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How to argue with a gaslighter.
如何与煤气操纵者争辩。
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Number one, trust your gut.
第一，相信你的直觉。
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Don't get caught up in trying to prove that your history happened a certain way because gaslighters will just shift the narrative.
别执着于试图证明你的经历是怎样发生的，因为那些煤气灯操纵者只会不断改口、扭曲事实。
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So instead of focusing on filling every hole that they dig, trust your gut and put down the shovel.
所以与其忙着去填补他们挖下的每一个坑，不如相信自己的直觉，放下手中的铲子。
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Number two, you will assertively use the phrase, we remember things differently.
第二，你要坚定地说出这句话：我们的记忆不一样。
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And when they argue and push back against you, you just repeat it.
当他们跟你争辩、反驳你的时候，你就把那句话再说一遍就行。
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We remember things differently, or that wasn't my experience.
我们对事情的记忆不一样，或者说那不是我的经历。
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And get comfortable with those phrases and use them as many times as you need.
熟悉这些表达，需要用多少次就用多少次。
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And number three, a gaslighter's playground is the past.
第三点，操纵者最常利用的就是过往经历。
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That's what they use to manipulate your current reality.
那就是他们用来操控你当前现实的手段。
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And that's why it's no good to keep talking about it.
所以一直纠结这件事也没什么用。
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So to shift away from it, one phrase that I like to use is, I have no interest in debating the past.
所以为了摆脱这种状态，我常说的一句话是，我没兴趣去争论过去的事。
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My only interest is agreeing on the future.
我唯一关心的是就未来达成一致。
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So try that and follow me.
那就试试看，然后跟着我做。

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本课的词汇与口语要点

这节口语课以视频“How to Argue with a Gaslighter”为素材。 这段视频共有 14 个句子、166 个单词可供跟读。 讲话部分时长为 0:44。 说话人语速较快，每分钟约 228 个词，会出现较多连读和弱读。 83% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，其余的词建议在练习前先学一下。

视频中的重点词汇

视频中 11 个值得学习的单词，附发音和释义：

单词发音释义
phrase 名词/ˈfɹeɪ̯z/短語 /短语, 片語 /片语
argue 动词/ˈɑɹ.ɡju/辯論 /辩论, 爭辯 /争辩
narrative 名词/ˈnæɹ.ə.tɪv/記敘文 /记叙文
playground 名词/ˈpleɪɡɹaʊnd/操場 /操场, 遊樂園 /游乐园
manipulate 动词/məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/操纵
shovel 名词/ˈʃʌv.əl/鏟子 /铲子, 鐵鍬 /铁锹
comfortable 形容词/ˈkʌm(p)f.tə.bəl/舒適 /舒适
hole 名词/hoʊl/孔, 洞
debate 名词/dɪˈbeɪt/辯論 /辩论, 討論 /讨论
fill 动词/fɪl/裝滿 /装满, 填滿 /填满
repeat 动词/ɹɪˈpiːt/重複 /重复

视频中出现的短语动词

单词释义
put down 动词放下

需要注意的发音

  • “sh” 和 “zh” 音: shovel /ˈʃʌv.əl/, shift /ˈʃɪft/
  • 长单词——注意重音位置: differently /ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/

中文母语者容易读错的音：

  • /v/ — 不要读成 /w/，上齿轻触下唇: narrative /ˈnæɹ.ə.tɪv/, shovel /ˈʃʌv.əl/
  • 词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, narrative /ˈnæɹ.ə.tɪv/, playground /ˈpleɪɡɹaʊnd/, manipulate /məˈnɪp.jʊ.leɪt/, shift /ˈʃɪft/
  • /r/ 和 /l/ 的区别: differently /ˈdɪf.ə.ɹənt.li/, playground /ˈpleɪɡɹaʊnd/

如何用这段视频练习

  1. 先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
  2. 先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
  3. 录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 phrase, argue, narrative 这类单词。

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