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Hey everyone, I'm Alex.

Thanks for clicking and welcome to this lesson on dating and relationship phrasal verbs.

So in this video, I'm going to give you 10 phrasal verbs

that you can use when you are discussing dating and relationships.

Now, because this is a phrasal verbs video, I want to encourage you to pick up a copy of my book,

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Now, let's continue with this video.

So most relationships or many relationships or maybe just encounters with people begin with someone hitting on someone.

What does it mean to hit on someone?

Now, again, the verb hit, it's very physical.

Like this is hit.

We don't mean this.

This is terrible.

This is the opposite of what we're doing.

So when you hit on someone, you show romantic interest in them,

you try to get their attention by complimenting them or by saying something to them,

introducing yourself and showing that you're interested and you want to talk to them more and learn more about them.

So repeat after me.

Yes, you will practice speaking in this video as well.

Repeat after me.

A guy hit on me at the club.

Okay, so if you are a young person, this is probably something you might say.

If you are an older person or a married person, maybe you don't go to the club anymore.

The dance club.

I know some parts of the world call them discos.

I just think of John Travolta when I hear disco doing this stuff.

So, not that type of disco.

So, yeah, a guy hit on me at the club.

This means a guy tried to get my attention.

He asked for my phone number.

Or maybe he said something like, You know, if I could rearrange the alphabet, I would put you and I together.

Terrible.

Don't say that.

Maybe do.

Some people might enjoy it because they like bad jokes.

I don't know.

So yeah, hit on someone.

To show romantic interest, you want someone's attention.

Next, to ask someone out.

If you ask someone out, you ask them to go on a date with you.

So repeat after me.

You should ask her out.

Yeah, so you are encouraging your friend

or someone in your family to ask someone out

because maybe they see

that huh I think there's a connection there I think

you guys have a good connection you should ask her out

and see what she says maybe

she will say yes let's go see a movie let's go

for a walk let's go to a coffee shop yeah classic first date stuff, right?

Next, we have hit it off.

If you hit it off with someone, you have a strong connection,

a good connection, almost immediately the first time you meet them.

Now, hitting it off with someone doesn't have to be romantic.

It can be, maybe you can hit it off with someone and then you become friends because you have a similar interest.

Like if I like board games and this other person likes board games

and we meet and we discuss board games together and we have a great connection and we connect immediately,

I can say, ah, we really hit it off.

Like, we hit it off immediately and we had an instant connection.

Here is the more romantic version of it, perhaps.

It doesn't have to be romantic in this case either, but just repeat after me.

I think you and Jane would really hit it off.

Yeah, that's it.

That's good.

So I think you and Jane would really like connect.

You'd have a strong connection immediately because I know your personality,

I know her personality, and I think your personalities would mix very well together.

Next, we have to fall for someone.

So this means to fall in love with someone, to basically develop the feelings of love for someone.

You can use this in the continuous tense, you can use it in the past, in the present, many tenses actually.

If you are in the process of this, if you think you are developing feelings,

you can say, I think I'm falling in love with him, or I think I am falling for him.

Now, repeat after me this sentence right here.

It sounds like you're falling in love.

Okay.

And I just realized I should have written, it sounds like you're falling for him or for her.

So let's, we'll use them to cover everyone.

So repeat after me one more time.

It sounds like you're falling for them.

Yeah, it's like it sounds like you are developing those feelings that people associate with love.

That warm feeling in your heart where you want to spend time with the person all the time.

and next you know you fall for someone sometimes the relationship doesn't work you have to end the relationship

which means you have to break up or split up

so split like this right you split up with someone

or break up with someone uh so repeat after me they broke up last month

Yeah, you know, I thought that John and Amy, they were going to make it.

They were going to get married.

They were going to show us the power of love.

But no, we don't know what happened to them.

But they broke up last month.

So far, so good, right?

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Next, we have to make up with someone.

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Sometimes when you break up with someone, you can also make up with them.

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So, to make up with someone is to reconcile,

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which means you have an understanding or you come back together after a negative experience like an argument,

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a fight, or maybe a breakup even.

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So, for example, repeat after me.

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We argued, but we made up.

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Okay, good.

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Uh, this makes me think of a Taylor Swift song, so I don't put Taylor Swift in my videos very often,

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but maybe my daughter will be proud of me, or she will say, Dad, you are so cringe.

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Uh, and we fight, we make up, we kiss, we break up.

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I think that those are the lyrics to that song that she has.

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I don't remember the name of the song, but if you know the name of the song that I'm talking about that Taylor Swift sings,

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please leave it in the comments where she talks about kissing and making up, fighting and breaking up.

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Next, to go out with someone.

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This has two meanings.

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One, to go on a date, right?

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To go to a coffee shop or to a movie theater.

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So we went out last night.

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Now, this can also mean to be in a relationship with someone.

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If you are married, you don't say

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that like you go out with your wife or your husband or you are going out with your husband or your wife.

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When you are going out with someone, you are dating them, which means you are having experiences together,

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and maybe your relationship will be long -term.

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Maybe it won't.

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You're not sure yet.

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So repeat after me.

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Bia is going out with Ryan.

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Yeah, so this means Bia.

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Maybe they have been on two dates together.

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I say, oh yeah, she's going out with Ryan.

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You know, they are spending time together.

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Next, we have to cheat.

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And you can cheat on someone.

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So if you cheat on someone, this means you kiss someone or you have sex with someone who is outside of your relationship.

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So for example, repeat after me.

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Eric cheated on Melissa.

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Melissa.

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In this situation, Melissa and Eric are together.

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They are boyfriend and girlfriend, perhaps husband and wife.

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And if Eric cheated on Melissa,

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this means Eric found someone outside of his relationship and either kissed someone else or had sex with someone else.

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Not a good thing.

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Next up, we have drift apart.

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This is also a sad, slow separation from someone.

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So this one is not only about romantic relationships.

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You can drift apart in a friendship.

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You can drift apart with from a family member, for example.

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So to drift apart is to slowly go in different directions.

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right

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so i am becoming a different person you are becoming a different person

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we don't have the same interests anymore we don't really talk anymore

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but we just slowly go in opposite directions we drift apart

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so repeat after me um we'll do this in two sections so repeat the first part

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We used to be close, but we drifted apart.

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Yeah, so we used to be close, this means we were close in the past, but then we just drifted apart.

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When you think of the verb drift, think of a piece of wood on the water

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and another piece of wood on the water

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and they're just going slowly in different directions finally we have to settle down now

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when you settle down you commit to a long -term relationship

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so repeat after me i've dated enough i'm ready to settle down

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good so

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if you are ready to settle down this means i am ready to commit to one person usually

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when you settle down you pick one place to be your home

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and basically you stay in

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that place for a long time you start a family many people start families

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or you just stay together with your partner and you're not interested in other people anymore, in dating other people.

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You just want to start a life with someone.

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So, that is it for this video.

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And until next time, good luck with your love life.

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Good luck with your English.

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And in both cases, keep practicing.

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영상에 나오는 익혀 둘 만한 단어 15개를 발음, 뜻과 함께 정리했습니다.

단어	발음	뜻
verb 명사	/vɝb/	동사
romantic 형용사	/ɹoʊˈmæn(t)ɪk/	로맨틱하다
cheat 동사	/ˈt͡ʃiːt/	바람피우다, 바람을 피우다
format 명사	/ˈfɔːɹ.mæt/	포맷
lesson 명사	/ˈlɛs.ən/	수업, 과
disco 명사	/ˈdɪskoʊ/	디스코
encourage 동사	/ɪnˈkʌɹ.ɪd͡ʒ/	격려하다
connect 동사	/kəˈnɛkt/	잇다, 연결하다
phrase 명사	/ˈfɹeɪ̯z/	어구, 구
tense 명사	/tɛns/	시제
practical 형용사	/ˈpɹæk.tɪ.kəl/	실질적인
argue 동사	/ˈɑɹ.ɡju/	논하다, 의논하다
associate 명사	/əˈsoʊʃi.ət/	제휴자, 조합원
friendship 명사	/ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/	우정, 우의
introduce 동사	/ˌɪntɹəˈdus/	소개(紹介)하다

영상에 나오는 구동사

단어	뜻
pick up 동사	줍다
come back 동사	돌아오다
go out 동사	나가다

따라 말해 볼 만한 문장

영상에 나오는 짧고 완결된 문장으로, 일상 대화에서 그대로 쓸 수 있습니다:

This is the opposite of what we're doing.
To show romantic interest, you want someone's attention.
It sounds like you're falling in love.
It sounds like you're falling for them.
I can't remember how many reviews.

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화자가 가장 많이 쓰는 문형을 영상 속 실제 표현과 함께 정리했습니다.

문형	영상 속 표현
“used to” used to + 동사 — 지금은 아닌 과거의 습관이나 상태	used to be
현재완료 have/has + 과거분사 — 과거의 일이 지금도 관련이 있을 때	have hit · have been · i've dated
수동태 be + 과거분사 — 누가 하는지보다 무슨 일이 일어나는지에 초점	is hit · have been told · is attached
관계절 who / which + 절 — 사람이나 사물에 대한 추가 정보	Verbs, which has · them, which means · someone who is

주의할 발음

화자는 don't, you're, I'm 같은 축약형과 약화된 형태를 35번 사용합니다. 들리는 대로 짧게 발음하세요.

“sh”와 “zh” 소리: associate /əˈsoʊʃi.ət/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, separation /ˌsɛp.əˈɹeɪ.ʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/
긴 단어 — 강세 위치에 주의: associate /əˈsoʊʃi.ət/, continuous /kənˈtɪn.juː.əs/, separation /ˌsɛp.əˈɹeɪ.ʃən/, notification /ˌnoʊtɪfɪˈkeɪʃn̩/

한국어 화자가 어려워하는 소리:

/f/ — ㅍ(/p/)으로 바꾸지 말고 윗니를 아랫입술에 대기: drift /dɹɪft/, format /ˈfɔːɹ.mæt/, phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, friendship /ˈfɹɛn(d)ʃɪp/, frequency /ˈfɹiːkwənsi/
/z/ — ㅈ이 아니라 성대를 울리는 /s/: phrase /ˈfɹeɪ̯z/, quiz /kwɪz/, phrasal /ˈfɹeɪzəl/
/r/과 /l/ 구별하기: practical /ˈpɹæk.tɪ.kəl/, lyrics /ˈlɪɹ.ɪks/, phrasal /ˈfɹeɪzəl/, reconcile /ˈɹɛkənsaɪl/

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