Pratique du Shadowing: Respectful people are attractive. - Apprendre l'anglais à l'oral avec la vidéo

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I used to think attraction was about confidence, like being bold, saying the right things, having that presence, or being the loudest person in the room.

But the more I meet people, the more I realize that's not what actually sticks with you, it's the people who are respectful.

And I realize it's also something that you can notice right away.

It's subtle, but it's in the way they talk to people, the way they listen to others carefully,

the way they stay humble even when there's more to gain, the kind that don't interrupt you to prove a point,

and the kind that don't make everything about themselves.

And instead, they just let you be heard, and for that reason, it feels rare.

I feel like in my life, I've been around so many different people.

People who are funny, confident, outgoing, charismatic, calm.

They all had their own charms and traits that made them attractive.

But one thing that they all had in common that made them stand out was the fact that they were respectful.

When you think about it, you could be funny and have no respect for people.

You could be confident but let it turn into arrogance.

And you could also be charismatic but have bad personalities.

But when you have that ability to make others feel seen, that alone makes people feel valued and can make you attractive.

It just feels different because you can tell that they're not trying to impress other people.

They don't make you feel small for saying something simple.

They don't rush you in conversations.

And as a result, you leave those interactions feeling good because of how they responded to your stories and thoughts.

I think people misunderstand what respect looks like.

It's not just being polite.

It's not just saying please and thank you.

It's how you make people feel when you don't need anything from them.

That's the real test because anyone can be nice when there's something to gain.

But respectful people stay consistent with how they stay mindful even with the smallest things.

They pay attention to seemingly trivial things and make you feel so valued.

Back when I was in high school, I was very insecure.

I was very insecure of my identity, where I'm from, my physical appearance, my English accent, my height, just basically everything.

I always felt like I didn't have everything that others had.

Like I didn't feel smart enough.

I didn't think I was athletic enough.

And as a result, I always felt so useless because I thought I was a disappointment to my family.

Anything that someone did for me, I over thanked them.

And in that way, I never kind of valued myself because I thought I didn't deserve it.

It wasn't obvious because I was hiding them well enough for people to not notice.

Then there was this one girl, she was older than me.

We had one same class together but she always made me feel

so valued and just be proud of myself because of the way she talked to me.

She used to do this thing whenever I joked around.

She smiled, she looked at me straight in my eyes

and told me how funny she thinks I am and how she respects the person I'm becoming.

And how she can tell that I try to bring so much joy to others around me.

And in that way, she told me that I was a good person.

Even when I felt so insecure, even though I felt so worthless every day,

she saw the best version of me and wanted me to keep that same energy.

You know, although that might sound confusing and it could easily come across as someone who's trying too hard,

in those moments, I felt her intention and I felt so much respect from her.

The reason, I don't know why, I don't know what she saw in me,

but the fact that she believed in me so much created this non -existent confidence in me and as a result, made me believe in myself.

Just by giving me respect and cheering me on, I could fight off whatever inner demon that I was dealing with at the time.

And that's why I think respectful people are so attractive and most importantly, they're so valuable because it's not about surface level charm.

It's about treating people well and paying attention.

Like whatever people are saying are worth listening to and that kind of feeling stays with people.

I think you're drawn to them because they feel mature.

They don't seem to be moved by this unnecessary trauma but things that really matter like genuine friendship,

relationship, family or kindness not because they're trying to impress you but because they're present.

They're aware and they're intentional.

I feel like in a world where everyone's distracted where everyone's trying to say more, be more or do more where there's so much overthinking,

stress, anxiety and just unhappiness, someone who simply knows how to be respectful toward others and just respect oneself, that's different.

It means you're aware enough to care, to listen a little more, to be a little more mindful, and to not make everything about yourself.

At the end of the day, people might forget the exact words of what you said.

They might forget what you did, but they always remember how you made them feel.

And if being around you makes them feel respected, that's definitely something that they don't come across often.

And that's what makes respectful people attractive.

Thanks for watching the video.

Today was actually the first day of my internship.

It's full of excitement.

It's a new environment, new people, new skills that I'll be going to learn, new tools that I'll be using,

and I'm super excited for how this journey will turn out.

So thanks for watching the video, and I hope you guys are doing well wherever you are, and I'll see you guys next time.

Peace.

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Cette leçon d’expression orale s’appuie sur la vidéo « Respectful people are attractive ». Les mots qui reviennent le plus souvent : respectful, respect, felt, valued, attractive. Cette vidéo contient 71 phrases et 1010 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 4:03. Le locuteur parle vite, environ 249 mots par minute : attendez-vous à des liaisons et à des sons réduits. 86 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais ; le reste mérite d’être vu avant de commencer.

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15 mots de la vidéo à retenir, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :

Mot	Prononciation	Sens
respectful adjectif	/ɹɪˈspɛkt.fl̩/	respectueux
insecure adjectif	/ɪnsəˈkjʊɹ/	insécurisé
charm nom	/t͡ʃɑɹm/	fétiche, charme
impress verbe	/ɪmˈpɹɛs/	impressionner
consistent adjectif	/kənˈsɪs.tənt/	constant
rush verbe	/ɹʌʃ/	se dépêcher, se hâter
carefully adverbe	/ˈkɛɹf(ə)li/	soigneusement
anxiety nom	/æŋˈzaɪ.əti/	anxiété, inquiétude
skill nom	/skɪl/	habileté, compétence
friendship nom	/ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/	amitié
genuine adjectif	/ˈd͡ʒɛn.juˌɪn/	authentique
intention nom	/ɪnˈtɛnʃn̩/	intention
interaction nom	/ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/	interaction
mature adjectif	/məˈt͡ʃʊ(ə)ɹ/	mûr, mature
wherever	/(h)wɛɹˈɛvɚ/	où, là où

Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez

Mot	Sens
come across verbe	avoir l'air de
turn out verbe	se finir, se terminer

Des phrases à répéter

Des phrases courtes et complètes de la vidéo, à réutiliser dans la conversation de tous les jours :

They don't rush you in conversations.
It's not just saying please and thank you.
I didn't think I was athletic enough.

La grammaire de cette vidéo

Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :

Structure	Dans la vidéo
« Used to » used to + verbe — une habitude ou un état passé qui n’est plus vrai	used to think · used to do
Propositions relatives who / which + proposition — une précision sur une personne ou une chose	people who are · someone who simply
Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait	be heard · be moved

Prononciation à surveiller

Le locuteur utilise 29 contractions et formes réduites, comme don't, they're, didn't. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.

Les sons « th »: athletic /æθˈlɛt.ɪk/, worthless /ˈwɜːθ.ləs/
Les sons « sh » et « zh »: rush /ɹʌʃ/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, intention /ɪnˈtɛnʃn̩/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/
Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: anxiety /æŋˈzaɪ.əti/, interaction /ˌɪn.təˈɹæk.ʃən/, unnecessary /ʌnˈnɛs.əˌsɛɹ.i/, importantly /ɪmˈpɔɹ.tənt.li/, disappointment /ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntmənt/

Les sons difficiles pour les francophones :

/h/ — il se souffle, il n’est pas muet: wherever /(h)wɛɹˈɛvɚ/, humble /ˈhʌmbəl/
/tʃ/ et /dʒ/ — à ne pas adoucir en « ch » et « j »: charm /t͡ʃɑɹm/, genuine /ˈd͡ʒɛn.juˌɪn/, mature /məˈt͡ʃʊ(ə)ɹ/, cheer /t͡ʃɪɹ/
/r/ anglais — langue recourbée, sans frotter la gorge: respectful /ɹɪˈspɛkt.fl̩/, insecure /ɪnsəˈkjʊɹ/, charm /t͡ʃɑɹm/, impress /ɪmˈpɹɛs/, rush /ɹʌʃ/

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Écoutez la vidéo en entier une fois sans parler et notez les mots que vous ne connaissez pas.
Commencez à la vitesse 0,75×, répétez phrase par phrase, puis revenez à la vitesse normale quand cela devient facile.
Enregistrez-vous et comparez avec l’original, en faisant attention à des mots comme respectful, insecure, charm.

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