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Bye you you It's one of the most basic laws of psychology that deserves repetition and constant re -examination,
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because it doesn't reach those who really need to hear it.
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When people have a bad childhood, They grow up to reject love, as adults.
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At a societal level, we continue to believe in uncomplicated ways that what everyone wants is love.
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This is desperately untrue.
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Anyone who has not enjoyed love in childhood, who has not been the recipient of cosy, comforting and supportive treatment as a small person,
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will not feel comfortable at all when love comes along in later life.
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They will do their utmost to sabotage love and to hide from themselves that this is what they're up to.
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They will be utterly convinced that they are interested in love.
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They will swear on a first date
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that all they want is a happy relationship and maybe marriage quite soon
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and then they will make resolutely sure that no happiness is possible and that misery is the only option for them.
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They will do this in two main ways: firstly, by choosing people who are not interested in giving love.
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People who are so damaged that they're violent, abusive, cold -hearted, cynical, obsessive or in some other way elsewhere.
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This person will become an object of fixation.
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Despite awful treatment, the lover will return again and again to grief and unfulfillment.
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they won't be able to understand why they're compelled they'll keep being so anyway.
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And the second method for refusing love will be to turn on people who are kind, good and interested in them.
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They may tolerate the beginning of a relationship, they might even last a few years, but gradually they will be unable to sustain warmth.
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Their entire emotional system was built to cope with coldness and hardship.
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It's impossible for them to feel at home with safety.
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Therefore, as soon as a relationship reaches a certain level of comfort, Exceeding that they ever knew in childhood, the sabotage will begin.
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There will be an affair or arguments.
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The lover will start to feel, for no reason but with total sincerity, that their very good partner is too controlling or has no room for their needs.
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They will genuinely believe that the kind lover is out to get them
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and undermine them all so that they can exit the relationship at speed and with a clear conscience, and their nervous system can return to a baseline,
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governed by a sense of isolation and self -contempt.
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It normally takes an adult between 10 and 30 years, or never, to work out that this is at play.
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They need to read books, go to therapy, but most of all, they need to have so many bad experiences that eventually, after the fourth marriage or 19th relationship,
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they start to see that they're involved in a pattern of self -destruction that has no inevitable cause in the outside world.
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They may be very old, when the penny drops.
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Despite this theoretical knowledge, despite films like this and books that go into it all at even greater depth, right now in streets in Lincolnshire and Bordeaux,
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Nevada and Tahiti, young people who had a deprived childhood are just starting these cycles all over again.
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A nice -seeming girl is just preparing to leave a kindly
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reliable boyfriend she met at high school on the grounds
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that he's too weak a polite young man is just refusing
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a second date with a lovely person who's warm -hearted and wants to know their story because they're apparently too nice.
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There are dynamics here that will keep psychotherapists and lawyers busy late into the 21st century.
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As societies, we think we're making progress, but in the central area of our emotional lives,
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we keep repeating the same miserable stories like blind donkeys.
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Let's repeat the point again: if you've suffered from an awful childhood, you're going to try to sabotage love and guarantee yourself an awful series of relationships.
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unless you take emergency measures now.
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Therefore, take the nauseous feeling that you're having at the prospect of a sweet person and sit with it.
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Explore it.
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Imagine the feeling is wrong.
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Imagine the feeling is a legacy of trauma.
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Don't sack the nice person who's been trying to marry you and offer you a good life.
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And don't keep going back to the violent horror who's been punching you
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or turning down all your offers of cuddles for years.
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If this rings bells with you or anyone you know, send them this film seek professional help break the pattern.
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Vocabulario y notas de pronunciación para esta lección
Esta lección de conversación de nivel C1 se basa en el vídeo “You Will Always Reject Love Until You Do This..”. Las palabras que más se repiten: relationship, childhood, sabotage, lover, awful. Este vídeo tiene 50 frases y 768 palabras para practicar shadowing. La parte hablada dura 4:28. El hablante habla a un ritmo natural de unas 172 palabras por minuto, cercano a una conversación cotidiana. El 83 % de las palabras está entre las 3.000 más comunes del inglés; conviene repasar el resto antes de empezar.
Vocabulario clave de este vídeo
Las 15 palabras más avanzadas del vídeo, con su pronunciación y significado:
| Palabra | Pronunciación | Significado |
|---|---|---|
| sabotage sustantivo | /ˈsæb.əˌtɑʒ/ | sabotaje |
| coldness sustantivo | /ˈkoʊldnəs/ | frío, frialdad |
| compel verbo | /kəmˈpɛl/ | compeler |
| cuddle verbo | /ˈkʌd.l̩/ | hacer arrumacos, acurrucarse |
| deprive verbo | /dɪˈpɹaɪv/ | desproveer (de), privar (de) |
| fixation sustantivo | /fɪksˈeɪʃən/ | fijación |
| nauseous adjetivo | /ˈnɔʃəs/ | nauseabundo, nauseoso |
| obsessive adjetivo | /əbˈsɛs.ɪv/ | obsesivo |
| psychotherapist sustantivo | psicoterapeuta | |
| repetition sustantivo | /ˌɹɛp.əˈtɪʃ.ən/ | repetición |
| resolutely adverbio | /ˈɹɛz.əˌlutli/ | resolutamente, resueltamente |
| sincerity sustantivo | /sɪnˈsɛɹəti/ | sinceridad |
| untrue adjetivo | /ʌnˈtɹuː/ | falso, incorrecto |
| hardship sustantivo | /ˈhɑɹdˌʃɪp/ | sufrimiento, apuro |
| societal adjetivo | [səˈsaɪ.ɪ.tɫ̩] | societal |
Phrasal verbs que vas a escuchar
| Palabra | Significado |
|---|---|
| turn down verbo | rechazar |
Gramática en este vídeo
Las estructuras que más usa el hablante, con las palabras exactas del vídeo:
| Estructura | En el vídeo |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — una acción que empezó antes y continúa | who's been trying · who's been punching |
| Oraciones de relativo who / which + oración — información extra sobre una persona o cosa | those who really · Anyone who has · people who are |
| Present perfect have/has + participio pasado — una acción pasada que sigue importando ahora | has not enjoyed · you've suffered |
Pronunciación a tener en cuenta
El hablante usa 14 contracciones y formas reducidas, como they're, don't, you're. Dilas en su forma corta, tal como las oyes.
- Los sonidos de “th”: warmth /wɔɹmθ/, theoretical /ˌθi.əˈɹɛt.ɪ.kəl/
- Los sonidos de “sh” y “zh”: sabotage /ˈsæb.əˌtɑʒ/, fixation /fɪksˈeɪʃən/, nauseous /ˈnɔʃəs/, repetition /ˌɹɛp.əˈtɪʃ.ən/, hardship /ˈhɑɹdˌʃɪp/
- Palabras largas — cuida el acento: repetition /ˌɹɛp.əˈtɪʃ.ən/, resolutely /ˈɹɛz.əˌlutli/, sincerity /sɪnˈsɛɹəti/, unfulfillment /ənfəlˈfɪlmənt/, recipient /ɹəˈsɪp.i.ənt/
Sonidos difíciles para hispanohablantes:
- /v/ — no es /b/: los dientes tocan el labio inferior: deprive /dɪˈpɹaɪv/, obsessive /əbˈsɛs.ɪv/, govern /ˈɡʌv.ən/, abusive /əˈbju.sɪv/, supportive /səˈpɔɹtɪv/
- /z/ — sonora, no /s/: resolutely /ˈɹɛz.əˌlutli/, misery /ˈmɪz(ə)ɹi/, miserable /ˈmɪz(ə)ɹəbəl/
Cómo practicar con este vídeo
- Escucha el vídeo entero una vez sin hablar y anota las palabras que no conoces.
- Empieza a velocidad 0,75×, haz shadowing frase por frase y vuelve a la velocidad normal cuando te resulte fácil.
- Grábate y compara con el original, prestando atención a palabras como sabotage, coldness, compel.
¿Qué es la Técnica de Shadowing?
Shadowing es una técnica de aprendizaje de idiomas respaldada por la ciencia, desarrollada originalmente para la formación de intérpretes profesionales y popularizada por el políglota Dr. Alexander Arguelles. El método es simple pero poderoso: escuchas audio en inglés nativo y lo repites en voz alta de inmediato, como una sombra que sigue al hablante con solo 1-2 segundos de retraso. A diferencia de la escucha pasiva o los ejercicios de gramática, el shadowing obliga a tu cerebro y músculos de la boca a procesar y reproducir simultáneamente patrones de habla reales. Las investigaciones muestran que mejora significativamente la precisión de la pronunciación, la entonación, el ritmo, el habla conectada, la comprensión auditiva y la fluidez al hablar, convirtiéndola en una de las metodologías más efectivas para la preparación del IELTS Speaking y la comunicación en inglés en el mundo real.