Shadowing Practice: Ways To Flirt Subtly - Learn English Speaking with Video
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Let's go to the chase.
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Does flirting actually work?
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Psychologists would say very much so.
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In fact, according to an article by self-help blogger and psychology writer,
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Eric Barker, research has proven that flirting and signaling your availability to someone is a better predictor of romantic interest than attractiveness.
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Generally characterized by specific gestures,
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body language, and direct or indirect social cues,
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sex educator and relationship coach,
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Kelly Gonzalez,
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defines flirting as any method you use to signal to someone
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that you find them interesting and want to engage with them further.
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Usually a fun and lighthearted activity between two people who find each other attractive
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and flirting should feel good for both parties involved and spark feelings of curiosity and excitement.
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With that said, if you want to let someone know you're interested in them
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but your fear of rejection is stopping you from saying it outright, don't worry.
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Here are seven subtle and psychology-backed ways to flirt.
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Number one, flirtatious facial expressions.
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Because it's often more socially acceptable for men to make the first move,
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women tend to flirt mainly through facial expressions and other nonverbal cues.
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Psychologist Jeremy Nicholson states that some of the most common examples of these include turning your head to one side,
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tilting your chin down slightly,
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tossing your hair over your shoulder,
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and biting your lip while smiling.
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As for men, number two, smile slowly.
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While it's not unheard of for men to follow a few of the same flirty facial expressions as women,
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according to psychologist and professor at California State University,
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Dr. Pamela Regan, smiling is the single most effective and most universal method to convey romantic interest.
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To be more specific, when a man smiles slowly at a woman,
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it's less likely to be mistaken as just a casual smile of friendliness.
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Number three, brief glances.
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Similar to the last point,
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glancing briefly at someone only to look away is another subtle but well-known flirting technique,
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often done by both genders.
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In Dr. Pamela Reagan's book,
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Close Relationships, she writes that doing so indicates preferential attention and is a clear sign of positive romantic intentions.
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So if you wanna flirt with someone but fear rejection,
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just steal a few glances at them from time to time until they notice.
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Number four, feather light touch.
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Still, self-help expert Eric Barker insists that the flirting technique that works better than anything else is a simple touch.
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But don't worry, you don't have to invade someone's personal space and worry about making them uncomfortable with your touch,
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just to let them know you're interested.
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There are some ways of flirting through subtle touch,
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such as a light brush against their shoulder or forearm,
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a lingering hand on their waist,
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or casually touching their hair.
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Number five, mind your appearance.
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Another great but subtle way of flirting with someone is to be more mindful of your appearance when you're around them.
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And no, that doesn't mean always checking the mirror
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while they're talking to you because that may make you seem vain and uninterested,
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but simply making a bit of extra effort to look nice for them than yourself.
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Think a fine hairstyle or some nice new clothes.
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Psychologist Jeremy Nicholson categorizes this as a physical way of flirting,
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along with practicing attractive body language and using touch to build attraction,
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like what we talked about earlier.
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Number six, tickle their funny bone.
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Speaking of the different flirting styles,
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another one is the playful flirting style,
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wherein the goal is more about having fun than trying to start a relationship.
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In an article from Psychology Today,
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Dr. Nicholson stated that playful flirts know how to keep people interested by showing off their fun-spirited personality
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and great sense of humor.
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So if all else fails,
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you can always try your luck tickling the other person's funny bone,
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always trying to make them laugh and finding ways to have fun with them,
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to let them know your true feelings.
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Number seven, be more yourself.
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Finally, but perhaps most importantly,
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as cliche as it sounds,
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being your authentic self with someone you like is a great way to flirt with them.
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Why?
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Well, according to dating coach Clara Artswager,
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thinking, okay, how do I flirt better?
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I think this is the very thing that kills our ability to have that kind of interaction.
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Instead, she suggests that we approach flirting by being more ourselves
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and feeling more at ease with ourselves around the person we like.
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And with this, we'll come to a winning sense of confidence
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that can draw people in and make them more interested in you.
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In summary, successful flirting starts with a friendly and inviting approach,
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engaging conversations, social interactions, and a mutual physical and emotional attraction towards one another.
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Still, psychologists and relationship experts such as Archwager,
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do maintain that because flirting is so personal,
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there is no single foolproof way that will work for everybody on everybody.
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So aside from following these empirically based tips,
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it's also important that you work on being more at ease with yourself and around the person you like.
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Have fun when you flirt,
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try to make some sparks fly and see where it goes from there.
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Be sure to let us know some of your own personal ways to subtly flirt in the comments down below.
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אוצר מילים והערות הגייה לשיעור הזה
שיעור הדיבור הזה ברמה B2 מבוסס על הסרטון “Ways To Flirt Subtly”. המילים שחוזרות הכי הרבה: flirting, flirt, psychologist, touch, subtle. בסרטון הזה יש 87 משפטים ו-897 מילים לתרגול Shadowing. הדיבור נמשך 5:15. הדובר מדבר בקצב טבעי של כ-171 מילים בדקה, קרוב לשיחה יומיומית. רק 79% מהמילים נמצאות בין 3,000 המילים הנפוצות ביותר באנגלית, כך שאוצר המילים מאתגר.
אוצר מילים מרכזי בסרטון הזה
15 המילים המתקדמות ביותר בסרטון, עם ההגייה והמשמעות שלהן:
| מילה | הגייה | משמעות |
|---|---|---|
| psychologist שם עצם | /ˌsaɪˈkɑl.ə.d͡ʒɪst/ | פְּסִיכוֹלוֹג, פסיכולוגית |
| tickle פועל | /ˈtɪkl̩/ | דיגדג \ דִּגְדֵּג |
| playful שם תואר | /ˈpleɪfl̩/ | אוהב משחקים, משתעשע |
| cue שם עצם | /kju/ | אות, סִימָן |
| spark שם עצם | /ˈspɑɹk/ | נִיצוֹץ, גֵּץ |
| attraction שם עצם | /əˈtɹækʃn̩/ | מְשִׁיכָה, אטרקציה |
| categorize פועל | /ˈkætɪɡəˌɹaɪz/ | קטלג, סִוֵּג |
| cliché שם עצם | /kliˈʃeɪ/ | קְלִישָׁאָה |
| flirtatious שם תואר | /flɚˈteɪʃəs/ | עַגְבָנִי |
| forearm שם עצם | /ˈfɔːˌɹɑːm/ | אַמָּה |
| hairstyle שם עצם | תסרוקת \ תִּסְרֹקֶת | |
| linger פועל | /ˈlɪŋɡɚ/ | הִתְמַהְמֵהַּ, הִתְעַכֵּב |
| invade פועל | /ɪnˈveɪd/ | פָּלַשׁ |
| feather שם עצם | /ˈfɛðə/ | נוצה, נוֹצָה |
| vain שם תואר | /veɪn/ | גאוותן |
הגייה ששווה לשים לב אליה
הדובר משתמש ב-10 קיצורים וצורות מקוצרות, כמו don't, you're, doesn't. אמרו אותם בצורה הקצרה, כפי שאתם שומעים אותם.
- הצלילים של “th”: feather /ˈfɛðə/, cloth /klɒθ/, authentic /ɔˈθɛn.tɪk/
- הצלילים של “sh” ו-“zh”: facial /ˈfeɪ.ʃəl/, rejection /ɹɪˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, cliché /kliˈʃeɪ/, flirtatious /flɚˈteɪʃəs/
- מילים ארוכות — שימו לב להטעמה: psychologist /ˌsaɪˈkɑl.ə.d͡ʒɪst/, categorize /ˈkætɪɡəˌɹaɪz/, characterize /ˈkɛɹəktəɹaɪz/, preferential /ˈpɹɛf.ɜː(ɹ)ˌɛn.ʃəl/, educator /ˈɛd͡ʒəkeɪtɚ/
צלילים שדוברי עברית מתקשים בהם:
- /w/ — שפתיים מעוגלות, לא /v/: wherein /wɛˈɹɪn/, waist /weɪst/
- /æ/ — פתוח יותר מה-“אֶ” העברית, לא כמו “a” ב-“cup”: glance /ɡlæns/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, categorize /ˈkætɪɡəˌɹaɪz/, casually /ˈkæʒuəli/
- /r/ — הלשון לא נוגעת בשום מקום, לא ה-“ר” הגרונית: rejection /ɹɪˈd͡ʒɛkʃən/, spark /ˈspɑɹk/, attraction /əˈtɹækʃn̩/, categorize /ˈkætɪɡəˌɹaɪz/, characterize /ˈkɛɹəktəɹaɪz/
איך לתרגל עם הסרטון הזה
- הקשיבו לכל הסרטון פעם אחת בלי לדבר, ורשמו את המילים שאתם לא מכירים.
- התחילו במהירות 0.75×, תרגלו Shadowing משפט אחר משפט, וחזרו למהירות רגילה כשזה מרגיש קל.
- הקליטו את עצמכם והשוו למקור, תוך תשומת לב למילים כמו psychologist, tickle, playful.
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