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Bye you you It's one of the most basic laws of psychology that deserves repetition and constant re -examination,
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because it doesn't reach those who really need to hear it.
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When people have a bad childhood, They grow up to reject love, as adults.
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At a societal level, we continue to believe in uncomplicated ways that what everyone wants is love.
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This is desperately untrue.
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Anyone who has not enjoyed love in childhood, who has not been the recipient of cosy, comforting and supportive treatment as a small person,
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will not feel comfortable at all when love comes along in later life.
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They will do their utmost to sabotage love and to hide from themselves that this is what they're up to.
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They will be utterly convinced that they are interested in love.
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They will swear on a first date
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that all they want is a happy relationship and maybe marriage quite soon
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and then they will make resolutely sure that no happiness is possible and that misery is the only option for them.
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They will do this in two main ways: firstly, by choosing people who are not interested in giving love.
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People who are so damaged that they're violent, abusive, cold -hearted, cynical, obsessive or in some other way elsewhere.
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This person will become an object of fixation.
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Despite awful treatment, the lover will return again and again to grief and unfulfillment.
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they won't be able to understand why they're compelled they'll keep being so anyway.
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And the second method for refusing love will be to turn on people who are kind, good and interested in them.
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They may tolerate the beginning of a relationship, they might even last a few years, but gradually they will be unable to sustain warmth.
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Their entire emotional system was built to cope with coldness and hardship.
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It's impossible for them to feel at home with safety.
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Therefore, as soon as a relationship reaches a certain level of comfort, Exceeding that they ever knew in childhood, the sabotage will begin.
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There will be an affair or arguments.
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The lover will start to feel, for no reason but with total sincerity, that their very good partner is too controlling or has no room for their needs.
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They will genuinely believe that the kind lover is out to get them
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and undermine them all so that they can exit the relationship at speed and with a clear conscience, and their nervous system can return to a baseline,
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governed by a sense of isolation and self -contempt.
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It normally takes an adult between 10 and 30 years, or never, to work out that this is at play.
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They need to read books, go to therapy, but most of all, they need to have so many bad experiences that eventually, after the fourth marriage or 19th relationship,
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they start to see that they're involved in a pattern of self -destruction that has no inevitable cause in the outside world.
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They may be very old, when the penny drops.
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Despite this theoretical knowledge, despite films like this and books that go into it all at even greater depth, right now in streets in Lincolnshire and Bordeaux,
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Nevada and Tahiti, young people who had a deprived childhood are just starting these cycles all over again.
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A nice -seeming girl is just preparing to leave a kindly
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reliable boyfriend she met at high school on the grounds
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that he's too weak a polite young man is just refusing
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a second date with a lovely person who's warm -hearted and wants to know their story because they're apparently too nice.
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There are dynamics here that will keep psychotherapists and lawyers busy late into the 21st century.
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As societies, we think we're making progress, but in the central area of our emotional lives,
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we keep repeating the same miserable stories like blind donkeys.
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Let's repeat the point again: if you've suffered from an awful childhood, you're going to try to sabotage love and guarantee yourself an awful series of relationships.
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unless you take emergency measures now.
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Therefore, take the nauseous feeling that you're having at the prospect of a sweet person and sit with it.
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Explore it.
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Imagine the feeling is wrong.
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Imagine the feeling is a legacy of trauma.
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Don't sack the nice person who's been trying to marry you and offer you a good life.
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And don't keep going back to the violent horror who's been punching you
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or turning down all your offers of cuddles for years.
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If this rings bells with you or anyone you know, send them this film seek professional help break the pattern.
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Perché praticare la conversazione con questo video?
Praticare la conversazione con questo video offre un'opportunità unica per migliorare le proprie abilità linguistiche in un contesto emotivo e psicologico profondo. L'autore del video esplora dinamiche complesse relative all'amore e alle relazioni, il che può aiutare gli studenti a capire e utilizzare un linguaggio ricco e significativo. Utilizzando il shadowing in inglese, è possibile apprendere come esprimere emozioni e pensieri complessi, migliorando allo stesso tempo la propria fluidità e comprensione del linguaggio parlato. Inoltre, praticando le proprie abilità di shadow speech, gli studenti possono affinare la loro capacità di imitazione e pronuncia, rendendo la loro conversazione più naturale.
Grammatica & Espressioni nel Contesto
Nel video vengono utilizzate diverse strutture grammaticali e espressioni che sono fondamentali per esprimere pensieri complessi. Ecco alcune di queste:
- If you've suffered from an awful childhood... - L'uso del condizionale è cruciale per esprimere situazioni ipotetiche.
Utilizzare strutture simili in italiano aiuta a sviluppare comprensione e padronanza. - They will do their utmost to sabotage love... - Questa espressione mostra come utilizzare "will" per esprimere azioni future, fondamentale per chi studia l'inglese.
- You need to read books, go to therapy... - Qui, l'uso dell'infinito dopo "need to" introduce obblighi e necessità, una costruzione utile in molte conversazioni.
- Imagine the feeling is wrong... - L'invito a immaginare e lavorare sulle proprie emozioni ripropone verbi imperativi, ottimi per incoraggiare l'uso di comandi e suggerimenti.
Trappole Comuni di Pronuncia
In questo video, ci sono alcune parole e frasi che potrebbero risultare difficili da pronunciare correttamente. Prestare attenzione ai seguenti aspetti può aiutare notevolmente:
- Sabotage - La pronuncia corretta è fondamentale; è facile confonderla con altre parole simili se non si presta attenzione.
- Childhood - Questo termine ha una pronuncia delicata che può facilmente essere alterata; la corretta enunciazione delle vocali è cruciale.
- Comfortable - Spesso, chi impara l'inglese tende a pronunciare questa parola in modo errato. L'accento sulle sillabe giuste è essenziale per un'adeguata comunicazione.
Praticare queste parole attraverso tecniche di shadow speak permette non solo di migliorare la pronuncia, ma anche di interiorizzare il loro significato nel contesto delle relazioni umane trattate nel video.
La grammatica di questo video
Le strutture che chi parla usa di più, con le parole esatte del video:
| Struttura | Nel video |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — un’azione iniziata prima e ancora in corso | who's been trying · who's been punching |
| Frasi relative who / which + frase — un’informazione in più su una persona o una cosa | those who really · Anyone who has · people who are |
| Present perfect have/has + participio passato — un’azione passata che conta ancora adesso | has not enjoyed · you've suffered |
Cos'è la tecnica dello Shadowing?
Shadowing è una tecnica di apprendimento delle lingue supportata da studi scientifici, originariamente sviluppata per la formazione dei traduttori professionisti e resa popolare dal poliglotta Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Il metodo è semplice ma potente: ascolti un audio in inglese di madrelingua e lo ripeti immediatamente ad alta voce — come un'ombra che segue il parlante con un ritardo di solo 1–2 secondi. A differenza dell'ascolto passivo o degli esercizi di grammatica, lo shadowing costringe il tuo cervello e i muscoli della bocca a elaborare e riprodurre simultaneamente i modelli di discorso reale. La ricerca dimostra che migliora significativamente la precisione della pronuncia, l'intonazione, il ritmo, il discorso connesso, la comprensione dell'ascolto e la fluidità del parlato — rendendolo uno dei metodi più efficaci per la preparazione alla prova di speaking dell'IELTS e per la comunicazione reale in inglese.