Shadowing Practice: Things I refuse to upgrade even though I can afford to! - Learn English Speaking with Video
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I think we're conditioned to believe that as we make more money, our lifestyle should upgrade with it too.
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So we splurge a bit more on our trips, the clothes, the weekends, and before we know it,
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we need to keep making more just to maintain the life that we've upgraded into.
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I grew up in a household where the art was in the savings.
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The art is in the spending too, but that's for another video.
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Getting a good deal was almost more exciting than buying the thing itself.
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We didn't replace something just because we could afford to, but we replaced it when the old one had finally given up on us.
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And I think that mindset has protected me from lifestyle inflation.
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Even when I started making more money, I never felt like everything else in my life had to become more expensive too.
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I'm not saying that I never upgrade anything, but for me an upgrade has to genuinely make my life better.
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Not just give me something newer.
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Today I wanted to share with you the things
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that I refuse to upgrade even though I could probably afford to
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and maybe I can convince you that upgrades are not always necessary.
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I have a Samsung phone and I've had this for about five years now.
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There's actually a little bit of a scratch on the front camera and it makes the photos a little bit blurry.
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But the reason why I don't upgrade my phone is because I can't believe how expensive phones are nowadays.
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And I know this thing is like not just a phone and it's an all-in-one device, but I still cannot justify paying for that price.
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Honestly, I think I would be very anxious about dropping it or losing it somewhere because it is so expensive.
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With technology, I'm always going to stick with one rule that has probably saved me so much money.
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If it still does what it needs to do, I'm going to keep it.
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Or at least try to remedy it with parts instead of
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buying the whole new thing like buying a monitor from my ancient laptop
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and fingers crossed that they last as long as they can.
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I recently went on Reformation.
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It is a clothing website that I used to shop from all the time.
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And I guess I haven't been on there in a very long time because I was genuinely shocked at the prices.
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I think it was like $300 for a dress or $100 for a t-shirt and it wasn't even made with good materials.
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When I was in my 20s, I actually cared about the brand and the lifestyle that the brand was trying to sell us.
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But now, I really would not pay extra for that.
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I just care about the actual item.
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If we're in the position to upgrade the pieces that we buy, I think it's definitely worth upgrading in pieces, better materials, and craftsmanship.
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But not just because it is more expensive designer or brand.
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Some of the best quality pieces in my closet are secondhand for a fraction of the cost.
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And the true upgrade has been how I feel in my quality pieces.
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We bought this house about a year and a half ago already.
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And we bought it with the furniture from the previous owners.
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Now, is it completely my style?
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Probably not.
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But we were just grateful that they were giving us an amazing deal.
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And it really helped us to get started with our life here in Portugal.
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And I don't know about you guys, but I feel like my style is constantly changing.
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So I can't really imagine spending a fortune on like furniture
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and decorations and stuff and keep changing it as my style evolves.
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I actually think that the best splurges are the small things like bed sheets and pillows and towels,
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things you can touch and use every single day because you're buying them for your own experience.
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I thought that I would get fussier the older I got about the logistics of traveling.
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Like how I got there, where I stay, and so on.
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But I feel like it's the opposite and I feel like I've gotten more chill.
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We've done so many road trips with our dogs and there's been plenty of nights where we just sleep in the car.
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And actually one of my favorite things to do when I'm traveling is just to go explore the city and walk around, pop into a local market.
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And that really does not cost that much.
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I realized that if I can cut back on the logistics of traveling, like baggage fees and seat upgrades, resort fees and hotel breakfast,
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I can travel more often and focus on the actual experience of discovering your places.
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I think the biggest illusion of our modern world is that if we pay for convenience, then we're going to have more time to do whatever we want to do.
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And of course there are seasons when paying for convenience is absolutely worth it.
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And it actually comes to mind my friend who pays for a gym membership where they offer babysitting.
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And I can imagine how much that would be worth it because it just gives her a little bit of a breather.
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But for me, as I earn more income, I don't want to pay for convenience just because it's the default,
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like getting Uber Eats instead of cooking and paying for an app or service just because I don't want to do it.
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Not only does this really add up at the end of the month, but I feel like we have to keep working now to really kind of keep up this lifestyle.
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And then it just becomes like the chicken or the egg situation.
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In the bigger picture, I feel like we're forgetting that washing dishes
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or doing the laundry and cooking and all the chores that we're trying to skip is life.
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And it makes me wonder if we're outsourcing more and more of our lives to somebody else, then what are we doing with our free time?
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When I first got this camera, I had about 50 tabs open researching about all the different attachments
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and apps and all the accessories that I needed for this camera.
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Ironically, all this researching was just getting in the way of me going out there and making videos.
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And it always starts innocently.
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We decide on a new hobby and buy whatever is necessary.
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But then we're introduced to an entire world of equipment that would make it a bit better.
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And once we get better, there's always the pro version that we can upgrade into.
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I think it's really cool to set goals to justify the upgrade.
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Like when I reach a certain milestone, I got this new camera and I absolutely love it.
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But I feel like we shouldn't miss the whole point of having hobbies, which is to have fun and to be expressive not another thing that we have to purchase.
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Something that I truly do not care about is upgrading my career or status within my career.
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It's a really interesting thing being a YouTuber because everything is measured.
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I feel like there's always a number telling you whether you're doing good or whether you're falling behind.
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In the beginning, I had a video go viral and it reached a million views.
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And I remember feeling so excited.
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I was so grateful.
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But from that moment on, my expectation was so high that if another video didn't do as well,
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I feel like I was so disappointed and I was so hard on myself.
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And I eventually learned that you cannot get so wrapped up in these numbers.
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Whether it's good or bad, it really does not determine what kind of creator I am or how good the video is.
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And it could be just by chance.
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And to wrap your whole identity around that is such a losing game.
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I also know that every growth asks for something in return.
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Whether it cuts into family time, more time at the computer, or mental health.
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And it's worth asking, is the trade-off really worth it.
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I love what I do, but I love my life more and I don't want to give
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so much to my work that I have less time to enjoy the life it was supposed to help me build.
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I grew up in a household where we really didn't celebrate anything like holidays and birthdays.
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When I got married, I put that pressure on myself.
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I was like, we are going to celebrate big no matter what it is.
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But then of course I felt like I had to outdo myself
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and every single year there was this pressure to go even bigger and do something better, make it memorable.
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I remember just feeling so stressed out weeks in advance and I couldn't even enjoy the moment.
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It took me a while to realize that going big isn't always better.
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It really does not matter the place, the food, or how much money you put into it,
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what really matters is who you're celebrating with.
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I have no interest in upgrading myself.
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And that does not mean that I don't want to grow as a person.
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Of course I do.
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But what I mean is that I don't want to live my every day thinking that I'm not good enough.
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In my 20s, I feel like I was constantly trying to improve myself.
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I wanted to fix my acne and I wanted to be more toned, I wanted to be more disciplined and have a better routine.
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And really the list went on and on and on.
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But in my 30s, I have this inner peace knowing
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that things are always happening the way that is supposed to happen for me.
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And you know, as weird as it sounds, I know I'm not perfect and I'm really happy because it means
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that better things are coming and there are more lessons to learn.
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And I'm really happy to be just on that journey.
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I'm not saying that we should never upgrade our lives, but we should definitely be careful on what we choose to upgrade because money, yes, of course it gives us freedom,
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but we still get to choose what we do with that freedom.
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So I would love to know in the comments what you think is worth upgrading in your life
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and what you would keep the same.
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה B2 מבוסס על הסרטון “Things I refuse to upgrade even though I can afford to!”. בסרטון הזה יש 117 משפטים ו-1774 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 10:24. הדובר מדבר בקצב טבעי של כ-171 מילים בדקה, קרוב לשיחה יומיומית. 84% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית; כדאי ללמוד את השאר לפני שמתחילים.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
15 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| convenience שם עצם | /kənˈvinjəns/ | נוחות |
| logistics שם עצם | /ləˈd͡ʒɪstɪks/ | לוֹגִיסטִיקָה |
| hobby שם עצם | /ˈhɑ.bi/ | תַּחְבִּיב |
| wrap פועל | /ɹæp/ | כרך, עטף |
| babysit פועל | /ˈbeɪ.bi.sɪt/ | שמרטף |
| blurry שם תואר | /ˈblɜːɹi/ | מטושטש |
| excite פועל | /ɪkˈsaɪt/ | הלהיב, עורר |
| outsourcing שם עצם | /ˈaʊtˌsɔː(ɹ).sɪŋ/ | מיקור חוץ |
| accessory שם עצם | /əkˈsɛs.(ə.)ɹi/ | אקססורי, אַבְזָר |
| milestone שם עצם | /ˈmaɪlˌstoʊn/ | אבן מיל, אבן דרך |
| remedy שם עצם | /ˈɹɛmədi/ | מָזוֹר |
| towel שם עצם | /ˈtaʊ̯əl/ | מַגֶּבֶת |
| illusion שם עצם | /ɪˈl(j)uːʒ(ə)n/ | אַשְׁלָיָה |
| tab שם עצם | /tæb/ | לשונית |
| pillow שם עצם | /ˈpɪl.oʊ/ [ˈpʰɪɫ.ö̞] | כָּרִית |
Phrasal verbs שתשמעו
| מילה | משמעות |
|---|---|
| go out פועל | יָצָא |
דקדוק בסרטון הזה
המבנים שהדובר משתמש בהם הכי הרבה, עם המילים המדויקות מהסרטון:
| מבנה | בסרטון |
|---|---|
| הווה מושלם (Present perfect) have/has + past participle — פעולה שקרתה בעבר ועדיין יש לה חשיבות או השפעה עכשיו | we've upgraded · has protected · I've had |
| סביל (Passive voice) be + past participle — הדגש הוא על מה שקורה, לא על מי שעושה את הפעולה | wasn't even made · is measured |
| משפטי זיקה (Relative clauses) who / which + clause — מידע נוסף על אדם או דבר | friend who pays · hobbies, which is |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
הדובר משתמש ב-41 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו I'm, don't, we're. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: craftsmanship /ˈkɹæfts.mən.ʃɪp/, decoration /ˌdɛkəˈɹeɪʃən/, illusion /ɪˈl(j)uːʒ(ə)n/, fraction /ˈfɹæk.ʃən/, expectation /ˌɛk.spɛkˈteɪ.ʃən/
- מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: genuinely /ˈd͡ʒɛn.ju.ɪn.li/, innocently /ˈɪnəsəntli/, accessory /əkˈsɛs.(ə.)ɹi/, ironically /aɪˈɹɑnɪkli/, decoration /ˌdɛkəˈɹeɪʃən/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: wrap /ɹæp/, craftsmanship /ˈkɹæfts.mən.ʃɪp/, secondhand /ˌsɛk(ə)n(d)ˈhænd/, acne /ˈækni/, attachment /əˈtæt͡ʃmənt/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: wrap /ɹæp/, blurry /ˈblɜːɹi/, breather /ˈbɹiː.ðə(ɹ)/, craftsmanship /ˈkɹæfts.mən.ʃɪp/, expressive /ɪkˈspɹɛsɪv/
- עיצור קולי בסוף מילה — /b/, /d/, /g/, /z/, /v/ בלי להפוך אותם לאטומים: splurge /splɝd͡ʒ/, expressive /ɪkˈspɹɛsɪv/, secondhand /ˌsɛk(ə)n(d)ˈhænd/, evolve /ɪˈvɑlv/, tab /tæb/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- התחילו במהירות 0.75×, תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט, וחזרו למהירות רגילה כשזה מרגיש קל.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו convenience, logistics, hobby.
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