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Hey, Psych2Goers, welcome back to a brand new venture.
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Before we begin, we want to make a quick shout out to Danielle Musunda,
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who suggested this video topic.
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If you have any topic requests,
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feel free to leave them in the comments.
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Let's start the video.
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So, what does it mean to be emotionally weak?
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Emotional weakness is not being able to regulate or express your emotions in a healthy, well-balanced way.
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It isn't anyone's fault, nor is it something to be ashamed of
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if you feel you haven't reached a certain level of emotional strength.
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It's a process requiring patience.
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To help you become more self-aware,
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here are seven habits that make you emotionally weak.
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Number one, not believing in yourself.
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What's something you think you're bad at?
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What about genuinely trying that activity again after deciding you're no good at it?
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It's important to realize that an initial failure doesn't mean you aren't gifted or talented enough for something.
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If you only stick to first tries,
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you'll likely end up limiting and dragging yourself down.
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In psychology, this is called a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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Simply put, if you believe something is true,
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you subconsciously go out of your way to affirm it.
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For example, if you believe you'll fail the math test,
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you're much more likely to do worse since you have such low confidence.
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What this means is not having faith in yourself makes you both emotionally weak and it makes you perform worse.
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So watch out.
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Number two, not taking care of yourself.
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Do you struggle with taking breaks when needed?
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While it sounds counterintuitive, in a work-oriented society,
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it's actually sometimes harder to rest than to keep pushing yourself to the limit.
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Emotional weakness tends to force people to base their self-worth on their achievements,
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status, or finances, instead of who they are as a person.
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After all, regardless of how often we hear the phrase,
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love yourself, it's still incredibly hard to put into practice.
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This can lead to many problems,
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such as avoiding self-care, not prioritizing your physical health, and burnout.
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You may not realize it,
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but there is strength in taking breaks.
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Your worth isn't based upon what you do.
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Instead, it's based on who you are.
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Number three, making decisions based upon emotions instead of values.
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Do you tend to think with your heart rather than your head?
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Have you ever regretted letting your initial reaction to something get out of control?
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If so, you know all too well about letting your emotions get the best of you.
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Not being able to balance your emotions with your morals and logic is a telltale sign of emotional weakness.
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How you feel should be a factor in your decisions,
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but when it becomes the driving force,
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you end up making impulsive, uninformed, or dramatic choices.
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So, when faced with a difficult decision,
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trying to identify the emotion you're feeling
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and seeing whether it's outweighing your your values and reasons stops you from making irrational decisions.
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Number four, judging yourself for how you feel.
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This isn't a normal feeling,
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or I shouldn't feel like this since no one else does.
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Do you ever think to yourself of phrases like these?
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It may be easy to judge yourself for how you feel,
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but doing so can have many unintended consequences.
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These pave the road for emotional weakness.
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Why so?
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Because these questions cause you to suppress,
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deny, or deflect your emotions.
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In reality, your emotions are one of the biggest indicators as to what you should and shouldn't do,
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your boundaries, and what you enjoy.
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They serve as a guide to you.
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So it's important to remember that all feelings are valid,
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and so deserve to be expressed.
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Number five, needing to find a reason behind everything.
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Do you believe in the phrase,
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everything happens for a reason?
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It isn't prudent to hold it accountable for everything that occurs.
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Trying to find reason in everything may end up making you emotionally weaker.
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This is because you end up spending more time overthinking and analyzing whenever something that you can't explain or rationalize happens.
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It takes the focus away from taking action and looking for ways to cope.
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A huge sign of emotional strength is being able to recognize
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and accept situations as they occur and making the best of them.
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Number six, trying to control and plan everything.
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Do you have your whole life mapped out?
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Have you planned exactly what career you want,
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if you'll get married, if you want kids, and more?
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While making a timeline is a great way to get a general idea of what you want in life,
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almost nothing goes according to plan.
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If you If you become too set on one path,
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you could become close-minded and miss many opportunities simply because you weren't looking.
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You may also end up becoming less emotionally flexible,
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meaning if anything goes wrong,
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you're more likely to fall apart than adapt.
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Finally, similar to needing to find a reason behind everything you
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could spend more time preparing than actually doing the bottom line
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is a key part of emotional strength is accepting you can't foresee everything no matter how scary
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that sounds and number seven letting others control you have you ever purchased something just
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because it was popular being able to stand out from the crowd
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and be yourself is a huge sign of emotional strength On the other hand,
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when you let others influence you,
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you might prioritize their needs over your own and end up making choices that don't actually benefit you.
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Others could recognize this emotional weakness and try to take advantage of you.
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So, while it might be hard,
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it's important to remember that your wants and needs are ultimately the most important factor in your life.
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Emotional weakness isn't something to be ashamed of.
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It takes time, energy, and experience to become emotionally stronger
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so don't be too hard on yourself
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if you're not there yet the most important thing is to remember to be patient
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and kind to yourself as you continue to emotionally grow
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and mature were you aware of these habits if
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so do you think this can help you recognize
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and cope with them feel free to leave a comment down below with your thoughts experiences
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Videodan öğrenmeye değer 15 kelime, telaffuzu ve anlamıyla:
| Kelime | Telaffuz | Anlam |
|---|---|---|
| emotion isim | /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/ | duygu, his |
| weakness isim | /ˈwik.nɪs/ | sıskalık, zayıflık |
| phrase isim | /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/ | deyim, tabir |
| psychology isim | /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/ | ruh bilimi |
| topic isim | /ˈtɑpɪk/ | mevzu, tema |
| occur fiil | /əˈkɜː/ | olmak |
| habit isim | /ˈhæb.ɪt/ | alışkanlık, adet |
| moral sıfat | /ˈmoɹəl/ | ahlakî, ahlaki |
| dramatic sıfat | /dɹəˈmætɪk/ | dramatik |
| regret fiil | /ɹɪˈɡɹɛt/ | pişman olmak |
| scary sıfat | /ˈskɛə.ɹi/ | korkunç |
| deny fiil | /dəˈnaɪ/ | inkâr etmek |
| talented sıfat | /ˈtæləntɪd/ | yetenekli, kabiliyetli |
| drag fiil | /dɹæɡ/ | çekmek, sürüklemek |
| mature sıfat | /məˈt͡ʃʊ(ə)ɹ/ | olgun, yetişkin |
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| Kelime | Anlam |
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- “sh” ve “zh” sesleri: emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/, emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, ashamed /əˈʃeɪmd/, suggestion /səˈd͡ʒɛst.ʃən/, patience /ˈpeɪ̯.ʃəns/
- Uzun kelimeler — vurguyu doğru yere koyun: emotionally /ɪˈməʊʃənəli/, psychology /saɪˈkɑ.lə.d͡ʒi/, incredibly /ɪŋˈkɹɛdɪbli/, mathematics /mæθ(.ə)ˈmæt.ɪks/, genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/
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Konuşmacının en çok kullandığı yapılar, videodaki sözcüklerin aynısıyla:
| Yapı | Videoda |
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| Edilgen yapı be + fiilin üçüncü hâli — kimin yaptığı değil, ne olduğu önemli | aren't gifted · is called · isn't based |
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