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Hello.
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I am so excited for today's topic because it's been brewing in my mind for
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probably two months and I have a few videos
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that I've been brewing in my mind for about two months
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but I've been like waiting to get to the point where
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I feel like I have a conclusion on these topics
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and despite not having like a conclusion conclusion I know how to communicate the idea
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and the thing that I want to talk about is being yourself.
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It is such a broad concept and growing up people are just like a lot of people,
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celebrities are like what would you tell somebody who wants to
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pursue their dreams or wants to be where you are right now
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or what would you tell people who are struggling
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and a lot of the time people say be yourself right
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and I've always heard that I'm like okay like heard a million times before whatever
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but this year I finally started taking
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that personally like I started making it a personal mission to be myself
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and that has never been a mission before
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because I always was trying to be a version of myself that pleased whoever I'm with.
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So I would change myself at least slightly to be like tolerable to whatever person I'm with,
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whether that be friends or relationship or acquaintances or whatever I'm just trying to come off as
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not too much um tolerable and pleasant okay
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so these things were my priority not who does name
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I want to be in this moment what do I feel like doing right
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now it was always about other people and I recently decentered that and
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that came obviously after doing a lot of self -discovery the reason I'm making this video right now is
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because I just watched a Miley Cyrus oh you're kidding there's I really hope that's not here.
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The leaf blower.
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I'm just going to talk loud because this is important.
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I just watched a Miley Cyrus documentary about her bangers controversial era.
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I recently had the privilege of going to the Hannah Montana premiere.
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Okay.
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She was right in front of my face.
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She was directly in front of me and I have loved that woman since I was a wee kid.
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Okay.
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I used to wear her wigs and sing her songs
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and dance like crazy and tell people in elementary school
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that she was my cousin like I adore Hannah Montana
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and I recently saw her in the flesh
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and I saw something in her
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that I haven't seen probably since I was a kid like something
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that I admired about her a lot
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and it was her her shamelessness like she is
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so proud to be who she is
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and she said nobody taught her to be like
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that this is who just who she is and
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but who she is is herself right
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she doesn't let other people dictate how she acts what she says what she looks like what anything
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she has never let anyone dictate anything she has always prioritized fun
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and being herself and expressing herself and that is what has made her life
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so vibrant and in the premiere she talks about how lucky she is to be in the position
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that she's in and how grateful she is
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that she even has this spot and it's because she's lived
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so much of her life authentically like no matter how controversial something may have been she was proud of it
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and she owned it because it was what she felt like doing in the moment okay
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and that's something that inspired me a lot as a kid but obviously
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that sparkle dulled as I started caring about what people perceived
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about me obviously as we all do I feel like at a certain age we become conscious
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and we're like oh wait I shouldn't be myself
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because it causes this problem or I shouldn't be like this
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because it's weird and they will judge me or I shouldn't say
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that or I shouldn't talk about this we just learn how to mute ourselves until we are adults
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that literally can't even find what we like and who we are.
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So self -discovery is like very hard sometimes
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and like even like knowing who you are is very difficult
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but like I said I've recently made it my mission
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and I've discussed this before it's after seeing so many women be authentically themselves and be adored for it okay.
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So for example, Alyssa Liu,
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she just recently won the gold medal for figure skating in the Olympics.
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And she retired from skating before this to find out what she liked, to find out what her interests are,
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because her whole life was this thing that was controlled and dictated by other people.
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Like, her skating career beforehand was like she was told what
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to eat what to wear what music to dance to how how often to practice whatever
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so she retired she left figure skating behind
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and decided to pursue her interests and find out what she likes
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and who she is and whatever
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and then she ended up coming back to the sport fully owning every aspect of it
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and coming out on top but
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while having fun doing it like it happened with fun and
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if you haven't seen her performance please look it up I have watched it several times just
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because it's so beautiful to see her in her joy
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and fully do something that she loves
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and not for the sake of I hope everyone likes this or for even like the sake of the sport.
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She was just having fun putting on a performance for everyone to see.
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She was just having fun.
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Same thing with Miley Cyrus.
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Another thing, Amaya from Love Island.
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If these are concepts or things that you've never heard of, I'm sorry, but Amaya from Love Island,
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she was a very bubbly personality and was on the island considered too much,
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but to the rest of America that was watching, everyone adored her.
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She ended up becoming America's favorite because of how authentic she was.
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And that is such a beautiful thing to possess.
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I fortunately am around a lot of people who are very unapologetically themselves.
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It takes a lot of bravery and authenticity to make it in an industry like this,
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but also to maintain maintain your position in an industry like this, like social media.
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And anybody who has ever blown up,
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okay, become a celebrity, or has ever been successful,
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has been unapologetically themselves in one way
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or another lady gaga beyonce like people they find out what they like
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and go full force and do it
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and it doesn't have to be entertainment obviously the point is
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that finding out who you are and doing what you like is the purpose
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that is what the point is is to be yourself more
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and more every day
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because then you live the most incredible life the most incredible like fulfilling successful life
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because you are being yourself and when you are yourself everything
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that aligns with who you are comes to you and
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so everything fits perfectly like it's a puzzle okay so how does one be themselves how does one
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how did I go about this mission of how can I be myself it was through trial
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and error and being willing to be afraid
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or embarrassed at the expense of being myself because not being myself hurts me more than being myself.
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If I'm myself and it hurts, at least I was myself.
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So I was at least a little bit more comfortable, you know, but if it hurts and I wasn't myself, it is like double bad.
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So I started practicing little by little, like if I don't, I always want to be polite, right?
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If I don't feel like smiling, I'm not smiling.
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Okay. If, if my body's telling me I need to sit down away from everyone
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i'm gonna go sit down away from everyone
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and i just cross my fingers and hopes that and hope
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that nobody takes it the wrong way and I keep testing it
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and testing it and testing it and testing it
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and um oh my god I hope that that's not too loud I'm
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so sorry um I keep testing it
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and seeing how much I can get away with and every time I am met with no danger
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I am met with no danger like it it always has not mattered
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that I end up doing the thing that was true to me
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and that comes with setting boundaries um having conversations with people
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that I otherwise would not have because I was too afraid of like losing them or whatever
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every time that I was myself every time I had an authentic conversation or communicated how I felt it made everything stronger.
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It has made everything stronger rather than letting everything live in my mind
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and having so much tension and like regret and embarrassment and insecurity and being myself.
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I started to be myself in my actions more bravely over
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and over and over and over again until I kind of became used to it
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and I am so me like I am I get
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so hyper I get so excited I get so happy um
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and I get loud and I make a lot I'm a very expressive person
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and I'm a very active listener and there are certain things I do
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that like other people don't do that I used to be embarrassed about
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but now I'm like very glad that they are my qualities
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because that's what makes me me okay like I'm gonna be
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me for the rest of my life what makes me me and obviously
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because I'm me the more I'm me honestly the more
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I like myself I think I didn't like myself the most
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when I didn't let myself be who I am Whenever I was clouded by what people said about me
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or what people would say to me or what people would do to me
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or my environment or toxicity or whatever it is, I would not allow myself to be who I am.
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And that caused a lot of negative thinking.
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It caused a lot of self -destruction and it caused a lot of insecurity and depression.
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And it was not a life I like to live.
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Okay.
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It was not, it was not pleasant for a very long time.
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And recently I went sober like over a year ago and I have come, I had to become comfortable in my own skin.
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I had to be comfortable being in social situations with no buffer.
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Okay.
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Going to parties, seeing hundreds of people with no buffer dancing all night with no embarrassment
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and just putting myself out there more often and more often more often
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and practice really does make perfect and the little things
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that I would do no matter how small the thing is okay
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it literally could be like I just feel like having like a resting face right
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now instead of smiling really hard because I want the other person not to think
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that I am mad at them or something like there's
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so many ridiculous things that I find myself doing
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because I want to make sure the other person is comfortable
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but more often than not they are very understanding like human beings are very understanding
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and also when a human being sees you be yourself they feel more comfortable being themselves
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and the walls feel like they drop the judgment is not there
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and I love I love being that person I love being a vessel for
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that I love that this is a journey that I started
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because I know it is one that inspires because it inspires me
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so much to see people be who they are and be who they are so proudly.
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And I have recently owned the things that I am.
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And it's very weird because I've done a lot of like self -love talk
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and manifestation talk on this channel and like how much I love myself and prioritize my well -being and blah blah blah.
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But there are a lot of things I didn't come to accept until very recently about myself
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and it has be it is literally
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because I made it my mission to be myself I'm not kidding okay so for example I never considered myself
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a pretty person before a few months ago i'm sorry
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if that's loud um or even a nice person and it was
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because i always felt bad saying these things to myself
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because it i feel like there's been like this thing of like it's stuck up for women to think
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that about themselves and it's better for people to be humble
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so i literally would not even entertain those kind of thoughts whenever they would arise
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or even embody that mindset of course i would say oh like of course i believe i'm beautiful
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and i believe i'm a good person but it wasn't something that i really
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acknowledged in my inner world that like i am a nice person
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and it's okay to think that i'm a nice person um i am pretty
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and it's okay to think
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that i am pretty like it doesn't make me vain it is just acknowledging that I love myself, that I like myself and I love myself.
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And so I started allowing myself to tell myself these things.
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Like I gave myself permission finally to like myself.
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And it is so crazy how quickly these little things can add up because it may sound so insane,
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but I used to not be able to like look at myself in the mirror
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and now I look in the mirror and I'm like oh my god I'm
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so gorgeous like oh woke up gorgeous again like it's crazy it sounds
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so crazy um but it is so it feels amazing it feels incredible to acknowledge
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like what I love about who I am and along with
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that obviously I've made it just in being nicer to myself
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I've made a lot of other discoveries about my personality I used to think my personality was really weird
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or off -putting or um I don't know like just just really weird like
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I don't want to be myself too much just
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so I don't make other people uncomfortable that was obviously something learned through trauma
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and stuff but now I am so proud of my mindset
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and my perspective on things and how I speak and like how I show up for people and like I feel like
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embarrassment is now something that I'm not super scared of
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and I would rather be embarrassed than and shrink myself and
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that is not a thing
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that I adopted before like there are there are several moments where now I speak up versus staying quiet
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or like join a conversation whenever I want to join a conversation
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or walk up to people that are already having conversation
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and like these are things
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that I used to avoid just for the sake of like oh I don't want to be embarrassed in case
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like I don't know they don't want to talk to me or what I say isn't acknowledged or whatever
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um
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and I let myself be the center of attention that's something
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I also would not allow myself to do is like I never I didn't have a quinceanera
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because I didn't want to be the center of attention I hated the idea of attention um
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because I was so insecure and I was judged
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so heavily in middle school that I was like in high school
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that I was like oh my god please no party with
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eyes on me please no like that's like my biggest nightmare I don't want that
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So I'm now learning, like, I actually want to be comfortable being perceived.
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That is something that I want to have on my belt as I grow older.
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Like, I want that to be in my toolbox is being comfortable being perceived.
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Because that always leads to a more beautiful life,
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more opportunities, richer friendships and connections and just everything, right?
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I saw recently a video of a woman talking about fame energy and famous people energy.
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And what she said is famous energy is comfort in being perceived.
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It's relentless presence without a fear of being perceived.
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It's being, being present in who you are with no restrictions while be being perceived.
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So that is the it factor for celebrities, right?
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And I'm like, I want to have that.
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I want to have that quality.
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I want to have the ability to, to be perceived and not be scared of it
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and not shrink away so the only way to get better at
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that is to practice
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and guys trust me i did i would fall flat on my face
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sometimes like i would like be like i really like your outfit and the person just looks at me like
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And I'm like, oh, okay.
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But it's better that I spoke up rather than say nothing because not being myself feels worse.
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And what was I going to say about failing, falling on my face?
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Now, when I do fall on my face, when I face a situation and it doesn't go the way
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that I anticipate it to go because I'm being myself and it's like a new thing.
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Like, for example, like walking up to people and then they suddenly disperse just because whatever.
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I go and find my thing.
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I now am learning to navigate situations like going wrong or going awry or situations just going naturally.
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Okay.
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Situations being unpredictable is now okay with me because I am practicing putting myself in there.
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And then when the unpredictable happens, I'm like, okay, now I can figure out what to do.
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And then I figure out what to do and everything ends up being okay.
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Because all I have to do is ask myself, what do I want to do?
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Do I want to go get a glass of water?
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Do I want to go draw in my journal?
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Do I want to go back home?
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I don't know.
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There's like, I'm being very broad with this and I hope that it's like making sense,
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but what I want to do is most important all the time.
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And I was just taking notes on the Miley Cyrus documentary.
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Let me actually, um, read you some of the things that I took notes on because I believe they would be helpful.
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Um, she said, don't be afraid to make anything because it could turn out to be a gem.
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What's important is you loving it.
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Um, continue to do what you want, how you want.
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That's what Pharrell told
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Miley in her process of finding out who she is.
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Her like, her short hair era where it was dyed blonde he said yes to everything she wanted to do
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because he wanted her to really find out what her interests are
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and what her likes are and only
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that way are you really able to find your sound
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and like how you want to navigate things so he gave her permission
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and actually encouraged like do what you want how you want to do it period
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and now you are the boss of your life
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you can tell yourself to do what you want how you want to do it
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and everything else will fall into place um
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she she is like i just want to have fun i don't want to have fun
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and she said
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if you're about to drown you're gonna swim you're gonna learn
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you're gonna start kicking your feet you're gonna learn she said this regarding
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when things go wrong or when negative negativity happens or hate happens or whatever if really just goes to shit.
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She's like, if you're drowning, you're going to swim, you're going to kick your feet, you're going to learn.
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So no matter what, she knows it's going to be okay.
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Even at the worst case scenario, we naturally innately within ourselves will, will get ourselves out of that scenario,
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help ourselves out of that scenario because we have survival instincts.
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So it is very comforting to hear such like a hear a perspective like
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that on negative situations because I feel like we avoid them at all costs
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but we don't really acknowledge how often we've gotten out of like rock bottom
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we've gotten out of rock bottom plenty of times
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and have come out better people and
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so it's okay to go toward the thing that's scary
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because you're gonna learn how to navigate it
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and you might as well do that
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if it's authentic to what you want to do um she said i'm not scared
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or insecure about anything i'm used to people judging me
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and knocking me down so i'm used to getting back up
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and her saying that she's used to it personally hit for me
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because i am also like i have never used it in
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that way i've never i've never thought about negativity in
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that way like people being negative towards me or treating me bad or whatever.
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I've never considered myself used to it or getting used to knocking down, getting knocked down.
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But the truth is like, my life has been so turbulent that I am like,
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I know what falling down looks like and feels like I know what negativity looks like and feels like.
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And I have survived every single punch
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and I have gotten up every single time so her saying
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so I'm used to getting back up is like I like putting it in like
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or being able to relate to that is really good for this particular journey because it's like, it's true.
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We get back up every time.
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Um, I'm just smiling, having fun, living life.
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Like literally her having fun is the most important thing to her.
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And that is also the attitude
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that I've been applying towards
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this entire journey too is like how can I have more
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fun how can I be more me like what am I going to do
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that makes me happy right now even if it makes everyone around me upset
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if it doesn't make them happy if it makes them disappointed
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because truly this is my life
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and everyone will get a better version of me whenever
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I do what I want to do what I love to do
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and how I want to do it because the more I restrict myself
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or bend myself backwards to make other people happy I am not the best version of myself
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and the more that I've been prioritizing myself
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and my energy I am like ecstatic to be around my friends
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and love my friends and call my friends
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and hang out with my friends and show them love
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and support and it's not for no reason it's
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because I am letting myself do that I'm copying what I do with myself with everyone around me,
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you know, like I it is so in my nature to do it that when I'm around others,
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all I want to do is uplift and show them the beauty
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that they possess and how wonderful they are and how wonderful who they are is.
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And that is all I want to encourage.
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It's not all I want to encourage, but it's something I really want to encourage in this lifetime is like,
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I hope I get to meet as many people as I can
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and tell every single one of them how much their existence means like how incredible
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this person is how incredible what this person does is
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and I am very fortunate to to like I I live in a house full of loving adoring incredible people
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that are just as uplifting and encouraging and we list our gratitudes every day
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and we call each other like beautiful names
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and are always hyping each other up
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and telling each other what's wonderful about each other and
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because of that I'm able to spread it even further and wider
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and I'm getting to practice who I really am like who
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I am is I want to I don't want people to hide their flaws
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I want people to know that their flaws are perfect and that you being who you are is perfect.
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You being who you are is perfect because, because I wish I had that.
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Um, but it wasn't even when people tried to tell me that I didn't believe it.
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So it's like something I hope to share energetically.
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It's something that I hope to, I just hope that I can love well enough that that just naturally comes out of my existence,
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that people want to be themselves or people want to love themselves more or people have a better day um
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sorry I'm getting a little emotional um like it really is a dream come true to make
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people happy and that's something that I can also acknowledge without shame
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which like beforehand I feel like it sounds like very cocky
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but truly like it is like it's like my favorite thing like
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Maya Cyrus for example she's like I love making people laugh
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like I always want to be the goofy silly one
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I want to get as many laughs as possible around the room
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so she has just been funny since she was a kid gaggy since she was a kid
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and it's still her goal because she loves to entertain
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and for me it's just that I love spreading joy
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and love I love making people smile I love um elevating someone's mood I love um making people feel better
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or good about themselves
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or just like good about their existence I love giving people different perspectives on how incredible they are
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because I don't know like that's just that's just what makes me really really really happy
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and I almost like challenge myself
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to do it even better every day
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because there truly aren't words to express how wonderful i think everyone around me is
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and i can try my best to express it with my words
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and my actions and like encouragement and whatever
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but it really will never no matter what i do it will never be enough
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because an existence cannot be boiled down to words.
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It cannot be described.
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Like how incredible a person is, how incredible you are, cannot be described.
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It is otherworldly and let alone several people around me.
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Like trying to do it for one person, trying to do it for everyone so I can only do my best every single day.
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And I try to get better
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and better just by practicing at like trying to really lay out how incredible every life is
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and how incredible everyone is doing and how you trying your best is amazing
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and perfect and who you are is amazing and perfect and
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that really all that matters
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and what will bring
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you joy is being yourself shamelessly being every version of you the bad the ugly the hard
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and difficult the beautiful happy every single part of yourself deserves equal love
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and only after embracing my dark bad ugly side
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and considering it beautiful as part of the beautiful even
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if it feels bad or goes wrong
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or whatever all of it is beautiful I have learned
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that it's all beautiful and every bad has made me every bad has turned into good
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so it is part of the beautiful there is no good life without bad life
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so considering like the bad parts of me as just who I am
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and it's fine and I love it I love who I am I love
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that I'm like like a little like mentally unstable sometimes like whatever who cares it's who I am
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and I'm just trying my best out here and it's okay that I'm trying my best out here.
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Like, I'm not perfect and I actually love that I'm not perfect.
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I love that I can be relatable in any sense.
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Like, I love that I almost want people to...
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How do I describe this?
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I want to be so shameless that other people feel more comfortable being all of themselves.
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I don't know how to explain this.
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Like me giving myself permission to be embarrassed and look goofy might inspire somebody else to be like,
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oh wait, like that's okay when she does it.
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So maybe it's okay if I do it.
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Hold on.
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Oh my god, the noises.
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It is so crazy how many times I've done that.
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Like, I will look at somebody being themselves, love it about them, and be like, okay, so it's okay when they do it.
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Maybe it's okay if I do it.
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Maybe it's more than okay if I do it.
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and it is very amazing having these examples around me
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I know not everyone is as lucky to to have such authentic examples around them
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but a huge thing I mean I'm looking at celebrities who are themselves I'm watching
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Lady Gaga interviews I'm watching
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Miley Cyrus content I'm watching Alyssa Liu's performance and interviews
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and whatever and I'm like these people are living their happiest most successful life
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because they are just listening to their heart they're just listening to who they are
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and they're following that i don't i don't even like
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i'm studying this of course i study my friends as well like subconsciously
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but like you can look at people who who you admire
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and see that authenticity has something to do with it you know like in any sense like
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making any dream come true or living a happy life period
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if anyone is doing that that is a sign of authenticity
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because they are listening to their heart
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and all you have to do is look at somebody who is living their life or has
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or keeps going after their dreams or keeps falling
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and keeps trying anyway like there are so many
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so many examples around the world on the internet around you of this
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and I want you to start also taking note of how many times you see someone out in public
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that is being themselves and how often you admire that
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because it really is like it really is okay to be yourself
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and it takes a lot of at least for me it takes a lot of consuming the idea
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that it's okay and that it like actually makes life work out
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and it makes people happy it took a lot of studying
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that and um noting that for me to feel okay to start doing it uh
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because I learned that it wasn't okay to be myself growing up I learned
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that um that I was too much
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or I would get like I would get whooped for being who I am literally
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so it's like okay I had to I was literally trained to be as little of myself as possible
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and then not just whooped at home like in school bullied for just existing
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and being who I am
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so I'm like okay I can't be too loud I can't be too much I can't be perceived none of
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that and it takes a lot of work to unlearn that
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but anyone can get to the point of feeling comfortable being yourself and I highly recommend starting the journey.
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I know it's such a broad one,
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but it really is so important because it leads to everything.
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Being authentic to myself and my desires and what I want to do, who I want to be,
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learning what I like, learning what I don't like, saying no when I don't feel like it, saying yes when I do,
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and just being true really to who I am, it has opened so many doors and has granted so many blessings.
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I feel so blessed in life right now and I feel
442
so ecstatic and so happy and content with myself
443
and I am confident and I months ago would have considered myself insecure
444
but now I say I'm confident which is very wild.
445
I have had a complete change in my mindset and how I view things just with adopting this process alone.
446
So really like it leads to the best life ever
447
and I don't know if what I said makes sense
448
but you know what I'm being myself
449
and the way I say things gets through to some people
450
so so hopefully um it was helpful in some sort of way
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because I know I also get comments of like like how to I'm gonna make I already said
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Like I'm going to make this friendship video with my friend soon.
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Um, like how to express yourself, like when you're really shy.
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And I know that when I was shy, it was just because I was afraid of being perceived.
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I was afraid of being myself because I learned that it was bad.
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So if there's any way that you can start the process of learning the opposite, unlearning is just learning something new
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you can unlearn to hide yourself by learning to show yourself
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by learning to reveal a little bit of yourself little by little over time
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it doesn't have to be every single day but just practice
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and do not get discouraged when you get knocked down
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or something doesn't go the way that you expected
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or you're like oh I was right it was embarrassing
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or whatever don't get discouraged feel fucking awesome
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because you tried it feel awesome because you're brave enough to try it
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and you did it and it like every single time
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that I have chosen to be myself and like send
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that text or say that thing or do that thing
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or whatever um I've always been like okay I'm I'm a beast
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I'm a beast I did it no matter how it goes
470
I'm a beast I'm a beast like this is good like I feel so proud that like even though,
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even though it's scary, I did it.
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And it like showing yourself that you're brave every single day or just like more often is like,
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it feels really good.
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Okay.
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So I highly recommend, um, yeah, starting.
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starting the journey or
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continuing the journey or amplifying the journey of being your self being your full
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beautiful incredible self because you are more amazing than words could ever
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Capture and you will find that out
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The more you be yourself the more you be yourself
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and allow yourself to do what you want to do be who you want to be the more you do
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that the more you will learn like wow I am life
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I am a life itself I am not just insert name
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and look at this body you are life itself and that is beyond words okay that is incredible.
485
You are life.
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You are energy.
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You are light.
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You are so important and you are so worthy.
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It's not a question.
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You are incredible just as you are.
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Have some fun with it. Have fun.
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Like Miley Cyrus says and how I've been practicing, it's been so amazing obviously
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because it's fun follow your fun follow your happiness follow your heart
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and do not shrink yourself okay i did not touch on shrinking yourself too much
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because that's not the focus here the focus is being who you are okay
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and the more you do it little by little the easier it'll become
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and it is so hard at first trust me
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but you are not feeling
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if you are trying everything
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you try at first feels very difficult until it becomes second nature until you are finally trained to do
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so and it was very difficult on the other side of this
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but now that I've like been doing it so consecutively and
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so continuously like consistently now it's second nature to me to be myself
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and that is it feels like it happened out of nowhere
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if you like it feels like it happened with no work because I practiced it so much, if that makes sense.
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Like, I feel so ready to be me.
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I feel so comfortable.
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I feel so confident.
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Like, I am just, it feels really good, okay?
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Like, I know I talked about myself a lot this video, but ooh, okay.
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Something I'm gonna say, and this might be helpful for you.
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I downloaded this app called Align, and it talks about your body's design.
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You put your birth date in there.
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It's kind of like a Zodiac thing, but it's about your energy and your gifts.
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And on my line, it said that by talking about my own experiences, others are inspired.
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Okay.
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So I'm like, I just have to talk about
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my life and no matter how selfish it may seem people talking about their own life
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and their own experiences and how they got through their own things has always inspired me
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so I have no reason to um
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belittle this part of myself
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or shame this part of myself like I'm I just have to do what's natural to me and
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that is the right thing to do I highly recommend downloading the app
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I think it is paid to listen to it um you don't have to don't do it
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if you don't want to but it's like it I listened to it
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and it was insane it was
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so comforting I felt seen to my core I felt
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so comfortable about my journey and it just felt like everything was um affirmed like comforted
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every worry was like squashed everything was oh fuck what is that word everything was um
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what is that word that i'm thinking of
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validated everything within me felt like it was validated like every
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single aspect of who i am how i talk who how i am did i already say
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that yes every single aspect of myself felt so validated and I was like, okay, like I can be myself and it's fine.
534
So it has only helped on this journey.
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So I might as well mention the app because it really has helped this, um, process so much because I took notes on it too.
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And I've been practicing everything it's been saying.
537
So, um, yeah.
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Um, I love you so much.
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Thanks for listening to me and thanks for listening to yourself and doing what is authentic to you.
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I have to end this video because the lawnmower is getting closer, leaf blower, but I love you.
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I adore you.
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And let me know what you think down below.
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Okay.
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Let me, let me know if anything hit and if so, what did.
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Okay.
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Bye.
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Vocabolario e note di pronuncia per questa lezione
Questa lezione di conversazione si basa sul video “learning to be yourself will change your LIFE”. Questo video contiene 546 frasi e 6546 parole da ripetere con lo shadowing. Il parlato dura 45:11. Chi parla mantiene un ritmo costante di circa 145 parole al minuto, comodo per lo shadowing. Il 85% delle parole rientra nelle 3.000 più comuni dell’inglese; conviene studiare le altre prima di iniziare.
Vocaboli chiave di questo video
15 parole del video che vale la pena imparare, con pronuncia e significato:
| Parola | Pronuncia | Significato |
|---|---|---|
| perceive verbo | /pɚˈsiv/ | percepire |
| authentic aggettivo | /ɔˈθɛn.tɪk/ | autentico |
| encourage verbo | /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/ | incoraggiare, raccomandare |
| acknowledge verbo | /əkˈnɑ.lɪd͡ʒ/ | riconoscere, ammettere |
| embarrassed aggettivo | /ɪmˈbæɹ.əst/ | imbarazzato |
| knock verbo | /nɑk/ | bussare, battere |
| beast sostantivo | /biːst/ | bestia, belva |
| celebrity sostantivo | /səˈlɛb.ɹɪ.ɾi/ | celebrità |
| skate sostantivo | /skeɪt/ | pattina |
| adore verbo | /əˈdoɹ/ | adorare |
| naturally avverbio | /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/ | naturalmente |
| discovery sostantivo | /dɪˈskʌv.ɹi/ | scoperta, scoprimento |
| helpful aggettivo | /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/ | disponibile, utile |
| aspect sostantivo | /ˈæspɛkt/ | aspetto |
| comfort sostantivo | /ˈkʌm.fət/ | agio, comodità |
I phrasal verb che sentirai
| Parola | Significato |
|---|---|
| find out verbo | scoprire |
| end up verbo | andare a finire, finire |
| knock down verbo | abbattere |
| figure out verbo | scoprire, rendersi conto |
| grow up verbo | crescere |
| sit down verbo | sedersi, accomodarsi |
| add up verbo | sommarsi |
| blow up verbo | saltare in aria, esplodere |
Frasi da ripetere
Frasi brevi e complete del video che puoi riutilizzare nella conversazione di tutti i giorni:
- If I don't feel like smiling, I'm not smiling.
- Do I want to go get a glass of water?
- Do I want to go draw in my journal?
- Do I want to go back home?
- How do I describe this?
La grammatica di questo video
Le strutture che chi parla usa di più, con le parole esatte del video:
| Struttura | Nel video |
|---|---|
| Present perfect continuous have/has been + -ing — un’azione iniziata prima e ancora in corso | it's been brewing · I've been brewing · I've been applying |
| “Used to” used to + verbo — un’abitudine o uno stato passato che non è più vero | used to wear · used to be · used to not |
| Present perfect have/has + participio passato — un’azione passata che conta ancora adesso | I've been · I've always heard · has never been |
| Forma passiva be + participio passato — conta ciò che accade, non chi lo fa | be adored · was controlled · was told |
Pronuncia a cui fare attenzione
Chi parla usa 170 contrazioni e forme ridotte, come I'm, don't, I've. Pronunciale nella forma breve, così come le senti.
- I suoni “th”: authentic /ɔˈθɛn.tɪk/, authenticity /ɑθɛnˈtɪsɪti/, worthy /ˈwɝ.ði/
- I suoni “sh” e “zh”: conclusion /kənˈkluːʒən/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, controversial /ˌkɑn.tɹəˈvɝ.ʃəl/, capture /ˈkæp.(t)ʃɚ/, destruction /dɪsˈtɹʌkʃən/
- Parole lunghe — attenzione all’accento: celebrity /səˈlɛb.ɹɪ.ɾi/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, embarrassment /ɪmˈbæɹ.əs.mənt/, authenticity /ɑθɛnˈtɪsɪti/, documentary /ˌdɒk.jʊˈmɛn.tɹi/
I suoni difficili per chi parla italiano:
- /h/ — va soffiata, non è muta: helpful /ˈhɛlp.fl̩/, beforehand /bɪˈfɔɹhænd/, happiness /ˈhæpinɪs/, whoever /huˈɛvɚ/, nowhere /ˈnoʊ.(h)wɛɹ/
- Consonante finale — senza aggiungere una vocale dopo: perceive /pɚˈsiv/, authentic /ɔˈθɛn.tɪk/, encourage /ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/, acknowledge /əkˈnɑ.lɪd͡ʒ/, embarrassed /ɪmˈbæɹ.əst/
- /æ/ — più aperta della “e”: embarrassed /ɪmˈbæɹ.əst/, naturally /ˈnæt͡ʃ.(ə.)ɹə.li/, aspect /ˈæspɛkt/, embarrassment /ɪmˈbæɹ.əs.mənt/, navigate /ˈnæv.ɪ.ɡeɪt/
Come esercitarsi con questo video
- Ascolta tutto il video una volta senza parlare e annota le parole che non conosci.
- Fai shadowing frase per frase a velocità normale, ripetendo ognuna finché il tuo ritmo coincide con quello di chi parla.
- Registrati e confronta con l’originale, facendo attenzione a parole come perceive, authentic, encourage.
Cos'è la tecnica dello Shadowing?
Shadowing è una tecnica di apprendimento delle lingue supportata da studi scientifici, originariamente sviluppata per la formazione dei traduttori professionisti e resa popolare dal poliglotta Dr. Alexander Arguelles. Il metodo è semplice ma potente: ascolti un audio in inglese di madrelingua e lo ripeti immediatamente ad alta voce — come un'ombra che segue il parlante con un ritardo di solo 1–2 secondi. A differenza dell'ascolto passivo o degli esercizi di grammatica, lo shadowing costringe il tuo cervello e i muscoli della bocca a elaborare e riprodurre simultaneamente i modelli di discorso reale. La ricerca dimostra che migliora significativamente la precisione della pronuncia, l'intonazione, il ritmo, il discorso connesso, la comprensione dell'ascolto e la fluidità del parlato — rendendolo uno dei metodi più efficaci per la preparazione alla prova di speaking dell'IELTS e per la comunicazione reale in inglese.