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I used to think attraction was about confidence, like being bold, saying the right things, having that presence, or being the loudest person in the room.
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But the more I meet people, the more I realize that's not what actually sticks with you, it's the people who are respectful.
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And I realize it's also something that you can notice right away.
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It's subtle, but it's in the way they talk to people, the way they listen to others carefully,
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the way they stay humble even when there's more to gain, the kind that don't interrupt you to prove a point,
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and the kind that don't make everything about themselves.
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And instead, they just let you be heard, and for that reason, it feels rare.
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I feel like in my life, I've been around so many different people.
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People who are funny, confident, outgoing, charismatic, calm.
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They all had their own charms and traits that made them attractive.
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But one thing that they all had in common that made them stand out was the fact that they were respectful.
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When you think about it, you could be funny and have no respect for people.
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You could be confident but let it turn into arrogance.
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And you could also be charismatic but have bad personalities.
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But when you have that ability to make others feel seen, that alone makes people feel valued and can make you attractive.
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It just feels different because you can tell that they're not trying to impress other people.
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They don't make you feel small for saying something simple.
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They don't rush you in conversations.
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And as a result, you leave those interactions feeling good because of how they responded to your stories and thoughts.
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I think people misunderstand what respect looks like.
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It's not just being polite.
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It's not just saying please and thank you.
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It's how you make people feel when you don't need anything from them.
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That's the real test because anyone can be nice when there's something to gain.
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But respectful people stay consistent with how they stay mindful even with the smallest things.
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They pay attention to seemingly trivial things and make you feel so valued.
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Back when I was in high school, I was very insecure.
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I was very insecure of my identity, where I'm from, my physical appearance, my English accent, my height, just basically everything.
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I always felt like I didn't have everything that others had.
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Like I didn't feel smart enough.
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I didn't think I was athletic enough.
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And as a result, I always felt so useless because I thought I was a disappointment to my family.
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Anything that someone did for me, I over thanked them.
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And in that way, I never kind of valued myself because I thought I didn't deserve it.
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It wasn't obvious because I was hiding them well enough for people to not notice.
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Then there was this one girl, she was older than me.
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We had one same class together but she always made me feel
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so valued and just be proud of myself because of the way she talked to me.
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She used to do this thing whenever I joked around.
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She smiled, she looked at me straight in my eyes
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and told me how funny she thinks I am and how she respects the person I'm becoming.
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And how she can tell that I try to bring so much joy to others around me.
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And in that way, she told me that I was a good person.
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Even when I felt so insecure, even though I felt so worthless every day,
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she saw the best version of me and wanted me to keep that same energy.
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You know, although that might sound confusing and it could easily come across as someone who's trying too hard,
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in those moments, I felt her intention and I felt so much respect from her.
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The reason, I don't know why, I don't know what she saw in me,
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but the fact that she believed in me so much created this non -existent confidence in me and as a result, made me believe in myself.
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Just by giving me respect and cheering me on, I could fight off whatever inner demon that I was dealing with at the time.
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And that's why I think respectful people are so attractive and most importantly, they're so valuable because it's not about surface level charm.
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It's about treating people well and paying attention.
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Like whatever people are saying are worth listening to and that kind of feeling stays with people.
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I think you're drawn to them because they feel mature.
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They don't seem to be moved by this unnecessary trauma but things that really matter like genuine friendship,
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relationship, family or kindness not because they're trying to impress you but because they're present.
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They're aware and they're intentional.
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I feel like in a world where everyone's distracted where everyone's trying to say more, be more or do more where there's so much overthinking,
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stress, anxiety and just unhappiness, someone who simply knows how to be respectful toward others and just respect oneself, that's different.
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It means you're aware enough to care, to listen a little more, to be a little more mindful, and to not make everything about yourself.
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At the end of the day, people might forget the exact words of what you said.
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They might forget what you did, but they always remember how you made them feel.
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And if being around you makes them feel respected, that's definitely something that they don't come across often.
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And that's what makes respectful people attractive.
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Thanks for watching the video.
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Today was actually the first day of my internship.
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It's full of excitement.
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It's a new environment, new people, new skills that I'll be going to learn, new tools that I'll be using,
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and I'm super excited for how this journey will turn out.
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So thanks for watching the video, and I hope you guys are doing well wherever you are, and I'll see you guys next time.
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Peace.
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Từ vựng và ghi chú luyện nói cho bài học này
Bài luyện nói này dựa trên video “Respectful people are attractive”. Những từ được nhắc lại nhiều nhất trong bài: respectful, respect, felt, valued, attractive. Video này có 71 câu và 1010 từ để luyện shadowing. Phần lời nói dài 4:03. Người nói nói nhanh, khoảng 249 từ mỗi phút, nên sẽ có nhiều chỗ nối âm và nuốt âm. 86% số từ nằm trong 3.000 từ tiếng Anh thông dụng nhất; phần còn lại nên xem trước khi luyện.
Từ vựng quan trọng trong video
15 từ đáng học trong video, kèm phiên âm và nghĩa:
| Từ | Phiên âm | Nghĩa |
|---|---|---|
| respectful tính từ | /ɹɪˈspɛkt.fl̩/ | lễ phép, kính cẩn |
| consistent tính từ | /kənˈsɪs.tənt/ | phù hợp, thích hợp |
| anxiety danh từ | /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/ | sự lo lắng, lo âu |
| friendship danh từ | /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/ | tình bạn |
| intention danh từ | /ɪnˈtɛnʃn̩/ | ý định |
| bold tính từ | /ˈbəʊld/ | dũng cảm, can đảm |
| accent danh từ | /ækˈsɛnt/ | trọng âm |
| trauma danh từ | /ˈtɹɔm.ə/ | chấn thương |
| humble tính từ | /ˈhʌmbəl/ | khiêm tốn, khúm núm |
| demon danh từ | /ˈdiː.mən/ | quỷ, ma quỷ |
| disappointment danh từ | /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/ | sự thất vọng |
| kindness danh từ | /ˈkaɪnd.nəs/ | lòng tốt |
| polite tính từ | /pəˈlaɪt/ | lịch sự, lễ phép |
| worthless tính từ | /ˈwɜːθ.ləs/ | vô giá trị |
| trait danh từ | /tɹeɪt/ | đặc điểm, đặc tính |
Những câu đáng luyện lại
Các câu ngắn, trọn ý trong video mà bạn có thể dùng lại khi giao tiếp hằng ngày:
- They don't rush you in conversations.
- It's not just saying please and thank you.
- I didn't think I was athletic enough.
Ngữ pháp trong video
Những cấu trúc người nói dùng nhiều nhất, kèm đúng cụm từ trong video:
| Cấu trúc | Trong video |
|---|---|
| “Used to” used to + động từ — thói quen hoặc tình trạng trong quá khứ nay không còn | used to think · used to do |
| Mệnh đề quan hệ who / which + mệnh đề — thêm thông tin về người hoặc vật | people who are · someone who simply |
| Câu bị động be + quá khứ phân từ — nhấn vào việc xảy ra, không phải người làm | be heard · be moved |
Phát âm cần chú ý
Người nói dùng 29 dạng rút gọn, ví dụ don't, they're, didn't. Hãy nói theo dạng ngắn đúng như bạn nghe.
- Âm “th”: athletic /æθˈlɛt.ɪk/, worthless /ˈwɜːθ.ləs/
- Âm “sh” và “zh”: rush /ɹʌʃ/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, intention /ɪnˈtɛnʃn̩/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/
- Từ dài — đặt trọng âm cho đúng: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, unnecessary /ʌnˈnɛs.əˌsɛɹ.i/, importantly /ɪmˈpɔɹ.tənt.li/, disappointment /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/
Những âm người Việt thường gặp khó:
- Cụm phụ âm cuối — đọc đủ từng âm, đừng nuốt âm cuối: charm /t͡ʃɑɹm/, consistent /kənˈsɪs.tənt/, bold /ˈbəʊld/, excitement /ɪkˈsaɪtmənt/, accent /ækˈsɛnt/
- Âm /tʃ/, /dʒ/ và /ʒ/ — tiếng Việt không có, đừng đọc thành “ch” hay “gi”: charm /t͡ʃɑɹm/, genuine /ˈd͡ʒɛn.juˌɪn/, mature /məˈt͡ʃʊ(ə)ɹ/, cheer /t͡ʃɪɹ/
- Âm /æ/ — mở miệng rộng hơn âm “e”: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, accent /ækˈsɛnt/, athletic /æθˈlɛt.ɪk/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/
Cách luyện với video này
- Nghe hết video một lần, chưa cần nói, và ghi lại những từ bạn chưa biết.
- Bắt đầu ở tốc độ 0,75×, nói đuổi từng câu, rồi quay lại tốc độ bình thường khi đã quen.
- Ghi âm giọng mình rồi so với bản gốc, chú ý các từ như respectful, consistent, anxiety.
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Shadowing là kỹ thuật học ngôn ngữ có cơ sở khoa học, ban đầu được phát triển cho chương trình đào tạo phiên dịch viên chuyên nghiệp và được phổ biến rộng rãi bởi nhà đa ngôn ngữ học Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Nguyên lý cốt lõi đơn giản nhưng cực kỳ hiệu quả: bạn nghe tiếng Anh của người bản xứ và lặp lại to ngay lập tức — như một "cái bóng" (shadow) đuổi theo người nói với độ trễ chỉ 1–2 giây. Khác với luyện ngữ pháp hay học từ vựng bị động, Shadowing buộc não bộ và cơ miệng phải đồng thời xử lý và tái tạo ngôn ngữ thực tế. Các nghiên cứu khoa học xác nhận phương pháp này cải thiện đáng kể phát âm, ngữ điệu, nhịp điệu, nối âm, kỹ năng nghe và độ lưu loát khi nói — đặc biệt hiệu quả cho người luyện IELTS Speaking và muốn giao tiếp tiếng Anh tự nhiên như người bản ngữ.