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okay now going back to a little bit around the same topic
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so another question we got a lot of is now
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that we're on the topic of men
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and dating is you know nowadays i don't know
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if it's the way society is evolving or the changes in gender roles
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and traditional roles
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but now you see a lot of women are very successful right women are becoming more
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and more independent and very financially independent and therefore successful
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and you get these women these what you would term like high value
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which i don't really like high value women are the ones struggling to find a partner why do you think
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that is i think because um a lot of men are insecure
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and a lot of men take their value from being successful
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so when you take that away and you have a woman
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that is more successful for than you
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that becomes a competition for them you know
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and i think that's actually sad because i I think people don't teach men to, like, for example, be more in touch with their emotions,
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develop other skills than just making money, because then they can also get their value from those things.
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But right now, because they put men on such a pedestal for so long, and they just poured into young men and whatever,
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and women were just the housemakers, right?
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Because they made that such a big thing.
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Now you're sitting with all these men yeah they they just know okay i'll get my value
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if i'm successful
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if i'm successful i'm a good man no like look at
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your morals who like who are you as a person get to know yourself better
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and that's how you build
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that confidence a confident man will not get intimidated by successful woman never ever ever
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but there's just not enough confident men no and even you know
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when you look at masculinity
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so that's one question we got for you actually from my audience
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which was you know there's kind of like a rise in
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like soft masculinity you know where i don't know you must
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have seen all of these funny reels where you know it's
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like men want the princess treatment now they they don't want
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to be the first one to text they don't want to
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be the one to pay the whole 50 50 situation
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that is coming up but do you think
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that is also causing an issue with men just like understanding their role
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and their position in society now i think men have always gotten the princess treatment
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always i think there has never been another time the amount of standards men have for women is insane okay
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but the minute you have a woman
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that says like hey provide you know like take care of
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me it's like no you're a goldie girl how dare you say
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that but how many men would date an unattractive woman exactly they wouldn't they just simply wouldn't okay
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because they have that standard if you're unattractive i don't want to date you
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but once a woman has a standard and it's like if If you're a broke guy, and with broke guys, I don't mean men that are poor.
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No. I mean men that don't know how to create abundance.
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And that's a big, big issue.
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See, for example, for me, a broke man, how I classify it, is like my dad.
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My dad refused to work.
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He doesn't want to work.
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He doesn't want to figure out how to work.
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He made my mom work her whole life, and she was taking care of him.
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Okay?
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He didn't respect himself, and he didn't respect my mother.
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It was just not in balance at all
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and my mom had to be hyper masculine to make up for the lack of masculine energy in the house.
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Right?
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Now, when you have that, a person that doesn't know how to be abundant, that's a broke guy.
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Okay.
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It doesn't matter how much money he makes as long as he's trying that's an abundant man
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because a lot of people they especially women they think like
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oh i just need a rich man i've dated a very
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wealthy guy probably the wealthiest guy i've ever dated he was not generous at all brokey yeah
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so that's a broke man
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because what do i have with you you're showing me every day how much money you're making but
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what do I have with it?
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What do I care how much money you made?
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You know?
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So it's like, that's like just the difference.
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Like when a man doesn't know how to be abundant, that's the big issue.
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So men wanting the princess, I think they always had that, right?
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So it's like, they always had a standard for a woman.
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They always had like, you have to behave like this and blah, blah.
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And even like before when women were supposed to be housemakers, there were
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so many standards you're supposed to cook you're supposed to clean you're supposed to take care of the kids
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and look good on top of that and
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if you don't i'm gonna cheat on you and
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if you do i'm gonna cheat on you
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so it's like women had to accept that
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but then you had women for example that have a platform like me
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that came on and were like stop accepting it
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and it's like let's have standards you know let's have standards as a collective
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and because of that yeah you have what you have right now
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which is very successful women because they started believing in themselves instead of a man
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and chasing what they want
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and being who they want to be instead of chasing a man
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and like taking their value from being with a man
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because that's also a huge issue
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that women are facing you know they think like oh my god
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if i'm not married by this age or
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if i don't have children then i failed as a woman
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but who said that society your parents your culture who said
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that who set that standard for women who said that
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if a woman has her period she's dirty she
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that like that's dirty who said all these things
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if men could get their period
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and could get pregnant we would not be able to meet
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their standards the they would have standards through the roof the like anything
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that even is like um like tampons all these things it would be free it will be free yeah free
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and they would have made like uh medic medicine
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or something to solve like cramps
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and everything it would help you to help them massage tools
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at work yeah days off days off paid yes no for
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sure women would not be able to meet their standards no no
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and that's the thing i'm so glad you touched on this
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because this this has come up many times in conversations with my guests on the podcast
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and even with my friends i keep seeing this because now that women are getting in their mid-30s and late 30s, they're starting to worry.
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And all of these friends that I have, or even guests that I've met, one of them even said on the podcast that, you know, I feel like I have the villa that I always wanted.
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I have my cars, I have my six-figure business, and I sit in my house alone.
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And now I'm thinking, did I go wrong?
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Should I have focused on finding a husband?
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Should I have focused on having kids younger?
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Because that's when you are at your peak on the sexual market value, if you want to call it that.
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And now she's like, now what do I do?
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And now I see this kind of like, I don't know how to explain it other than passive depression
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that is rampant around where you see all these successful women
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who at the end of the day come home to like a quiet apartment
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and they are sad and they feel like they went wrong somewhere.
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What would you say to these people?
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I think that the grass is always greener on the other side i know
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that there's a lot of married women
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that wish they could come home to an empty house i swear like they have glamorized having children
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and married so much
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and people don't see the behind the scenes they always like show you the pretty picture
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but all the work
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that is behind the scenes all the arguments all the compromises all the things
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that cheating that happens
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and then you have to think oh my god do i want to stay married
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because i don't want to lose face in under you know in front of other people
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so i just stay married with a cheating husband
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and i just look nice in front of everyone
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and then someone looks at them and think oh i wish i had
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that no you don't you don't know what's going on in
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someone's house behind closed doors you know my parents like everyone
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that knew them they thought like oh father's a great guy
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such an amazing man such a religious man they would say you know behind closed doors
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that was literally the devil himself you know
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you never know what is going on so i would say never glamorize something
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if i think right now right now about having children
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and a husband that's a huge responsibility huge i i rather
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right now in this position of my life have my business make my own money and be independent
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and whoever comes into my life they can add to it but i'm not thinking like let me right now
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start a family because i know that will take
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so much of my time and energy into the family you know
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if i want to raise it in a way
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that i would want which is with full attention and everything
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so it all depends on like do you really want that
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or do you want to create a perfect picture for society
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because we have to really go back to the beliefs
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that we have because why do we have that
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because it's also it's not only women it's the same with men right
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if you don't get married as a man oh you're not
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a man you're not you have to you're not a father
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oh my god you're already late 30s you're not a father
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it's like why push things upon people some people don't want
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that that's okay some people do then yeah you find a
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way you date around you see does this match with me
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but don't do it because you feel like you're losing time
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because i feel like everything in life comes at the right time at divine timing
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when it's when it's meant for you when something is not meant for you, it will not happen no matter what you do.
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When something is meant for you, no one can take that from you ever.
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It will come in like in the most miraculous ways it will come.
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So just let it go.
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Women need to start letting stuff go.
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That is the biggest thing.
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Tell me how Liz.
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No, that is the biggest thing.
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Look, right before, this was actually a month ago, like one and a half months ago, I was so obsessed with the outcome.
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I became very masculine because I didn't have anyone supporting me.
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So I felt like I was completely alone, okay?
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So I was like, oh my God, I need to have this.
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I need to have this.
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I need to figure something out.
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And I was going crazy.
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So I was focused so much on my career and I was literally losing it, okay?
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And then I went back home because mentally I was not doing well.
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So I went back home to my mom and I went home.
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And then the second day I arrived, I went to walk in nature.
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And I always tell people, go walk in nature because nature is healing, right?
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The trees, the plants, all these things, these are living beings.
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I even tell people like, put your back or your hands against a tree.
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It will remove any energy that's not serving you because that's how we work with each other.
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But people don't know these things or they don't want to try these things.
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So they don't get like really further in life.
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Anyway, so I went and I walked in nature and I started talking to God.
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And I always used to do this thing a lot, like especially in the beginning of my career, like talking to God and having conversations like he's my best friend.
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Oh my God, I see the same thing, you know, we're going to talk about it.
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Yeah, keep going.
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Sorry.
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So then I was like, I was walking in nature and I started talking to him and I said, God, like, I can't take this anymore.
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Like, not like this.
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I'm like, I want to do what I have to do on this earth and complete my mission, but not like this, not on my own.
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And I feel very bad.
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And I said, like, I don't want to live anymore.
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And that was really my mental state.
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Like, I don't want to be here anymore, but I'm not going to do it myself.
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So you do it.
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Okay.
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You please take my life.
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So I was like, I said that and then all of a sudden while I was walking, I heard like, wanting nothing gives you everything.
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I heard that sentence in my head.
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And then I kept walking and I started repeating it out loud.
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I was like, wanting nothing gives you everything.
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And then I understood, wanting nothing gives you everything.
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I was too focused on, I need to have this.
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I need to have fun.
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I need to have work.
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I need to have this.
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I need to be bigger and bigger and I was too focused on them.
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So what I realized was if I just let go of, I don't want anything anymore.
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Like you handle it here, give it to God, you handle it.
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You know, when I did that, everything I've ever wanted came and it came so fast.
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Like these past one and a half months, my life has changed 360.
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I've probably never been happier than I am right now.
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Yeah, which is crazy.
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But it was the minute I just let it go.
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I was like, I don't care anymore.
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And you know, this is, you can see it, for example, and you know why this is also the thing?
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When you let something go, you take your power back.
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You take your energy from that thing back.
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Now, when you are too focused on things, for example, let's say you're obsessing over an ex, okay?
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The minute you stop wanting that ex, all of a sudden he texts you.
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All of a sudden he calls you.
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He's now obsessed with you.
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He comes back, yeah.
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Why?
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You took your energy back.
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The minute you take back your energy from all these things and you are now whole by yourself, those things become attracted to you
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and they want to be with you instead of you wanting to be with them because nothing likes desperation.
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Desperation is a repulsive energy.
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When you are desperate, you have a lack mindset.
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You don't believe that this earth is abundant and this earth is very abundant.
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God gave us everything.
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This is another thing that people always tell me like, oh, how dare you?
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You're asking for too much.
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Oh, why do you want these things?
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But there's billionaires on this earth like multiple multiple billionaires yeah
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why can i not have even 10 of what they have
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what does it matter money is is a is an abundant
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source as well you know money gives you freedom that's the only reason why i ever wanted money for freedom
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because i can go where i want i can do what i want i can help people in a way
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that i want right so if
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that is on earth why can i not have it
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if god made this earth so abundant anything that is on this earth i can have and i will get
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whenever I think to myself, okay, I want that, but I just want it and I don't focus on it like in a desperate way.
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But I know I have a goal in the back of my mind, but I'm not desperate for it.
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Right?
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That's when it comes.
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Oh, wow.
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Okay, I love that.
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Vocabulaire et conseils d’expression pour cette leçon
Cette leçon d’expression orale de niveau B2 s’appuie sur la vidéo « How to Detach from People and Situations ». Cette vidéo contient 250 phrases et 2831 mots à répéter en shadowing. La partie parlée dure 13:56. Le locuteur parle vite, environ 203 mots par minute : attendez-vous à des liaisons et à des sons réduits. 88 % des mots font partie des 3 000 mots les plus courants en anglais, le vocabulaire est donc facile à suivre.
Vocabulaire clé de cette vidéo
Les 15 mots les plus avancés de la vidéo, avec leur prononciation et leur sens :
| Mot | Prononciation | Sens |
|---|---|---|
| abundant adjectif | /əˈbʌn.dənt/ | abondant |
| cheat verbe | /ˈt͡ʃiːt/ | tricher |
| obsess verbe | /əbˈsɛs/ | être obsédé |
| masculine adjectif | /ˈmæskjələn/ | masculin |
| glamorize verbe | glamouriser | |
| masculinity nom | /ˌmæskjəˈlɪnɪti/ | masculinité |
| desperation nom | /ˌdɛspəˈɹeɪʃən/ | désespoir |
| billionaire nom | /ˌbɪl.jəˈnɛɚ/ | milliardaire |
| podcast nom | /ˈpɑdˌkæst/ | podcast, balado |
| classify verbe | /ˈklæs.əˌfaɪ/ | classifier |
| intimidate verbe | /ɪnˈtɪmɪdeɪt/ | intimider |
| miraculous adjectif | /mɪˈɹæk.jʊ.ləs/ | miraculeux |
| pedestal nom | /ˈpɛdɪstəl/ | piédestal |
| repulsive adjectif | /ɹɪˈpʌlsɪv/ | répugnant, repoussant |
| tampon nom | [ˈtʰæmpɑn] | tampon |
Les verbes à particule que vous entendrez
| Mot | Sens |
|---|---|
| come up verbe | se montrer, sortir du bois |
| go back verbe | rentrer, retourner |
| come back verbe | revenir |
| figure out verbe | cerner |
| take back verbe | retirer |
Des phrases à répéter
Des phrases courtes et complètes de la vidéo, à réutiliser dans la conversation de tous les jours :
- What do I care how much money you made?
- And now I'm thinking, did I go wrong?
- Should I have focused on finding a husband?
- Should I have focused on having kids younger?
- What would you say to these people?
La grammaire de cette vidéo
Les structures que le locuteur utilise le plus, avec les mots exacts de la vidéo :
| Structure | Dans la vidéo |
|---|---|
| Present perfect have/has + participe passé — une action passée qui compte encore maintenant | have seen · have always gotten · has never been |
| Propositions relatives who / which + proposition — une précision sur une personne ou une chose | women who said · want which is · Yeah, which is |
| Voix passive be + participe passé — l’accent est mis sur ce qui arrive, pas sur qui le fait | is not meant · is meant |
Prononciation à surveiller
Le locuteur utilise 79 contractions et formes réduites, comme don't, you're, I'm. Prononcez-les sous leur forme courte, telles que vous les entendez.
- Les sons « sh » et « zh »: desperation /ˌdɛspəˈɹeɪʃən/, massage /məˈsɑ(d)ʒ/, emotion /ɪˈməʊ.ʃən/
- Mots longs — placez bien l’accent: masculinity /ˌmæskjəˈlɪnɪti/, desperation /ˌdɛspəˈɹeɪʃən/, intimidate /ɪnˈtɪmɪdeɪt/, miraculous /mɪˈɹæk.jʊ.ləs/
Les sons difficiles pour les francophones :
- /h/ — il se souffle, il n’est pas muet: housemaker /ˈhaʊs.meɪ.kə/, behave /bɪˈheɪv/, heal /ˈhiːl/
- /tʃ/ et /dʒ/ — à ne pas adoucir en « ch » et « j »: cheat /ˈt͡ʃiːt/, generous /ˈd͡ʒɛn(ə)ɹəs/
- /r/ anglais — langue recourbée, sans frotter la gorge: desperation /ˌdɛspəˈɹeɪʃən/, miraculous /mɪˈɹæk.jʊ.ləs/, repulsive /ɹɪˈpʌlsɪv/, rampant /ˈɹæm.pənt/, reel /ˈɹiːl/
Comment s’entraîner avec cette vidéo
- Écoutez la vidéo en entier une fois sans parler et notez les mots que vous ne connaissez pas.
- Commencez à la vitesse 0,75×, répétez phrase par phrase, puis revenez à la vitesse normale quand cela devient facile.
- Enregistrez-vous et comparez avec l’original, en faisant attention à des mots comme abundant, cheat, obsess.
Qu'est-ce que la technique du Shadowing ?
Le Shadowing est une technique d'apprentissage des langues fondée sur la science, développée à l'origine pour la formation des interprètes professionnels. Le principe est simple mais puissant : vous écoutez de l'anglais natif et le répétez immédiatement à voix haute — comme une ombre suivant le locuteur avec un décalage de 1 à 2 secondes. Les recherches montrent une amélioration significative de la précision de la prononciation, de l'intonation, du rythme, des liaisons, de la compréhension orale et de la fluidité.