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How to argue with a gaslighter.
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Number one, trust your gut.
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Don't get caught up in trying to prove that your history happened a certain way because gaslighters will just shift the narrative.
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So instead of focusing on filling every hole that they dig, trust your gut and put down the shovel.
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Number two, you will assertively use the phrase, we remember things differently.
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And when they argue and push back against you, you just repeat it.
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We remember things differently, or that wasn't my experience.
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And get comfortable with those phrases and use them as many times as you need.
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And number three, a gaslighter's playground is the past.
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That's what they use to manipulate your current reality.
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And that's why it's no good to keep talking about it.
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So to shift away from it, one phrase that I like to use is, I have no interest in debating the past.
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My only interest is agreeing on the future.
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So try that and follow me.

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Woordenschat en spreektips bij deze les

Deze spreekles is gebaseerd op de video “How to Argue with a Gaslighter”. Deze video bevat 14 zinnen en 166 woorden om na te spreken. Het gesproken deel duurt 0:44. De spreker praat snel, ongeveer 228 woorden per minuut, dus reken op verbonden en ingeslikte klanken. 83% van de woorden hoort bij de 3.000 meest gebruikte Engelse woorden; de rest kun je beter vooraf bekijken.

Belangrijke woorden in deze video

12 woorden uit de video die het leren waard zijn, met uitspraak en betekenis:

WoordUitspraakBetekenis
phrase zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈfɹeɪ̯z/uitspraak
argue werkwoord/ˈɑɹ.ɡju/redetwisten
differently bijwoord/ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/verschillend, anders
narrative zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈnæɹ.ə.tɪv/verhaal, vertelling
playground zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈpleɪɡɹaʊnd/speelplein, speelterrein
manipulate werkwoord/məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/manipuleren
shovel zelfstandig naamwoord/ˈʃʌv.əl/schop, schep
comfortable bijvoeglijk naamwoord/ˈkʌm(p)f.tə.bəl/comfortabel, gemakkelijk
hole zelfstandig naamwoord/hoʊl/gaatje, gat
debate zelfstandig naamwoord/dɪˈbeɪt/debat
fill werkwoord/fɪl/vullen, opvullen
repeat werkwoord/ɹɪˈpiːt/herhalen, wederhalen

Uitspraak om op te letten

  • De klanken “sh” en “zh”: shovel /ˈʃʌv.əl/, shift /ˈʃɪft/
  • Lange woorden — let op de klemtoon: differently /ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/

Klanken die Nederlandstaligen lastig vinden:

  • Stemhebbende eindmedeklinker — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ niet verscherpen: phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, narrative /ˈnæɹ.ə.tɪv/, playground /ˈpleɪɡɹaʊnd/
  • /g/ — een harde plofklank, geen Nederlandse “g”: argue /ˈɑɹ.ɡju/, playground /ˈpleɪɡɹaʊnd/

Zo oefen je met deze video

  1. Luister de hele video één keer zonder te spreken en noteer de woorden die je niet kent.
  2. Begin op 0,75× snelheid, spreek zin voor zin na en ga terug naar normale snelheid zodra het makkelijk gaat.
  3. Neem jezelf op en vergelijk met het origineel; let daarbij op woorden als phrase, argue, differently.

Wat is de Shadowing-techniek?

Shadowing is een wetenschappelijk onderbouwde taalleermethode die oorspronkelijk is ontwikkeld voor professionele tolkentraining en gepopulariseerd door polyglot Dr. Alexander Arguelles. De methode is eenvoudig maar krachtig: je luistert naar native Engelse audio en herhaalt het onmiddellijk hardop — als een schaduw die de spreker volgt met slechts 1–2 seconden vertraging. In tegenstelling tot passief luisteren of grammaticadrills, dwingt shadowing je hersenen en mondspieren om echte spraakpatronen tegelijkertijd te verwerken en te reproduceren. Onderzoek toont aan dat het de uitspraaknauwkeurigheid, intonatie, ritme, verbonden spraak, luisterbegrip en spreekvaardigheid aanzienlijk verbetert — waardoor het een van de meest effectieve methoden is voor IELTS Speaking-voorbereiding en echte Engelse communicatie.

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