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Bye you you It's one of the most basic laws of psychology that deserves repetition and constant re -examination,
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because it doesn't reach those who really need to hear it.
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When people have a bad childhood, They grow up to reject love, as adults.
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At a societal level, we continue to believe in uncomplicated ways that what everyone wants is love.
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This is desperately untrue.
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Anyone who has not enjoyed love in childhood, who has not been the recipient of cosy, comforting and supportive treatment as a small person,
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will not feel comfortable at all when love comes along in later life.
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They will do their utmost to sabotage love and to hide from themselves that this is what they're up to.
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They will be utterly convinced that they are interested in love.
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They will swear on a first date
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that all they want is a happy relationship and maybe marriage quite soon
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and then they will make resolutely sure that no happiness is possible and that misery is the only option for them.
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They will do this in two main ways: firstly, by choosing people who are not interested in giving love.
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People who are so damaged that they're violent, abusive, cold -hearted, cynical, obsessive or in some other way elsewhere.
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This person will become an object of fixation.
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Despite awful treatment, the lover will return again and again to grief and unfulfillment.
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they won't be able to understand why they're compelled they'll keep being so anyway.
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And the second method for refusing love will be to turn on people who are kind, good and interested in them.
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They may tolerate the beginning of a relationship, they might even last a few years, but gradually they will be unable to sustain warmth.
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Their entire emotional system was built to cope with coldness and hardship.
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It's impossible for them to feel at home with safety.
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Therefore, as soon as a relationship reaches a certain level of comfort, Exceeding that they ever knew in childhood, the sabotage will begin.
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There will be an affair or arguments.
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The lover will start to feel, for no reason but with total sincerity, that their very good partner is too controlling or has no room for their needs.
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They will genuinely believe that the kind lover is out to get them
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and undermine them all so that they can exit the relationship at speed and with a clear conscience, and their nervous system can return to a baseline,
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governed by a sense of isolation and self -contempt.
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It normally takes an adult between 10 and 30 years, or never, to work out that this is at play.
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They need to read books, go to therapy, but most of all, they need to have so many bad experiences that eventually, after the fourth marriage or 19th relationship,
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they start to see that they're involved in a pattern of self -destruction that has no inevitable cause in the outside world.
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They may be very old, when the penny drops.
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Despite this theoretical knowledge, despite films like this and books that go into it all at even greater depth, right now in streets in Lincolnshire and Bordeaux,
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Nevada and Tahiti, young people who had a deprived childhood are just starting these cycles all over again.
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A nice -seeming girl is just preparing to leave a kindly
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reliable boyfriend she met at high school on the grounds
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that he's too weak a polite young man is just refusing
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a second date with a lovely person who's warm -hearted and wants to know their story because they're apparently too nice.
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There are dynamics here that will keep psychotherapists and lawyers busy late into the 21st century.
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As societies, we think we're making progress, but in the central area of our emotional lives,
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we keep repeating the same miserable stories like blind donkeys.
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Let's repeat the point again: if you've suffered from an awful childhood, you're going to try to sabotage love and guarantee yourself an awful series of relationships.
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unless you take emergency measures now.
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Therefore, take the nauseous feeling that you're having at the prospect of a sweet person and sit with it.
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Explore it.
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Imagine the feeling is wrong.
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Imagine the feeling is a legacy of trauma.
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Don't sack the nice person who's been trying to marry you and offer you a good life.
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And don't keep going back to the violent horror who's been punching you
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or turning down all your offers of cuddles for years.
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If this rings bells with you or anyone you know, send them this film seek professional help break the pattern.

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このビデオでは、心理学と愛に関する深い洞察が語られています。特に、苦しい子供時代を持った人々が、大人になってから愛を受け入れることが難しい理由について説明しています。この内容は、英語を学ぶ際にも非常に役立ちます。心理的な背景を理解しながら練習することで、言葉だけでなく、感情を込めてコミュニケーションを図る力も養われます。話の内容を理解し、それについて考えることで、実際の対話にも役立つスキルを身につけることができます。英語シャドーイングやshadow speechを通じて、より効果的に話す技術を磨いていきましょう。

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  • "will not feel comfortable": これは未来形の否定形で、特定の状況についての予測を示しています。
  • "they are convinced that": この表現は、相手の確信や信念を示す際に使われ、その後の内容に対する強い信念を表現します。
  • "turn on people who are kind": このフレーズは、行動の転換を示し、自分にとって有益な関係を拒否する複雑な心理状態を表現しています。

これらの構造を理解し、実際に使ってみることで、より流暢な英語を話す力を身につけることができます。英語の発音を良くするために、特に意識して練習しましょう。

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ビデオで登場するいくつかの言葉や表現には、発音において注意が必要な点があります。例えば:

  • "sabotage": 発音が難しいと感じるかもしれませんが、正確に言えるように繰り返し練習してください。
  • "compelled": この単語も、音の流れをスムーズにする練習が必要です。
  • "convince": この言葉は、母音の使い方が重要で、正しい発音を感覚的に覚えるためのトレーニングが役立ちます。

英語を話すときは、これらの言葉を意識して練習することで、発音の質が向上し、より効果的なコミュニケーションが可能になります。自身の声を録音し、shadowspeaksやshadow speakの技術を使って、フィードバックを得ながら進めていきましょう。

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現在完了進行形 have/has been + -ing — 以前に始まり今も続いている動作who's been trying · who's been punching
関係詞節 who / which + 節 — 人や物について情報を加えるthose who really · Anyone who has · people who are
現在完了形 have/has + 過去分詞 — 過去の出来事が今も関係しているhas not enjoyed · you've suffered

シャドーイングとは?英語上達に効果的な理由

シャドーイング(Shadowing)は、もともとプロの通訳者養成プログラムで開発された言語学習法で、多言語習得者として知られるDr. Alexander Arguelles によって広く普及されました。方法はシンプルですが非常に効果的:ネイティブスピーカーの英語を聞きながら、1〜2秒の遅延で声に出してすぐに繰り返す——まるで「影(shadow)」のように話者を追いかけます。文法ドリルや受動的なリスニングと異なり、シャドーイングは脳と口の筋肉が同時にリアルタイムで英語を処理・再現することを強制します。研究により、発音精度、抑揚、リズム、連音、リスニング力、そして会話の流暢さが大幅に向上することが確認されています。IELTSスピーキング対策や自然な英語コミュニケーションを目指す方に特におすすめです。

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