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In order to be a great leader and to lead a winning team,
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In order to be a great leader and to lead a winning team,
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you have to learn both the hard and the soft.
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You do not have one without the other.
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And you will be at a constant disadvantage if you only have one skill.
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I have built my company to over 250 million,
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and I have learned the best employees don't always make the best leaders.
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But the best leaders do share the same traits.
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So if you've ever wondered why do you have what it takes,
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why someone else got qualified for a role that you didn't,
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why you got passed up,
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here are six signs that you'll make a great leader.
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Number one, stop asking for permission to lead.
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When I started working at a small group training gym,
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I did not have the leadership title,
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but I did start doing things that leaders do.
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You know, I would notice like patterns and client drop-off and I would bring new ideas to my boss without being asked.
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You know, when a new person was confused about like client interactions,
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I didn't say like, you should just be better with clients.
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I was like, hey, let me show you what I do,
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how I say things, when to say it,
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how to do this during a sales process,
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how to do this when you're having trouble with your client
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and I would break it into like very specific behaviors and let them watch me.
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It's interesting because like the owner didn't offer me a boost in my role because I asked for it.
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He offered it to me because the behavior made the case for me.
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So by the time it was like,
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hey, we want to promote you.
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It was like the title had already happened.
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Promoting me was a formality.
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So my point here is this.
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You have to make the title obvious.
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When your boss would feel embarrassed by not promoting you because your leadership is so visible,
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that is when you know that you have done it right.
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And there's a lot to say on this,
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but there's a lot of different skills to doing your individual job versus doing the job of a leader.
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And it is very hard for people to make that jump.
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If you can make that jump while in this job,
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then you essentially have de-risked the move to put you in a formal leadership position to get promoted.
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There's a ton of research on leadership behaviors
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that predict if you're going to be seen as a leader or promoted into one, right?
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Initiative, do you do things without being asked?
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problem solving for the group?
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Do you solve problems beyond just your own problems?
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And emotional regulation under pressure?
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When things get hard do you freak out and freak everybody else out?
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Or do you stay calm and actually calm everybody else around you?
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The thing about this is oftentimes when people come to me,
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even in my company, they're like,
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hey, what do I need to do to get promoted?
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Like, why am I not on the executive team?
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What's the skill?
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What do I need to know about finance and legal?
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And I'm like, soft skills,
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which are not soft, it's a terrible term for them,
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like communication and delegation and and empowerment,
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like those are more important than your hard technical skills when it comes to being a leader.
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Here's what nobody's gonna tell you.
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The promotion does not unlock the behavior.
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Behavior unlocks the promotion.
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So stop waiting for permission and start acting like the role that you would like now.
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Number two is show your flaws.
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I had two people sign up for the same role in my company.
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Person A had never brought me a single mistake in two years.
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Person B came regularly and was like,
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I made a bad call, here's what I missed.
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Who do you think got promoted?
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I promoted person B.
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And now why is that?
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Person A was not flawless,
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but they were hiding their mistakes from me.
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A lot of people assume that because they don't see mistakes, they don't occur.
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But the reality is, is that a lot of people do not share their mistakes out of fear.
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The best leaders cannot get better unless they provide you with room to coach them
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and room to understand that they are flawed just like everybody else.
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They don't hide.
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They put their flaws out on the table and they allow for themselves to be vulnerable.
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And what a lot of people don't realize is that whatever you do as a leader,
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other people are going to model.
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So if you hide your mistakes, guess what?
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Your whole team's gonna hide their mistakes.
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When you own your mistakes,
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your whole team's gonna own their mistakes.
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I can promise you this.
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I've had, gosh, I had a customer service team that accidentally stopped facilitating our refund process after one Christmas break.
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They just like forgot to do the refund process.
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And three months later after Christmas break,
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I was like, oh, very weird.
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Our revenue line over here, like what's going on?
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It took me about maybe an hour to figure out that it was that they had stopped doing this process.
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And when I investigated, I talked to everybody in the team,
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what I realized is that two of them had actually known that had happened and it had stopped,
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but they didn't share anything with anybody.
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Now, why is that?
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The leader on the team never shared anything.
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They never shared when they made mistakes.
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They had this illusion of perfection at all points in time.
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Harvard did a study and found that when one person shows vulnerability,
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it creates a signal that invites everybody else to do the same,
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which builds trust faster than any other thing that you can do in a business.
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You think about the amount of money that businesses spend on off-sites and team activities and investing in your team,
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being honest, sharing your mistakes,
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that actually increases engagement by 25% according to that study.
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And a lot of people think,
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oh my god, but Lila,
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you're a girl, it sounds so soft.
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Well, there's nothing soft about winning.
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That's what I say.
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Like, I didn't learn this stuff because I was like,
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oh, I feel like I want to be softer.
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I want to be more vulnerable.
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But you know what I did find?
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In order to be a great leader and to lead a winning team,
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You have to learn both the hard and the soft.
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You do not have one without the other.
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And you will be at a constant disadvantage if you only have one skill.
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Number three, you are being evaluated for a completely different job.
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Okay, this actually took me a while to learn and also to then be able to teach to people.
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I promoted one of our best team players into a leadership role.
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It's funny because I was so excited.
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I was like, dude, she's gonna kill it.
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She's amazing.
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She's so good at her job.
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And then the moment that I promoted her and she had direct reports,
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She couldn't actually do the job I just put her in.
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She couldn't delegate.
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She would actually take their work, redo their work.
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It was just like everything all of a sudden was so wrong.
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And the reason is because what made her so good at her job was doing the work.
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And so the only way she knew to help them was to do the work for them.
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And so it was really,
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I mean, I want to say funny,
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but it wasn't that funny because it sucked to live with her the first time.
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Within three months, her team was so burnt out,
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they were so demoralized, they did not like her as a leader.
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I had four of them come to me.
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They pulled me onto a call and they were like,
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we cannot deal with this.
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Look at all these things that are happening.
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As I looked at what she was doing,
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it wasn't that she was trying to be malicious,
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trying to undermine them, trying to...
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It was that she was doing her old job in a new role and didn't realize it.
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For example, if you told a 10-year-old,
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be better at basketball, they would have no idea where to begin.
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Like, you would have to break it down into the component parts,
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teach them how to dribble,
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how to shoot, how to pass.
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Leadership actually works the same way.
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And so when you are promoted into a leadership role,
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what you must understand is there are
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so many skills within the skill itself of leadership that you have to learn to be proficient at your job.
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And so what it is,
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is it's a bundle of very specific but learnable behaviors.
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And those behaviors that make someone a great performer are not the same ones that make you a great leader.
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In fact, oftentimes they are at odds with each other,
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which is why it's really hard to go from being like the top salesperson to the best sales director ever.
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They are different skills that often contradict with each other.
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To reinforce that, MIT and Yale did a study that found
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that the best salespeople were both most likely to be promoted and performed the worst as managers.
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But employees who shared credit and collaborated increased their team's performance by 30%.
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The trait that predicted great leadership was not individual excellence and being really good at your job.
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It was actually collaboration, which is a completely different skill.
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So if you think about it,
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if you're really, really good at your job,
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you don't need to collaborate with people to get things done,
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which means your collaboration skills are low.
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So then you get promoted into leadership.
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You don't know how to collaborate.
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So now you're not a good leader.
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That's why it doesn't work most of the time.
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If you look at Phil Jackson,
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who has 11 NBA titles,
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you've got Belichick, who has six Super Bowls,
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you have, you know, Sir Alex Ferguson,
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38 trophies, the greatest coaches in the history that won across all these different eras of different players.
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The players came and went,
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but those coaches kept on winning.
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Now why is that?
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Because the leverage isn't just in being the best player,
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it's in making the best out of every player.
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It is in raising the bar and the standard for every player on the team.
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Here's a good way that you can kind of gauge like,
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am I ready for leadership?
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Is this something that I could do?
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Look at your week.
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How much of your time of your week is spent on your output versus improving somebody else's output.
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If it's 90-10, then you're showing your boss that you're a great player,
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not necessarily a great future coach.
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There are people in my organization who,
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when I know somebody's a future leader,
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it's not because they're the best individual performer,
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it's because what I notice is that in their spare time,
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they do not seek to improve their own performance,
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but to help others improve theirs.
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It's the sales guy who spends three hours drilling his teammates and teaching them his overcomes because he just wants to help.
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That's somebody who has the skill of collaboration and of helping others.
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The fourth piece is you solve problems that aren't yours.
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I had an employee who came onto the team and essentially fixed another team's onboarding process.
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So she came on in operations and while she was in operations she was like,
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oh my gosh, the HR team has no onboarding process and and it's HR.
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Without asking me, without telling me,
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without knowing she didn't have authority over there,
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instead what she did is she asked questions,
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she offered to help, and then she worked alongside them to help them put it into place.
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And the funny thing is that I found out from the other manager, not from her.
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Why is that so important?
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Because what I saw in that is I was like,
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wow, I have somebody who went out of their way to make another function better in their own spare time. For why?
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I don't know because that person had leadership skills.
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So what did I do?
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She actually got promoted within the next three months.
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When you go out of your way, you inconvenience yourself.
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You create more friction in your life to help other people when it doesn't necessarily benefit you directly.
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Compare that to an employee that I had that was only completely focused on their lane.
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I have had many who are completely exceptional at their job.
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But when another teammate is drowning and asking for help,
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they say, sorry, can't do it.
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I've already got enough on my own plate.
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Technically correct, but also the opposite of leadership.
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The person who sees a problem that isn't theirs and fixes it is the one who shows their true character,
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and character like that is one that should be in a leadership position.
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You want people in a leadership position who are willing to sacrifice their own personal comfort for the better of the team.
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If somebody is a very,
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very good individual contributor, oftentimes what they are doing is constantly foregoing team collaboration to focus on their individual skills,
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which is fine.
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Just don't also wonder why you're not in a leadership position.
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There was a project done by Google,
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Google's era, Project Aristotle, that basically analyzed like 180 teams to identify factors of high performance.
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And what it found out is that when even one teammate regularly stepped outside their lane to help other people,
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it had this ripple effect on all the other team dynamics.
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Because a lot of people think,
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well, gosh, what can I do in the organization?
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And I try really hard to still listen to my team.
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I'm like, you can make so much more of a difference than you think.
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It's just that a lot of people don't have the courage to try.
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The reality is everybody around you is watching.
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And once everyone's watching and everyone's watching you,
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your boss is eventually going to notice.
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The fifth piece is trade credit for influence.
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I think like this has burned into my mind from when I first decided that I,
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you know, wanted to be a great leader,
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which is the best leaders take the blame and give away the credit.
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It also makes them really hard at self-promotion and marketing.
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So that has been an interesting skill to learn because when you market yourself,
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you want to promote yourself Which means taking credit which you'll notice for a lot of leaders.
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It's very hard to do when I First heard that term.
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I remember what I did immediately is that any time that the team had a win
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Even if it was me leading to the initiative, I was like amazing.
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You guys did so great.
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Look at what we did here We we we we we
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we we did this we accomplished this we we we it was
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so cool to see because When I started giving away the credit and then anytime we had a loss I was like,
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here's how it's on me.
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What I noticed is that people continue to come to me with their problems and their ideas.
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It wasn't because I was a top performer in the company.
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It's because I made people feel like it was,
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one, okay to fail because I owned failures constantly,
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and two, like they were important because I was constantly telling them why they were
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and what they did well and why they were deserving of the credit.
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So if you remember that MIT Yale study that did on salespeople who become managers,
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so they also found that salespeople who shared credit became 30% more effective as managers than the top solo performers.
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So if you look at like what's a leading indicator that somebody would be a good manager,
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it's like do they give away the credit?
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I can tell you that we have a really actually fantastic sales team at acquisition.com
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and what I love seeing in the shout outs is like anytime somebody like goes on a hot streak
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and they're just having like a great week where they're closing at like the highest amount,
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they'll be like, I wanna thank these seven people for helping coach me,
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helping role play with me,
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staying late, watching my calls with me.
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I think that's so cool because what it tells me is there's a lot of future leaders in the organization.
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Because people who are defensive of their success often cannot be great leaders.
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Number six is to develop patience as a competitive advantage.
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I remember when I worked at 24 Hour Fitness,
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I had a manager and he was like anything but flashy.
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Like sometimes, you know, it's like you've got the boss and they're leading the winning team.
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It's like they show up in their new Lambo or they have their like new Jeep and they've got like,
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and all of a sudden they're wearing this cool watch.
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Like you just see all the triggers popping up, right?
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Especially when you're working on a sales team.
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And I remember instead, like,
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he showed up every day just wearing the t-shirt,
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hat, shorts, and he just did the boring s*** with excellence day in and day out.
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He trained new people, he was patient,
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he listened to calls, and he ran meetings with the same high energy day in and day out every f***ing day.
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And I remember there were so many times when I was like,
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dude, I just want to,
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like, fast forward and get past this phase of my career.
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And what I realized in hindsight was that he understood something that I didn't,
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which is that leadership is built in the fundamentals of repetition.
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And after studying a lot of great coaches,
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I see this across themes like Vince Lombardi did the exact
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same thing He started every training camp by holding up a football and saying Gentlemen,
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this is a football.
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It's not like he said,
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oh, I got to cut it.
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I've said it enough times I've done enough camps The cool thing
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that you can see is that the best coaches
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and the best teachers across industries across athletes across business They
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start with the fundamentals every single time consistency beats intensity no matter what
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If you say something once and you expect it to stick,
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you're never going to get what you want out of your team.
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You have to say it until it sticks,
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repeat it until it sticks,
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teach it until it sticks.
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I go even deeper on all this stuff on leadership in my weekly newsletter.
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It's called Layla's Letters.
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You can find the link in the description or you can go to laythehormosey.com.
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