쉐도잉 연습: Learn To Love Yourself A Message For You ❤ - 영상으로 영어 말하기 배우기

Have you ever felt unlovable?

Maybe it's that sinking feeling in your stomach when you're alone or maybe it's that voice in your head whispering you're not good enough, you're useless.

Does that sound familiar?

Take a deep breath now because I want you to hear this, really hear it.

you are lovable just the way you are not when you improve not when you've earned it not when everything falls into place but right now in this very moment

the feeling of being lovable it usually doesn't come out of nowhere it grows out of experience real ones.

Moments of betrayal, moments of rejection, abandonment, neglect.

Maybe someone made you feel like you had to earn your love and you just couldn't measure up.

Those moments start to add up and your mind trying to protect you builds a story, a painful story.

I'm broken, I'm too flawed, no one could really love me.

You know, when I was growing up as a kid, my mum couldn't cope with motherhood.

So we were sort of abandoned, rejected, passed on from family members, the family member, and eventually into a home.

I mean, until my nan, eventually into a home until my nan and it took us in.

But that idea of rejection from my mother, well it wasn't really rejection, she just couldn't cope,

but it felt like rejection,

haunted me for years and years and years and it took me a long time to forgive her and to move on and realize it wasn't me,

it wasn't my fault, it wasn't me that I was the reason that she didn't love me, that I wasn't lovable.

So these things can linger, but just because that thought is loud doesn't mean it's true.

Feelings are real, but they aren't always facts.

Sometimes they're just echoes of old wounds, not reflections of who you are now.

So what does it really mean to be lovable?

It doesn't mean being perfect.

It doesn't mean getting everything right.

Being lovable means you're worthy of love and connection, simply because you're human.

You don't have to hustle for love.

You don't have to shrink down to a smaller size of yourself.

You don't have to perform.

You are already enough.

Think of someone you love deeply.

Maybe a friend, a family member, a pet.

Are they perfect?

Of course not.

But do you do?

but do their imperfections take away from their worthiness of your love?

Not at all.

So why would you be different?

Why would you talk to yourself like that?

If you're in a moment of feeling unlovable, I want to give you a few truths to hold on to.

One, your mind can lie to you.

The inner critic is harsh and sometimes even cruel, but you don't have to believe everything it says.

Start noticing these thoughts and gently challenge them.

Ask yourself, would you say this to someone you love?

You are not alone.

So many people carry this same quiet ache.

Feeling unlovable doesn't make you broken it makes you human.

Love isn't earned it's received.

You don't need to become someone else to be lovable.

The people who are meant for you will love you in your imperfect, messy, beautiful self.

Choose the people who reflect your worth back to you.

This isn't a quick fix, it's a daily practice, a gentle returning.

You have inherent value.

No mistakes, no regrets, no wound can erase that.

Nothing you've done and nothing that has been done to you can take it away.

You are still here and your story is still, and your story is still being written.

There are chapters ahead of you full of unexpected love.

So if no one has told you lately you are worthy of love, you matter, you are not too much, you are not too little, you are just enough.

And if you're struggling to believe this right now, I will believe it for you until you can believe it yourself.

Now be gentle to yourself today, take a breath and let your heart rest.

You are so deeply, incredibly lovable.

And I hope you never forget that.

Hey, I hope you like this little video.

Take care of yourself and thanks for watching.

Till next time.

Bye.

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