Shadowing-Übung: You Will Always Reject Love Until You Do This... - Englisch Sprechen Lernen mit Video

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Bye you you It's one of the most basic laws of psychology that deserves repetition and constant re -examination,
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because it doesn't reach those who really need to hear it.
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When people have a bad childhood, They grow up to reject love, as adults.
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At a societal level, we continue to believe in uncomplicated ways that what everyone wants is love.
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This is desperately untrue.
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Anyone who has not enjoyed love in childhood, who has not been the recipient of cosy, comforting and supportive treatment as a small person,
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will not feel comfortable at all when love comes along in later life.
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They will do their utmost to sabotage love and to hide from themselves that this is what they're up to.
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They will be utterly convinced that they are interested in love.
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They will swear on a first date
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that all they want is a happy relationship and maybe marriage quite soon
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and then they will make resolutely sure that no happiness is possible and that misery is the only option for them.
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They will do this in two main ways: firstly, by choosing people who are not interested in giving love.
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People who are so damaged that they're violent, abusive, cold -hearted, cynical, obsessive or in some other way elsewhere.
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This person will become an object of fixation.
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Despite awful treatment, the lover will return again and again to grief and unfulfillment.
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they won't be able to understand why they're compelled they'll keep being so anyway.
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And the second method for refusing love will be to turn on people who are kind, good and interested in them.
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They may tolerate the beginning of a relationship, they might even last a few years, but gradually they will be unable to sustain warmth.
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Their entire emotional system was built to cope with coldness and hardship.
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It's impossible for them to feel at home with safety.
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Therefore, as soon as a relationship reaches a certain level of comfort, Exceeding that they ever knew in childhood, the sabotage will begin.
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There will be an affair or arguments.
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The lover will start to feel, for no reason but with total sincerity, that their very good partner is too controlling or has no room for their needs.
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They will genuinely believe that the kind lover is out to get them
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and undermine them all so that they can exit the relationship at speed and with a clear conscience, and their nervous system can return to a baseline,
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governed by a sense of isolation and self -contempt.
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It normally takes an adult between 10 and 30 years, or never, to work out that this is at play.
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They need to read books, go to therapy, but most of all, they need to have so many bad experiences that eventually, after the fourth marriage or 19th relationship,
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they start to see that they're involved in a pattern of self -destruction that has no inevitable cause in the outside world.
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They may be very old, when the penny drops.
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Despite this theoretical knowledge, despite films like this and books that go into it all at even greater depth, right now in streets in Lincolnshire and Bordeaux,
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Nevada and Tahiti, young people who had a deprived childhood are just starting these cycles all over again.
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A nice -seeming girl is just preparing to leave a kindly
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reliable boyfriend she met at high school on the grounds
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that he's too weak a polite young man is just refusing
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a second date with a lovely person who's warm -hearted and wants to know their story because they're apparently too nice.
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There are dynamics here that will keep psychotherapists and lawyers busy late into the 21st century.
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As societies, we think we're making progress, but in the central area of our emotional lives,
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we keep repeating the same miserable stories like blind donkeys.
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Let's repeat the point again: if you've suffered from an awful childhood, you're going to try to sabotage love and guarantee yourself an awful series of relationships.
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unless you take emergency measures now.
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Therefore, take the nauseous feeling that you're having at the prospect of a sweet person and sit with it.
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Explore it.
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Imagine the feeling is wrong.
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Imagine the feeling is a legacy of trauma.
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Don't sack the nice person who's been trying to marry you and offer you a good life.
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And don't keep going back to the violent horror who's been punching you
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or turning down all your offers of cuddles for years.
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If this rings bells with you or anyone you know, send them this film seek professional help break the pattern.

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  • emotionale Intelligenz - emotional intelligence
  • liebe ablehnen - rejecting love
  • sabotieren - to sabotage
  • traumatisches Erbe - legacy of trauma
  • schädliche Beziehungen - damaging relationships
  • psychologische Konzepte - psychological concepts
  • Wärme und Sicherheit - warmth and safety
  • selbstzerstörerisches Muster - self-destructive pattern

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Present Perfect Continuous have/has been + -ing – eine Handlung, die früher begann und noch andauertwho's been trying · who's been punching
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