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If you've ever wanted to talk to someone you like

but had absolutely no idea what to say I need to say something funny, I need to impress them Then first use the context rule

One of the biggest approaching mistakes people make is thinking that they need the perfect opening line Excuse me,

if you're a fruit you'd be a fine apple But for most people it just feels unnatural So instead, use what's actually happening around you

And base the conversation on the reason why you want to approach

and talk to them for example

if they're looking at books in a bookstore excuse me sorry

i'm trying to find something good to read have you read this one yet

if you're both waiting for a coffee excuse me have you had the matcha here before i've never been

so i don't know what to get what would you recommend

if you're in a new town excuse me i'm on a solo trip

so i've never been to this town before do you know any restaurants

that would be a nice place to try for lunch

or even if the context is

that you genuinely notice something about them hey sorry i just

wanted to come over to say um i really love your

t -shirts cold play right have you seen them live notice how none of these are trying to be clever

and the reason why these work so well is because they're natural

and it doesn't leave the other person thinking what do they want from me

or why are they coming to talk to me however now you've done the hardest part

and introduce yourself you need to remember this number two you have two ears

and one mouth for a reason now there's an old saying

that says that we were given two ears and one mouth

because we should listen twice as much as we speak and

while you don't need to take that literally it's actually a nice rule to follow

because when we're nervous we tend to make the conversation all about ourselves we over explain

so yeah I was I was going over there and try

and fill every awkward silence I know maybe I wasn't going over there

because we constantly feel like we need to keep the conversation interesting

so you see yeah anyway yeah so that was

that was what I was doing but

but that's what actually makes the conversation feel exhausting instead I

want you to really listen to what the other person is saying and ask better questions by number three.

Always giving people something to respond to.

How was your day today?

You see conversations don't die because we listen or talk too much.

Yeah it was good thanks.

They die because we or the other person gives you absolutely nothing to respond to.

Nice.

Now here you might have thought it was his fault for ending the conversation

because he just said nice but in reality it was my fault

because I said yeah that was good thanks

and I didn't give him anything else to work with

so he couldn't really respond to anything now i want you

to start thinking of conversations like a game of tennis

because the only way for you to play that game is

when both players hit the ball over the net

and just like conversations if one person doesn't give you a very good question

or response then the tennis rally or the conversation will just die

so try and do your best when people ask you

so how was your day today to set the other person

up with something that's easy to respond to yeah it was

really good thank you actually I've just launched my brand new social confidence challenge

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so much i'm excited for this one number four always look

out for the quieter person in the group we've all been there

when we're in a group of people we want to talk

but there's so much going on and maybe there's people we haven't met before

so you just sit there in silence but then

that one bro notices you hey man are you all good yeah man thank you

and one of the most memorable things you can do in a conversation is genuinely make people feel included

and wanted now i've actually been going through this exact thing myself right now as

when i go to my girlfriend's home country lithuania i find

myself sat around a table with everyone speaking a different language

and although i'm learning i'm so shy to talk but

when somebody actually comes over to have a little chat to me notice as i'm quiet

and make sure i'm included in the conversation it means

so much so always look out for others who might be quiet

because sometimes it just takes one conversation starter to get them

to open up number five don't be embarrassed to ask for somebody's name again it can feel really embarrassing

when you first meet someone hi how are you doing i'm tom it's really nice to meet you i'm darren

and then midway through the conversation you think what was his name again Oh no, I forgot his name.

But no, that's really awesome, Tom.

Nice one.

How the hell does he remember my name?

But honestly, I found it's always okay to just ask.

I'm so sorry.

I'm really terrible at names.

Can you remind me of your name again?

No worries, man.

It's all good.

My name's Darren.

Because this does two things.

First, it actually shares a small fault about you in a conversation.

Most people try and be perfect, share a small fault, something you're not great at, and it makes them feel more comfortable. And second...

People won't actually be so focused on the fact that you forgot their name.

Right, Darren, don't worry, I promise you I'm going to remember it next time.

They'll remember that you actually cared enough to relearn it and ask again.

Now this can actually be one of the most powerful things that you do.

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Yo Darren, how are you doing man?

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I told you I'd remember the name.

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And this instantly makes them feel good.

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And finally, number six, finish on a high note.

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Now most people wait until the conversation is dead

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or there's nothing else to say before leaving

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but honestly the final parts of a conversation are what people remember the most

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so don't just think

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if i leave now they're not going to notice are they where are you going i gotta go sorry bye

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instead try and leave a conversation intentionally

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and confidently well it was really good catching up with you

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or i really enjoyed that conversation i'm

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so sorry i've got to go i've got to get back

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to my girlfriend she's gonna be pissed otherwise really good to see you okay take care

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or even better leave the conversation when you've just shared a good moment

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or a laugh a lot of people just think

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that they can't leave a conversation because it sounds rude

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or they're going to think it's rude but it's not

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when you genuinely have a reason to leave the conversation that's absolutely okay it's

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when you leave without warmth that the problem occurs thank you

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so much for watching subscribe for more and i'll see you on the 21 day social confidence challenge

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本课的词汇与口语要点

这节口语课以视频“How to become someone everyone loves talking to”为素材。这段视频共有 120 个句子、1382 个单词可供跟读。讲话部分时长为 6:22。说话人语速较快，每分钟约 217 个词，会出现较多连读和弱读。 89% 的单词属于英语最常用的 3,000 词，词汇容易理解。

视频中的重点词汇

视频中 15 个值得学习的单词，附发音和释义：

单词	发音	释义
lesson 名词	/ˈlɛs.ən/	課業 /课业, -課 /-课
silence 名词	/ˈsaɪ̯ləns/	沉默
ear 名词	/ˈɪə̯/	耳朵, 耳
tennis 名词	/ˈtɛnɪs/	網球 /网球
rude 形容词	/ɹuːd/	粗暴, 無禮 /无礼
occur 动词	/əˈkɜː/	發生 /发生
skill 名词	/skɪl/	技巧, 技能
introduce 动词	/ˌɪntɹəˈdus/	介紹 /介绍, 紹介 /绍介
log 名词	/lɔɡ/	圓木 /圆木
remind 动词	/ɹəˈmaɪnd/	提醒
rally 名词	/ˈɹæli/	集會 /集会, 大會 /大会
awkward 形容词	/ˈɔk.wɚd/	彆扭 /别扭
instantly 副词	/ˈɪnstəntli/	立即
embarrassed 形容词	/ɪmˈbæɹ.əst/	難為情 /难为情, 尷尬 /尴尬
starter 名词	/ˈstɑɹ.tɚ/	發令員 /发令员

视频中出现的短语动词

单词	发音	释义
go ahead 动词	/ˌɡoʊ əˈhɛd/	請便 /请便
go through 动词		通過 /通过

值得反复跟读的句子

视频中简短而完整的句子，可以直接用在日常对话里：

How was your day today?
I'm really terrible at names.
Can you remind me of your name again?
I told you I'd remember the name.

视频中的语法

说话人最常用的结构，并附上视频中的原话：

结构	视频中的用法
现在完成时 have/has + 过去分词 — 过去发生但与现在仍有关联的事	you've ever wanted · i've never been · you've done
被动语态 be + 过去分词 — 强调发生了什么，而不是谁做的	were given · be pissed
最高级 the -est / the most … — 一组中最高或最低的	the biggest · the hardest · your best
过去进行时 was/were + -ing — 过去某一时刻正在进行的动作	was going · wasn't going · was doing

需要注意的发音

说话人用了 57 次缩略和弱读形式，例如 I'm, I've, don't。请按听到的简短形式来说。

长单词——注意重音位置: genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/, intentionally /ɪnˈtɛn(t)ʃənəli/, confidently /ˈkɑnfɪdəntli/

中文母语者容易读错的音：

词尾辅音 — 要读清楚，后面不要加元音: silence /ˈsaɪ̯ləns/, tennis /ˈtɛnɪs/, rude /ɹuːd/, introduce /ˌɪntɹəˈdus/, log /lɔɡ/
/r/ 和 /l/ 的区别: rally /ˈɹæli/, memorable /ˈmɛm.(ə)ɹə.bl̩/, relearn /ɹiːˈləːn/
/æ/ — 嘴张大，不要读成 /e/: rally /ˈɹæli/, embarrassed /ɪmˈbæɹ.əst/, embarrass /ɪmˈbæɹəs/

如何用这段视频练习

先完整听一遍视频，不要开口，记下不认识的单词。
先用 0.75 倍速逐句跟读，熟练之后再回到正常速度。
录下自己的声音并与原声对比，特别注意 lesson, silence, ear 这类单词。

什么是跟读法？

跟读法 (Shadowing) 是一种有科学依据的语言学习技巧，最初开发用于专业口译员的培训，并由多语言者Alexander Arguelles博士普及。这个方法简单而强大：您在听英语母语原声的同时立即大声重复——就像是一个延迟1-2秒紧跟说话者的影子。与被动听力或语法练习不同，跟读法强迫您的大脑和口腔肌肉同时处理并模仿真实的讲话模式。研究表明它能显着提高发音准确性，语调，节奏，连读，听力理解和口语流利度——使其成为雅思口语备考和真实英语交流最有效的方法之一。

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