date this person?
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How serious, Right, like if you just get out of like a 10-year relationship and this was the love of your life, yeah, maybe your friend shouldn't date them right away.
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But if you dated a person for a few months or even a year, 10 plus years ago, and your friend and them re-meet and they hit it off, you know, I don't know.
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I also feel like you're not allowed to have dibs on people forever, right?
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Like you're not allowed to be like, ooh, you can be like, maybe if you have like one person
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that you're like, listen, I'm sorry this is the love of my life
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and they just don't know it yet and i'm waiting for them maybe
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but even then like i don't know am i too open-minded
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am i too open-minded like i i have introduced one of my ex-husbands to like his future partner after
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that because i was like hey yeah he was great this is why things didn't work out with us
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but you know like great person just because just Just because me and this person couldn't make things work romantically
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doesn't mean that he can then make things work romantically with other women or men.
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I don't know.
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I'm...
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Did he have all his limbs?
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Yes, he did.
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Three legs, even.
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He had extra limbs.
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Sometimes things don't work out for special reasons, you know? So yeah.
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my parents divorced my mother remarried like a year after they separated i took
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that very badly i mean yeah when you're 16
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and your mother divorces your dad of course you feel like oh my god this is my dad um
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but i think it's again there's definitely stages to this right
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like let's say you are dating somebody for five plus years
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and you love them and then your friend behind your back goes
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and swoops in
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and starts dating them from right under your nose that's that's fucked up sorry for my language
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but if yeah if like oh yeah me
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and this person went on a few dates a few years ago
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and you and them hit it off go have fun all i'm saying is is i left
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that ex-husband alive he we were actually so we caught up not long ago
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and um he works in like tech um in medical tech
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and you know he's like all my friends are married
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but he's like
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if i were to introduce you to somebody uh he's like I'd introduce you to like people in sales
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or in finance or in stuff like that and he goes
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and I'm like well I have introduced him to like three
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three streamer girls throughout like the 20 plus years
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that I've known him and he's like please no more streamer girls
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and no vtuber girls either I'm like I'm sorry buddy I don't know anybody else
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so it feels like the scales aren't exactly fair right but listen I I know what I know
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I know who I know no I think I introduced him to like two streamer girls throughout the years
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and one of them ended up stalking him for for like many many years
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and he had to he had to like yeah it's crazy
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but in my defense I didn't know the girl very closely she was just a friend of a friend
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and she was like hey you know I brought him somewhere
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and she was like wow this guy is great I was
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like oh my god yes like you should absolutely pursue him I'm like him
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and I had a thing like 10 years ago don't worry
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it's not serious like we're friends that's why he's alive
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and she ended up like stalking him
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and like being really creepy i didn't know she was gonna
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be creepy i don't know like i feel like with women
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i don't know i think guys have a better radar for women being crazy than women do.
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Because to me, I'm like, yeah, I just thought she was European, you know?
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As a European myself, I was like, she's just European.
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I don't think it's anything like that, like that, like that.
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But yeah, I just, yeah, she as a European, I don't know,
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she just no, no, she was European.
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She is European. So yeah.
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My poor friend but again
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so yes you should absolutely ask your friends to set you up
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or and i know some of you were like oh x situations well like yeah
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if you think about it if you know if if your
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x situationship whatever has other friends you know there's a way that you can kind of be like hey
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i know we didn't work out but maybe like a finder's fee maybe
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if you introduce me to my next partner I will think
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okay wait you know how in apartment buildings they have this thing we're like
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if you find a tenant you will get like a month
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free of rent wait wait wait wait I'm thinking of a business here I'm thinking of a business what
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if you go to your other ex dates and be like hey
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if you refer me to my next girlfriend
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or boyfriend I will buy you I don't know a bag i i will pay your phone bill
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and you get a bonus if we get married
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and you get a bonus for every kid we have think about it
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because because if you just ask like an ex-girlfriend
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or an ex-boyfriend to introduce you to people why would they they'll they'll be kind of like territorial over it but what
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if you're like wait no no no like i'll get like
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do you want to go on a trip to japan i'll
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buy your flight i'll buy your thing you know come on
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come on think about Your ex like you know date girl
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or boy that you went on a date with has other boys or girls that they know
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I think I think we're sleeping on this And then be like okay, and then you know if we
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if we date for six months you get a bonus
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If we get married you get a bonus for each kid we have You get a bonus!
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That's actually a really great idea.
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I'm not being weird.
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I'm not being weird This is a great why can my
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apartment building be like wow your friend moved into a penthouse Not
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that they did I'm just giving you an example your friend
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moved into this apartment We are giving you an amount of money.
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I think it's a great like okay real talk
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real talk real talk real like
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if we actually actually take the funny aspect out of this
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conversation genuinely why is it my apartment building can be like hey
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if you find us a tenant we will give you a month
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or two of rent free of course if you go to like an ex
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or a friend and you're like hey do you have any friends
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that you think like sorry we didn't work out
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or you know it's been long enough we're both adults um do you have anybody
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that you think i could meet or talk to and
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if you're genuinely like hey you know I'll buy you dinner I'll buy you some, you know And I know everyone's like money Why is everything about money?
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Because people are weird And obviously it would be nice
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if they did it for free But there's also It adds a stake of like They're gonna be serious about it,
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you know You have to pay If the person has a few killed I'm sorry,
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that's not funny That's actually really serious and dangerous But it made me laugh
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like what if they accidentally set you up with serial killer
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fuck i'm sorry that's not funny i shouldn't laugh
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but i'm just saying i'm just saying that
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if you are back in the good old days when i started streaming 15-ish years ago i would open up
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my Facebook and I would message people every day and be like, could you open my stream?
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And they're like, I opened it yesterday.
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I'm like, okay, but could you open it today?
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I went to my friends.
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I texted them.
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I asked them.
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I asked my stepsister.
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I talked to everybody.
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Okay.
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I was desperate because I knew that getting those first 10 viewers was so important.
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Have you been this day, you know, before being like, I'm desperate.
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I haven't met anybody.
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Have you tried number one, approaching women on the bike path?
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Have you tried talking to women on the bike path of death Greek and being like, Hey, you look familiar can i have your instagram
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and number two yeah have you been like hey you know
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maybe your brother's engaged been like tell your wife to set me up you know um
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i'm just saying i i think all jokes aside you know maybe maybe forget about the money exchange stuff
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because then it gets weird but genuinely i think look
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if your ex situationship whatever it is that you're talking about yeah
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if it was long enough ago be like hey i'm telling you right now
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if I was in a place where I was like that's
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it I'm getting married no matter what it's just a numbers
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game I just need to meet enough people I would I would go to my ex-husband's
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and be like hey um I'm glad you're happy I'm glad life is good you're welcome for not killing you
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uh and cannibalizing your body you I need I need three I need the photos of spider-man
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and and your hot friends on my desk by Monday I need you to basically you know ask them
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if they like annoying extroverted Ukrainian women
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and let's go come on you you got it you got
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to hustle a little in life you know yeah like Giga has a hot cousin allegedly you know if I
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if I was a little bit more annoying I'd be like
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Giga I want the photos of your hot cousin on my
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desk by Monday listen it is what it is you know
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and I would give a finder's fee I'm kidding I'm kidding I wouldn't uh it's funny because sometimes when I'm, it's hard because obviously like I am serious about a lot of this.
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Like I do genuinely think we don't utilize our friendships enough for like
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if you want a job or if you want to meet somebody, be like, hey, just so you know, tell your friends, hey, just so you know, I am looking for a partner.
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These are kind of the people I like.
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If you meet anybody, could you please like ask them if we could get set up?
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Boom.
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But then it's hard to take me seriously when I keep being like, and then for every kid we have,
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you're going to get an extra finder's fee.
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It's kind of hard to take me seriously when I sprinkle it with jokes, but you know, I still think that there's a lot in here that could be a genuine thing of like,
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talk to your friends about that kind of stuff.
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I've talked to my friends about it so much
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that most of my friends are relegated to like at maximum introducing me to one person every year
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because they get too excited whenever my friends are like oh
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my god wait i know somebody i know somebody no no
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no no no it's one person per household per year at maximum if
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because otherwise i don't have time i don't have time to
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be dating i gotta spend 60 minutes on my scooter today
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you know what i mean i got a scooter to death
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greek i gotta hurt my ankles with my scooter i don't have time mata what about regularly giving money
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and chatting them up during chatting them up women during their just chatting streams would
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that work asking for not me probably i don't know i feel like
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if you're online it depends what people are looking into personally
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me um i need to like i need to see people in person
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because i'm pretty good i feel at like reading people in person
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when when when we're online it's harder to like pay attention And also then you have to wonder, it's kind of like the waitress dilemma, right?
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Is she flirting back or is she just saying, thank you so much for the gift song.
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Thank you for the five gifted.
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Oh my God, I love you.
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And you're like, is she in love with me or is she saying I love you, you know?
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Does she love me or is she being polite, you know?
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It's not dating time.
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It's scooting time.
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It really is scooting time.
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I think until I get my visa and everything and I know
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that I can be in the States for a long periodically a time and I can No dating.
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It's time to scooter, okay?
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It's time to wear my little helmet and to scooter away, okay?
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Questo clip è un tesoro per chi vuole migliorare la pronuncia inglese e la conversazione: il linguaggio è colloquiale, spontaneo e ricco di espressioni quotidiane. La narrazione fluisce come una conversazione vera, con pause, ripetizioni e cambi di argomento che riflettono la naturalezza della comunicazione umana. Ecco perché è perfetto per lo shadowspeak (o shadow speech), una tecnica dove si imita la pronuncia, l'intonazione e il ritmo di un madrelingua. Ogni frase è un'opportunità per esercitarsi a "seguire l'ombra" del parlante, rafforzando la fluidità e la confidenza.
Scomponiamo il dialogo: frasi naturali e come usarle
Analizziamo alcune frasi che rendono il video così autentico:
- "That's fine. That's really like good of her for doing that." La ripetizione di "that's" e l'uso di "like" (non come congiunzione, ma come filler) rendono la frase spontanea. In inglese colloquiale, i filler come "like" o "you know" aiutano a mantenere il flusso: imitarli ci insegna a non temere le pause.
- "You kind of needed to get serious, get together, do stuff to get..." La struttura "kind of" (un po') e la serie di verbi brevi ("get serious", "get together") sono tipiche delle conversazioni informali. Questo stile evita frasi complicate, insegnando a esprimere idee in modo diretto.
- "How nice that somebody, and two things could happen." L'intonazione salita alla fine di "somebody" crea suspense, un tratto chiave per coinvolgere l'ascoltatore. Imitare questo tono ci aiuta a rendere le nostre frasi più expressive.
Una routine di pratica: repeat-and-record per il shadowing
Per sfruttare al massimo il video, prova questa routine:
- Ascolta e osserva: Guarda il video una volta, concentrandoti su ritmo e intonazione. Nota dove il parlante accelera o rallenta.
- Imita immediatamente: Ripeti ogni frase subito dopo il parlante, cercando di copiare la pronuncia e i filler. Usa lo shadowing per creare un connnessione tra orecchio e voce.
- Registra e confronta: Registrati mentre imiti, poi ascolta il tuo audio rispetto al video. Nota le differenze nella pronuncia (ad esempio, la "t" in "that" o la "d" in "did") e correggi. Ripeti finché la tua versione si avvicina alla naturalezza del originale.
Con questa pratica, migliorerai non solo la pronuncia inglese, ma anche la capacità di seguire conversazioni reali. Ricorda: lo shadow speech non è solo imitare, ma capire il "cuore" della comunicazione. E se vuoi approfondire, cerca un shadowing site che offra esercizi simili: la pratica costante è la chiave!
La grammatica di questo video
Le strutture che chi parla usa di più, con le parole esatte del video:
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|---|---|
| Frasi condizionali if + frase, will/would + verbo — una condizione e il suo risultato | if I were you I'd annoy · if you find a tenant you will get |
| Present perfect have/has + participio passato — un’azione passata che conta ancora adesso | have dated · have introduced · I've known |
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