跟讀練習: 3 Questions That Reveal What Your Life Is Missing - Arthur Brooks - 通過影片學習英語口語
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How can people work out the meaning that they've got in their life?
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What are the big questions that you should ask?
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Yeah. So...
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There are three big why questions that constitute meaning.
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And this actually comes from the work of Michael Steger, who's a really good social psychologist at University of Michigan in Colorado.
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And he, uh, he has the three parts, the three elements of meaning, which are called coherence, purpose, and significance.
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And there are three why questions.
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Number one is, you have to have an answer to the question, you know, why are things happening the way they are in my life?
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You know, things are happening all around me all the time.
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Why?
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Part of meaning is having an answer to that.
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Maybe that's a, maybe that's your religious answer.
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like because of the mind of God.
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Maybe that's your scientific answer, because these are the laws of the universe.
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Maybe you're a conspiracy theorist and say, because powerful people are doing these things.
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Conspiracy theories are nothing more than crying out for an answer to the coherence question, which is a meaning problem.
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You know, when, so if you have a relative who's going down the rabbit hole on the craziest conspiracy theories, don't, you don't throw data in their face and say,
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you moron, that's the wrong way to approach it.
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They're, they're having a meaning crisis.
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They're having a happiness crisis is the reason they're doing this in the first place.
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So coherence, number one, you know, why things happen the way they do.
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Second, why am I doing what I'm doing?
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That's purpose purpose and meaning are not the same.
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Purpose is goals and direction so you can make progress.
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So why am I doing what I'm doing?
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And if the answer is, I don't know, then you can't make progress because we're just going in circles.
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You're just a, a, a carnival cruise ship, just kind of randomly going around and around and around and around.
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It's the reason I find cruises unbelievably depressing.
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They don't go someplace, right?
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I'm a teleological individual like you.
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I want a goal, right?
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And that's purpose.
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And, and so in the, in the, in the research, you know, Sonia Lou Womirsky's stuff, have you had her on the show?
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Next week or the week after?
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Super good.
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Yeah.
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She's awesome.
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And she's at UC Riverside and she does these work on goals and you'll give students these just random goals.
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Like you're getting a B minus in physics.
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You know, it's going to be plus this semester, just that goal.
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They get happier, they get more directed.
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Life seems better because they have more meaning in their life.
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That's what it comes down to.
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Even arbitrary goals work better to have meaningful goals and last, but at least the significance and that's.
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My life matters.
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You know, my life matters to someone.
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you know, to my dog, to my wife, to God, to my kids.
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And so that's the love question.
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And all these things are completely missing in modern culture for so many people.
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You know, why do things happen the way that they do?
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It's just random.
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I don't know.
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Why am I doing what I'm I get up and I surf, I get up and I go on a Zoom meeting for a company I don't really care about.
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And, you know, what is the significance of my life?
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Why does my life matter?
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I don't think it does.
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And that's, those are the three things to actually keep in mind.
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What happens psychologically when life feels random?
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When life feels random, then it feels like anything could happen at any time and there is no control.
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There are no levers that you can actually pull.
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So you, you're not an active player in your own life when there is no coherence, when you don't see a pattern, it's a big problem.
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You know, when you, when you, you remember when you learn to drive, how old do you have to be in the UK?
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17. Okay.
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And, and when you first, you know, you got a lot of confidence, but when you're looking at the traffic and all like, and it's like, it's like chaos.
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Wildly intimidating.
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I learned to drive in a mini, which is a very British way to do it, but it's fucking terrifying.
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You're like half the height of everybody else.
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Yeah.
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And you know, any, any system that you're in that doesn't seem to make sense, that's.
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that that that it tends to feel really really meaningless
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because you don't know what you can actually do to have some sense of agency.
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There's no sense of agency when there is no coherence, is what it comes down to.
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So, for example, if you believe that things happen the way they do because that's what God wills, then you're going to try to work that lever.
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You're going to pray.
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For example, you're going to have a relationship with God.
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If you believe it's because of the laws of science, you're going to learn more about science, and you're going to actually enter into that particular dimension.
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So, for example, I'm a behavioral scientist.
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I really believe in science.
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I really believe that it's just like, it gives you My job is to explain the science and explain how people can interact with the science.
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It's a pure coherence play is what it comes down to.
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And if it's all about conspiracy theories, then I'm going to get online and, you know, share them with my friends.
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So that's why coherence really matters, so that you can have agency over your life.
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And why are directionalists people so psychologically fragile?
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They're fragile because they don't know actually in which direction that they're going, which means they can't make progress.
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Now, remember this whole idea of happiness comes from making progress toward a goal.
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And there's tons of really interesting examples of this.
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The weight loss literature is super interesting in this.
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So, Diets are all effective and they're all catastrophic failures is what it comes down to.
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Effective insofar as that almost any diet will make you lose weight, but they have between an 80 and 95 % failure rate after a year, meaning you gain all the weight back and then some.
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It's a weird industry.
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It's like a $40 billion industry in the United States that fails.
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It's poroboros of nutritional advice.
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It's craziness.
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You know, 9 out of 10 times, they fail.
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Um, now, now why, why are they successful? Because
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in in economically it's because temporarily they make you make progress
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but they ultimately fail
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because once you get to your goal your goal weight the
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reward is never getting to eat what you like ever again for the rest of your life congratulations
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that and then you get the arrival fallacy is what it comes down to
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so what you want in life is something where you can
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just make constant progress i want to be like i want
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to be a better dad i want to be a better person i want to create "Eh, well, I got to the best dad I can possibly be,
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so that's all good." No, I can always work to be a better husband.
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I can always work to be a better friend.
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I can always work to be a better citizen.
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I can always work to love my country more.
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I can always work to actually do something more important in my work
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and reach more people with the moral objectives that I have.
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And that's what I need.
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I need goals I can't meet.
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I don't...
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I think that the confusing thing is that if...
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Significance is about being valuable to others and not famous.
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Why is it the case that modern people confuse the two?
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Part of the reason is because, um, what strivers they get into there's actually a pathology that that that is in the middle of this.
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So what you find is that certain people, Let me back up a little bit.
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I work, I'm sort of the striver whisperer.
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In my work, I specialize in people who do incredible things, right?
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And that's just because...
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That's fun, although it is, but because that's the kind of books that I write, you know, people who do amazing things and still don't have perfect lives.
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That's, kind of my area of research.
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as a matter of fact, they have a common childhood.
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And it kind of looks like this, you know, super strivers who are never satisfied and struggle.
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They generally speaking, um, found that they only got attention and affection from their parents when they did something.
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when they got good grades, when they made pitcher on the baseball team, when they made first chair in the orchestra, when they, right?
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When they, you know, set up a lemonade stand and made more money than anybody thought possible, whatever it was, right?
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And their parents, often their parents are immigrants or came from poverty, and they'll reward their kids when they do a thing,
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thinking that they're actually wiring in success and happiness for their kids.
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What they're telling their kids is that love is earned.
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They're teaching their kids that love is earned and they kids will learn that.
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And when your brain is synaptically plastic, boy, will you ever learn that lesson?
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And then you will go through life trying to earn love over and over and over and over again.
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You'll look for, if you're a man, you'll look for women who make you earn their love.
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Right?
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And that you'll spend your marriage trying to bring in more and more and more and more money, for example.
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Women will try to stay young forever by trying to earn their husband's love.
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You'll find that they will surround themselves with sycophants
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and yes -men who are just like fake friends who make these people earn their love with gifts and favors and fanciness.
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And you'll surround yourself with people because you believe that love is actually earned.
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Well, the truth is that that's wrong.
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Real love isn't earned.
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It's a free gift, freely given.
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It's a grace.
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Anybody who makes you earn their love doesn't love you.
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That's what it comes down to.
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they've, um, uh, evolved over the course of their lives and they're, they're, they're, they become success addicts,
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winning addicts, looking for the specialness and, and in the modern economy, when you can metastasize that from one to your family,
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to your community, to your church, to your city, to the whole world on the internet,
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then you're going to be searching for the adoration of strangers because it's the best possible dopamine hit that you can get.
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And life is going Don't get it.
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So this is a pathology that actually people have.
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And the more talented you are, the more danger you're in.
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為什麼要通過這個影片練習口語？
觀看這個關於“揭示你生活缺失的三大問題”的影片可以為你的口語練習提供一個極佳的上下文。影片中探討了人與生活意義的關係，適合希望在深層次對話中表達觀點的學習者。通過模仿影片中的表達，你不僅能提升口語流利度，還能更好地理解和運用相關的詞彙和句型。使用shadowspeak的方法，你可以在重複中逐漸掌握這些表達，為雅思口語練習提供實質幫助。
語法與表達在上下文中的應用
影片中使用的幾個關鍵句型可為學習者提供寶貴的學習參考：
- “為什麼事情會以這樣的方式發生？” - 這是一個引導深思的問題，適合在討論經歷或故事時使用。
- “我為什麼要做我正在做的事情？” - 反思目的時的表達，幫助提升對“目的”的理解，非常適合雅思口語的個人敘述。
- “我的生命對某人重要嗎？” - 用於表達情感聯絡和生命意義的句子，適合在談論社會關係時使用。
通過使用這些句型，你能更自信地參與各種話題討論，提高口語表達的深度和廣度。
常見的發音陷阱
在影片中，有些詞彙和句子結構的發音對學習者來說可能具有挑戰性：
- “coherence” - 發音較複雜，注意重音和音節劃分。
- “significance” - 注意音節的連讀和流暢度，確保在說話時能夠清晰表達。
- “conspiracy” - 有時容易混淆，學習者需注意每個音節的清晰發音。
在模仿影片內容時，特別關注這些詞彙的發音，能夠幫助你在口語中更準確地表達意圖，提高與他人溝通的信心。
通過這些練習，結合看YouTube學英語和shadowing的策略，你會發現自己的英語口語能力逐漸提升，特別是在雅思口語測試中表現更為突出。盡情享受練習的過程吧！
影片中的語法
說話人最常用的結構，並附上影片中的原話：
| 結構 | 影片中的用法 |
|---|---|
| 條件句 if + 從句，will/would + 動詞 — 條件及其結果 | if you're a man, you'll look · If you don't like it, they will give |
| 定語從句 who / which + 從句 — 補充說明人或事物 | meaning, which are · question, which is · mini, which is |
| 被動語態 be + 過去分詞 — 強調發生了什麼，而不是誰做的 | are called · is earned · is actually earned |
| 現在完成時 have/has + 過去分詞 — 過去發生但與現在仍有關聯的事 | they've added · has been |
什麼是跟讀法？
跟讀法 (Shadowing) 是一種有科學依據的語言學習技巧，最初開發用於專業口譯員的培訓，並由多語言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。這個方法簡單而強大：您在聽英語母語原聲的同時立即大聲重複——就像是一個延遲1-2秒緊跟說話者的影子。與被動聽力或語法練習不同，跟讀法強迫您的大腦和口腔肌肉同時處理並模模擬實的講話模式。研究表明它能顯著提高發音準確性，語調，節奏，連讀，聽力理解和口語流利度——使其成為雅思口語備考和真實英語交流最有效的方法之一。