Pratique du Shadowing: How to become someone everyone loves talking to - Apprendre l'anglais à l'oral avec la vidéo

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If you've ever wanted to talk to someone you like

but had absolutely no idea what to say I need to say something funny, I need to impress them Then first use the context rule

One of the biggest approaching mistakes people make is thinking that they need the perfect opening line Excuse me,

if you're a fruit you'd be a fine apple But for most people it just feels unnatural So instead, use what's actually happening around you

And base the conversation on the reason why you want to approach

and talk to them for example

if they're looking at books in a bookstore excuse me sorry

i'm trying to find something good to read have you read this one yet

if you're both waiting for a coffee excuse me have you had the matcha here before i've never been

so i don't know what to get what would you recommend

if you're in a new town excuse me i'm on a solo trip

so i've never been to this town before do you know any restaurants

that would be a nice place to try for lunch

or even if the context is

that you genuinely notice something about them hey sorry i just

wanted to come over to say um i really love your

t -shirts cold play right have you seen them live notice how none of these are trying to be clever

and the reason why these work so well is because they're natural

and it doesn't leave the other person thinking what do they want from me

or why are they coming to talk to me however now you've done the hardest part

and introduce yourself you need to remember this number two you have two ears

and one mouth for a reason now there's an old saying

that says that we were given two ears and one mouth

because we should listen twice as much as we speak and

while you don't need to take that literally it's actually a nice rule to follow

because when we're nervous we tend to make the conversation all about ourselves we over explain

so yeah I was I was going over there and try

and fill every awkward silence I know maybe I wasn't going over there

because we constantly feel like we need to keep the conversation interesting

so you see yeah anyway yeah so that was

that was what I was doing but

but that's what actually makes the conversation feel exhausting instead I

want you to really listen to what the other person is saying and ask better questions by number three.

Always giving people something to respond to.

How was your day today?

You see conversations don't die because we listen or talk too much.

Yeah it was good thanks.

They die because we or the other person gives you absolutely nothing to respond to.

Nice.

Now here you might have thought it was his fault for ending the conversation

because he just said nice but in reality it was my fault

because I said yeah that was good thanks

and I didn't give him anything else to work with

so he couldn't really respond to anything now i want you

to start thinking of conversations like a game of tennis

because the only way for you to play that game is

when both players hit the ball over the net

and just like conversations if one person doesn't give you a very good question

or response then the tennis rally or the conversation will just die

so try and do your best when people ask you

so how was your day today to set the other person

up with something that's easy to respond to yeah it was

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so much i'm excited for this one number four always look

out for the quieter person in the group we've all been there

when we're in a group of people we want to talk

but there's so much going on and maybe there's people we haven't met before

so you just sit there in silence but then

that one bro notices you hey man are you all good yeah man thank you

and one of the most memorable things you can do in a conversation is genuinely make people feel included

and wanted now i've actually been going through this exact thing myself right now as

when i go to my girlfriend's home country lithuania i find

myself sat around a table with everyone speaking a different language

and although i'm learning i'm so shy to talk but

when somebody actually comes over to have a little chat to me notice as i'm quiet

and make sure i'm included in the conversation it means

so much so always look out for others who might be quiet

because sometimes it just takes one conversation starter to get them

to open up number five don't be embarrassed to ask for somebody's name again it can feel really embarrassing

when you first meet someone hi how are you doing i'm tom it's really nice to meet you i'm darren

and then midway through the conversation you think what was his name again Oh no, I forgot his name.

But no, that's really awesome, Tom.

Nice one.

How the hell does he remember my name?

But honestly, I found it's always okay to just ask.

I'm so sorry.

I'm really terrible at names.

Can you remind me of your name again?

No worries, man.

It's all good.

My name's Darren.

Because this does two things.

First, it actually shares a small fault about you in a conversation.

Most people try and be perfect, share a small fault, something you're not great at, and it makes them feel more comfortable. And second...

People won't actually be so focused on the fact that you forgot their name.

Right, Darren, don't worry, I promise you I'm going to remember it next time.

They'll remember that you actually cared enough to relearn it and ask again.

Now this can actually be one of the most powerful things that you do.

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Yo Darren, how are you doing man?

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I told you I'd remember the name.

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And this instantly makes them feel good.

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And finally, number six, finish on a high note.

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Now most people wait until the conversation is dead

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or there's nothing else to say before leaving

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but honestly the final parts of a conversation are what people remember the most

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so don't just think

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if i leave now they're not going to notice are they where are you going i gotta go sorry bye

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instead try and leave a conversation intentionally

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and confidently well it was really good catching up with you

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or i really enjoyed that conversation i'm

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so sorry i've got to go i've got to get back

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to my girlfriend she's gonna be pissed otherwise really good to see you okay take care

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or even better leave the conversation when you've just shared a good moment

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or a laugh a lot of people just think

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that they can't leave a conversation because it sounds rude

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or they're going to think it's rude but it's not

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when you genuinely have a reason to leave the conversation that's absolutely okay it's

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when you leave without warmth that the problem occurs thank you

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so much for watching subscribe for more and i'll see you on the 21 day social confidence challenge

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Cette leçon d’expression orale s’appuie sur la vidéo « How to become someone everyone loves talking to ». Cette vidéo contient 120 phrases et 1382 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 6:22. Le locuteur parle vite, environ 217 mots par minute : attendez-vous à des liaisons et à des sons réduits. 89 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais, le vocabulaire est donc facile à suivre.

Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo

15 mots de la vidéo à retenir, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :

Mot	Prononciation	Sens
genuinely adverbe	/ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/	authentiquement, réellement
lesson nom	/ˈlɛs.ən/	leçon
silence nom	/ˈsaɪ̯ləns/	silence
ear nom	/ˈɪə̯/	oreille
tennis nom	/ˈtɛnɪs/	tennis
rude adjectif	/ɹuːd/	impoli, malpoli
occur verbe	/əˈkɜː/	se produire, avoir lieu
skill nom	/skɪl/	habileté, compétence
introduce verbe	/ˌɪntɹəˈdus/	présenter
log nom	/lɔɡ/	grume, tronc
remind verbe	/ɹəˈmaɪnd/	rappeler à
rally nom	/ˈɹæli/	rassemblement, meeting
awkward adjectif	/ˈɔk.wɚd/	maladroit, gauche
instantly adverbe	/ˈɪnstəntli/	instantanément
clever adjectif	/ˈklɛv.ɚ/	habile, agile

Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez

Mot	Prononciation	Sens
get back verbe		retourner
go ahead verbe	/ˌɡoʊ əˈhɛd/	vas-y, allez-y
go through verbe		traverser
open up verbe		ouvrir

Des phrases à répéter

Des phrases courtes et complètes de la vidéo, à réutiliser dans la conversation de tous les jours :

How was your day today?
I'm really terrible at names.
Can you remind me of your name again?
I told you I'd remember the name.

La grammaire de cette vidéo

Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :

Structure	Dans la vidéo
Present perfect have/has + participe passé — une action passée qui compte encore maintenant	you've ever wanted · i've never been · you've done
Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait	were given · be pissed
Superlatifs the -est / the most … — le plus haut ou le plus bas d’un groupe	the biggest · the hardest · your best
Passé continu was/were + -ing — une action en cours à un moment du passé	was going · wasn't going · was doing

Prononciation à surveiller

Le locuteur utilise 57 contractions et formes réduites, comme I'm, I've, don't. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.

Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/, intentionally /ɪnˈtɛn(t)ʃənəli/, confidently /ˈkɑnfɪdəntli/

Les sons difficiles pour les francophones :

/tʃ/ et /dʒ/ — à ne pas adoucir en « ch » et « j »: genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/, matcha /ˈmɑ.t͡ʃə/
/r/ anglais — langue recourbée, sans frotter la gorge: rude /ɹuːd/, introduce /ˌɪntɹəˈdus/, remind /ɹəˈmaɪnd/, rally /ˈɹæli/, embarrassed /ɪmˈbæɹ.əst/

Comment s’entraîner avec cette vidéo

Écoutez la vidéo en entier une fois sans parler et notez les mots que vous ne connaissez pas.
Commencez à la vitesse 0,75×, répétez phrase par phrase, puis revenez à la vitesse normale quand cela devient facile.
Enregistrez-vous et comparez avec l’original, en faisant attention à des mots comme genuinely, lesson, silence.

Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?

Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.

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