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I used to think attraction was about confidence, like being bold, saying the right things, having that presence, or being the loudest person in the room.

But the more I meet people, the more I realize that's not what actually sticks with you, it's the people who are respectful.

And I realize it's also something that you can notice right away.

It's subtle, but it's in the way they talk to people, the way they listen to others carefully,

the way they stay humble even when there's more to gain, the kind that don't interrupt you to prove a point,

and the kind that don't make everything about themselves.

And instead, they just let you be heard, and for that reason, it feels rare.

I feel like in my life, I've been around so many different people.

People who are funny, confident, outgoing, charismatic, calm.

They all had their own charms and traits that made them attractive.

But one thing that they all had in common that made them stand out was the fact that they were respectful.

When you think about it, you could be funny and have no respect for people.

You could be confident but let it turn into arrogance.

And you could also be charismatic but have bad personalities.

But when you have that ability to make others feel seen, that alone makes people feel valued and can make you attractive.

It just feels different because you can tell that they're not trying to impress other people.

They don't make you feel small for saying something simple.

They don't rush you in conversations.

And as a result, you leave those interactions feeling good because of how they responded to your stories and thoughts.

I think people misunderstand what respect looks like.

It's not just being polite.

It's not just saying please and thank you.

It's how you make people feel when you don't need anything from them.

That's the real test because anyone can be nice when there's something to gain.

But respectful people stay consistent with how they stay mindful even with the smallest things.

They pay attention to seemingly trivial things and make you feel so valued.

Back when I was in high school, I was very insecure.

I was very insecure of my identity, where I'm from, my physical appearance, my English accent, my height, just basically everything.

I always felt like I didn't have everything that others had.

Like I didn't feel smart enough.

I didn't think I was athletic enough.

And as a result, I always felt so useless because I thought I was a disappointment to my family.

Anything that someone did for me, I over thanked them.

And in that way, I never kind of valued myself because I thought I didn't deserve it.

It wasn't obvious because I was hiding them well enough for people to not notice.

Then there was this one girl, she was older than me.

We had one same class together but she always made me feel

so valued and just be proud of myself because of the way she talked to me.

She used to do this thing whenever I joked around.

She smiled, she looked at me straight in my eyes

and told me how funny she thinks I am and how she respects the person I'm becoming.

And how she can tell that I try to bring so much joy to others around me.

And in that way, she told me that I was a good person.

Even when I felt so insecure, even though I felt so worthless every day,

she saw the best version of me and wanted me to keep that same energy.

You know, although that might sound confusing and it could easily come across as someone who's trying too hard,

in those moments, I felt her intention and I felt so much respect from her.

The reason, I don't know why, I don't know what she saw in me,

but the fact that she believed in me so much created this non -existent confidence in me and as a result, made me believe in myself.

Just by giving me respect and cheering me on, I could fight off whatever inner demon that I was dealing with at the time.

And that's why I think respectful people are so attractive and most importantly, they're so valuable because it's not about surface level charm.

It's about treating people well and paying attention.

Like whatever people are saying are worth listening to and that kind of feeling stays with people.

I think you're drawn to them because they feel mature.

They don't seem to be moved by this unnecessary trauma but things that really matter like genuine friendship,

relationship, family or kindness not because they're trying to impress you but because they're present.

They're aware and they're intentional.

I feel like in a world where everyone's distracted where everyone's trying to say more, be more or do more where there's so much overthinking,

stress, anxiety and just unhappiness, someone who simply knows how to be respectful toward others and just respect oneself, that's different.

It means you're aware enough to care, to listen a little more, to be a little more mindful, and to not make everything about yourself.

At the end of the day, people might forget the exact words of what you said.

They might forget what you did, but they always remember how you made them feel.

And if being around you makes them feel respected, that's definitely something that they don't come across often.

And that's what makes respectful people attractive.

Thanks for watching the video.

Today was actually the first day of my internship.

It's full of excitement.

It's a new environment, new people, new skills that I'll be going to learn, new tools that I'll be using,

and I'm super excited for how this journey will turn out.

So thanks for watching the video, and I hope you guys are doing well wherever you are, and I'll see you guys next time.

Peace.

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이 레슨의 어휘와 말하기 포인트

이 말하기 레슨은 영상 “Respectful people are attractive”을(를) 바탕으로 합니다. 가장 자주 반복되는 단어는 다음과 같습니다: respectful, respect, felt, valued, attractive. 이 영상에는 섀도잉할 문장 71개와 단어 1010개가 있습니다. 말하는 구간의 길이는 4:03입니다. 화자는 분당 약 249단어로 빠르게 말하므로 연음과 약하게 발음되는 소리가 많습니다. 단어의 86%가 영어에서 가장 많이 쓰이는 3,000단어에 속합니다. 나머지는 연습 전에 미리 확인해 두세요.

이 영상의 핵심 어휘

영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.

단어	발음	뜻
respectful 형용사	/ɹɪˈspɛkt.fl̩/	공손한
carefully 부사	/ˈkɛɹf(ə)li/	주의하여, 조심스럽게
anxiety 명사	/æŋˈzaɪ.əti/	걱정, 불안
skill 명사	/skɪl/	기술, 스킬
friendship 명사	/ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/	우정, 우의
genuine 형용사	/ˈd͡ʒɛn.juˌɪn/	성실하다, 진짜의
intention 명사	/ɪnˈtɛnʃn̩/	의도, 의향
interaction 명사	/ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/	상호작용
unnecessary 형용사	/ʌnˈnɛs.əˌsɛɹ.i/	불필요하다
accent 명사	/ækˈsɛnt/	강세, 억양
trauma 명사	/ˈtɹɔm.ə/	외상, 손상
humble 형용사	/ˈhʌmbəl/	겸손한, 경멸한
demon 명사	/ˈdiː.mən/	데몬, 악귀
disappointment 명사	/ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/	실망
kindness 명사	/ˈkaɪnd.nəs/	친절

따라 말해 볼 만한 문장

영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:

They don't rush you in conversations.
It's not just saying please and thank you.
I didn't think I was athletic enough.

이 영상의 문법

화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.

문형	영상 속 표현
“used to” used to + 동사 — 지금은 아닌 과거의 습관이나 상태	used to think · used to do
관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보	people who are · someone who simply
수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점	be heard · be moved

주의할 발음

화자는 don't, they're, didn't 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 29번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.

“th” 소리: athletic /æθˈlɛt.ɪk/, worthless /ˈwɜːθ.ləs/
“sh”와 “zh” 소리: rush /ɹʌʃ/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, intention /ɪnˈtɛnʃn̩/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/
긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, unnecessary /ʌnˈnɛs.əˌsɛɹ.i/, importantly /ɪmˈpɔɹ.tənt.li/, disappointment /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/

한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:

/f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: respectful /ɹɪˈspɛkt.fl̩/, carefully /ˈkɛɹf(ə)li/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, confuse /kənˈfjuːz/, mindful /ˈmaɪnd.fl̩/
/v/ — ㅂ(/b/)과 구별하기: wherever /(h)wɛɹˈɛvɚ/, trivial /ˈtɹɪv.i.əl/
/z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, confuse /kənˈfjuːz/, existent /ɪɡˈzɪst(ə)nt/, charismatic /ˌkɛɹəzˈmætək/

이 영상으로 연습하는 방법

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자신의 목소리를 녹음해 원본과 비교하고, respectful, carefully, anxiety 같은 단어에 특히 주의합니다.

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